Going for a Walk Together
When Paul writes Ephesians, he can’t walk, as he has through his ministry. He’s in prison. But he loves the image of walking, prominent in scripture, and uses it throughout his letter. For Paul, it’s not where you go (travel, prison) but how you walk - "worthy" of your calling, the invitation you’ve received from God in Jesus.
Paul saw all kinds of people come into these communities shaped by the event of Jesus, and he saw transformations: Eph 2:1-10. We were dead people walking, in delusion, futility, shaped by the air we breathed. God in his Love gave us life in Jesus, raised us with him. It’s Grace, a gift we receive by faith. A new creation, a new walk, toward every good action. Minds made new. Walking in love, as "children of light." Becoming wise adults who learn to think for themselves, to discern God’s will, "humbly to walk with God."
Learning from a Shared Walk
It’s not every Sunday that falls on our 49th wedding anniversary and New Year’s eve. Looking back and ahead, we’ve reflected on a few things we’ve observed.
Unforeseeable patterns of growth and change. From farm and small town we never imagined NYC. God has built a sense of surprise, even randomness, into our experience. We grow and learn from unexpected turns, open to being led.
We’re distinct individuals who share life. Interdependence not dependence. Each of us is beloved by God, a mystery. Our journeys intersect, interweave, but are never the same.
Daily choices for love. It’s today, this moment, in this action that we have a choice for or against grace, love, generosity, fairness, forgiveness. This moment shapes the future. Valuing the other person. Learning the Grace of God’s choice to seek our good. We gain
life by giving it to others, not by taking from others. Good, true self-interest.
Worthy of the Calling
"Worthy" is a loaded word. Many struggle with self-worth. What would I write as life worthy of God’s call? Why not challenge people to great deeds, building a great church, changing the Roman empire. Paul’s list is unexpected, unless you have looked at Jesus.
Humility, self-forgetfulness. Freedom from self-assertion, perfectionism, fear, defensiveness. God’s vast love enfolds us; we’re nourished and secure in him. Knowing that, we can begin to live Jesus’ teaching about trusting God. The great story is God’s work. We share it.
Gentleness. Freedom from hurting others. We made ourselves God’s enemies, God responded with love: I’ll live and die for you, take your sin on myself, give you healing, and my own life. Jesus’ gentleness shines, shows how to honor every person. Illuminates our life choices.
Patience, slow to anger. We mess up. God’s Spirit stays with us, picking us up, never giving up. We learn that anger is a choice we don’t have to make. Free from a bad vulnerability.
Bearing with one another, love. This is giving grace to each other, learning the joy, delight, community that is the heart of God. We imitate God by walking in love, as we are loved.
Keeping a tight grip on peace. Jesus not only heals us, he heals us together. God loves the diversity of people but wants to heal the alienation and hostility that splits us on every level. We’re not going to achieve unity, so he gives oneness/unity to us by giving us the same life - the Holy Spirit. Treasure that gift. Make peace as hard to break as shackles. That oneness fits the oneness of the gracious God who pervades over, through and in all.