Manhood Tribes

Most men’s ministries struggle—and deep down, a lot of Christian men already know it.

Low engagement. Little transformation. Frustrated leaders and disengaged men.

So what’s actually going wrong?

In this conversation with Kent Evans (Founder of Manhood Journey), we dig into the real reasons men’s ministry often fails—and it’s not what most people think. This episode is part of our series exploring men’s ministry, discipleship, and what it really takes to build strong, faithful men.

Kent shares insights from years of working with fathers and men, and explains why the biggest issue isn’t programming—it’s something much deeper. We also talk about the pressure pastors feel, the responsibility men often avoid, and why everything ultimately comes back to your relationship with God’s Word.

In this episode, we cover:
 - Why pastors often avoid or struggle with men’s ministry
 - The hidden pressure that keeps men from stepping up as leaders
 - Why blaming your church is the wrong starting point
 - The real root issue behind most men’s struggles (and how to fix it)
 - Why knowing Scripture changes everything for a man
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Episode 080: Most Men's Ministries Struggle Because of This

Timestamps
00:00 Introduction
01:00 Kent’s story and the start of Manhood Journey
06:00 Why men’s ministry resources are lacking
10:30 Why pastors struggle to lead men
15:30 Stop blaming your pastor (hard truth for men)
20:00 What real leadership in men’s ministry looks like
25:00 Why your first ministry is your home
30:00 Cultural shifts affecting men and families
33:30 The real problem: men don’t know Scripture
40:00 How to start engaging with God’s Word
43:00 Where to connect with Kent + final encouragement

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In this conversation with Ryan Zook (President of Men of Iron), we dive deep into what actually works when it comes to forming men—and why most church models fall short. This episode is part of our series exploring men’s ministry, discipleship, and what it truly takes to form strong, faithful men.

Ryan shares lessons from two decades of mentoring men and explains why one-on-one discipleship—not programs—is the key to real transformation. We also unpack why men today are more spiritually hungry than ever… yet more disconnected than ever.

In this episode, we cover:
 - Why one-on-one mentorship is more effective than traditional men’s groups
 - The real reason churches struggle to disciple men
 - Why spiritual hunger is increasing even as church attendance declines
 - The epidemic of isolation among men—and how to solve it
 - How to start mentoring (even if you don’t feel qualified)
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Episode 079: The Isolation Epidemic Destroying Modern Men
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction
01:00 What Men of Iron does and why it matters
05:00 Why churches struggle with men’s discipleship
10:30 Why mentorship works better than programs
17:00 The shift in men today: hunger vs. church disengagement
20:30 The rise of isolation among men
26:00 How to start something (even without church approval)
33:30 Why you’re more qualified to mentor than you think
38:30 How to get connected with Men of Iron
41:30 Final encouragement + challenge

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In this conversation with Chris Grainger (founder of The Lion Within Us), we continue our deep dive into men’s ministry and the broader men’s leadership space—exploring what it really takes to know how to disciple men and help them grow in their faith. 

Most churches say they want to reach men—but very few are actually doing it well.

Chris shares his story of coming to faith without discipleship, the hard lessons that followed, and how that led him to build a thriving brotherhood of men across the world. We unpack the real struggles men are facing today—and why so many churches are missing them.

In this episode, we cover:
 - The biggest struggles men are facing right now (pornography, marriage, and purpose)
 - Why most churches unintentionally fail to reach men
 - What men actually need instead of another Bible study
 - Why men grow best through challenge and brotherhood
 - How to step up and lead—even if you don’t feel qualified
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Episode 078: Why Churches Are Bad at Reaching Men

Timestamps
00:00 Introduction
01:00 What The Lion Within Us is and how it started
05:00 Why men struggle to engage with scripture
09:00 The biggest challenges men are facing today
13:30 Why most churches miss men
18:30 What men actually need to grow
23:00 Building real brotherhood and community
27:00 Stories of transformation in men
31:00 Speaking truth and memorizing scripture
35:00 Encouragement for men who feel stuck
38:00 How to get connected with The Lion Within Us
40:00 Final thoughts and encouragement

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Most churches want to reach men—but very few actually know how.

In this conversation with Chris Harper (Chief Storyteller at Better Man), we're taking a deep dive into mens ministry and the broader men's leadership space, exploring how you can cultivate christian manhood and grow in your faith. This series will help you understand what it truly means to be a christian man.

Chris shares insights from equipping over 7,500 churches and 1 million men, unpacking the real crisis underneath modern masculinity: not passivity—but ignorance, lack of guidance, and the absence of spiritual fathers.

In this episode, we cover:
 - Why men have left the church—and why the church has also left men
 - The shift from “passivity” to “ignorance” in today’s men
 - The importance of clarity and community in forming men
 - What churches get wrong about men’s ministry
 - Why the senior pastor’s presence changes everything
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Episode 077: Chris Harper (Better Man)

Timestamps
00:00 Introduction
01:00 Calling the church back to men
06:00 From passivity to ignorance
11:00 Why men are “active but directionless”
15:30 Men and the need for guidance
20:30 Why modern men want what actually works
28:00 Why men don’t stay engaged
32:30 Why most church programs miss men
38:00 Final thoughts on rebuilding men in the church
40:00 Comment prompt
Welcome to the Manhood Tribe Show! I'm Don, your host, and I'm excited to guide you through our upcoming series of episodes. We're taking a deep dive into mens ministry and the broader men's leadership space, exploring how you can cultivate christian manhood and grow in your faith. This series will help you understand what it truly means to be a christian man.

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The recent statistic that less than 10% of churches in America have an active mens ministry is quite surprising. As someone with experience in church leadership, I understand the challenges of running an effective mens ministry, yet it makes me question why this number is so low. This situation raises important questions about how we foster masculinity and faith within our communities.

If you’ve ever felt like men’s ministry was awkward, boring, or just not worth your time, this will help you understand why—and what needs to change. We walk through the real reasons men disengage and how to build something they actually want to be part of:

- Why most men’s ministries fail to attract and retain men
- The difference between how men and women connect
- Why social-based groups don’t work well for men
- The role of challenge, action, and growth in male engagement
- What men are actually looking for in a brotherhood
- How to create a men’s ministry that men show up for
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Episode 076: Why Men Don’t Like Men’s Ministry (And What To Do About It)
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction
01:00 Why men’s ministry is so rare
02:30 Why most men’s groups feel awkward
04:00 The real problem: built for women, not men
06:30 The difference in how men and women connect
09:00 Why men need action, not just discussion
12:00 Challenge vs information: how men grow
14:00 Emotion vs trust in group environments
16:00 Why men “vote with their feet”
18:00 Why events don’t lead to long-term engagement
19:30 What actually works for men’s ministry
21:00 How to build something better

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In this conversation with Brian Owen, we unpack why high performance isn’t the goal—and how “meta performance” changes everything. Brian discusses his extensive 30-year career in the field, offering insights into personal development and growth. This episode provides valuable coaching for leaders, focusing on achieving peak performance in all aspects of life.

Most men think becoming a better leader means pushing harder, performing better, and staying ahead of everyone else. But what if that mindset is actually holding you back?  💪

If you’ve ever felt stuck trying to lead a team, frustrated with people who won’t step up, or unsure how to grow beyond your current limits, this episode will challenge the way you think about leadership—and yourself.

In this episode, we’ll explore:
 - Why high performers can actually hurt a team
 - The difference between high performance and meta performance
 - How asking “what am I capable of?” changes everything
 - Why leadership starts with your own transformation
 - How broken commitments reveal deeper issues in your team
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Episode 075: The Performance Trap Most Leaders Fall Into

Timestamps
00:00 Introduction
01:00 Meet Brian Owen
02:00 From ministry to coaching
04:00 The problem with high performers
06:00 What is meta performance?
10:00 The performance pyramid explained
13:00 Why leaders struggle with teams
16:00 Leading from your own transformation
20:00 The 4 shifts to meta performance
25:00 Why feedback is critical for growth
28:00 Broken commitments and team trust
32:00 Real-world team leadership challenges
35:00 How small issues reveal deeper problems
38:00 Brian’s personal transformation story
40:00 How to connect with Brian
42:00 Wrap up and comment prompt

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Most men think being a good husband and dad is enough—but what if that vision of family is too small?

In this conversation with Jeremy Pryor, we unpack a radically different way to think about family leadership—not as a short-term responsibility, but as a multi-generational mission. This episode will challenge how you see your role as a man and what you’re actually building with your life. 💪

If you’ve ever felt like there has to be more to family than just “raising kids and letting them go,” this will open your eyes to a bigger vision—and give you practical ways to start moving toward it:

- Why the modern “nuclear family” is incomplete
- The difference between a family and a family team
- How identity is shaped by family, not just individuality
- Why multi-generational vision creates purpose for men
- Simple practices that can transform your family starting now
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Episode 074: Family Leadership w/ Jeremy Pryor
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction
01:00 Meet Jeremy Pryor
03:00 Why family felt broken growing up
06:00 The “dad brigade” moment in Jerusalem
09:00 Abraham and the vision of family in Scripture
12:00 Individual identity vs family identity
15:00 The problem with the nuclear family model
18:00 What a “family team” actually is
21:00 Why men feel disconnected from family
24:00 The power of multi-generational thinking
27:00 Simple practices that build family culture
30:00 Casting vision as a father
33:00 Marriage as a romantic partnership and mission
36:00 Leading your wife and family well
39:00 What if you feel behind or it’s “too late”?
43:00 Staying connected with adult children
46:00 Building legacy starting now
48:00 Resources and where to start

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Most men want to lead well—but feel stuck when it comes to actually following through. We're continuing our series on leadership, focusing today on the crucial aspect of self leadership. This is about taking control of your own path and achieving personal mastery, which is vital for any man seeking self improvement. We'll explore how this journey can significantly contribute to your personal growth and ultimately, help you be a better man.

In this conversation with Dusty Holcomb, we break down why self-leadership is the foundation for everything—and how your habits, your calendar, and your discipline reveal the kind of man you're actually becoming. 💪

- Why self-leadership is the gateway to real impact
- How your calendar exposes your true priorities
- The danger of waiting for perfect conditions
- Why discipline—not motivation—creates growth
- How to build a system that actually changes your life
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Episode 073: Your Actions Don't Match Your Intentions? Here's Why
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction
03:00 The power of mentorship
07:30 What self-leadership actually means
10:30 Why most men avoid leading themselves
13:00 Your calendar reveals your priorities
16:00 Why “perfect” is the enemy of progress
18:30 Discipline and doing the hard thing
21:00 The importance of brotherhood and accountability
24:00 Leadership rules of engagement
27:00 Creating clarity and alignment
30:00 Building a leadership operating system
34:00 Purpose, vision, and execution
37:00 Weekly reflection practice
40:00 Why self-leadership changes everything
42:00 Wrap up and comment prompt

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Men often feel frustrated when their leadership isn't valued in the workplace or family. We discuss how to gain respect and how to earn respect, emphasizing the importance of effective communication skills. Learn how to be a leader that inspires trust and follow-through, navigating masculinity and leadership with strength and purpose. 💪

If you’ve ever stayed silent, avoided conflict, or wondered if your leadership even matters, this episode will help you take the next step. We walk through three powerful shifts that can help you lead with clarity, confidence, and impact:

- Why passivity is the biggest enemy of male leadership
- The difference between blaming others and taking responsibility
- Why staying silent often makes things worse
- How to step into leadership even when it’s uncomfortable
- The three shifts that make people actually want to follow you
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Episode 072: Lead Like a Man: 3 Shifts for Greater Impact
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction
01:00 Why leadership doesn’t always land
03:00 The real problem: passivity
06:00 Why men avoid stepping up
08:00 Story: leading in finances and family
10:00 Shift 1: Don’t be passive, take action
12:00 Shift 2: Don’t be a victim, take responsibility
15:00 Shift 3: Don’t be silent, take a stand
18:00 Why courage matters in leadership
19:30 How leadership actually brings peace
21:00 Wrap up and comment prompt

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Most men admit their faith isn't as strong as they'd like, and this video explores why. We dive into the challenges men face in prioritizing spiritual growth, offering biblical wisdom to help trust God. Discover practical ways to navigate these 'hard times' and strengthen your connection.

A tribe of men can challenge you, support you, and help you grow spiritually in ways that isolated faith never will. In this episode we cover:

- Why many men’s faith becomes private and starts to fade
- The difference between routine spiritual habits and real spiritual life
- How brotherhood strengthens your faith like a shield wall in battle
- Why spiritual disciplines are actually preparation to fight for other men
- How a tribe helps you develop a vibrant, active relationship with Jesus
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Episode 071: Christian Men Are Getting This Wrong About Faith
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction
01:00 Why men struggle to prioritize their faith
03:00 How faith becomes private and starts to fade
06:00 Why routine spiritual habits often feel lifeless
09:00 Why men grow through action and challenge
11:00 The “shield wall” analogy for brotherhood
15:00 Spiritual disciplines as training for battle
16:00 Connecting to Jesus vs. religious routines
18:30 Why most men’s groups fail
19:00 Build Your Own Tribe program
20:00 Wrap up and comment prompt

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