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Cassie asks if Vicki's life looks exactly the way she wanted it to 5 years ago.
Vicki shares,
NO - this life I am living was kind of an inspired ah-ha about 2 or 3 years ago. I realized kind of all at once, that the life I was pushing to create was no longer feeling good. I no longer felt the pull toward being a movie or Broadway star. I wanted something totally different and foreign to me.
They talk about why there is a difference…
There’s a difference because this is true to me. The dream I tried to force to create was the one that I wanted when I was 17, and I just kept clinging to and pushing it until I turned 30. I started working with you a few years before this epiphany, and I think it’s through the work I did with you in ELU that taught me how to open up to what I truly, deeply, and honestly wanted.
I learned how to become the person who was worthy of getting everything she ever wanted, and by learning that worthiness, I was open and available for the truth to come in. The truth is, “You want something else.”
It was by getting general, not more specific, that opened me up to the ah-ha. By owning that what I REALLY wanted was a loving, fun, abundant life and letting go of the specifics of what I thought SHOULD make that up, my brain was available to accept the new life I am living now. How fun to think I spent the first 2.5 years with you opening up to more, and it only took another 2.5 years to get everything I decided I wanted.
What were three LOA mistakes you were making 5 years ago?
Micromanaging my manifesting. AKA Not trusting and working in the “How”
Using money to numb, instead of feeling my feelings
Not applying my manifesting techniques to my everyday life
What are three keys you would tell listeners today that you know makes the law of attraction work to manifest money and your dreams?
Celebrate everything you can
What you focus on, you get more of. Well, celebration is like a BIG focus. So find more stuff to celebrate! Especially when you see or hear about someone else getting what you want or
Awareness is key to change
By bringing your awareness to your everyday thoughts, actions, and words, you automatically bring control and power to them. You can notice a thought or a story and stop it immediately or decide after that you are writing a new story.
Feel your feelings
Learn how to feel your feelings without words and judgment. Setting a scheduled time to feel them has been so helpful for me. Back when I was leaving a nanny job, I knew I’d need lots of space to feel my feelings, so I had a standing daily appointment with myself to feel my feelings after work.
What is the most surprising thing you have learned over the last 5 years?
How powerful I truly am
Seeing things magically appear for me when I want or need them
Anything else you want to share?
I have more money now unemployed than I did when I first started with you, and I had over 3 jobs.
Vicki:
Instagram @vickinotvicky
TikTok @vickinotvicky10k
Enchanted Life U:
Instagram: @ enchantedlifeu
TikTok @enchantedlifeu
The interview starts with a celebration of the dedication Vicki has made to herself and her Future Self over the past 5 years.
Cassie asks, what did that dedication look like for you?
Vicki shares,
Consistency and showing up even when I didn't want to. 20 minutes a day, 5 days a week, showing up. Not only that, I showed up the rest of every day the way I wanted to.
Cassie asks What did using the law of attraction look like for you 5-6 years ago?
Vicki shares,
Lots of “To-Do’s”
Mantras
Vision boards
Journaling
Specifics
Meditating
Stress
Self-blame
Cassie asks: you used to struggle with depression in the past. How much of that do you think came from the forcing of “good” feelings and forcing all of your “to-do’s”?
Vicki shares
Because I was pushing so much of the “good” feelings, I was pushing away the sadness and anger that would come up throughout my life. Then the bubble would burst, and I would have to feel ALL of those big “bad” feelings all at once. That would take me down, totally incapacitated. I would allow the big, sad feelings to take over my life for however long it was. A week, a month, whatever it was. It affected every aspect of my life for that period of time. Because I hadn’t been allowing myself to feel them - those little doses throughout my life, I’d just push them down. Then they’d come out like one big ugly monster.
When you feel it all the time, it doesn’t grow into a monster. When you push it down, it gains momentum and power to become this huge monster. Rather than just feeling it in those smaller, more frequent doses and not giving it the juice to become that big monster.
Cassie asks Vicki if she used to do a lot of self-blame when she did LoA. What did that look like, how was that, and how did that play into depression?
Vicki tells us
I’d constantly look at my life and say, “You weren’t able to manifest xyz. It’s your fault because you tried to manifest it, and it didn’t work. And the only reason you don’t get something when you’re manifesting is because you’re not doing it right. Or because you did something wrong.” I spent 6 years thinking that.
It’s sad that some people come into LoA with this mindset, trying to make their lives better when in actuality, it’s making their lives worse.
I believed it and saw it work a couple of times, so when something went “wrong,” or I didn’t get what I wanted, I looked back and saw that the common denominator was me. So I was the problem.
Now it’s so freeing finding ELU and discovering you could just turn the page and start new. Go from exactly where you are and move forward without having to look back and analyze and accuse yourself of things you did in the past. You can just choose to move forward.
Cassie asks is the biggest difference in using the law of attraction now vs. then?
Vicki shares,
I feel confident and calm using LoA
I spend less time “doing” and more time living the life of my dreams
I am successful at it
They wrap up by telling us what next week’s episode will be about. Why is LoA working now when it wasn’t working before? When on paper, it seemed like Vicki was doing “all” of the things that should’ve worked and had worked for other people before. They will also discuss if the life she’s living now is the one she wanted back then. Also how she has more money now without a job compared to when she was working 3+ jobs and had LESS money.
Vicki:
Instagram @vickinotvicky
TikTok @vickinotvicky10k
Enchanted Life U:
Instagram: @ enchantedlifeu
TikTok @enchantedlifeu
Cassie asks 5 years ago, what did you do to try and manifest money?
Vicki shares
Hours a day of visualizations
Meditating for one hour a day
Mantras
Overnight hypnosis (just made me lose sleep)
Making and re-making vision boards of yachts, red carpets, multi-million dollar mansions
Always looking for the next manifesting technique on message boards
Cassie asks, knowing what you know now, why wasn’t it working 5-6 years ago?
Vicki shares
I was doing too much - there wasn’t enough space for the “stuff” to show up
I wasn’t feeling my feelings
I was pushing (I was doing too many BS things I didn’t believe and pushing myself to feel ONLY the “good” feelings)
I was focused on the “How” (how to do the right manifesting practice, how to make more money, how to get where I want to go, etc.)
I wasn’t engaging in the work outside of the work
Cassie asks, “How is that different now?”
Vicki shares…
I do less manifesting work a day than I used to
I feel my feelings
I trust the universe, but more importantly, I trust the ball I’ve started rolling.
I do what feels good
Cassie asks what it means to “chill” or, in this case, “trust”?
Vicki shares
It means to let go and go live. Not just sit and do nothing, but let it go entirely and live your life how you want to!
It also means to be present.
Cassie asks Vicki how her relationship with money got in the way of her manifesting success and how it impacts it now.
Vicki shares…
I would begin a manifesting practice and go 100mph so hard and fast that I’d burn out after a week or two.
Cassie asks Vicki to share the three biggest shifts/lessons/things Vicki has learned about manifesting money.
Vicki answers
Feel your feelings
Less is more i.e., trust
Internal guidance / budget
We are getting more general, not more specific. The specificities usually close doors. We want all awesome doors open at all times.
Cassie asks Vicki how money feels now.
Vicki shares,
Money feels easy and confident
Cassie asks, why do you think it took 5 years to get to this point? Does that feel fast or slow?
Vicki shares,
It feels fast for sure
It took 5 years because these are big lessons to learn. My brain physically wasn’t able to take in all of the big lessons all at once. They really need to be taught one small step at a time. By taking it one step at a time, once a day, I was able to fully engrain it into my brain and life. It’s like learning a new instrument. Your teacher can set a masterpiece of music in front of you and the brand new instrument, show you the fingerings, then say “Go” but you won’t be able to play the masterpiece as written. It takes daily practice to master an instrument. And now I feel like a master manifester because you handed me the tools and gave me daily assignments to learn how to master them one step at a time.
Cassie asks if there is anything else Vicki wants to celebrate or share that can teach our listeners about manifesting big money.
Vicki shares,
I would love to celebrate
By the time this comes out, I’ll for sure have $500,000!!
I have manifested my dream partner
I’m creating the wedding of my dreams
They wrap up celebrating Vicki’s commitment to being the person who manifests money and more!
Vicki:
Instagram @vickinotvicky
TikTok @vickinotvicky10k
The interview starts with a celebration.
Cassie explains how she used to think of it as “graduation” but it’s more like continuation because the work keeps going. You never graduate from this work. (In the best way possible)
Cassie asks Vicki her thoughts on if she would just graduate and be done with the work?
Vicki shares,
Absolutely not, this is too fun and too juicy
Isn’t it human nature to always desire growth and depth further than what you’ve experienced?
Cassie asks Vicki her Money Manifested total
Vicki shares,
$473,302.88!
Cassie asks Vicki what her former Money Story was and to describe how it was playing out in her life.
Vicki shares,
Former story was Survival
Vicious cycle of Panic, Above water, Overspending/doing/giving, Panic, etc.
Money: having enough, overspending, overdrafting my account or getting a huge bill, absolute melt down / panic, back to square one of just enough, and repeat.
Not money related: performing in a million shows back to back to back, then burning out and hating it.
Relationships: being ok in a relationship, then big big drama, then ok just pushing through, then big big drama, over and over again.
Cassie asks Vicki what her current money story is and how that shows up in her life
Vicki shares,
Powerful Creator
When I say powerful, it means I am intentionally creating things, money as well as an amazing life.
Money: I have spent the last 5 years creating this powerful momentum of creation. I’m on a roll welcoming in more and more money, more and more easily
Relationships: I powerfully created and stepped into this relationship of my dreams! Powerfully, easily creating the wedding of my dreams too
Life: I created this life of ease, so less drama and bs
Cassie asks her to share the three ways money showed up that surprised her the most.
Vicki answers…
Getting hired to direct Winnie the Pooh this winter. The job was good money, but they gave me a pay range and I was open to any of it, because it was all manifested, but when I sat down for our first meeting, the artistic director was very adamant about paying me the highest end of the range.
First year with ELU - getting inspired to do my taxes, expecting to owe a BUNCH of money, but then getting PAID the amount I thought I would owe
Huge tip - working at a serving job, I was going about my thing, someone pulled me aside to tell me I had the jackpot family at my table. They always tip BIG, and sure enough, they tipped HUGE. More from one table than the rest of the tips that night combined! This was my first week on the job, too!
Cassie asks: 5 years ago, what did you think it meant to “manifest money”?
Vicki shares
Checks in the mail
People handing me money
Lots of work and focus
Luck
Check back next week to hear more about Vicki’s 5 years of manifesting success with EnchantedLifeU and everything she’s learned over that time!
Vicki:
Instagram @vickinotvicky
TikTok @vickinotvicky10k
Enchanted Life U:
Instagram: @ enchantedlifeu
TikTok @enchantedlifeu
Vicki and Cassie go into detail about how Vicki manifested a proposal to be married! She shares how she never in a million years imagined herself married and how it feels now that it’s happening.
They briefly discuss Vicki and her fiance’s timeline and how judging your personal timeline or life against other people’s isn’t going to serve you.
It wasn’t just the proposal; Vicki also had a hand in curating the kind of proposal she wanted. They discuss how she clearly asked for what she wanted in a proposal and why.
Next week, they will discuss more about how to manifest your dream wedding!
Vicki:
Instagram @vickinotvicky
TikTok @vickinotvicky10k
Enchanted Life U:
Instagram: @ enchantedlifeu
TikTok @enchantedlifeu
Vicki is engaged and planning her dream wedding!
VIcki tells us about how she thought about love and relationships as a kid. How she had an underlying fear of men and boys, but she also desperately wanted their attention - and how that played out and set the stage for the rest of her life and romantic relationships.
We hear about what her view of relationships was before she started this manifesting journey. She didn’t feel worthy of a relationship, and she’d have to diminish herself so much to be worthy of that relationship - so any relationship she would get, she would inevitably feel trapped in.
She tells us about how that view of relationships changed and how she created that shift. Vicki tells us how the Enchanted Life U program helped her take small steps every day toward feeling and being worthy of more money. Being worthy and learning how to be worthy is what taught her how to be worthy of a good relationship.
Vicki and Cassie then talk about how being worthy of money connects to being worthy of love. We hear how that impacted being in a less-than-desirable relationship and how it affects her current amazing relationship.
In ELU, after you’ve completed the Manifest $10K course, you can begin the Future Self work. Vicki had been scripting her future self and future self-life for 5 years at this point. She tells us how she shifted her scripting and how that played into manifesting her dream relationship.
Check back next week to hear about how Vicki manifested a proposal!
Vicki:
Instagram @vickinotvicky
TikTok @vickinotvicky10k
Enchanted Life U:
Instagram: @ enchantedlifeu
TikTok @enchantedlifeu
What manifested total (all time, since you started) will we be celebrating during your interview?
$446,914.65
What has been your biggest "ah-ha" or understanding/deepening of how the Law of Attraction and manifesting work?
Learning more and more that it's the other 23.5 hours of the day that creates her dream life. The four future self-questions are so simple.
What’s the difference between a choice and control?
Choice is stepping into trust, control is not trusting the universe.
What is the coolest piece of evidence you have gathered since our last interview?
During the workshop, her days were FULL of evidence. In one of her new scripts, her future kid says, "You're so great," and the kid she currently nannies has started saying that to her every day, without prompting, "You're so nice" or "I love you" or "You're so great."
What inspirations have popped up? Have you taken inspired action? How have you navigated inspiration/inspired action in the last 3 months?
She honored her "not a hell yes" for the NYC trip. It's funny because she was pushing going even though it wasn't a hell yes, mostly because she thought Nick really wanted to go. But when she finally accepted her "no," he said, "Yeah, it was never a hell yes for me either."
What's the best manifestation you've had over the past few months?
Her engagement ring! She manifested a free diamond ring that is worth about $5,000! It was totally inspired, and out of nowhere, to ask her mom for her old engagement ring. The entire process of asking for, receiving, and fixing the ring was so inspired and in flow.
How have you owned your power?
At her cousin’s wedding, she and another woman caught the bouquet at the bouquet toss. While they both caught it at the same time, Vicki laughed and let it go. In her head she thought, “I don’t need a bouquet to tell me where my life and relationship are going.” Which is so powerful in terms of LoA; it’s so full of trust and power. She knows she can live and create the life she wants, no matter what anyone else or any other things say
What is this chapter of your manifesting success story?
Fairy Tales Do Come True
What coaching has Cassie given you or someone else that really made something "click"?
Health things we might have going on in our lives aren't always just a story, but using this process to tell a NEW story about health has improved her mental health. She no longer considers herself as someone with depression.
Check back next week to hear more about Vicki’s manifesting successes!
Vicki:
Instagram @vickinotvicky
TikTok @vickinotvicky10k
Enchanted Life U:
Instagram: @ enchantedlifeu
TikTok @enchantedlifeu
Vicki and Cassie do a deep dive in explaining “What is the how?” and why we don’t use it to manifest what we want - we follow inspiration instead.
They give anecdotes and stories about why the how hasn’t worked for people in the past, also stories of how inspiration worked better and faster and it felt better, and they explain the 3 different levels of “the how”.
The how is closing doors to possibilities, waiting for inspiration is holding open all doors to possibility, and that’s how the easiest, sweetest paths show up. Paths to what you want to manifest, sometimes paths to things you didn’t know you wanted to manifest until you get there.
To-do lists are a “how” and we don’t use them in ELU. We practice inspiration so much that things that would’ve been on the to-do list end up getting done easily and naturally in perfect timing.
Vicki:
Instagram @vickinotvicky
TikTok @vickinotvicky10k
Enchanted Life U:
Instagram: @ enchantedlifeu
TikTok @enchantedlifeu
Follow up from last week’s episode. Last week we talked about owning your power and worth and what happens when you become very good at it and then you stop owning it and that whiplash and friction that comes from it.
This week we’re talking about inspiration, what's happening and what she’s been manifesting.
We discuss how doing less and trusting more will get you more. And how that was something Vicki couldn’t have done on her own, without the group.
Vicki shares a really awesome story about how she followed inspiration, and aligned to meet up with another fellow Enchanted Life U student on a work trip. This takes Vicki and Cassie to talking about what is inspiration actually, and why it’s so important in manifesting a better life and what we want. Also why opening up to trust is important because by trusting - you open up space in your brain for the inspiration to arrive.
She shares a few stories about how inspiration allowed her to manifest more money, a house, and an amazing experience she’s wanted for a long time. They discuss how if you don’t get comfortable in the space, you can't let these things manifest. This leads them to a discussion about how judgment can fill up the space needed for inspiration and for manifestations to show up.
Check back next week to hear more about how Vicki is always manifesting a bigger, better life for herself!
Vicki:
Instagram @vickinotvicky
TikTok @vickinotvicky10k
Enchanted Life U:
Instagram: @ enchantedlifeu
TikTok @enchantedlifeu
Vicki and Cassie are back to dive deep into the idea of power and worthiness, and how to step in and own those things.
Vicki’s birthday happened recently and she had a lot of experiences around that with giving away her power and not owning her worthiness to celebrate. She made choices along the way that manifested something she didn’t want, and they discuss how choices matter when you make a decision.
No matter how powerful a manifester you are, if you give away your power, you’re not going to manifest what you want.
When Vicki gives away her power, she's no longer being her current or future self. If she’s not being her current or future self, the only other option is her past self. When she’s not owning her power, she isn't powerful anymore - which is her old self.
Check back next week for the next step in Vicki’s journey!
Vicki
Instagram @vickinotvicky
TikTok @vickinotvicky10k
Enchanted Life U
Instagram: @ enchantedlifeu
TikTok @enchantedlifeu
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