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November 18, 2021 How Men Heal From Trauma | Nole Lilley of The Fire You Carry
Today’s guest is an LA County firefighter who previously served as an Army Ranger, with multiple deployments into Iraq and Afghanistan. You can imagine that he’s “seen some stuff.”

But Nole Lilly’s personal traumas were even deeper, and he found himself in a dark place…

Nole currently lives in the mountains of Southern California, with his wife Heather and their 3 children. Nole and Heather have been married for 18 years. He has worked as a fireman with L.A. County Fire for the past 12 years. Prior to that, he served as a United States Army Ranger, deploying multiple times into Iraq and Afghanistan. Nole and Heather have experienced the death of two of their sons and their journey through that loss has shaped much of the people they have become today. Nole has also dealt with post-traumatic stress related to the loss of his sons and his time serving as a Ranger. As a fireman, Nole has continued to live and work in a world where exposure to trauma can be a very regular occurrence. From this experience, Nole felt called to start a podcast where he could share his experiences with others who are working through difficult times in life and also share the struggles and triumphs of other men that he admires.

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The Fire You Carry Podcast https://thefireyoucarry.com/
The Fire You Carry on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thefireyoucarry/?hl=en
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53 min
November 16, 2021 CORE OPS | Finding Your Purpose, Mission, Vision, and Values
A military body has a set of “Core Ops” or “Core Operations” which often includes its mission statement and values, and similar statements.
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Your Purpose is Why.
Your purpose is really simple. It’s WHY you exist. WHY are you here?
Purpose doesn’t change
It was there before you were born, and it sticks with you for your whole life. Many people get focused on their purpose as a specific thing. Then, when something goes wrong, their identity and purpose are questioned in a moment of crisis.
Developing a personal mission statement
Putting your mission into words is a powerful act. It sets your intention. In conjunction with your purpose and your vision, it’s the equivalent of getting in the car and plugging in GPS Coordinates. How powerful would your life by if you had that kind of clarity in your destination?

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32 min
November 11, 2021 Doing the Heart Work | Nick Matiash | The Evolved Man
Helping men level up in their careers and their roles at home.
Nick Matiash is a husband, father, author, and leader of the Evolved Man; an initiative committed to helping men pair hard work with heart work in life and relationships.
Nick’s mission is to awaken men to be the most authentic version of themselves, and to truly understand the power of their emotions, healing and harnessing them, rather than stuffing them or being ruled by them.
Most men live lives of mediocrity. This is a call to something more.
Nick believes that as men can work through the barriers that they have set up in their hearts and minds, they’ll be better husbands, fathers, leaders, and be able to be better in their careers too.

We’re often held back by our deepest insecurities, and those insecurities often come from a very real place that we may have to fight to reclaim.

Nick also talks about the role of a husband and father as a leader, as a lover, and how to do that, we have to make the time in our life to take better care of our own mental and emotional health.
Men don’t like to think about their mental health or their emotions.
But it’s incredibly important for us to be able to lead from a position of strength and wholeness, not a position of brokenness and trauma and burnout.
Nick Matiash Coaching Website: https://www.nickmatiashcoaching.com/
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Moving Past Mediocre: Unlocking Your Mind to Create the Life You’ve Always Imagined : by Nick Matiash: https://www.amazon.com/Moving-Past-Mediocre-Unlocking-Imagined/dp/1733024611

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1 hr 1 min
November 09, 2021 Artificial Intelligence Takes Over the Manlihood ManCast
The Bots have taken over the show. Artificial Intelligence has taken over the Manlihood ManCast today, and collected clips of Josh Hatcher on other podcasts for you to listen to and be equipped.
Included are clips from Josh Hatcher's interviews on:
The Significant Man Recharge with Warren Peterson https://open.spotify.com/embed-podcas...
Maximus with Cam Sepah https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gt3Oo...
and The Vital Masculinity Podcast https://www.vitalmasculinity.org/podc...

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20 min
November 04, 2021 IBJJF No Gi World Champion Isaac Greeley | Life Lessons From the Mat
Shortly after we recorded this interview, this guest went on to compete in the International Brazilian Jiu Jitsu Federation No Gi Tournament, and became a World Champion.

I’ve known Isaac Greeley since we were kids, we ride the same school bus together, and shared a lot of experiences growing up in a small town, in a small school, where some of the best people on earth are mined from the ground like silver.
Isaac talks with Manlihood about the life lessons he learned as a high school and college wrestler, and how that translated into his career as a chiropractor, and a coach who has coached champions in any number of combat sports.
Isaac talks about the bonds formed in mentoring relationships with coaches, in small groups with other men and young men, and the way that challenges and hardships as an athlete have helped him overcome similar challenges in everyday life.
More From Isaac Greeley
The Mat Factory https://thematfactory.net/
The Mat Factory on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/matfactorywrestlingclub/
The Mat Factory on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/matfactorywrestlingclub/

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40 min
November 02, 2021For better or not so bad | How to be a better husband | Manlihood ManCast with Josh Hatcher
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Apologize - but also adjust

Educate Yourself
Study Her

Learn from others

Be teachable

Know her love language

Shut your mouth

Communication goes both ways.
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21 min
October 28, 2021 Hearing-Impaired Rockstar Andrew Wright of My Silent Reality
Andrew Wright of the hard-rock band My Silent Reality has had one dream for many years, to be a rockstar. He’s fought through obstacles that derail others to make that dream a reality - a reality that is anything BUT silent.
Andrew Wright sits down with Josh Hatcher to talk about his music, his story, and to encourage men to dream big, make a plan, and then do the work to make it happen.

https://youtu.be/VCyXq_B0p2k
Follow My Silent Reality:
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SELF HELP: 12 Things You Can Do That Will Drastically Improve Your Life: Self Help Book of 12 Strategies to spirituality, self esteem, and personal growth! By Andrew Wright https://www.amazon.com/SELF-HELP-Drastically-Strategies-spirituality-ebook/dp/B019NR0N5M/

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29 min
October 26, 2021Skills Every Man Should Have | Manlihood ManCast - a Podcast for Men
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Money Management: Budgeting / Saving / Debt

Employment Skills: How to make a resume / Stick an interview / Keep a job

Self Defense Skills: Throw a Punch / Block a punch / Win a fight / AVOID a fight

Automotive: Check the oil / change a tire / diagnose a problem

Cooking: Meat Temps / Chop an onion / The Trinity / The other trinity
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18 min
October 21, 2021 Elliott Hulse | The Strength of Kings and Why Our Culture Needs Masculinity
Strongman, strength coach, philosopher, and father figure to millions of YouTube followers Elliott Hulse speaks with Josh Hatcher of the Manlihood ManCast.
Modern culture is rejecting masculinity, and that rejection has been orchestrated for quite some time.
Elliott says that Marxist teachings and philosophy have greatly influenced western culture to abandon the idea of the traditional nuclear families, and the fathers place in it.
The role of the father is important in our culture
Elliot talks about the significance of a man’s influence in the home, his own experiences of rejecting his father’s strictness and toughness, only to later appreciate it when he became a father himself.
Culture must have a rite of passage to manhood.
Looking at the breakdown in modern society and family life, Elliot lays out the similarities with many ancient cultures and their rites of passage, as a boy leaves the world of the mother and joined the atonement of the father.
Elliot Hulse is not a misogynist.
He may have views on gender that run contrary to the feminist movement, and in fact, may even be a little different from my own, and the views of Manlihood as an organization. He loves and respects women, and in this interview talks about a conversation with his daughter after she found a YouTube video online accusing him of being a misogynist.
Elliot Hulse rediscovery if his Christian faith
He talks about how his Christian faith shapes his views on philosophy, the family, culture, and more, and talks about how his quest for purpose and identity and mentoring others led him back to the Christian faith of his youth.
The message of Elliot Hulse is resonating with folks who want to hear it. Almost 2 million subscribers on his Strength Camp YouTube channel, and almost 900k on his Elliot Hulse YouTube channel. It’s worth giving his message some thought and discussion.
More From Elliot Hulse
Elliot Hulse Website https://elliotthulse.com
Elliot Hulse YouTube https://youtube.com/user/elliottsaidwhat
Strength Camp YouTube https://youtube.com/c/strengthcamp
Elliot Hulse Instagram https://www.instagram.com/elliotthulse/
1 hr 1 min
October 19, 2021How To Be More Manly For A Woman
We often think we know what a woman wants in a man… but we’re often frustrated with the response we get from women when we try to present that.

So I put it out there. I ASKED THEM.

What is it that they WANT from a man?
We surveyed some women about qualities they found the most masculine in the men that related to them, and this is what they said
Humor

Feeling and communicating emotion

Honest open communication

Ownership

Paying attention to her needs

Humility

Affirming her value

Compassion

Intelligence

Respect

Cheering on others without being threatened

Anticipating the needs of others

A good work ethic

How he talks to strangers and treats others

To be mentally present

Not afraid to serve - to help in the kitchen or change a diaper

Honesty

Integrity

Self-Control

Confidence

The ability to apologize

A man who loves God
As men, we often think of strength, and courage, and honor - which are certainly qualities that go with manhood - but when we think about how our manhood relates to the fairer sex - there are things they notice that they see as manly that we may not!
In that list, several things were answered multiple times
Communication
Kindness
Honesty
Humility
The idea of Masculine and Feminine Energies is a misnomer
I believe that men and women share many qualities. Women can nurture, and men can nurture. But women do it in a feminine way, and men do it in a masculine way. Men are strong, and women are strong - but we are strong in ways that are unique to who we are. A strong woman is not masculine, she’s feminine. A gentle man is not femnine, he’s masculine. We need to stop ascribing energies to genders.
17 min

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