Susan Schwartz explains how emotional intelligence helps leaders reduce churn, improve teamwork, and get better business results. She defines EQ as managing your reactions, staying aware of how you show up, and choosing responses that fit the moment. Her starting move is simple attention: notice what others need, spot the 'gotchas,' and communicate so your message is received as intended. Promoted subject experts must shift from 'me to we,' replacing micromanagement with delegation, trust, and constructive feedback. Using tools like the EQ-i 2.0 assessment, she builds new workplace norms and meeting habits that pull opinions out instead of broadcasting. A restaurant case shows a three-tier system and a 'banana problem' cue that cut constant interruptions from 20-30 a day to 3-4. The takeaway: practice small, repeatable behaviors that make conflict manageable and turn your team into a more confident, high-retention unit.