Our guests in this episode are Marnie Stockman and Nick Coniglio, the dynamic storyteller-and-strategist duo behind Lead It Like Lasso. They've channeled their passion for helping people find their path into a groundbreaking new book and AI-powered app called The Business of You. In our conversation, Marnie and Nick explored their brilliant framework for taking control of your personal and professional destiny.

Key points discussed include:

* Run your life like a business, taking charge of every personal 'department' to achieve your vision.

* Uncover your unique story by connecting past experiences to present strengths to articulate your true value.

* Leverage AI not as a crutch, but as a personal coach for accelerated self-awareness and growth.

Listen to the podcast to find out more.

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Show Notes from this episode with Marnie Stockman and Nick Coniglio, Lead It Like Lasso

It was an absolute delight to welcome Marnie Stockman and Nick Coniglio of Lead It Like Lasso fame back to the Innovabuzz podcast. I always appreciate the energy they bring, and this conversation was no exception. They unveiled their powerful new project, a book and AI-powered app called The Business of You, which spawned from a moment of wonderfully blunt honesty in an airport lounge where Nick, after some thought, declared Marni’s initial idea "terrible." That moment perfectly captures their creative magic: a process built on trust that transforms a simple concept into something truly impactful.

Their new work tackles a feeling many of us know all too well: the sense that we’re just a hamster on a wheel, blindly following a path that was laid out for us by someone else. Marnie shared how the protagonist in their book does all the "right" things, good grades, networking events, hundreds of applications, but feels stuck, seeing no real success. It’s a state of aimless drifting, of putting in the effort without a clear, personal direction. This system is designed to be the antidote, helping people step off that wheel and start building a life with intention.

Becoming the CEO of Your Life (And Head of Every Department!)

The core idea Nick and Marnie propose is both simple and profound: start running your life like a well-managed business. At first, that might sound a bit cold or corporate, but as Nick explained, it's about adopting the positive traits of successful organizations. It means having a vision, setting meaningful goals, and understanding all the different functions that make you who you are. You aren't just the CEO of your life; you're also the head of every department, from HR, which defines your core values, to Marketing, which tells your unique story to the world.

This isn’t about spreadsheets and performance reviews. It’s a framework for self-awareness and purposeful action. When you think about the "finance department" of your life, for instance, it's less about money and more about the critical investment of your time. By viewing your life through this structured lens, you can identify which areas are thriving and which have been neglected, allowing you to grow in a more balanced and holistic way.

The Power of Your Story: Moving Beyond Facts to Find Your Value

One of the most powerful parts of our chat was Marnie’s story about a student she mentored. He was struggling in interviews, coming across as "all over the place" because he didn't know how to connect the dots of his own life. By guiding him to see the pattern between his experiences: from playing soccer as a seven-year-old to his approach to work today, he suddenly "lit up." He understood his story for the first time.

That afternoon, he interviewed for a full-time job and the next day for an internship, and he got both. This is the "marketing department" of you in action. It’s not about reciting a list of facts from your resume; it's about weaving those facts into a compelling narrative that shows the world the unique value you offer. As Nick wisely put it, "how you do anything is how you do everything," and learning to tell that story is transformative.

Your AI Life Coach: How Technology Can Help Connect the Dots

This is where their innovative AI-powered app, "Blue," comes into play. It’s designed to be the tool that helps you uncover these crucial insights. Instead of a dry questionnaire, the app uses engaging and playful games, taking inspiration from platforms like Duolingo, to help you identify your core values, motivators, and even your "kryptonite." It makes the process of self-discovery feel fun and interactive.

The real magic, as Nick detailed, is how modern AI allows the app to function as an adaptive life coach. It’s not a rigid, rules-based system. It can take your unique inputs and help you "connect the dots," offering personalized suggestions. Whether it's brainstorming an essay topic that aligns with your values or crafting networking starters for an event, the technology serves as a primer to help you articulate your best self.

Data with a Conscience: Navigating AI Privacy and Security

Of course, whenever we talk about AI and personal data, the elephant in the room is privacy. I was impressed with how seriously Nick and Marnie are taking this responsibility. Nick gave a firm assurance that their user data will be handled within a "secure, encrypted, and closed" ecosystem, meaning your personal information isn't being exposed to the outside world or used to train public models.

Marnie also made the crucial point that we, as users, need to become more discerning. We have to get better at vetting the tools we use, asking critical questions about security and what’s happening with our data behind the scenes. It's a shared responsibility, and it’s refreshing to see builders in this space leading with such a conscientious approach.

Your Action Plan: Stop Drifting and Start Building

So, what’s the big takeaway? The foundation for everything is self-awareness. It's about understanding that a core value like "helping people" can manifest in countless ways, far beyond one specific career title. This understanding opens up your world to opportunities you may have never considered.

The first step is to embrace the mindset of being the CEO of your life. As Nick urged, it’s about consciously thinking what that means for you and accepting that it requires putting in the work. But as I’ve found in my own journey, when you’re building something that is truly yours, that work starts to feel a lot like play.

In Summary: Marnie and Nick have created a brilliant framework for intentional living. By treating your life as your most important business, uncovering the power of your personal story, and leveraging technology as a tool for self-discovery, you can move from passively drifting to actively building a life of purpose and fulfillment.

The Buzz - Our Innovation Round

Here are Marnie and Nick's answers to the questions of our innovation round. Listen to the conversation to get the full scoop.

* Most innovative use of AI to enhance human relationships – Use AI to create engaging icebreakers for teams or to find thoughtful ways to make loved ones happy.

* Best thing to integrate AI and human connection – Write a book and build an app that help people connect with themselves and others.

* Differentiate by leveraging AI – Adapt assessments and tools with AI to help people understand themselves and interact more effectively

Action

Be cautious and ask questions about the apps and tools you use, especially regarding privacy and data. Take responsibility for your own growth by thinking about what it means to be the CEO of your life, and commit to doing the work that self-awareness requires.Take time to truly think about what it means to be the CEO of your own life, and recognize that you must be prepared to put in the necessary work to make that vision a reality.

Reach Out

You can reach out and thank Marnie and Nick on LinkedIn (search for their names), at thebusinessofyou.ai, or by subscribing to their newsletter at workinprogress.ai. You can also find them on all major social platforms under “Lead It Like Lasso,” and their book will be available on Amazon starting early August.

Links:

* Website - Lead it Like Lasso

* LinkedIn - Marnie Stockman

* YouTube - Lead It Like Lasso

* Facebook

* Twitter - @leaditlikelasso

* Instagram - @leaditlikelasso

* LinkedIn - Nick Coniglio

* LinkedIn - Lead it Like Lasso

* TikTok - @leaditlikelasso

Books

* Lead It Like Lasso, Marnie Stockman and Nick Coniglio

* The Business of You, Marnie Stockman and Nick Coniglio

Cool Things About Marnie and Nick

* Their new book was born from a "terrible idea." The entire concept for their book, "The Business of You," started with Marnie having a thought, and Nick walking about 60 steps away in an airport, only to turn around and declare, "I think you had a terrible idea". This speaks volumes about their fun, honest, and dynamic creative partnership. It's a refreshingly real origin story.

* They run a satirical career advice newsletter. As a side project, they created "Work in Progress," a newsletter they describe as "The Onion as your career coach". This is wildly unconventional for leadership experts and shows their witty, "jaunty" sense of humor and a unique approach to engaging with their audience on a very human level.

* Their AI assistant has learned to mock them. In the process of training their AI on their writing style, it has picked up their habits so well that it now makes fun of Marnie for overusing the word "spiral". The fact that they have a running joke with their own technology is a funny, fascinating insight into what it's really like to work at the human-AI frontier.

* They are turning pop culture into practical life frameworks. While many people enjoy TV shows, Marnie and Nick have built an entire brand around deconstructing the leadership lessons from "Ted Lasso". They now have a new framework with "You, Incorporated." This ability to see and translate profound lessons from popular culture into actionable advice is a unique and creative talent.

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