is impossible to understand either the New Testament doctrine on
marriage, or the very consistent practice of the Orthodox Church without
seeing Christian marriage in the context of the Eucharist ... The very
notion of marriage as a sacrament presupposed that a man is not only a
being with physiological, psychological, and social functions, but that
he is a citizen of God's Kingdom, i.e., that his entire life and
especially its most decisive moments involve eternal values and God
Himself. -- John Meyendorff, from the book
excellent study on Christian marriage is a valuable resource for anyone
seeking to understand the Orthodox perspective on marriage. John
Meyendorff examines marriage in the Church from the contexts of Judaism
and the New Testament, the early Church and Roman law, sacramental life,
and contemporary society. Specific issues discussed include: second
marriages, "mixed" marriages, divorce, abortion, family planning and
responsible parenthood, married clergy, celibacy, and the monastic life.
Essential reading for all pastors, it is also useful for parents,
newlyweds and those preparing or the sacrament of marriage.