Ready to conquer 2026 with your partner? In this powerful episode of Married Into Crazy, hosts Snooks and Lovvy tackle one of the biggest relationship challenges couples face during New Year planning: Do your goals need to be perfectly aligned with your spouse's? After 29 years of marriage (and surviving near-death experiences, a divorce request, and countless goal mismatches), these certified Gottman relationship coaches reveal the truth: You don't rise to the level of your goals—you fall to the level of your systems.

What You'll Learn:

✅ Why goal alignment is overrated – and what actually matters for relationship success

✅ The "Harris Intercept" method – a Venn diagram approach to identifying shared priorities vs. individual pursuits

✅ How to support different goals without resentment, shame, or feeling left out

✅ The accountability framework that prevents conflict when one partner falls off track

✅ Real talk about fitness, business, and personal goals – when Snooks wants pizza and Lovvy's doing 75 Hard

✅ The C.R.A.Z.Y. framework – Five pillars that saved their marriage (Compassionate, Real, Accountable, Zealous, Yielding)

Episode Highlights: 03:44 – The stabbing story: How Lovvy survived a near-fatal attack by Snooks's ex just 5 days after getting engaged 13:16 – Do couples really need the same goals? The debate begins 17:00 – The "Harris Intercept": A game-changing tool for negotiating priorities 22:00 – When one partner is eating pizza and the other is on 75 Hard: Real-world goal conflicts 28:29 – James Clear's wisdom: "You fall to the level of your systems, not rise to your goals" 32:40 – Snooks gets vulnerable: Learning to be compassionate, real, and yielding in marriage Whether you're a singlepreneur, couplepreneur, or marriedpreneur, this episode offers actionable strategies to make 2026 your best year yet—together or individually (but still connected!).

Resources Mentioned: Atomic Habits by James Clear – The book that transformed their approach to goals Married Into Crazy Winter Ball & Marriage Conference – February 6-7, 2026 (tickets at marriedintocrazy.com) Gottman Method Couples Therapy – The framework Snooks & Lovvy use in their coaching OL and Sway Interview – Episode on singlepreneurs, couplepreneurs, and marriedpreneurs

Shoutouts: 🎤 Joel Kibble (10-time Grammy winner from Take 6) – Speaking at the Winter Ball 📻 Lady Charmaine (97.5 KDEE Sacramento) – Upcoming interview on January 8th

💍 Anniversary Shoutouts: Cloyce & Sheila Dickerson (Jan 1), Terrence & Davina Hansford (10 years!), Dominic & Malik Mullins (Jan 6)

Connect with Married Into Crazy: 🌐 Website: www.marriedintocrazy.com 📧 Email: [email protected]

📱 App: Download the Married Into Crazy app for exclusive coaching content (including "Raise the BAR" curriculum)

🎟️ Event Tickets: Married Into Crazy Winter Ball & Marriage Conference – February 6-7, 2026

Discover the secrets to thriving as married entrepreneurs 🥂 with OL and Sway as they share their inspiring journey of balancing love, marriage, and business in this compelling episode of the Married Into Crazy podcast. Learn how they transformed challenges into opportunities, developed powerful systems for success, and created a harmonious blend of marriage, marketplace, and ministry. Whether you're a spousalpreneur, indiepreneur, or couplepreneur, their actionable advice on communication, strategy, and support will empower you to grow your business without sacrificing the foundation of your relationship. Tune in to hear their heartfelt story, expert tips, and how their passion for helping couples succeed can transform your entrepreneurial journey.

Get Your Tickets to the 2026 Married Into Crazy® Winter Ball and Marriage Conference https://www.marriedintocrazy.com

#smallbusiness #marriage #marriedlife #entrepreneurshipandrelationships #relationshipadvice

CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 01:30 - How Did You Two Meet? 02:11 - What Was Your First Date Like? 10:07 - Long Distance Relationship Tips 16:39 - Understanding MarriedPreneur Life 19:53 - Importance of Accountability in Relationships 22:19 - Daily Meetings for Couples 25:55 - Birth of Marriedpreneur for New Life 28:21 - Exploring Marriedpreneur Life 29:40 - Marriage, Marketplace, and Ministry Explained 33:45 - The 3 Types of Marriedpreneurs 41:09 - Lessons from Every Couple 42:54 - How to Reach O.L. and Sway 45:00 - MRACY Explained 48:06 - Follow @marriedpreneur on Instagram 49:20 - Couples I Can Can 51:10 - Outro

With their holiday hair on point and nearly 29 years of marriage under their belts (yes, you read that right—29 years next month!), this dynamic duo is here to drop some serious relationship wisdom rooted in Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) principles. In this 31-minute power-packed episode, Snooks and Lovey tackle one of the most misunderstood concepts in modern relationships: equality versus equity in marriage. This groundbreaking conversation demonstrates how DEI principles are essential for marriage success—recognizing that each partner brings diverse strengths, backgrounds, and capacities that must be honored and included for true partnership to thrive. What You'll Discover:

✅ Why equity over equality is the foundation of inclusive, successful marriages

✅ How embracing diversity in partnership roles creates stronger, more resilient relationships

✅ The importance of inclusion in marriage—ensuring both partners feel valued for their unique contributions

✅ Why financial peace in relationships isn't just about money—it's about equitable distribution based on individual capacity and circumstances

✅ Real talk about carrying your weight without falling into the toxic trap of scorekeeping

✅ How to have difficult conversations that strengthen your bond by honoring each partner's diverse perspective

✅ Behind-the-scenes insights from a couple who's been practicing inclusive partnership for nearly three decades

DEI in marriage means: Recognizing that partners come from different backgrounds, have different abilities, face different challenges, and contribute differently—and that's not just okay, it's beautiful. Snooks and Lovey show how celebrating diversity, practicing equity, and fostering inclusion creates the foundation for lasting love.

#diversityandinclusion #inclusivelove #marriagepodcast #marriageadvice

Get Your Tickets to the 2026 Winter Ball & Marriage Conference https://www.marriedintocrazy.com

Feeling the holiday pressure? In this Queen's Corner episode, Snooks shares powerful marriage advice for Thanksgiving: choose connection over perfection, see the goodness in your spouse, and embrace gratitude over stress. Perfect for couples navigating the holiday season together!

#MarriageAdvice #ThanksgivingMarriage #RelationshipGoals #ChristianMarriage #HolidayStress #MarriedLife #GratitudeInMarriage #QueensCorner #MarriageCoaching #healthyrelationships

🎯 What You'll Learn:

✅ How to stop the "Pinterest-perfect" holiday pressure

✅ A simple grounding exercise to reduce stress (4-2-6 breathing technique)

✅ Why seeing your spouse's INTENT matters more than perfection

✅ How to express gratitude that strengthens your marriage

✅ Practical tips for hosting Thanksgiving without burnout

✅ The power of choosing connection over perfection

💡 Key Takeaways: • Don't run yourself ragged trying to make everything perfect • Ask for help and let guests contribute • See the goodness in your partner, even when things aren't perfect • Express gratitude verbally—your spouse needs to HEAR it • Marriage unfolds over time; appreciate the journey Whether you're hosting Thanksgiving, traveling to family, or just trying to survive the holiday season with your sanity intact, this episode will help you shift from stress to gratitude and strengthen your marriage in the process.

🎟️ UPCOMING EVENT: MIC Marriage Conference & Winter Ball 📅 February 6-7, 2025 🎭 Friday Theme: Denim, Diamonds & Dancing Saturday is packed with Powerful Speakers https://marriedintocrazy.ticketlocity.com/events/131874

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💬 LET'S CONNECT: • Subscribe to the podcast for weekly marriage tips and relationship advice • Leave a comment: What's ONE thing you're grateful for about your spouse this Thanksgiving? • Share this with a couple who needs encouragement this holiday season

TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Welcome to Queen's Corner 0:43 - Why Thanksgiving Can Be Stressful for Marriages 2:05 - Stop Trying to Be Pinterest Perfect 3:05 - Ask for Help (You Don't Have to Do It All!) 4:21 - Grounding Exercise: 4-2-6 Breathing Technique 5:19 - See the Goodness in Your Spouse 6:40 - Intent vs. Perfection in Marriage 8:06 - The Power of Expressing Gratitude 9:57 - How Gratitude Alleviates Holiday Stress 10:49 - Choose Connection Over Perfection 11:45 - Event Announcement & Closing

Every man casts a shadow his family lives in for generations. Is yours one of leadership or influence? Discover the difference that changes everything.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE In this powerful King's Corner segment, Lovey explores the critical difference between leadership and influence for men, husbands, and fathers. Inspired by a conversation with friend Amos, this episode challenges conventional masculine leadership and reveals why your character—not your title—creates your legacy.

KEY TOPICS COVERED: • The "shadow" every man casts over his family (and why it lasts generations) • Leadership vs. Influence: Understanding the difference • Why "because I said so" destroys your legacy • How to be emotionally present (not just physically there) • The Peter Pan metaphor: Why you need your partner to help you fly • Reflective questions every husband and father must answer

TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Introduction: The King's Corner 0:25 - The conversation that sparked this topic 2:18 - Every man casts a shadow 3:05 - What shadow did YOUR father cast? 4:10 - The trap of leadership without influence 6:54 - The shadow of influence: What it really means 8:06 - Leadership is the role, influence is the impact 9:28 - Daily examples: Are you leading or influencing? 11:41 - Qualities of healthy influence 14:46 - Building people vs. tearing them down 18:18 - 4 reflective questions for every man 20:38 - The Peter Pan lesson: Let your partner help you fly

REFLECTIVE QUESTIONS FROM THIS EPISODE:

1. If my family lived only by what I DO (not what I SAY), who would they become?

2. Does my home feel like a place of pressure or peace?

3. When I leave the room, what emotional temperature do I leave behind?

4. Where am I relying on my title instead of my character?

🎯 WHO THIS IS FOR:

✅ Husbands wanting to strengthen their marriage

✅ Fathers building a lasting legacy

✅ Men seeking to lead with character, not control

✅ Anyone interested in healthy masculinity and family dynamics

UPCOMING EVENT: Married and Crazy Winter Ball & Marriage Conference 📍 February 6-7, 2025 🎟️ Early bird pricing ends November 21st 🔗 Get tickets: https://www.marriedintocrazy.com

🔔 SUBSCRIBE for weekly relationship insights, marriage advice, and powerful conversations about building healthy, lasting partnerships.

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#MarriedAndCrazy #LeadershipVsInfluence #MarriageAdvice #FatherhoodMatters #HealthyMasculinity #RelationshipGoals #HusbandLife #FatheringWell #CharacterMatters #LegacyBuilding #TheKingsCorner #MarriagePodcast #ChristianMarriage #FamilyFirst #IntentionalLiving

Cupid came in the form of a UPS driver and delivered love in the mail room. That's how it all began for John and Jaqueline Brown. A chance encounter sparked 28+ years of love, learning, submission, triumph, and tragedy. Snooks and Lovey sit down with a couple that explains what it means to have a "No Back Door" policy and how they inspired each other to dream deeply, believe in one another, and dare to fail and achieve.

If you are ready to take your marriage or relationship to the next level, this is the interview for you. Be prepared to learn how to: 1) Be The CEO Of YOU! (Jacqueline's newly released book) 2) Embrace the "Total Success System""

#totalsuccesssystem #businessgrowth #marriageadvice #marriedlife #marriedpreneur #marriedintocrazy

Get your tickets to the 2026 Married Into Crazy Winter Ball & Marriage Conference in Sacramento, CA on February 6 - 7, 2026. https://marriedintocrazy.ticketlocity.com/events/131874

What's secretly hurting your marriage? 🤔 In this episode, we dive into the little things that can unintentionally create distance in relationships. Are you living parallel lives with your spouse or unintentionally neglecting your connection? We explore how being intentional about shared experiences, balancing individual interests, and cultivating a vision for your marriage can strengthen your bond. From creating meaningful traditions to avoiding harmful habits, this conversation is packed with insights, humor, and practical tips for building a thriving partnership. Don't miss these powerful strategies to enrich your marriage today!

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#buildinglegacy #marriageadvice #personalgrowthinmarriage #couplesdiscussion #legacyinmarriage

CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:52 - Individual Obstacles in Relationships 04:42 - Togetherness vs Individuality in Marriage 11:07 - Vision for Your Marriage 14:00 - Barriers to Spousal Connection 17:30 - Love Competition in Relationships 20:25 - Identifying False Idols in Marriage 22:50 - Individual Contributions to Marriage 23:55 - Impact of Individual Actions on Marriage

Is self-care selfish in relationships? Absolutely not! In this heartfelt episode of Married Into Crazy, Snooks dives into why prioritizing self-care is essential for building healthy, loving relationships. Explore how neglecting your own well-being can lead to burnout, stress, and even resentment, and learn practical tips to recharge your mind, body, and soul. Snooks gets real about her own struggles with guilt, societal expectations, and the pressure to "do it all" while balancing work, family, and marriage.

Discover the importance of open communication with your partner and how small acts of self-care—like a hot bath or quiet time—can make a big difference. It's time to fill your cup and show up as your best self, not just for your loved ones but for YOU. Watch now and remember, self-care isn't selfish—it's necessary!✨

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#emotionalhealth #selfcare #self-caretips #marriagetips #communicationinrelationships

CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Self Care in Relationships 03:58 - The Dangers of Burnout 07:43 - Communicate with Your Partner for Better Self Care

Snooks and Lovey sit down to discuss comedy, marriage, second chances, and prison ministry with one of America's greatest clean stand-up comedians, Dennis Gaxiola. Dennis's marriage story is deeply impactful and often woven into his material. He and his wife were married young, divorced for 23 years, and later reunited and remarried, a journey he describes as an act of divine restoration.

This is an interview you don't want to miss!

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Stabbed in the heart—literally—and facing divorce just four years later, this is the story of how one couple overcame impossible odds to save their marriage. Through a harrowing near-death experience, family conflicts, and years of miscommunication, they discovered that the key to healing wasn't in avoiding the challenges but addressing the root causes. In this heartfelt and eye-opening journey, learn how a simple two-step process not only saved their relationship but also offers universal lessons for anyone—married or not—facing struggles in life, career, or personal growth. Don't miss this compelling story of resilience, love, and transformation. Watch now and discover how to tackle the root issues in your life!

Tickets for the Married Into Crazy® Winter Ball & Marriage Conference are now available. Get yours at https://www.marriedintocrazy.com

#marriageadvice #lifechallenges #personalgrowth #hearthealth #conflictresolutiontechniques

CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Getting Prepared 01:03 - The Stabbing Incident 04:11 - Navigating Divorce 10:03 - Understanding Symptoms vs Root Causes 12:24 - The 2-Step Problem Solving Process 13:14 - Identifying the Root of Your Problems 14:16 - Turning Your Life Around 14:44 - Importance of Taking Action