Natasha Gornik is back! We dive into her journey away from sex work, choosing sobriety, and the beautiful story of her marriage. Natasha shares how breast cancer transformed her outlook on life, the power of friendship and support, and her evolving relationship with sexuality and desire.

Find her at natashagornik.com

Petter Tupper is back to talk about this hsitory of BDSM. We discuss the fetishization of facist imagery, how scary and anxiety-inducing things become fetishized including COVID, how the fear of gender idenity manfiests, how depictions of bdsm have changed over the years but a common thread lines though many of them, why we no longer need to rely as heavily on mainstream media for positive depictions as other groups have needed to in the past. How he approaches lookikng at a new form of media’s depiction of kink,
Find his blog at http://petertupper.com and he writs about this history of kink at https://historyofbdsm.com

A conversation with Knotty Chris where we discuss his interest in bondage, why kink and neurodiversity often go hand in hand, poly, exploring the scene and making spaces more friendily to people on the spectrum, the appeal of different kinds of rope and a dive into mummification. You can find him on fetlife at Knotty_Chris and read his writings where he reflects about his experiences.

Unicycle Girl Nyx shares her journey through the world of kink, identity, community, sneezing and burping fetishes, her transition journey the clown kink community and more.
You can find her on fetlife at unicyclegirlNyx

A conversation with filmmaker Hilton Ariel Ruiz about his documentary series on erotic art, highlighting its evolution over the past 20 years. We discuss his first documentary, “Art of Erotica: The Outsider,” his collaboration with artist Barbara Nitke, the shift from male to female creators, the impact of digital technology, and the changes in societal attitudes towards eroticism. Hilton shares insights on his upcoming sequel, emphasizing how contemporary artists, influenced by platforms like OnlyFans, express themselves with greater freedom and openness.

Where to watch and follow Hilton:
Watch “Art of Erotica: The Outsiders”:

A conversation with Mistress Sato takes us on their personal journey through the world of kink and BDSM. From doodling erotic art as a child to exploring the early internet, Sato shares how they developed their dominant personality long before understanding what BDSM even was. We dig into Purgatory, the revolutionary collective Sato co-founded with Mistress Kiki, created specifically to uplift BIPOC, queer, and trans people. Rather than following the traditional dungeon model, Purgatory operates as a supportive community where members share skills, resources, and political values. We dig into consensual non-consent to the economics of male dominants in the industry, all while emphasizing how Purgatory’s anti-capitalist approach creates a more just and sustainable environment for peopl from all backgrounds.
Find purgatory at https://purgatorynyc.org
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https://www.instagram.com/purgatorynyc_ https://www.facebook.com/105282052534165

A chat with Foxie Lou about their early experiences with kink, the appeal of degradation from both the top and bottom, primal play and letting go safely, the fun part of adding to your kinky toolbox, clowns, mannequins, face flogging, positive and negative changes in the bdsm community pre and post pandemic, being a kinky coach to help people discover and accept areas of themselves, the difference between coaching and therapy, expressing ones desires and a whole lot more.

Learn more about their coaching at foxieloucoaching.com and find them on IG at https://www.instagram.com/mxfoxielou/

A conversaton with SheMagick about SheMagickEvents, how she went from erotica to her first munch to making her own kink space, the wrong way to approach a dominant if you’re interested, her ideal service scene, d/s and lots more.

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IG here
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A chat with Emilie P Bush author of Fables in the Key of Kink: An Inappropriate Picture Book. We talk about her experience in non-monogamy, the kink community, her experience as a parent of an LGBTQIA+ child while living in a traditionally conservative part of the world, the organization she started to support families like hers (LILBURNPride.com) and of course her book Fables in the Key of Kink, her life experiences behind the book and more. You can buy book now here

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A chat with Goddess Ashley about growing up and discovering kink in singapore, what it’s like exploring for the first time as a sub and her evolution into domination. Kinks from around the world and what it’s like when she’s on tour.

Learn more on her website Singapore-BDSM.com
Twitter http://www.twitter.com/_GoddessAshley
and IG http://www.instagram.com/bygoddessashley