A conversation with Mistress Sato takes us on their personal journey through the world of kink and BDSM. From doodling erotic art as a child to exploring the early internet, Sato shares how they developed their dominant personality long before understanding what BDSM even was. We dig into Purgatory, the revolutionary collective Sato co-founded with Mistress Kiki, created specifically to uplift BIPOC, queer, and trans people. Rather than following the traditional dungeon model, Purgatory operates as a supportive community where members share skills, resources, and political values. We dig into consensual non-consent to the economics of male dominants in the industry, all while emphasizing how Purgatory’s anti-capitalist approach creates a more just and sustainable environment for peopl from all backgrounds.
Find purgatory at https://purgatorynyc.org
https://www.x.com/PurgatoryNyc
https://www.instagram.com/purgatorynyc_ https://www.facebook.com/105282052534165

A chat with Foxie Lou about their early experiences with kink, the appeal of degradation from both the top and bottom, primal play and letting go safely, the fun part of adding to your kinky toolbox, clowns, mannequins, face flogging, positive and negative changes in the bdsm community pre and post pandemic, being a kinky coach to help people discover and accept areas of themselves, the difference between coaching and therapy, expressing ones desires and a whole lot more.

Learn more about their coaching at foxieloucoaching.com and find them on IG at https://www.instagram.com/mxfoxielou/

A conversaton with SheMagick about SheMagickEvents, how she went from erotica to her first munch to making her own kink space, the wrong way to approach a dominant if you’re interested, her ideal service scene, d/s and lots more.

Find SheMagickEvents on fetlife here
IG here
Sign up for the mailing list here and if you’d like to be vetted for events fill out this handy form

A chat with Emilie P Bush author of Fables in the Key of Kink: An Inappropriate Picture Book. We talk about her experience in non-monogamy, the kink community, her experience as a parent of an LGBTQIA+ child while living in a traditionally conservative part of the world, the organization she started to support families like hers (LILBURNPride.com) and of course her book Fables in the Key of Kink, her life experiences behind the book and more. You can buy book now here

Get a sneak peak at two of the stories below

A chat with Goddess Ashley about growing up and discovering kink in singapore, what it’s like exploring for the first time as a sub and her evolution into domination. Kinks from around the world and what it’s like when she’s on tour.

Learn more on her website Singapore-BDSM.com
Twitter http://www.twitter.com/_GoddessAshley
and IG http://www.instagram.com/bygoddessashley

Our first conversation was in 2009 so we have a lot of catching up to do. We talk about the changes in the NYC scene pre and post pandemic, inclusive spaces, dealing with health issues, submissive men and so much more.

Find Coko on Fetlife here

TES (She’s back on the board of TES since this recording can be found here )

SheMagick Events here

A great conversation with Madam Director where we talk about her process of making kink videos, what she looks for in play parnters depending on her mood, trends in the NYC kink scene post pandemic and so much more.

Find her at madamdirector.net

Her amazing and insightful blog at madamdirectorlola.wordpress.com

Her kink videos available at www.clips4sale.com/studio/129395/madam-director

Membership Streaming: www.manyvids.com/Profile/1001983878/Madam_Director/Store/Videos

Live weekly shows every Friday at 4 pm EST: onlyfans.com/that_lola

Wishlist (currently crowdfunding a pair of Louboutins) www.wishtender.com/madamdirector

Peaches jumps on the show (been way too long since a fellow submissive guy was on the show) to talk about how he got his nickname, spaking and impact play, humiliation, chastity and a lot more.

Find peaches online at
https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/188875/simply-discipline
https://fetlife.com/users/172906
https://twitter.com/Peaches1NYC

Mistress Kayla and Sorceress Bebe jump on the podcast to talk about their early kink experiences, the kink scene in California, walking the fine line of having a personal sub to something more romantic, their experiences during covid and their new female run multipurpose kink space Venus In Bells.

Find Kayla at Mistresskaylabdsm.com
Bebe at SorceressBebe.com
and learn more about Venus in Bells at Twitter.com/venusinbells

If you or someone you know would like to jump on for a conversation on the podcast drop me an email [email protected]

In this episode a conversation with a service-oriented sub who decided to dive into exploring decades into his marriage. We talk about therapy, seeking a pro domme, communication and the nature of service-oriented submission and how it look for him.