You may have heard Switches make the best Tops. So join us as Ella and NightOwll share their journey on why they chose to start Topping. Have you, as a Top, done your homework? Because these two new Tops know exactly what they want when they are on the receiving end, and therefore did their research to become the very best Top they could ever be. 

Whether they were born to Top or whether they grew into their roles, matters little, because what really matters is the amazing Tops they are becoming. 

Anything a guy does, a girl can do- while wearing heels AND even bleeding. 

Now, do we have any male Bottoms out there who’ve grown to be a Top as well? 

Perhaps you’re like Karina and you’ve been happy remaining a Bottom. Do what works for you. 

Don’t forget - Tops need aftercare too. Check in with your Tops  and remind them how amazing they are!

Tops, please be open to feedback - it’s how we grow. 

So, if you’ve ever wondered how some Tops get to spank everyone and people barely reluctantly agree to play with you, listen in and learn a thing or two, you might get to play more.

Do you have a favorite kinky song? We have so many, this is our 2nd episode featuring them!

Take a listen to some more of our favorite kink-adjacent tunes, and some recommended by you, our listeners, and we’ll share our thoughts of how they tie in to this special interest of ours. Some of them are super obvious, and some are classics you may not have considered. And some of them inspired some new items on Sky’s spanking bucket list!

Are there songs we haven’t covered? Let us know. Maybe we’ll check them out in another future episode.

What’s on your kinky playlist? We’ve still barely scratched the surface.

• Music Videos from this Episode:

• John Mellencamp - Hurts So Good

• Ella Fitzgerald (covering Cole Porter) - Why Can’t You Behave

• The Righteous Gemstones - Misbehavin’

• Akon (ft. Eminem) - Smack That

• Devo - Whip It

• Paul Thorn - It’s a Great Day to Whup Somebody’s Ass

• Liz Anderson - Mama Spank

• Lords of Acid - Spank My Booty

• Melanie Martinez - Soap

• Beyonce - Naughty Girl

• Kink in Music 1

Have you ever wanted to do a school role play? Or have you done a school role play and loved it?  

Join us as we talk with Miss Marissa, Jason, and Nicole as we discuss a detention role play at Lonestar. 

What makes a school role play headspacey? Lines? Tone? Scolding? Do you prefer a serious role play or a more playful role play? 

We discuss all of the things related to what we love about role play. What are some of the things you worry about or think about ahead of a new event? Listen as Nicole discusses advocating for herself based on concerns she had ahead of time and discusses 

Besides for the fun of role play, we discuss what it takes to run a role play event well. We discuss safety, lessons learned, timing, and functionality of the event. 

As an added bonus we get to talk about negotiating spanking in a vanilla relationship. At what point do we no longer consider a supporting partner no longer a vanilla? 

Learn some aspects of advocating for yourself when it comes to headspace events such as a school role play, detention, principal’s office, or even British discipline.

At GASP 2025 this year, we were given the opportunity to host, and record, a Tops Roundtable. Featuring our own BigGirlSpanker, returning Guest Mr. Ben, returning guest Miss Bernadette, and newcomer to the podcast but veteran to the community, CallMeMissMeg.

We had some initial questions and allowed questions from the audience and the Tops to respond spontaneously. We had a great discussion on all things related to Topping, discussion on setting scenes, communication in scenes, handling disappointment, learning and expanding skills, and more. What you will hear has been minimally edited, to bring you as close as possible to the live recording at GASP. We hope you will enjoy the discussion.

If you have additional questions you would like us to address in the future, please send us a message at https://www.spankopodcast.com/contact/ and will will try our best to answer you in a future episode.

Join us for a very special episode of Spanko! Podcast:

For pride month this year, we wanted to gather with some friends and have a very important discussion about what it’s like to be Trans in the Spanking Community. 

Returning guest, Avery, hosts this episode, as we gather at GASP this year with a group of extraordinary and wonderful spankos to discuss their journeys of self-discovery, acceptance, and how their individual eggs cracked (the evolution of the self-exploration journey and rebirth as your true self). 

We cover a wide range of topics such as gender identity affecting your chosen role as Top, Bottom, or Switch, and finding acceptance both with yourself and in the community. We also dive into some deep and personal territory and bring a lot of emotions and vulnerability forward. The journey is not always an easy one, but what we all experienced in creating this episode was love, support, and acceptance in ways that moved some of us to tears. 

Whether you have trans friends, feel awkward about discussing trans issues, have questions about playing with a trans person, are on your own journey of self-discovery or acceptance, or if you have ever felt awkward about yourself in any capacity, please give this episode a listen. 

We hope we’ve captured and shared with you the beauty and love in the room that we all felt while recording this very special episode.

Coming to you from TASSP 2024, AssaultedPeanut and Nemo join us to discuss Co-Topping and Co-Bottoming in a spanking scene. Whether you have been in a Co-Topping or Co-Bottoming scene, or you hope to someday, this episode is one you won’t want to miss.

What does it mean to play with multiple Tops or multiple Bottoms in a scene? What challenges come up? What makes it so fun? Our guests, and our hosts, who have had this kind of experience share what their experiences have been like and why it’s fun to explore playing with more than one friend at the same time.  

Our exceptional guests regale us with poetic, and almost play-by-play, reminiscences of this type of “dance” and what makes it so “yummy.” 

If you’re anything like BigGirlSpanker and you enjoy the art of quality spanking implements, you may have wondered where you should store your items. 

Should I use a backpack (Eric has)? Or a baseball bag (Eric does)? Or a trash bag (hey, we all need to improvise at times)? Or is there something better out there?

Wonder no more! 

Our friend, Matt and his company LuxxGear, have come to the rescue! He has invested and devoted himself to creating quality implement bags known as KinkBags. Join us for a tour of their product, and see if it will work for an implement hoarder… I mean “collector”... like Eric.  We bet it may work for you, too.

Five years!? The Spanko! Podcast has been releasing episodes every other week for the past five years! Join us as we share memorable moments and memorable episodes. *emotional tear* Feel free to share some of yours in the comments below.

Our friends, fans, and patrons join us as we record this episode LIVE (kinda) and share some of their own experiences of joining the scene AND how our little podcast has helped them along their journeys. 

Did you ever write in the Spanko Secrets notebook??? This completely anonymous notebook has been traveling with us since 2022. Join us as we open it for the first time and read some excerpts! *scandalous* 

As always, we advocate for safety and clearly spoken communication. Please be safe and consensual in your spanking play. 

Here is to another 5 years!

Have you experienced the thrill of a multi-day national… erm, international spanking party? Cause if you haven’t, TASSP is for you! 

Join our Spankoholics and our lovely TASSP Hostess, Princess Kelley May, and hear about some of our adventures at TASSP last year, and what we have to look forward to coming up June 12-15th, 2025.

Live out your school fantasy at the TASSP immersive school role play, where you’ll have to go to class and even do school work.

Perhaps you can beg your strict teacher for some stickers for being “good.”

Or perhaps you want something a bit more serious:  Shit, I have Saturday detention head space! 

But there’s more than “just” school events! TASSP has something for everyone! And this year, you may even find yourself living out some roleplays from days gone by… or maybe from the distant future!

There’s also judicial events, littles events, playful events, classes, the vendors fair, the Spanking Booth for charity, and so much more!

However you like to play, consensually of course, come to TASSP and join in the adventures!

So, your partner is a spanko.

We’ve talked to couples in the past who are in a relationship with a vanilla (or non-spanko) partner. Of course this can have its challenges for a spanko. But this time we hear from the non-spankos themselves! 

Join us as we get to know some of the struggles, pitfalls, and even the perks you can experience when being in a relationship with a spanko, even if you aren’t one yourself. TASSP 2024 provided an opportunity for non-spanko partners to gather together in support of one another, and they invited us to join in some of their discussions. 

If you have a vanilla partner in your life, or a spanko partner whose interest you may not fully grasp, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.