I still remember the day my grandfather shared a profound lesson with me about managing anger, drawing from the timeless wisdom of Jewish teachings. His words, echoing the insights from "Orchos Tzaddikim" (Ways of the Righteous), painted anger not just as a mere emotion but as a disease of the soul that can unravel personal peace and tear apart relationships. Through this episode, we navigate the intricate paths of mastering anger, uncovering how this volatile emotion is equated with evil and even linked to purgatory within Jewish texts. Through personal stories and spiritual teachings, we discuss the importance of empathy, forgiveness, and the remarkable tradition of reciting Kaddish, as shared through a touching anecdote about my grandfather.

As the conversation unfolds, we explore the detrimental effects of anger, not only on our spiritual and mental well-being but also on our interactions with others. Anger, often rooted in arrogance and wounded pride, can lead to irrational behavior and potential sin, as illustrated through the story of a frustrated driver who repeatedly rammed their car. We also emphasize the importance of how charity is given, highlighting that generosity is not merely about the monetary value but the spirit in which it is offered. Throughout the episode, we reflect on the teachings of the Mishnah, underscoring the value of patience and calmness, especially for those guiding others, and the broader social consequences of unchecked anger.

The journey continues with a focus on forgiveness and personal transformation. We highlight the power of letting go of grudges and choosing happiness over being right, particularly in relationships. By sharing stories of turning hurt into prayer and the remarkable outcomes from unwavering faith, we showcase the transformative potential of aligning oneself with divine intentions. Through the lens of Rabbi Yisroel Salanter's teachings, we emphasize that real change starts within, impacting not just ourselves but our communities and the world at large. Join us on this inspiring exploration of mastering anger and fostering spiritual growth, where faith and resilience lead to extraordinary outcomes.
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This series on Orchos Tzadikim/Ways of the Righteous is produced in partnership with Hachzek.
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We are using the Treasure of Life edition of the Orchos Tzadikkim (Published by Feldheim)

Recorded from a live audience presentation in the TORCH Centre - Levin Family Studios (B) in Houston, Texas on January 6, 2025.
Released as Podcast on February 20, 2025
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