Mastering Mindset Series

Jeff and I examine “States and Stages” and deep dive into each one a little further. We’re going to talk about what you need to do to manage your state of mind and how to get comfortable and content with your stage of development. Listen and learn how marrying the two leads to both fulfillment and success.

Timestamps:

2:00 - The illusion of happiness
4:50 - The burning monk.
6:30 - Stillness in motion.
7:30 - Success and fulfillment are equally as important.
8:40 - States of mind - Stages of development
13:20 - Managing your state.
17:00 - Be okay with your state.
21:00 - Art of fulfillment/ Science of success

In this Mastering Mindset video, Jeff and I talk about a radically different way to develop powerful habits and behaviors. Breaking bad habits is often incredibly difficult, but that’s usually because most people never take the crucial first step to starting a new behavior. Check out this conversation about shifting your identity. It will make a massive difference in your life.

Timestamps:

0:50 - Why is changing identity important?
2:25 - New identity and new habits
4:30 - Subconscious mind
5:50 − 30 Days to form a new habit
7:50 - Implanting ideas in the subconscious
9:30 - New behaviors of an Entrepreneur
11:30 - Hypnosis
13:00 - The mistake most coaches make.
17:00 - Trying to develop new habits without changing identity.

STOP Negative Thinking! In this hangouts, I finally got to tackle a topic that just may be the single most important factor to living a successful and happy life.

Timestamps:

2:30 - AWESOME Email from a viewer. :)
4:30 - Why it's important to end negative thinking.
8:30 - Positive thinking is proven to be incredibly powerful.
9:30 - Most of our truth is actually just a perception.
10:30 - Rob is a terrible dancer. See it here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LzkxiI60KpU&t=0s.
11:20 − 3 Steps to ending negative thoughts.
13:20 - Someone living in the negative thought process, has no idea it's controlling their life.
16:20 - Negative thinking is a vicious circle.
17:00 - Self awareness

How do you feel about your life? Generally speaking, are you happy? I hope you truthfully answer yes, but it’s okay if you don’t. Sadly, most of my clients initially answer that  question with a big fat “NO!” The interesting thing is that most of my clients are actually really together.  They aren't falling victim to self sabotage. Check out this interesting conversation about how to defeat your limits. There's 3 big steps you can take to do this immediately!

Timestamps:

2:15 - Sabotaging relationships and business moves
3:10 - Limit of success
3:30 - "I don't deserve it."
5:30 - Feeling like a fraud.
7:15 - Why is this all so important?
10:10 - Challenging our own "truths"
10:50 - The only time beliefs change...
11:25 - Searching for meaning
11:50 - What is your current mindset?
14:00 − 3 big steps to changing your limiting beliefs
15:50 - The shortcut to belief change.
21:30 - Byron Katie's process.
27:55 - Summary of changing limiting beliefs
34:00 - Negative projections

So, Jeff decided it was time I publicly tell my crazy life story. (Mom, he made me do it!)  

*WARNING* The content isn’t exactly PG rated. I share some pretty crazy stuff, from experiencing years of really bad child abuse, to massive addiction and homelessness, to hustling pool, to dealing drugs and getting cancer. I share my climb from dysfunction to Vice President and then my discovery of my purpose and running my own business.

Timestamps:

5:40 - Disclaimer (Not a PG talk)
7:15 - Bad influences in childhood
8:50 - Being a victim
10:30 - Addiction, Homelessness, Institutionalized
11:15 - Hustling in pool halls
14:00 - 19 yr. old spiritual awakening
15:30 - Massive expansion of consciousness
16:20 - Mentors
17:20 - Beyond Morality
19:00 - Conscious evolution to oneness
20:40 - Problems with the law
23:00 - The first time I shared my story in public
24:30 - Not trusting your own mind is the absolute worst thing I've ever had to deal with.
26:00 - What turned my life around.
28:25 - Going up the corporate chain REALLY fast
28:50 - Getting sick with cancer
32:00 - Entry level to Vice President
34:00 - 4 Martinis and leading company meetings.
35:00 - Deciding I was done
36:30 - Counseling from my mentor.
39:00 - Shedding your identity
40:00 - The first book I ever read cover to cover.
42:00 - I'm here to end suffering.
43:30 - Choosing to leave everything.
46:00 - I'm here to be a presence, share joy and love, and help people transform.
47:20 - The Fundamental Shift "Core" Program

In this Mastering Mindset hangout, Rob and Jeff discuss how much we’re actually trying to get to “the familiar,” and not just trying to feel more pleasure (which is what everyone usually thinks is our core motivator). This concept is crucial to understanding why you do things you really don’t want and why it's hard to habituate new stuff in your life.

Timestamps:

1:55 - Pain and Pleasure - What we THINK we're doing.
2:30 - The subconscious mind and survival.
3:00 - Pain vs. Familiarity
3:40 - How much are you "putting up with" in your own life?
4:07 - Our subconscious mind prefers the familiar.
5:00 - Training the subconscious mind.
5:45 - Familiarity and addictions.
6:15 - What is addiction?
7:50 - Managing your habits.
8:50 - How do you normalize?
10:20 - Shifting your identity.
11:10 - Why is it so hard to habituate new stuff into your life?
16:25 - Safety and growth together.
17:50 - Desire to change and grow is conscious and important.

In this Mindset Series hangout Rob Scott and Jeff Yancey focus on the importance of shifting mindset as a society.

Timestamps:

0:55 - Why is mindset shift important?
3:20- Limiting narratives
6:00 - Leaving society
7:00 - How big is our identity?
8:15 - Identity of Nationalism
9:09 - If Aliens landed on earth...
12:22 - Base assumptions
15:27 - What if we were all connected as one
19:00 - We are all egoic
22:50 - How am I connected to these people?