I ask you parents to not be so hard on yourselves. You are doing what you can with the tools you have. Break the cycles by being conscious! Consciousness is basically being aware and awake to your reality. We all have a different perception, but with continued prayers, faith, and living in truth, we will see how life is not about every breath we take, but about every moment that takes our breath away. Parents continue being strong for your family, things will get better!