Maybe It's Me

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a candid dive into my mind of push-and-pull with intimacy, control, and the art of letting go. from craving solitude to longing for a love that keeps its distance, in this episode i explore what it means to hold on, set free, and wonder if the bird that's prone to fly will ever come back.

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SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME!

Young Thug titled his album Business Is Business, and I recently encountered a conundrum with the phrase.

What does it really mean? Is it survival… or selfishness? In this episode, I discuss how this mindset manifests in real life, from friendships to work, and why I refuse to succumb to the loser mentality. 

Business might be business, but we're human at the end of the day. 

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in this episode, i’m talking about how lust became the main character in today’s dating scene. i'm not condemning, we’re human — but let’s be real: standards are disappearing, mystery is dead, and it feels like love is on back order. is this just a culture shift… or a romance recession? let’s get into it!

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it’s been a year since i cut out something that was rotting me from the inside. the healing hasn’t been pretty—no clean stitches, no fast recovery. but i made it to the other side!
this episode is me taking the bandages off. still bruised, but finally breathing.
swipe in, lay back, and let’s dissect the aftermath. scalpel, please! 🧑🏽‍⚕️

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hey mim members! (idk) in today’s episode, we’re getting real about something that’s been bothering me for a minute—the way the gay community has become so shallow and surface-level. from hookup apps ruining real connections to onlyFans culture pushing body image struggles, we’ve normalized a way of life that’s more about validation than authenticity. why is it so hard to find genuine friendships? why does desirability feel like a competition? and when did showing your body become the only way to be seen?

if you’ve ever felt like you had to change yourself just to be noticed, or if you’re tired of the shallowness, this one’s for you. let’s talk about it.

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SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME!

wow, i can't believe i hit 1,000 downloads. here's my personal thanks to each and every one of you, i hope you all are enjoying this little project i decided to start myself... hopefully it grows even more than i imagine. thank you, thank you, THANK YOU! i don't even know what to say, but hopefully this helps.. bye! 

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SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME!

some people support, and some just watch—but in the words of mariah...why you so obsessed with me? 🥲 in this episode, i dive into the weird energy of people who lurk but never engage, "friends" who lowkey compete, and how even family can be on that same type of time. oh, and did i mention my cousin called the cops on me? yeah, it gets messy. let's chat.  #maybeitsme

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so proud to announce that we are now on YOUTUBE! ahhh *screams* thank you guys so much for supporting me and making me feel a little important, make sure you check it out and tell me what you think! :) more videos are coming soon!!! after years of silence, we’re finally sitting down to have the conversation we never had… until now. ja and i were best friends for 10+ years, but something changed, and our friendship fell apart. in this episode, we’re breaking down what really happened, sharing our sides of the story, and seeing if we can find closure.

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well, well, well, i'm back again. on a roll now huh? 😂 in this episode, i’m talking about the fear of judgment, cancel culture as the new-age stoning, and why we’re all so scared to admit our shit stinks. I share my own struggles with social media trolls, addiction to external validation (yeah, I said it), and what it took for me to stop performing and start being real.

it’s time to let go of the fake personas and embrace what makes you you. being yourself isn’t embarrassing—it’s your biggest flex. tune in, laugh a little, reflect a lot, and maybe post that thought you’ve been holding onto.

because the truth is: NOBODY has it all together, and that’s okay! 

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in this episode of Maybe It’s Me, i unpack the difference between being seen and truly being accepted. from societal expectations to challenges within the queer community, i explore how these dynamics shape our sense of self and relationships.

join me as i reflect on the impact of masc-for-masc culture, femme-phobia, and the journey to embracing authenticity. let’s make 2025 the year we create spaces of true acceptance—for ourselves and others. listen now! *heart*

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