"The enemy of thriving is arriving."

"Vision without motion is frustration. Don't let the finish line rob you of the joy in the journey."

"What does how I feel have to do with it? I was focused on what I did and how I could correct it."

Always make your future bigger than your past

Knowing what I know now, if I had the opportunity to re-live this moment, what could I do to make it even better?

"Failures and victories alike are tools for shaping us. Let's make 2025 a year where we embrace growth, create ripples of impact, and make our future bigger than our past."

"Do you want to be articulate and dangerous or vague and useless?

The ESSENTIAL tool for Th'rive in '25 is the VOCA Framework or mindset.

Articulation bridges a leader's intent with their audience's understanding.

The Christmas Day soccer game in No Man's Land. The Spirit of Christmas triumphed over conflict and fear, reminding us that light, hope, and love can unite even the most divided.

"Christmas reminds us to think of one another. We appreciate our families more. We renew contacts with old friends. We rise above the barriers that separate us at other times of the year. Strangers exchange greetings without embarrassment. Kindliness and consideration make a comeback. The spirit of Christmas brings out the best in us."

“Things which matter most must never be at the mercy of things which matter least.”

“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”

“The past is behind; learn from it. The future is ahead; prepare for it. The present is here; live in it."

"Character is the quiet discipline to stay true to the worthwhile commitments we've made long after the initial emotion fades."

An inspired purpose gives us the resolve to make decisions once and stick to them.

Challenge: This week, take one commitment you've made and bring it to life with small, consistent choices. Let your character define you, and watch the ripples of your actions inspire others.

"Character doesn't need emotion to thrive; it needs an inspiring purpose. An inspiring purpose will get you through most anything."

Have you ever stopped to ask yourself: Does how I spend my time restrict or enlarge my capacity to live, learn, love, and serve in meaningful ways?

Adversity? It’s either just left, it’s here, or it’s coming.

Warren Buffet reminds us that those who make it happen in life focus on three simple habits:

"When you create a tradition rooted in gratitude, you’re not just celebrating the present—you’re choosing to invest in the future."

"By choosing gratitude and making it part of your family’s story, you create ripples of love and connection that will endure for years to come."

"What you don't change, you choose."

"Choices determine destiny."

"It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities."

"Life is the sum of all your choices. So what are you doing today?"

My "I CHOOSE STATEMENT: "I choose to live with purpose, not by chance; to be inspired, not influenced; to serve others, not be served; to create ripples of change, not excuses; to thrive through milestones, not just to compete. I choose self-respect, not self-pity. I choose to honor my true self, guided by enduring principles, not the fleeting opinions of others. I choose to be an Arrows Out™ beacon of Positive Generational Impact."

The viral effect of one pilot’s behavior illustrates how a single person’s actions can set the tone for everyone else. This experience reminded me that true leaders stay transparent, express genuine gratitude, and model calm under pressure. In doing so, they create a ripple effect of grace and positivity, even in the most challenging circumstances.

"Leadership is not about being in charge. It is about taking care of those in your charge."

"Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference."