Mediocre Dads

In this conversation, Joe Rigney, a professor of theology and pastor, discusses the challenges of parenting, leadership, and the importance of faith in both areas. He shares insights from his book 'Leadership and Emotional Sabotage', emphasizing the need for clarity in leadership and the impact of cultural pressures on education and family dynamics. Rigney also explores the evolution of his leadership perspective over the years, the significance of joy in sacrificial leadership, and practical ways to teach children about faith and responsibility.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Leadership and Parenting04:28 The Challenges of Parenting10:18 Leadership in Institutions16:09 Cultural Pressures and Christian Leadership22:10 The Role of Fathers in Leadership30:18 Personal Reflections on Leadership and Parenting34:48 The Joy of Sacrifice in Family Life37:33 Resilience Through Hardship: A Father's Story41:23 Navigating Fatherhood: The Challenge of Raising Boys52:49 Faith and Family: Raising Children in Belief57:58 Instilling Spiritual Habits in ChildrenConnect with Joe RigneyX https://x.com/joe_rigney Connect with Mediocre Dads🌐www.mediocredads.net 📧Business Inquiries: [email protected]☕ Buy Me A Coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/mediocredads👕 Elevated Faith: https://bit.ly/3SNgXQ5 🎩 Dad Gang: Code (QUEON21848) 🎶⁠Bizzy Cardoza on Apple Music⁠Social Links: Website https://www.mediocredads.net/Instagram https://www.instagram.com/mediocre_dads/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/X https://www.x.com/mediocre_dadsYouTube https://www.youtube.com/@MediocreDadsPodcastSpotify https://www.open.spotify.com/show/3vHRtqyvNHdZhtQoOlzBdD?si=defb44f21ab14005 Rumble https://www.rumble.com/c/c-2576414Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/MediocreDadsDISCLAIMER: This video and description contain affiliate links, which means we may earn a small commission if you click on one of the product links. This helps support the channel and enables us to continue creating content like this. Thank you for being so supportive! 🙏

Serving God: More Than Just a Job

What does it mean to work with purpose? In this thought-provoking episode, Queon Wilcox and Minister Boggan explore the intersection of faith and work, reminding us that service to others and fulfilling our calling are central to the Christian life. They unpack the balance between grace and works, the power of prayer, and the joy found in humble obedience to God.

💡 Key Takeaways:

• Work is a divine calling, not just employment

• You don’t earn salvation — but your service shows gratitude

• Humility is essential in leadership and service

• God is present in your daily labor

• Prayer is power — for yourself and others

Listen now to rediscover joy in your work and your walk with Christ.

Chapters 📖

00:00 The Joy of Serving and Following God's Path

05:21 Understanding Work in the Context of Salvation

11:12 Identifying and Fulfilling Your Calling

16:58 Conclusion: Embracing Your Spiritual Journey

22:44 Finding Joy in God's Calling

29:46 Humility in Serving God

35:47 The Importance of Gratitude

43:20 The Wrath of God and Its Relevance

49:04 Understanding the Impossible with God

58:57 Black and Gray Minimalist Thanks For Watching Video.mp4

💔 Is your relationship on the edge? Most couples think of mediation only when divorce is on the table—but what if it could actually save your marriage before it’s too late?In this eye-opening episode, we explore how mediation isn't just for breakups—it's a powerful tool for rebuilding trust, improving communication, and redefining your partnership. Host Queon Wilcox sits down with expert mediator Joe Dillon to reveal how couples in crisis are using mediation to reconnect instead of separate.🔑 In this video, you’ll learn:Why therapy alone sometimes isn’t enoughHow mediators help couples communicate what they really meanThe surprising emotional impact of neutral third-party conversationsReal examples of couples who turned things around through mediationHow to start the process—before calling a lawyer👥 Who should watch this?Couples considering separation, partners who feel unheard, or anyone who wants a better way to deal with relationship conflict.📌 Don’t wait until the breaking point—discover the strategy that could save your marriage.📺 Watch next: I Lost My Vision in a Motorcycle Crash—But God Gave Me a New Mission🎧 Subscribe for real conversations on faith, parenting, resilience, and healing.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Mediocre Dads Podcast02:42 The Importance of Mediation in Divorce04:38 Joe Dillon's Background and Personal Experience07:11 Navigating Personal Experiences with Divorce14:35 The Impact of Divorce on Children17:31 Gender Dynamics in Divorce18:38 Mediation vs. Litigation in Divorce23:52 The Role of Mediators in Divorce25:37 The Emotional Journey of Marriage28:08 Personal Stories and Reflections on Love29:51 Understanding the Challenges of Marriage30:56 The Statistics Behind Divorce31:47 The Importance of Continuous Effort in Relationships37:17 The Role of Communication in Marriage39:44 The Changing Meaning of Marriage43:11 The Dilution of Commitment in Modern Relationships44:27 The Shift from Collective to Individual in Relationships45:23 Communication and Conflict in Marriage46:10 Negotiation as a Tool for Relationship Success47:48 Understanding and Supporting Each Other's Quirks51:06 Service Above Self in Relationships54:09 Recognizing Roles and Responsibilities56:01 The Importance of Open Communication56:52 Continuous Improvement in Relationships01:02:28 Finding Common Ground and Compromise01:06:17 Mediation as a Tool for Relationship HealthConnect With Joe Dillionhttps://www.equitablemediation.com/https://www.instagram.com/equitablemediation/https://www.facebook.com/equitablemediationhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/josephfdillon/ Connect with Mediocre Dads🌐www.mediocredads.net 📧Business Inquiries: [email protected]☕ Buy Me A Coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/mediocredads👕 Elevated Faith: https://bit.ly/3SNgXQ5 🎩 Dad Gang: Code (QUEON21848) 🎶⁠Bizzy Cardoza on Apple Music⁠Social Links: Website https://www.mediocredads.net/Instagram https://www.instagram.com/mediocre_dads/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/X https://www.x.com/mediocre_dadsYouTube https://www.youtube.com/@MediocreDadsPodcastSpotify https://www.open.spotify.com/show/3vHRtqyvNHdZhtQoOlzBdD?si=defb44f21ab14005 Rumble https://www.rumble.com/c/c-2576414Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/MediocreDadsDISCLAIMER: This video and description contain affiliate links, which means we may earn a small commission if you click on one of the product links. This helps support the channel and enables us to continue creating content like this. Thank you for being so supportive! 🙏

In this powerful episode of the Mediocre Dads Podcast, host Queon Wilcox sits down with Kijuan Amey, a U.S. Air Force veteran whose life took a dramatic turn after a devastating motorcycle accident that left him blind. What could have ended in despair instead became the beginning of a new mission — one built on faith, fatherhood, resilience, and recovery.Kijuan opens up about:

✅ His path from fast food jobs to the Air Force

✅ The day that changed everything — a motorcycle crash that caused vision loss

✅ Battling mental health, depression, and isolation after service

✅ The power of community support, military brotherhood, and God’s direction

✅ How faith gave him a renewed sense of purpose and calling

🎙️ Whether you're a veteran, a father, a believer, or someone who’s been through trauma, this story will move you. If you’ve ever asked “How do I find purpose after loss?” — this episode is for you.

🔔 Subscribe for real stories on faith, trauma recovery, mental health, veteran life, and Christian fatherhood.🎧 Available on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Shared Military Experience0

3:12 Kijuan's Journey to the Air Force

05:22 Challenges in Education and Career Aspirations

08:02 Transitioning from Fast Food to Military Life

10:48 Recruitment Experiences and Choices

13:22 Life in the Air Force and Career Path

16:03 Accident and Vision Loss

18:51 Reflections on Military Life and Adaptation

24:40 Honoring Legacy Through Business

25:46 Life in the Reserves and Personal Projects

27:01 Motorcycle Adventures and Safety

28:35 The Dangers of Riding

30:39 Accident Reflections and Reaction Times

32:57 Prejudices Against Motorcyclists

36:53 The Emotional Toll of an Accident

37:27 Shifting Focus from Victimhood

40:43 Dark Days and Recovery

43:31 Finding Love After Trauma

46:16 Faith and Recovery

48:10 The Impact of Faith and Family

50:52 Camaraderie and Support in Crisis

52:59 The Importance of Communication and Updates

55:47 The Power of Community and Love

01:00:29 Healing Through Relationships

01:02:04 The Value of Presence and Support

01:04:39 Reflections on Fatherhood and Life's Blessings

01:08:55 The Strength of Purpose and Resilience

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“I shouldn’t be here… but maybe my story can save someone else.”In this raw and deeply personal episode, Queon Wilcox sits down with Jason Tyler McLean, a suicide attempt survivor who turned his darkest moment into a mission to help others.Jason opens up about:His childhood trauma and years of silent painThe moment everything nearly endedHis battle with substance abuse and shameThe power of vulnerability, support systems, and recoveryHow he's now giving hope to other men who feel trapped in silenceThis isn’t just a conversation — it’s a call to action. For the men suffering in silence. For the friends who don’t know what to say. For anyone who thinks they’re alone.🔔 If you or someone you love is struggling, you're not alone.📞 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (U.S.): 988📞 Lifeline (AU): 13 11 14📞 Samaritans (UK): 116 123🧠 Chapters00:00 - Introduction03:28 - Jason’s Story: From Darkness to Light12:21 - Childhood Trauma & Mental Health23:05 - The Suicide Attempt28:50 - The Healing Process36:38 - Why Vulnerability Matters41:39 - The Reality Behind the Stats47:15 - Resilience Through Pain52:50 - Connection Changes Everything58:31 - Talking About It Saves Lives01:03:57 - Final Message: You Matter👇 Drop a comment below if this story resonated with you — your words could be what someone else needs to hear.💬 Let’s make mental health a daily conversation.#MensMentalHealth #SuicideSurvivor #MentalHealthAwareness #JasonTylerMcLean #HealingJourney #youarenotalone Connect With Jason Tyler McLeanWebsite https://www.jasontylermclean.com/ Connect with Mediocre Dads🌐www.mediocredads.net 📧Business Inquiries: [email protected]☕ Buy Me A Coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/mediocredads👕 Elevated Faith: https://bit.ly/3SNgXQ5 🎩 Dad Gang: Code (QUEON21848) 🎶⁠Bizzy Cardoza on Apple Music⁠Social Links: Website https://www.mediocredads.net/Instagram https://www.instagram.com/mediocre_dads/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/X https://www.x.com/mediocre_dadsYouTube https://www.youtube.com/@MediocreDadsPodcastSpotify https://www.open.spotify.com/show/3vHRtqyvNHdZhtQoOlzBdD?si=defb44f21ab14005 Rumble https://www.rumble.com/c/c-2576414Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/MediocreDadsDISCLAIMER: This video and description contain affiliate links, which means we may earn a small commission if you click on one of the product links. This helps support the channel and enables us to continue creating content like this. Thank you for being so supportive! 🙏

In Part 2 of this eye-opening conversation, Queon Wilcox and Abraham dig deep into the tough theological questions every believer will face:

• Is free will biblical—or just confusing?

• Why does the Old Testament still matter?

• Do Mormons and Muslims really believe in the same God?

If you’ve ever been challenged about your faith—or struggled to make sense of it yourself—this episode will ground you in truth and give you the tools to think clearly, biblically, and boldly.

▶️ Stay tuned for more conversations that equip you to speak the Word with confidence.

Chapters00:00 Exploring Free Will in Christianity15:59 The Relevance of the Old Testament22:56 Understanding God's Justice and Mercy23:14 The Nature of God's Patience and Judgment26:36 Understanding Sin and Its Consequences29:37 The Importance of the Old Testament33:30 Mormonism: A Different Gospel37:04 The Flaws in Mormon Doctrine40:31 The Nature of Jesus in Mormon Belief44:26 The Anointing of David: A Lesson in Divine Choice46:24 Understanding Faith: The Role of Works and Grace49:07 False Prophets and Gospels: A Warning from Paul50:16 Do Christians and Muslims Worship the Same God?52:41 The Nature of God: Fatherhood in Christianity vs. Islam55:06 Cherry-Picking Scripture: Misinterpretations and Misuse56:59 The Appeal of Islam: Understanding Conversion and Belief01:01:36 The Importance of Personal Study in Faith01:03:21 Conversations on Faith: The Need for Open Dialogue01:06:39 Black and Gray Minimalist Thanks For Watching Video.mp4Connect With  @SendMeApologetics  TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@send_me.ap?_t=ZT-8waMheuAnIU&_r=1Instagram https://www.instagram.com/send_me.apigsh=YzI2dm5la2xmOHVv&utm_source=qrConnect with  @MediocreDadsPodcast  🌐www.mediocredads.net 📧Business Inquiries: [email protected]☕ Buy Me A Coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/mediocredads👕 Elevated Faith: https://bit.ly/3SNgXQ5 🎩 Dad Gang: Code (QUEON21848) 🎶⁠Bizzy Cardoza on Apple Music⁠Social Links: Website https://www.mediocredads.net/Instagram https://www.instagram.com/mediocre_dads/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/X https://www.x.com/mediocre_dadsYouTube https://www.youtube.com/@MediocreDadsPodcastSpotify https://www.open.spotify.com/show/3vHRtqyvNHdZhtQoOlzBdD?si=defb44f21ab14005 Rumble https://www.rumble.com/c/c-2576414Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/MediocreDadsDISCLAIMER: This video and description contain affiliate links, which means we may earn a small commission if you click on one of the product links. This helps support the channel and enables us to continue creating content like this. Thank you for being so supportive! 🙏

In this first installment of our two-part series, Queon Wilcox welcomes Abraham, a former soldier who shares how his experiences in the military led him to seminary—and ultimately to a calling in Christian apologetics.

This is more than just a testimony. It’s a deep, thoughtful conversation about what it means to wrestle with faith intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually. Abraham discusses how his time in Afghanistan shaped his understanding of God, the challenges of seminary life, and the urgent need for believers to defend the truth of the Christian faith.

Whether you’re new to apologetics or looking to deepen your understanding of theology, this episode offers honest insight, encouragement, and tools to help you grow.

🔔 Be sure to follow the show and join us for Part 2—coming soon.

Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest02:50 Abraham's Background and Journey04:48 Challenges in Seminary and Learning Greek06:50 Understanding Apologetics10:47 The Purpose Behind Abraham's Page15:02 Experiences in Afghanistan and Spiritual Journey21:04 Returning to Faith and Personal Testimony24:42 Navigating Grief and Loss28:31 Finding Faith in Adversity34:33 The Power of Forgiveness41:13 Understanding True Happiness45:11 Faith Beyond Rituals

🎙️ “We’re Sending Teens Into Adulthood Unprepared — Here’s What They Actually Need” | Mediocre Dads Podcast

In this deeply personal episode of the Mediocre Dads Podcast, host Queon (“Q”) sits down with leadership consultant Amber Johnson for a raw and powerful conversation about what it really takes to prepare our kids for adulthood.

🔥 KEY MOMENTS:

• Amber opens up about her teenage son identifying as non-binary, and the emotional, spiritual, and relational growth that followed.

• Navigating the path to college—not just academically, but emotionally and financially.

• The real cost of unpreparedness: why emotional intelligence, humility, and communication matter more than a GPA.

• Lessons from 24 years of marriage, raising teens, and leading with love through life’s messiness.

• How leadership and parenting overlap—and why it’s okay not to have all the answers.

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Whether you're a dad trying to connect with your teenage son, a mom preparing your daughter for independence, or a parent wrestling with who your child is becoming, this conversation will challenge, encourage, and equip you.

👉 The transition to adulthood is coming. Are they ready? Are you?

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Mediocre Dads Podcast

02:30 Amber Johnson: Leadership Consultant and Parent

03:35 Emotional Intelligence in Leadership and Parenting

05:59 The Journey of Marriage: Meeting and Growing Together

09:32 Communication: The Heart of Relationships

12:16 Navigating Young Marriages and Military Life

20:33 Letting Go: Parenting Young Adults

24:20 Lessons Learned: The Hard Way

25:17 Navigating Boundaries in Parenting

27:05 Lessons from Military Leadership in Parenting

32:40 The Journey of Higher Education and Personal Growth

38:19 Defining Success Beyond Academic Achievements

42:08 The Importance of Community Service and Perspective

48:39 Finding Your Path: The Journey to Leadership Consulting

52:08 Navigating Career Choices: The Pressure on Youth

53:26 Skills Development: Encouraging Exploration in Adolescents

58:18 Real Conversations: Preparing Kids for the Future

01:03:01 The Cost of Education: Making Informed Choices

01:05:37 Embracing Imperfection: The Journey of Parenting and Leadership

01:07:53 Black and Gray Minimalist Thanks For Watching Video.mp4

Connect with Mediocre Dads🌐www.mediocredads.net 📧Business Inquiries: [email protected]☕ Buy Me A Coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/mediocredads👕 Elevated Faith: https://bit.ly/3SNgXQ5 🎩 Dad Gang: Code (QUEON21848) 🎶⁠Bizzy Cardoza on Apple Music⁠Social Links: Website https://www.mediocredads.net/Instagram https://www.instagram.com/mediocre_dads/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/X https://www.x.com/mediocre_dadsYouTube https://www.youtube.com/@MediocreDadsPodcastSpotify https://www.open.spotify.com/show/3vHRtqyvNHdZhtQoOlzBdD?si=defb44f21ab14005 Rumble https://www.rumble.com/c/c-2576414Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/MediocreDadsDISCLAIMER: This video and description contain affiliate links, which means we may earn a small commission if you click on one of the product links. This helps support the channel and enables us to continue creating content like this. Thank you for being so supportive! 🙏

In this episode of the Mediocre Dads podcast, host Queon speaks with counselor and author Sabrina Trobak about the importance of mental health resources for parents and children. They discuss core beliefs, the impact of anxiety and depression on kids, and the role of parents in counseling. Sabrina emphasizes the need for connection in parenting, the significance of understanding emotions, and the balance between setting boundaries and allowing children to express their feelings. The conversation highlights the challenges parents face in navigating their children's emotional landscapes and the importance of fostering open communication.Connect with  @trobakholisticcounselling4407  https://www.trobakholistic.org/https://www.youtube.com/@trobakholisticcounselling4407https://www.facebook.com/trobakholisticcounsellinghttps://www.tiktok.com/@nge_core_beliefhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/sabrina-trobak-b-ed-m-a-c-p-r-c-c-ccs-99725127/ Connect with Mediocre Dads🌐www.mediocredads.net 📧Business Inquiries: [email protected]☕ Buy Me A Coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/mediocredads👕 Elevated Faith: https://bit.ly/3SNgXQ5 🎩 Dad Gang: Code (QUEON21848) 🎶⁠Bizzy Cardoza on Apple Music⁠Social Links: Website https://www.mediocredads.net/Instagram https://www.instagram.com/mediocre_dads/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/X https://www.x.com/mediocre_dadsYouTube https://www.youtube.com/@MediocreDadsPodcastSpotify https://www.open.spotify.com/show/3vHRtqyvNHdZhtQoOlzBdD?si=defb44f21ab14005 Rumble https://www.rumble.com/c/c-2576414Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/MediocreDadsDISCLAIMER: This video and description contain affiliate links, which means we may earn a small commission if you click on one of the product links. This helps support the channel and enables us to continue creating content like this. Thank you for being so supportive! 🙏

As protests erupt around the world, many of us are left wondering how to navigate these challenging times with our children. In this video, we explore the importance of praying with kids during protests, and how this simple yet powerful act can help them develop a courageous mindset and empowered spirit. By teaching our children to face adversity with faith, we can help them build resilience skills and a thriving mindset that will serve them well throughout their lives. Join us as we discuss the importance of community support and resilience coaching in navigating life's challenges, and how praying with kids can be a powerful tool in their mental health and spiritual growth. By making courageous choices and embracing empowerment methods, we can raise a generation of children who are equipped to navigate adversity with confidence and faith.📍 They Sent In the Troops — I Sat My Kids Down to Pray | Mediocre Dads PodcastWhen chaos erupted in the streets of Los Angeles and the National Guard was deployed, I didn’t turn to politics. I didn’t post online. I turned to my kids — and we prayed.In this episode, I talk about what it means to be a father of faith in a divided America. How do we protect our kids spiritually when the world is falling apart around us? How do we lead our homes when even we feel unsure?This isn’t about fear — it’s about fatherhood. And in a culture that wants dads to be silent, we’re speaking up.🧠 What You'll Hear in This Episode:• Why I chose prayer over panic• The real war for our kids isn’t in the streets• How to help your children interpret chaos through faith• What faithful leadership looks like in 2025• How to stand firm as a father in a divided culture🛠️ Resources & Links→ Watch next: “I Felt Like I Was Failing — Until God Reminded Me Who I Am”→ More episodes at: https://www.mediocredads.net→ Support the show: Buy Me A Coffee🙌 Let’s build up fathers who lead with courage and conviction. If this video speaks to you, don’t just watch — share it with another dad who needs it.🗣️ Comment below: How are YOU leading your family through these uncertain times?#Fatherhood #FaithInChaos #ChristianDads #NationalGuard #LAProtests #MediocreDads #BiblicalManhood #DividedAmerica #GodFirst #praywithyourkids Chapters00:00 Introduction to Current Events and Chaos05:01 Understanding the Spiritual Battle07:31 Protests and Political Chaos11:16 The Role of Parents in a Chaotic World15:48 The Importance of Prayer and Guidance20:50 Building Strong Foundations for Future Generations24:58 Spiritual Warfare and Cultural Challenges30:36 Navigating Chaos with Faith35:58 The Power of Prayer and Faith41:03 Conclusion and Call to ActionConnect with @MediocreDadsPodcast 🌐www.mediocredads.net 📧Business Inquiries: [email protected]☕ Buy Me A Coffee 👕 Elevated Faith 🎩 Dad Gang / QUEON21848 🎶⁠Bizzy Cardoza on Apple Music⁠Social Links: Website https://www.mediocredads.net/Instagram https://www.instagram.com/mediocre_dads/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/X https://www.x.com/mediocre_dadsYouTube https://www.youtube.com/@MediocreDadsPodcastSpotify https://www.open.spotify.com/show/3vHRtqyvNHdZhtQoOlzBdD?si=defb44f21ab14005 Rumble https://www.rumble.com/c/c-2576414Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/MediocreDadsConnect with Coffee with Minster Boggan 'MB' 📚 How Did We Get Here and What Does God Say About It? Vol. 1 📚 How Did We Get Here and What Does God Say About It? Vol. 2 📚 How Did We Get Here and What Does God Say About It? Vol. 3DISCLAIMER: This video and description contain affiliate links, which means we may earn a small commission if you click on one of the product links. This helps support the channel and enables us to continue creating content like this. Thank you for being so supportive! 🙏