Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

Maurice Harker explains the importance of understanding each others perspective. Failure to understand perspective can indicate not being ready to progress the relationship.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below:

http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both)

https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives)

https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/ (for husbands)

Maurice Harker explains how a talk with his son led to the idea of Red Sea parting ideas for conversation. Thinking outside the box (much like parting the Red Sea) can lead to growth and better communication in marriage repair.   To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below:

https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker explains the value of allowing each spouse to formulate their responses in conversations in order to allow the Spirit to be present. By allowing each spouse to get it wrong and then get it right communication can be edifying and uplifting. For more information on this topic please click on the links below:

https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker explains how practicing conversational skills can lead to better and more effective communication while developing more verbal intimacy. He explains the process as part of The What About Game.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below:

https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

You may be surprised to learn that the clutch and the brake can be valuable tools in developing intimacy with your spouse! Maurice Harker explains how these elements can be used to improving your communication and help marriage repair.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below:

https://lifechangingservices.online/marriage-repair/

Maurice Harker explains the What About game and how it  can help to strengthen emotional intimacy in your relationship. To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below:

http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both)

https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives)

https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/ (for husbands)

Maurice Harker explains one of the most difficult steps in developing emotional intimacy.  Knowing when to take yourself out of the conversation can go a long way toward establishing and developing a deeper connection between spouses.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the link below:

http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both)

https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives)

https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/ (for husbands)

A recent clip from our Women Marriage Repair has Maurice Harker explaining why it is so important to check where both spouses are along the path to true intimacy.  Knowing where and your spouse are in the development of your relationship can provide a clearer path to relationship repair.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below:

http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both)

https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives)

https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/ (for husbands)

Maurice Harker explains a helpful tool to keep the spirit involved in your conversations. When used correctly this tool can help with effective and more satisfactory communication. To learn more about this topic or others please click on the links below:

http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both)

https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives)

https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/ (for husbands)

Maurice Harker explains how to establish clear goals if you are unsure as to the goal of any conversation. Learning the difference between true verbal intimacy versus unilateral talking is crucial to being effective in any communication.  To learn more about this topic and others please click on the links below:

4http://www.lazaruslectures.com/ (For both)

https://www.lifechangingservices.org/wmrw/ (for wives)

https://www.lifechangingservices.org/mmrw/ (for husbands)