Join us for a throwback all the way back from the first year of our podcast! Join Dustin, Pastor Cary, and Lance Schmidt as they talk about the joys, difficulties and blessing of working in business or ministry with your family.

Timestamps:

·  2:00 Steady Strength

·  4:40 Overdrive v Underdrive

·  11:40 Being intentional with your kids

·  24:20 Following God’s will

·  27:35 Ministering with your child

·  31:42 Working with your dad

·  37:00 Balancing work and family

·  45:50 Beginning the journey of working together with family

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Quotable Quotes:

• “Success is obedience to Jesus, like period. If I'm disobeying him, I'm failing. And if I'm obeying him, I'm succeeding, regardless of what the results look like.” -Cary Schmidt

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Resources

·  Pastor Cary’s New Book “Steady Strength” https://amzn.to/46nMwTX

·  “Stop Trying” by Cary Schmidt https://amzn.to/47hAdtL

·  “First Things First” by Stephen Covey https://amzn.to/3R85OZi

·  Emmanuel Worship https://ebcnewington.com/emmanuel-worship/

·  Connect with Pastor Cary Schmidt! https://caryschmidt.com

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, host Luke Sorensen dives into the profound call of living fully for God, examining both the joy and the cost of discipleship. Luke unpacks what it means to follow Christ with sacrifice, obedience, and intentionality, urging men to reflect on their daily walk and the legacy they leave behind.

Drawing from biblical truths and personal experiences, he challenges listeners to embrace their God-given roles as leaders, servants, and disciple-makers. The conversation highlights the importance of living with eternal perspective, investing in others, and finding joy in obedience to Christ.

If you’ve ever wondered what it really takes to live as a man after God’s heart, this episode will equip and encourage you to pursue Christ passionately and lead in a way that impacts generations to come.

🧭 Key Takeaways

• Every man ends up living for something.
• The cost of following Jesus is costly, but the reward is eternal.
• We are called to be full-time Christians, regardless of our job titles.
• Living for Christ means being a living sacrifice.
• Only what is done for Christ will last.
• Consider the legacy you will leave behind.
• Daily surrender is essential for a fulfilling Christian life.
• Selflessness can lead to profound impact on others.
• Joy is found in obedience and serving others.
• Count the cost of your choices and their eternal impact.

🕐 Time Stamps
 1:57 Living for God: The Cost of Discipleship
 7:00 Legacy and Impact: Considering the Cost
 12:57 The Call to Surrender and Serve
 18:40 Living Sacrificially: The Joy of Obedience
 24:57 Selflessness and Sacrifice: A Call to Action
 32:10 Daily Surrender: Living for Others
 36:49 Reflection and Conclusion: Counting the Cost

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In this Monday Bible Study episode of Men After God, host Adrian Ferrari unpacks the wisdom of Proverbs to show how true strength is found not in force or harsh words, but in gentle strength rooted in God’s truth. Adrian highlights the power of communication, the necessity of humility, and the pursuit of righteousness as essential qualities of biblical manhood.

Listeners will gain practical insights on how to tame the tongue, seek wise counsel, and embrace correction with a teachable spirit. The episode also encourages men to prioritize their relationship with God, lead their families with grace, and live authentically as examples of Christ-like strength.

If you want to grow as a man of valor, wisdom, and spiritual discipline, this conversation will challenge and equip you to lead with both courage and gentleness.

🧭 Key Takeaways

• Winning an argument can lead to losing connection.
• A gentle answer is more powerful than harsh words.
• Living for God's approval is more important than others'.
• Your tone can influence the atmosphere at home.
• Success is achieved through community and counsel.
• Choosing quality over quantity leads to a more fulfilling life.
• God hears the prayers of the righteous.
• Humility is essential for honor and growth.
• Pursuing righteousness is a continuous journey.
• Men are called to be examples of faith and strength.

🕐 Time Stamps

3:31 Winning Arguments Without Losing Connection
 4:24 Understanding Proverbs for Skillful Living
 5:46 Taming the Tongue: The Power of Words
 12:31 Living Before the Lord, Not the Crowd
 16:43 Carrying a Cheerful Heart
 21:01 Seeking Counsel and Embracing Correction
 25:24 Choosing Better Over More
 28:40 The Importance of Humility and Prayer
 29:32 Conclusion: Pursuing Righteousness Together

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In this special episode of the Men After God podcast, host Luke Sorensen reflects on the tragic passing of Charlie Kirk, honoring his legacy of faith, courage, and conviction. Luke explores the emotional weight of grief and the sobering reminder that life is fragile, yet deeply meaningful when lived for Christ.

This heartfelt tribute challenges Christian men to consider the kind of legacy they are leaving behind. Drawing from biblical truth, Luke emphasizes the importance of living with daily obedience, walking in the sovereignty of God, and leading families with unwavering faith.

In the face of tragedy, this episode serves as both a reflection and a call to action: to live purposefully, stand firm in truth, and point others to Jesus through the lives we lead.

🧭 Key Takeaways

• Charlie Kirk's legacy is a testament to living for Christ.
• Emotional responses to tragedy can be both justified and necessary.
• Legacy is built through daily obedience and faithfulness.
• Christian men are called to lead and respond to injustice.
• Living with eternity in mind shapes our daily choices.
• The sovereignty of God remains intact despite chaos.
• Daily obedience is essential in honoring those who have passed.
• We must choose to live boldly and with purpose.
• Our actions today impact the legacy we leave behind.
• Eternity is real, and our lives should reflect that truth.

🕐 Time Stamps
 1:28 Honoring Charlie Kirk's Legacy
 4:14 Emotional Responses to Tragedy
 8:29 Living with Purpose and Faith
 12:50 The Call to Action for Christian Men
 17:04 Legacy and Daily Choices
 21:02 The Sovereignty of God and Our Response
 25:25 Living with Eternity in Mind
 30:20 The Master’s Masterpiece and Conclusion

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In this deeply personal episode of the Men After God podcast, hosts Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen tackle the often-overlooked reality of burnout among Christian men. Drawing from personal experiences, Dustin and Luke share practical insights on how to recognize the warning signs of burnout, develop emotional intelligence, and make intentional choices that prioritize faith, family, and long-term health.

Dustin also opens up about his own journey and why he has chosen to step back from the Men After God podcast for a short season in order to focus on his family. Together, the hosts discuss the importance of community support, the wisdom of saying no, and the spiritual strength found in Scripture when life feels overwhelming.

This candid conversation offers encouragement, biblical perspective, and practical tools for men who feel the weight of burnout pressing in.

🧭 Key Takeaways

• Recognizing the signs of burnout is crucial for mental health.
• It's okay to take a step back from responsibilities.
• Emotional intelligence plays a key role in preventing burnout.
• Community support is vital during challenging times.
• Prioritizing family is essential for overall well-being.
• Scripture can provide comfort and guidance during burnout.
• It's important to reach out to friends and check on them.
• Self-care is not selfish; it's necessary for health.
• You can do something uncomfortable when it's the right thing to do.
• Burnout can affect those around you before it affects you. 

🕐 Time Stamps

0:28 Personal Experiences with Burnout
 4:06 Recognizing the Need to Step Back
 5:52 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence
 8:01 Identifying Signs of Burnout
 18:00 The Decision to Take a Break
 22:26 Team Dynamics and Support
 27:11 Understanding Burnout and Its Stigma
 28:14 The Hidden Impact of Burnout
 31:31 Recognizing and Addressing Burnout
 38:59 Scriptural Insights for Navigating Seasons
 47:54 The Importance of Community Support
 49:19 Taking Action: Surrender and Support

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In this Men After God Monday Bible Study, host Adrian Ferrari unpacks the meaning of true biblical strength through Proverbs 15. Unlike the world’s definition of power—measured by physical might or bravado—Scripture points men toward gentleness, wisdom, and self-control as the real markers of strength.

Adrian challenges listeners to consider the weight of their words and the condition of their hearts, emphasizing the need to accept correction with humility and to walk in joy even when life brings adversity. This episode offers practical, faith-centered steps for cultivating resilience, wisdom, and lasting spiritual strength that honors God and transforms daily life.

🧭 Key Takeaways

• True strength is not measured by physical power.
• Gentleness is a form of strength, not weakness.
• Your words reflect the condition of your heart.
• Spiritual maturity cannot be faked permanently.
• Love influences how we communicate with others.
• Seeking correction is a sign of wisdom.
• Joy should be anchored in God's character, not circumstances.
• What you consume mentally affects your speech and actions.
• Real strength involves self-control and restraint.
• Feedback from others is essential for personal growth.

🕐 Time Stamps

0:30 The Essence of True Strength
 3:22 Gentleness as Strength
 6:58 The Heart Behind Words
 11:59 The Importance of Correction
 15:07 Finding Joy in Righteousness
 18:43 Practical Steps for Growth

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In today's episode of the Men After God podcast, host Luke Sorensen takes a deep dive into the realities of trauma, shame, and identity through a biblical lens. He unpacks the hidden lies men often believe about themselves and shows how unresolved shame can quietly damage both mental health and relationships.

Luke highlights the freedom that comes through confession, community, and the healing love of God, reminding men that their identity is not defined by past failures but by their position in Christ. This conversation offers practical encouragement for those ready to reject destructive lies and embrace their true calling as sons of God.

🧭 Key Takeaways

• Trauma is often not discussed openly, especially among men.
• Unresolved shame can lead to depression, addiction, and suicide.
• Shame is not an emotion; it is the root of many negative emotions.
• Guilt says 'I made a mistake,' while shame says 'I am the mistake.'
• Men often believe lies about their identity based on their actions.
• The opinions of others can shape our self-perception and identity.
• Confession and community are vital in overcoming shame.
• You are not beyond repair; God loves you as you are.
• Your identity in Christ is not defined by your past actions.
• Freedom in Christ allows us to live without the burden of shame.

🕐 Time Stamps

3:21 Understanding Shame and Its Impact
 6:20 The Lies Men Believe About Their Identity
 21:18 The Role of Shame in Personal Identity
 18:34 The Power of Words and Affirmation
 21:49 Breaking the Cycle of Negative Communication
 24:48 Renewing the Mind: The Power of Scripture
 27:01 Overcoming Shame: You Are Not Beyond Repair
 32:45 The Transformation of Peter: From Shame to Purpose
 39:06 Living in Freedom: Embracing Your Identity in Christ

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In this Monday Bible Study episode of the Men After God podcast, Adrian Ferrari unpacks the themes of wisdom, caution, and the fear of the Lord as essential foundations of biblical manhood. Drawing from Proverbs 14, Adrian highlights the contrast between wise and foolish behavior, showing how godly men are called to lead with both humility and strength.

This conversation challenges men to make thoughtful decisions, understand personal triggers, and live authentically in alignment with God’s will. By learning to fear the Lord, men can guard their steps, avoid destructive patterns, and build a life marked by integrity, discernment, and lasting influence.

If you want to grow in wisdom and lead your home with humility and strength, this episode will equip and encourage you to walk closely with God.

🧭 Key Takeaways:

• Fear God, live wise, and don't fake it.
• The wise are cautious and avoid danger.
• A wise man slows down and counts the cost.
• A godly man fears missing someone, not something.
• God is not impressed with your righteous rants.
• A wise man knows his triggers and surrenders them to God.
• Without God, our flesh wins.
• The fear of the Lord is a life-giving fountain.
• You can't fake the fruit of wisdom.
• Reverence for God is strength submitted.

🕐 Time Stamps

8:33 The Importance of Caution and Decision-Making
 15:33 Understanding the Fear of the Lord
 21:33 Living with Wisdom and Strength

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In this Monday Bible Study episode of the Men After God podcast, Adrian Ferrari walks through Proverbs 14 to unpack the critical themes of pride, leadership, and the spiritual presence of men in the home. With biblical clarity and practical insight, Adrian challenges men to be builders—not breakers—within their families.

This powerful study emphasizes the destructive nature of unchecked pride and the essential role of humility and accountability in spiritual leadership. Adrian encourages listeners to examine how their words, actions, and attitudes impact their families and to commit to cultivating a Christ-centered home marked by wisdom, love, and integrity.

Whether you're a husband, father, or future leader, this episode will inspire you to step up, lean into God’s guidance, and lead your home with purpose and presence.

🧭 Key Takeaways:

• Pride can hinder spiritual growth and leadership.
• Every person has the choice to build or break their home.
• Spiritual presence is crucial for effective leadership in the family.
• Humility is essential for receiving God's guidance.
• Discipleship requires accountability and community support.
• Messiness in life often indicates meaningful engagement.
• God values faithful builders over perfect homes.
• Listening to God's word is vital for personal growth.
• Men should actively seek to lead their families spiritually.
• Action steps include prayer, scripture reading, and seeking accountability.

🕐 Time Stamps
 3:12 Building vs. Breaking: The Role of Leadership in the Home
 6:30 The Importance of Spiritual Presence and Leadership
 11:15 The Dangers of Pride and the Need for Humility
 18:27 Navigating Messiness in Leadership and Life
 26:28 Action Steps for Spiritual Growth and Accountability

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In this deeply honest episode of the Men After God podcast, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen confront the often-ignored topic of male trauma and the coping mechanisms men use to mask their pain. From emotional shutdown to explosive behavior, they unpack how trauma distorts spiritual growth—and how the gospel offers a path to real healing.

Through biblical insight and real-life application, Dustin and Luke explore the spiritual consequences of unresolved pain and the need for repentance and inner healing. This conversation calls men to acknowledge their brokenness, reject shame, and embrace the restorative power of Christ.

With practical advice for both ministry leaders and everyday men, this episode equips listeners to break free from cycles of dysfunction and walk in emotional wholeness and spiritual strength.

🧭 Key Takeaways:

Men often use coping mechanisms to avoid dealing with trauma.

• Coping mechanisms can manifest as addictions or disobedience.
•  Men often use coping mechanisms to avoid dealing with trauma.
• Understanding one's past is crucial for emotional healing.
• Spiritual truths can guide men in overcoming their struggles.
• Repentance begins with recognizing the need for change.
• Coping mechanisms can strain relationships with loved ones.
• The gospel offers hope and healing for emotional wounds.
• Ministry leaders play a vital role in supporting men.
• Asking questions can help uncover underlying issues.
• Transformation requires both acceptance and action.

🕐 Time Stamps

5:48 Spiritual Insights on Coping and Sin
 12:33 Identifying and Confronting Coping Mechanisms
 18:21 The Journey of Repentance and Transformation
 23:19 The Beauty of Brokenness and Healing
 24:30 Understanding Addictions and Coping Mechanisms
 27:30 Embracing Emotional Injuries and Healing
 33:25 The Role of Ministry Leaders in Healing
 39:36 The Gospel's Power in Transformation

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