In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Betty Martin, author of

The Art of Receiving and Giving and creator of The Wheel of Consent — one of the most influential frameworks in the world of intimacy, boundaries, and embodied communication.

The Wheel of Consent breaks human interaction into four quadrants — Taking, Serving, Accepting, and Allowing — and reveals the hidden dynamics underneath every moment of touch.

And for men… this conversation is vital.

We explore why so many men are touch-starved, cut off from healthy platonic touch, shamed out of softness, and pressured to only receive physical connection from sexual partners. This cultural conditioning leaves men isolated, dysregulated, and confused about what they actually want — and how to ask for it.

Dr. Betty and I dive into:

• The problem of platonic touch between men made “wrong” in North America

• The pressure men put on romantic partners to meet all touch needs

• The four quadrants of The Wheel of Consent — and the unique challenges men face in each

• How practicing “Taking” consciously can transform your confidence

• The life-changing power of speaking your desires clearly, out loud

I share my own experiences practicing the Wheel — in romantic relationships and in safe, platonic containers — and how profoundly it’s reshaped the way I touch, communicate, receive, and understand the energy behind my desires.

If you want healthier boundaries, better sex, deeper intimacy, clearer communication, and more ease in your body… this is a must-listen.

The Wheel of Consent can change your life if you let it.

Tune in, take notes, and start practicing. ✨

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What is Tantra, really?
In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Leola Watkins—best-selling author of Sacred Sex Ed, host of the Talk Tantra to Me podcast, and co-creator of Tantra Love and Tantra Transformation Retreats—to explore how conscious sexuality can lead to deep personal freedom and expansion.

Leola offers the best definition of Tantra I’ve ever heard. We dive into:
🌀 The four types of sex—and how each one shapes your experience of intimacy
🔥 The difference between pleasure that leads to stagnation and pleasure that leads to transformation
💡 How men can bring more intention and presence into their sexual relationships
💓 Why sex is one of the most direct paths to liberation and spiritual expansion
🌹 How to shift from using sex as release to experiencing it as revelation

🎧 Listen to the full episode now—and discover how to transform your relationship with pleasure, power, and presence.

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📲 Instagram: @talktantratome
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What does it really mean to be dominant—in life, in energy, and in presence?

In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Justin Gottlieb—also known as @tantralovecoach—a sexual freedom coach and facilitator of tantra massage and retreats. Together, we explore how to Dom your life—to lead yourself and others with grounded strength, clarity, and integrity.

We dive into:
🗣️ Our word as bond—and how integrity is the foundation of power
💭 Thoughts as currency—why your mental energy matters more than money
⚡ How to cultivate dominance without domination
🧭 The difference between inflated and deflated (often labeled “toxic”) masculinity
🔥 Attributes of a conscious Dom: assertiveness, clarity, discernment, penetration, and groundedness
💫 Building the inner structure that allows you to command your life—and your energy—with presence

This episode is a masterclass in masculine embodiment and conscious power.

🎧 Listen now and learn how to live, lead, and love as the Dom of your own life.

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How can men approach women in a way that feels grounded, confident, and respectful?
And what does it take to truly master our sexual energy—not just for sex, but for life itself?

In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Jayde Alexandra, a feminine embodiment mentor and coach, for a powerful conversation about desire, attraction, and evolution through relationship.

We dive into:
🔥 How to approach attractive women from authenticity, not performance
💬 Why practicing communication around desire is essential—and what to do when a woman isn’t open to your approach
💔 The hidden roots of sexual shame in both men and women
⚡ The importance of men mastering their sexual energy and learning to hold it consciously
🌹 How relationships are not obstacles but portals—sacred spaces that mirror our growth and support our evolution

This conversation is real, practical, and deeply inspiring.
Whether you’re navigating dating, deep partnership, or your own inner relationship with desire, this episode will expand your understanding of what it means to love and lead with awareness.

🎧 Listen now and learn how attraction, honesty, and surrender can transform your path as a man.

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What’s it like to grow up as a man in Canada, navigating sex, shame, rebellion, and relationships?

In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Raven, a Canadian man sharing his raw experiences and reflections. Together, we explore the universal challenges—and uniquely Canadian perspectives—on sexuality and manhood.

We dive into:
⚡ The awkwardness and confusion of spontaneous erections as teenagers
🙏 How religion offered only “no sex until marriage” but never gave the tools to deal with real, animal desire
😈 The rebellion of adolescence—trying to figure out sex while pretending to know more than we did
💔 Early relationships marked by cheating and betrayal, and how they shaped trust moving forward
🌀 The struggle with anxious attachment and how early wounds carry into adult intimacy
🔍 The unspoken realities most men face but rarely talk about

This episode is honest, vulnerable, and packed with insights about how culture, religion, and experience shape men’s sexuality across generations and geographies.

🎧 Listen now to hear Raven’s story—and see just how much of it mirrors your own.

We’ve made nudity so complicated.
Sexualized. Shamed. Hidden away.

But in nature? Everything is nude. No hiding. No judgment. No shame.

In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Kerry Kott, known as Nature Is Always Nude on Instagram, to explore the human-made complexities of nudity—and the deep medicine of returning to it.

We dive into:
🌱 Why being nude is the most natural expression of being human
💔 How culture has twisted nudity into something messy and shameful
🌸 The nude retreats Kerry leads with women, and the healing that unfolds there
🔥 The importance of de-sexualizing nudity and learning to feel safe in our own skin
🪞 How being naked reveals the voices of shame, judgment, and “not enough”—and how to listen to them with compassion

At the end of our conversation, I opened up about something I’ve never shared publicly before—revealed through the power of this dialogue.

This episode is an invitation to strip back the layers of shame and remember what it means to be human, whole, and free.

🎧 Listen now and discover the potency of nudity as medicine.

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📘 Facebook: facebook.com/natureisalwaysnude
📸 Instagram: @natureisalwaysnude

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What happens when you dedicate seven years of your life to uncovering the truth about sex?

In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Alex Liu, the filmmaker behind the groundbreaking documentary A Sexplanation. His mission: to confront shame, take responsibility for a lack of sexual education, and bring honesty back into how we talk about sex.

We dive into:
🙏 The impact of religion on sexuality and shame
📚 The cost of growing up uneducated about sex—and how that continues to affect men today
👀 Alex’s bold visit to Pornhub headquarters to ask what they really know about our viewing habits
💡 Why shame is one of the biggest barriers to sexual health, intimacy, and confidence
🔥 What it takes to move beyond silence and create a culture of openness

This conversation is raw, thought-provoking, and absolutely packed with insights.

If you’ve ever felt the weight of sexual shame or the confusion of not being taught the truth—this is a must-listen episode.

🎧 Click play and join us in this eye-opening conversation about sex, shame, and freedom.

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Sexplanation - https://www.herraproductions.com/a-sexplanation

In this episode of Men and Sex, I’m joined by Lona—a sexual bliss coach and neo-tantra teacher—for a deep conversation about roles, polarity, and stepping into more assertive, embodied energy as men.

We dive into:
🎭 The power of playing with roles in the bedroom—specifically D-D-L-G (Daddy Dom / Little Girl) dynamics
📚 Why No More Mr. Nice Guy struck such a chord with men, and how we’re now living in an era where many recoil from masculinity altogether
⚡ How exploring the Dom or Daddy role can help men reclaim healthy masculine traits like assertiveness, leadership, and presence
💓 Why dominance doesn’t mean harshness—it can be caring, nurturing, and deeply connected
🌹 How polarity in relationships generates energy that benefits both partners when practiced consciously

Both Lona and I share our personal experiences with these dynamics, offering stories, insights, and practical advice for men ready to step into stronger, more confident roles—without falling into manipulation or toxic patterns.

This episode is about learning how to embody strength with tenderness, clarity with care, and power with devotion.

🎧 Listen now to explore how role-play, polarity, and presence can transform your sex life and your relationships.

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📲 Instagram: @lonateachesbliss
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What happens when you grow up in a culture that almost never talks about sex?

In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with RD, a 21-year-old man from Ukraine, to hear his raw and unfiltered story. This is part of my series interviewing men across the world to uncover the common threads in how we were shaped around sexuality.

We talk about:
🇺🇦 Growing up in a post-Soviet culture where “no one was ever having sex” was the running joke
🛑 The silence and shame around sex—and how it shaped identity and relationships
📺 Being exposed to porn at just 6 years old and the impact on desire, intimacy, and expectations
🌐 What it’s like to grow up in a generation where access to porn and sexual content is instant and constant
⚡ The fear of homophobia and how it shaped his early experiences

This episode is raw, eye-opening, and a reminder that no matter where we come from—our stories around sex carry striking similarities.

🎧 Listen now and hear what the next generation of men is really facing.

Most men have never been taught how to truly touch themselves—let alone how to touch a partner.
And it shows.

In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down again with Victoria Angel Heart to explore:
💔 The difference between genuine giving and manipulation disguised as generosity
⚡ How rushing to the finish or “taking” without awareness erodes connection
🛏️ Why your self-pleasure practice is the training ground for every touch you share with someone else
💓 The power of devotion—bringing reverence and presence into how you touch your own body
🧘‍♂️ How to fill your own cup so you’re not starving for connection or pleasure from others

I share my own experiences of where I’ve fallen into these patterns, and Victoria brings insight from a woman’s perspective—on what it feels like to receive from a man who is truly present vs. one who is just trying to get something.

Every time you touch your body, you’re programming how you touch others. This episode is about making that programming conscious—so your touch creates connection, not distance.

🎧 Listen now and learn how to rewire your relationship with your own pleasure.

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