The truth is men face trauma and abuse. The next truth is that it is hardly talked about. There are hardly any spaces for men to speak about the hardships they have faced. We can not heal or integrate what we do not reveal. On this episode we dive deep into reclaiming sexuality on our terms. As the men we are today. Breaking through the poor programming we faced as young men.

The struggles of growing up in an evangelical family are real. The mind games a man has to make his way through to have a healthy relationship with sexuality are no joke. This episode is one of my favorites. We tackle the beliefs that arise - I cant trust myself, I am bad - We talk about the mind and how it makes up stories about us based upon how the world has made sexuality so taboo.

In this episode we dive into the challenges young boys face in a world that doesn't set them up for success. A world where we are just a few flicks from seeing some gnarly shit online. We hear about this man's unique experience of having a family that was more sexually active than him. Buckle up, this is a good one.

This episode is for heterosexual men that grew up with a mother that disciplined them. Lets take a deep look at the top three ways this may show up with how you relate with your romantic partners as an adult.

How do we come back into our power when our mothers at one point acted like a DOM?

On this episode I drop into a discussion with Blaze. He works with individuals, couples, and even groups with a focus on sexual health.

He facilitates "squirtshops" where he teaches in a group setting how to get women to squirt.

This is one of my favorite episodes thus far.

Definitely worth a listen.

We also talk real life experiences such as what wounds he had to face to have a healthier relationship with sexuality.

In this episode the focus is on how we many of us are using sexuality and ejaculation to self regulate.

I discuss ow that was created as a pattern.

And what we can do to either consciously use it for soothing, or start to choose something different.

Conscious choice is what makes a man POWERFUL.

I sat down with Mr. Wolf in person and we went deep. We talked about the early impacts of porn. An experience that left him very confused and shaped his life and his relationship to sex. We talked about addiction. And we talked about the way forward into new ways of being.

You don't want to miss this one.

In this episode the guest shared about growing up with validation for being sexual. How this turned into porn addiction. How it presented challenges for committed relationships. And how he had to find himself within other peoples ideas of what a mixed race man should be.

Most men see porn too young when their brains have no idea what to do with that much information. It is overstimulating. It is too much for the nervous system.

How might this impact the rest of our lives and our relationship with sex?

Most men grew up hiding their sexuality and continue to do so as adults. Communication is lacking. It can even lead to ED and premature ejaculation.

On this episode we talk about how most men had to hide what they were doing and this creates anxiety.