On this episode of Men Don't Know Podcast, Chris and the crew call up some friends to find out: are appreciation posts on social media actually necessary in a relationship?

Does your partner need to publicly show you love online, or should appreciation stay between the two of you? If they never post you, does that mean anything? And when does an appreciation post go from being genuine to feeling like it's just for show?

The guys get different perspectives from both men and women on social media, validation, relationship expectations, and whether public appreciation really matters.

Would you be bothered if your partner never posted you?

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When does "we're talking" officially turn into a relationship?

On this episode of Men Don't Know Podcast, Chris and Koi call up a few friends to ask a question that causes way more confusion than it probably should: Do you actually have to ask someone to be your girlfriend or boyfriend?

If you're talking every day, spending weekends together, sleeping together, meeting friends and family, and basically acting like a couple… are you already in a relationship? Or does someone still need to officially say, "Will you be my girlfriend?"

We get different perspectives on relationship titles, exclusivity, situationships, assumptions, and whether modern dating has made "making it official" more complicated than ever.

At what point do you believe two people officially become a couple?

CAN YOU USE AI TO TALK TO SOMEONE YOU'RE DATING?

AI is officially entering the dating game.

On this episode of Men Don't Know Podcast, Chris & the boys call up some friends to find out whether using AI to help you text someone you're dating is smart… or just plain weird.

Is it okay to use AI to come up with the perfect response? What happens when the person you're dating realizes those smooth messages weren't really coming from you? And does using AI make dating easier—or make genuine connection even harder?

The guys break down where the line should be between getting a little help and letting AI basically date for you.

Callers: Bhagya and CJ Pitts.

Would you care if the person you were dating used AI to text you?

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"If they wanted to, they would." But is that actually true?

Chris and Koi break down one of the most repeated pieces of modern dating advice and ask whether it helps people recognize low effort—or causes them to walk away from good relationships too quickly.

Can someone really want you and still be inconsistent? Does being busy count as a valid excuse? And if you constantly have to question how someone feels, does the reason even matter?

This episode gets into effort, mixed signals, communication, expectations, and the difference between wanting someone and actually choosing them.

What happens after the affair is discovered?

On this episode of Men Don't Know Podcast, Chris and Tay call their friends Sara and Jenny to talk about one of the hardest relationship questions there is: Can a relationship really survive infidelity?

They break down why some people stay, why others leave, whether trust can ever fully come back, and the statistics behind couples who remain together after cheating.

Is staying a sign of strength—or are you just delaying the inevitable? Can you forgive someone and still never trust them the same way again? And if you decide to stay, do you eventually have to stop punishing your partner for what happened?

It's an honest conversation about betrayal, forgiveness, love, and what happens after trust gets broken.

DATE 1 TURN-OFFS: WHAT MAKES A MAN QUESTION YOU?

On this episode of Men Don't Know, Chris and Tay sit down for a one-on-one conversation about the little things that can completely change how a man feels on a first date.

From being rude to the waiter, talking too much about an ex, constantly being on the phone, asking too many questions about money, having too many male "best friends," or simply saying one thing that makes a man think, "I don't know about this one…"

Chris and Tay break down the difference between a simple turn-off and a real red flag, and ask whether men are sometimes too judgmental too quickly.

They also get into:

• What can instantly kill Date 2

• How much talking about an ex is too much

• Whether being overly focused on money is a red flag

• Why men notice how women treat other people

• The difference between attraction and relationship potential

• What men will overlook when they're really attracted to someone

• First-date behavior that makes a man question long-term compatibility

Sometimes the first date goes perfectly.

And sometimes one sentence changes everything.

What can someone do on Date 1 that immediately makes you question Date 2?

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FAKE 49ER? 26 WOMEN, $1.3 MILLION & ONE ALLEGED SCAM

On this episode of Men Don't Know, Chris and Tay break down the wild allegations surrounding a man accused of posing as a San Francisco 49ers player and wealthy investor while allegedly scamming multiple women out of more than $1.3 million.

But this conversation goes way beyond one headline.

Chris and Tay call up two Homegirls to ask the bigger question: How does a woman get convinced that the man she's dating is someone he's not? They talk dating apps, fake lifestyles, money, trust, social media, love bombing, investment scams, ignored red flags, and how far someone can go before the truth finally starts to show.

Could this happen to someone you know? Could it happen to you?

Disclaimer: The individuals discussed in this episode have been accused of criminal conduct, and the allegations remain unproven unless and until established in court.

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ARE COUPLES IN LOVE OR CREATING CONTENT?

Is the relationship real… or are they just really good at making Reels? 👀

On this episode of Men Don't Know, Chris and the boys call up some friends to find out if couples today are actually falling in love—or falling in love with the attention their relationship gets online.

From staged date nights and couple goals to matching outfits, relationship pranks, and posting every romantic moment for likes… when does sharing your relationship turn into performing your relationship?

Would some couples even stay together if nobody was watching?

We're talking REAL LOVE vs. CONTENT LOVE—and the answers might have you looking at your favorite internet couples a little differently.

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WHAT'S WORSE: BEING SINGLE FOREVER OR SETTLING?

Would you rather spend the rest of your life single… or settle for someone you know isn't really the one?

On this episode of Men Don't Know, Chris and the boys call up a bunch of friends to settle the debate: What's worse—being single forever or settling just so you don't have to be alone?

Is being alone really worse than being with the wrong person? How much should you compromise in a relationship? And at what point does "being realistic" turn into straight-up settling?

The answers get real, hilarious, and definitely divided.

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When you start dating someone who has children, when is the right time to meet the kids?

On this episode of Men Don't Know, Chris sits down with Jess to talk about this after seeing the conversation surrounding Kim Kardashian and Lewis Hamilton's tropical family vacation.

That story opened up a much bigger dating question: How serious should a relationship be before you introduce someone to your children?

Chris and Jess get into whether there should be a specific timeline, if meeting the kids means the relationship has officially gotten serious, whether vacations are too much too soon, and how much a parent should consider their children before bringing someone new into their lives.

They also flip the conversation around: If you're dating someone with kids, when should YOU feel comfortable meeting them?

Is it three months? Six months? A year? Or is every relationship different?

And once you've met the kids… does that change the expectations of the relationship?

Chris and Jess have two different perspectives, and this one gets interesting.

When do YOU think someone you're dating should meet your kids?

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