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Women don't fall for confidence. They fall for a man who has his life under control.
Theo Ginting was a drug addict. Then he became a professional fighter. Then an MMA champion.
Today he's a gym owner, entrepreneur, father and fighter coach in Bali. He didn't get there through motivation. He got there through structure.
In this episode of Men of Structure, Theo and I get into:
- How he rebuilt his life from rock bottom
- The sacrifices that separate champions from everyone else
- The setbacks that expose your real character
- Fatherhood, responsibility, business and identity
- Why motivation fades and structure doesn't
His advice is blunt: stop crying, get up, and do something.
Here's the twist most men miss. A man with no structure is unpredictable, distracted and easy to ignore. A man with structure has a routine, a standard and a direction. That reads as strength, safety and status before he says a word. That's what's attractive.
You don't need a better pickup line. You need a better foundation.
And Theo agreed with my philosophy:
STRUCTURE CREATES FREEDOM.
Freedom with women, with money, and with your own mind.
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Tech guy, do you want to become a Man of Structure to get the girls you really want?
Book a call with me or join the Men of Structure community through the links below.
https://calendly.com/theaxellionel/theignitionlounge
Get my books and start building your iron identity with structure so to get the girls you want
https://axellionel.thrivecart.com/iron-structure/
Join Men of Structure community:
https://www.skool.com/men-of-structure-1933/about
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Connect with Theo:
Instagram: @theodorusginting
Theo YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoTajI-CWw3FiJ3DLDeCWuw
His Gym in Bali: https://lionsmmabali.com/
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#MenOfStructure #TheoGinting #MMA #Mindset #SelfImprovement #AxelLionel #IronIdentity #getthegirlbybeingiron
You handle money. You should handle women too. The right ones. I help ambitious men land dates with women worth their time — in 90 days, or your money back.
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What does it take to rebuild your life from rock bottom and become a champion?
In this episode of Men of Structure, I sit down with Theo Ginting — former MMA champion, gym owner, entrepreneur, and fighter coach based in Bali.
Theo shares his journey from battling drug addiction to becoming a professional fighter and eventually an MMA champion. We discuss the sacrifices required to compete at the highest level, the setbacks that test your character, and what it really takes to build a successful life.
We also explore fatherhood, responsibility, business, identity, and why becoming a better man requires more than motivation.
His advice is simple: stop crying, get up, and do something.
If you're ready to take responsibility for your life and become a stronger, more structured man, this episode is for you.
AND HE TOO LOVED MY PHILOSOPHY OF:
STRUCTURE CREATES FREEDOM
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Tech guy, do you want to become a Man of Structure to get the girls you really want?
Book a call with me or join the Men of Structure community through the links below.
https://calendly.com/theaxellionel/theignitionlounge
Get my books and start building your iron identity with structure so to get the girls you want
https://axellionel.thrivecart.com/iron-structure/
Join Men of Structure community:
https://www.skool.com/men-of-structure-1933/about
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Connect with Theo:
Instagram: @theodorusginting
Theo YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoTajI-CWw3FiJ3DLDeCWuw
His Gym in Bali: https://lionsmmabali.com/
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#MenOfStructure #TheoGinting #MMA #Mindset #SelfImprovement #AxelLionel #IronIdentity #getthegirlbybeingiron
You handle money. You should handle women too. The right ones. I help ambitious men land dates with women worth their time — in 90 days, or your money back.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Attract the women you really want by becoming The Man, with your iron identity
Lets talk, if you find a place, and then wake up without that annoying problem:
https://calendly.com/theaxellionel/theignitionlounge
Join Men Of Structure:
https://www.skool.com/men-of-structure-1933/about
Get my book and unstuck yourself:
https://axellionel.thrivecart.com/iron-structure/
You handle money. You should handle women too. The right ones. I help ambitious men land dates with women worth their time — in 90 days, or your money back.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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It's amazing how you can listen to stuff and watch stuff and not even notice you are reprogramming yourself in being g @ y. feminine, weak small, emotional.
Everyone has emotions, but you have to learn to control it.
First step, stop listening to garbage like "I'm all yours, I think about you all day, I can't live without you"
what?
You can't live without a chick? are you really that g @ y
c mon man, man up.
Control.
Step by step.
Today start "not needing music". Especially the girly feminine garbage.
Gentlemen,
Axel
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Attract the women you really want by becoming The Man.
Join Men Of Structure:
https://www.skool.com/men-of-structure-1933/about
You handle money. You should handle women too. The right ones. I help ambitious men land dates with women worth their time — in 90 days, or your money back.
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New episode. 1 of 2
It's amazing how you can listen to stuff and watch stuff and not even notice you are reprogramming yourself in being g @ y. feminine, weak small, emotional.
Everyone has emotions, but you have to learn to control it.
First step, stop listening to garbage like "I'm all yours, I think about you all day, I can't live without you"
what?
You can't live without a chick? are you really that g @ y
c mon man, man up.
Control.
Step by step.
Today start "not needing music". Especially the girly feminine garbage.
Gentlemen,
Axel
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Attract the women you really want by becoming The Man.
Join Men Of Structure:
https://www.skool.com/men-of-structure-1933/about
You handle money. You should handle women too. The right ones. I help ambitious men land dates with women worth their time — in 90 days, or your money back.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Attract the women you really want by becoming The Man.
Join Men Of Structure:
https://www.skool.com/men-of-structure-1933/about
You handle money. You should handle women too. The right ones. I help ambitious men land dates with women worth their time — in 90 days, or your money back.
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Million of men confused. John Wick is g@y too. Here I tell you why - EP 30 w/ Axel Lionel
You handle money. You should handle women too. The right ones. I help ambitious men land dates with women worth their time — in 90 days, or your money back.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Attract the women you really want by becoming The Man.
Join Men Of Structure:
https://www.skool.com/men-of-structure-1933/about
You handle money. You should handle women too. The right ones. I help ambitious men land dates with women worth their time — in 90 days, or your money back.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Attract the women you really want by becoming The Man.
Join Men Of Structure:
https://www.skool.com/men-of-structure-1933/about
You handle money. You should handle women too. The right ones. I help ambitious men land dates with women worth their time — in 90 days, or your money back.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Most men think movies are just entertainment.
They're not.
They're stories.
And stories shape what people believe—often without them realizing it.
If you pay attention, you'll notice the same two scenes appear over and over again.
Different actors.
Different countries.
Different plots.
The same message.
A man's value is usually worthless.
The women one, is they are some surreal goddesses.
The more you watch this, the more you reprogram your brain to get results you dont want.
The more you pedestalize chicks.
The more you believe you can't.
Because the stories you consume...
eventually become the stories you tell yourself.
And the stories you tell yourself...
become the life you live.
If you never question the script...
you'll spend your life playing a role someone else wrote for you.
Gentlemen,
Axel
Join Men Of Structure:
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You handle money. You should handle women too. The right ones. I help ambitious men land dates with women worth their time — in 90 days, or your money back.
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From the publisher's feed
Men of Structure with Axel Lionel
For men who handle money—but keep attracting the wrong women: in 90 days, build the skillset to land at least 1 date a week with a woman…
This is where capable men become iron men.
Most men know what to do. The problem? They're disciplined at the wrong things—YouTube, scrolling, junk food, porn—not at what matters.
You don't need more advice. You need someone to enforce execution until the iron identity becomes automatic. Until you become the man you respect in the mirror.
I'm Axel Lionel. For 7 years I was a dating and style coach. I taught men tactics—how to talk to women, how to dress, how to have presence. My clients got results. But they didn't change. I realized the problem isn't knowledge. It's identity.
Men who can't keep promises to themselves won't keep the body, wealth, women, network, and mindset they want.
So now I build iron identity men through consistent structure.
What men really want, money can't buy: pride, satisfaction, honor, respect. Those come from discipline. From keeping your word when you don't feel like it.
This podcast breaks down that transformation. No fluff. No theory. Just what works to become the man who doesn't negotiate with his emotions.
Welcome to Men of Structure.
Join the movement:
https://www.skool.com/men-of-structure-1933/about
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