Why words like "joy" matter when discussing menopause
The jar exercise: How language literally changes outcomes
Why "menopause" + "symptoms" do not belong in the same sentence OR at the very least, require a deeper understanding
Script Tips™️ for preparing for your health appointment and Shirley's proven "G.A.P. + S.P.E.A.K." framework (if you canBecoming Your Best Health Advocate
Women continue to be dismissed and that's not ok for us, or the next generation!
How to prepare for healthcare conversations effectively
The importance of stating your health goals clearly
Understanding what you DESERVE from your health--as well as your healthcare teamGenerational Shifts in Women's Health
How information access has changed (and complicated) the conversation
What's different for Gen Z versus previous generations
The mixed blessing of online health information
Breaking inherited narratives about aging and menopause
Keira's "Joy" tattoo honoring her grandmother
Shirley's mother Joyce and the undiagnosed/untreated UTI-dementia connection
Keira's PCOS diagnosis and journey to advocacy
The "Love Letter to My Period" project
Why removing stigma starts with honest conversation
The GAP-and-SPEAK acronym for doctor appointments
How to articulate symptoms AND, most importantly, impact to quality of life
The importance of preparing for healthcare visits
Why we need to stop tolerating things that impact our quality of life + share what we learn with (minimum) 3 other people: someone older, someone younger and a peer/friend/sister/colleagueTIMESTAMPS
00:00 - Introduction: Why this conversation?
04:30 - Keira's JOY tattoo story
06:45 - The jar exercise: How language shapes outcomes
15:00 - Why women leave doctor appointments disappointed
28:00 - The confusion of online health information
40:00 - Keira's PCOS journey and period advocacy
47:00 - The jar of 50+ goals for women's health before Shirley dies
50:00 - What gives us hopeQUOTES TO REMEMBER
"I deserve to feel amazing."
"Quality health information is competing with other health brands online - we're competing with the news and big brands like Four Seasons, Ford, Coca-Cola. We're ALL part of the attention economy, and only confident, informed consumers can decide what is meant for them."
"Women deserve quality information. They deserve quality explanations."
"Confidence is a decision that I'm making today."
RESOURCES MENTIONED
The "In Her Words" study (BC Women's Health Foundation)
GAP-and-SPEAK framework for doctor appointments (Menopause Chicks
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ABOUT THE HOST
Shirley Weir is the founder of Menopause Chicks and a passionate advocate for women's health education. She's on a mission to change the narrative around menopause and empower women to become their best health advocates.