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This episode is a little different.

It’s not a typical Big Sexy Chat conversation… It’s something softer, heavier, and a lot more personal.

Merf joins Asherlee (co-producer & editor for Big Sexy Chat) for an honest, unfiltered conversation about her decision to step away from Big Sexy Chat and what led her there. They talk about the weight of the world right now, the reality of needing to refocus, and what it means to choose yourself in a moment where everything feels uncertain.

This isn’t a goodbye… It’s a “see you later.”

After their conversation, we take a walk back through some of Merf’s most memorable moments over the years. The laughter, the chaos, the advocacy, the honesty… all the pieces that made her such a powerful voice in this space.

Because Merf isn’t just part of this show… she helped shape it.

And that doesn’t just disappear.

So this episode is a love letter.

To her voice.
 To her impact.
 To the conversations she started and the ones she’ll keep having… just in new ways.

We love you, Merf. Always.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Merf shares why she’s stepping away from Big Sexy Chat
• The realities of burnout, career shifts, and protecting your energy
• Advocacy, fat liberation, and where the work continues
• A curated collection of Merf’s most iconic, funny, and powerful moments
• A reminder that joy, pleasure, and voice matter… especially right now

Stay Connected

Big Sexy Chat isn’t going anywhere… and neither is Merf.

Follow along, keep the conversations going, and most importantly…
 Don’t let anyone steal your joy.

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