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Chrystal and Merf welcome the incomparable Marie Denee, founder of The Curvy Fashionista, for a real-talk episode packed with fashion, fire, and fat joy. Marie shares her journey from launching a blog in 2008 to becoming one of the most respected voices in plus-size media. We dive into fashion industry pitfalls, the power of representation (yes, including steamy werewolf smut), and how Marie’s pushing boundaries with her growing digital empire. This one is full of laughs, inspiration, and a whole lot of truth. Plus, find out which sex toy brand has Marie feeling fancy. 💁‍♀️✨

Guest Info:
Marie Denee is the creator of The Curvy Fashionista, a trailblazing digital publication dedicated to plus-size fashion, lifestyle, and culture. Featured in Essence, Glamour, The Wall Street Journal, and more, Marie is a force in the world of fashion and empowerment.

Follow Marie:

• Instagram: @thecurvyfashionista
• Twitter/X: @TCFStyle
• Facebook: The Curvy Fashionista

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• Website: BigSexyChat.com
• Socials: @BigSexyChat
• Email: [email protected]

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Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Chrystal and Merf are back with a bold and juicy new episode diving into Fat Con 2025, kink exploration, and radical fat liberation.

💥 Merf shares her journey into kink—including rope classes made for fat bodies, becoming a pleasure Dom, and creating a power exchange dynamic with her husband.
 🔥 Chrystal dishes on Fat Con highlights, from powerful rope performances and fat-positive representation to surprise celebrity run-ins and fat joy in full bloom.
 🎤 Merf also recounts a powerful, impromptu fat liberation speech she gave to a room full of doctors—and the ripple effect it created.

🎬 Plus: Oscars chat, Lizzo discourse, Kendrick Lamar’s halftime brilliance, the rise of diet culture (again), and why representation still matters—everywhere.

Also in this episode:

• Fat Lab rope space in Oakland
• Madam Helix & Otter Viking
• New Big Sexy Merch up to size 8X
• Healing through kink and aftercare
• The politics of bodies, power, and pleasure

💌 Email us: [email protected]
 📲 Follow us on socials: @BigSexyChat
 👕 Shop merch and support the show: bigsexychat.com

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Are you really old… or do you just need to stretch? 🤔 In this episode, we chat with Vera from Flexibility with Vera, a flexibility trainer who helps folks—yes, including fat folks—move with more ease, less pain, and maybe even spice things up in the bedroom. 💃🔥

Vera shares her journey from diet-culture burnout to discovering joyful movement, how stretching helped heal her chronic pain, and why everyone (yes, that means you) can improve their flexibility—without needing to be a yoga-loving pretzel. We also get into sexier topics, like which hip stretches can take your bedroom game to the next level. 😏

✨ Plus, we talk about:

• Why stretching is about nervous system regulation (not just muscles)
• The biggest myths about fat bodies & flexibility
• Simple daily stretches that change everything
• How stretching can make sex way more comfortable & fun
• Vera’s Splits in Two program—can YOU learn to do the splits?

🎧 Hit play and find out!

🔗 Find Vera here:
🌍 Website: FlexibilityWithVera.com
📲 Socials: @FlexWithVera on all platforms
📚 Free Flexibility Ebook: Available on her website!

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If you love the show, help us grow! Share, subscribe, and leave a review so more rad fatties (and their friends) can find us! 🎙️✨

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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💋 *We’re back, baby!* Season 4 kicks off with a bang—literally—as we dive into the world of pleasure products with the fabulous **Kim Card** from **Lovehoney**! This episode is packed with laughs, lube, and next-level orgasms as we put some of Lovehoney’s hottest toys to the test.

🔥 **What’s inside this steamy episode?**  
- The new *Blend* toy (a.k.a. *Finish Her*), why it's a *game-changer* for blended orgasms, and how it rocked our worlds.  
- The science behind **Womanizer’s Pleasure Air Technology** and why it’s giving our clits the VIP treatment.  
- The spicy truth about **vibrating daisy gel** and how it adds a little *sparkle* to your nether regions.  
- How sex toys are designed—who’s giving feedback, how fat bodies factor into the equation, and why remote controls make everything better.  
- The future of sex tech, from **toys that talk to your favorite spicy websites** to the long-awaited return of longer-handled Womanizers.  

🎙️ **Our guest:** Kim Card, a 12-year veteran in the sex toy industry, shares insider secrets, what’s coming next from Lovehoney, and how she went from home decor to *slinging dildos* with passion.  

👉 **Don't miss this one if you love:** sex toys, pleasure hacks, body-safe materials, hilarious sex toy confessions, and learning what REALLY goes into designing the perfect orgasm machine.  

💌 **Get in touch!**  
💜 Follow us on **@BigSexyChat** everywhere except X/Twitter (because, no thanks).  
📧 Email us at **[email protected]**  
⭐ Like, subscribe, and leave a review—your support keeps the magic happening!  

🎧 Now, grab your favorite toy and tune in, because this episode is one for the *Big O* books!

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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This episode reflects on the significant milestones and conversations that shaped the fat community in 2024. From exploring the impact of sexual wellness products to discussing the complexities of dating and health, we take a look back at the triumphs and trials that defined our year.

• Recap of the year and its highlights 
• Exploration of sexual wellness and enjoyment 
• Personal stories about dating in the digital age 
• Conversations surrounding menopause and health awareness 
• Celebration of Tigress’ Time Magazine feature 
• Discussion on medical anti-fatness and healthcare biases 
• Insight into polyamory and kink communities 
• Reflection on the "Your Fat Friend" documentary and its resonance 
• Hopes and goals for the coming year, focusing on inclusivity and representation

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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In this special roundtable episode, we welcomed an all-star lineup of fat podcasters to discuss the state of fat liberation, the impact of fat-focused media in 2024, and their bold goals for 2025. Featuring Dr. Krista Nabar and Suzy Hooker from Fat and Fucked and Ronald Young Jr. from Weight for It, this episode is a celebration of fat voices in podcasting and a call to action for a more inclusive future.

Join us as we talk about the political power of podcasts, the nuanced challenges of fat liberation, the impact of weight-loss culture, and the joy of finding community. With laughs, heartfelt moments, and inspiring insights, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss!

What We Cover in This Episode:

1. Meet the Guests:
   • Dr. Krista Nabar and Suzy Hooker, co-hosts of Fat and Fucked
   • Ronald Young Jr., host of Weight for It
   • Their journeys in podcasting and fat liberation advocacy
2. 2024 Fat Podcasting Highlights:
   • Reflections on groundbreaking episodes and accomplishments
   • Weight for It being named a top podcast by The New York Times
   • Fat representation in media and cultural milestones
3. The Ozempic Controversy:
   • The challenges of weight-loss culture and its impact on the fat liberation movement
   • Personal stories and nuanced perspectives on GLP-1 drugs
4. Building Fat Community:
   • The joy and empowerment of fat-only spaces
   • Expanding fat liberation advocacy into broader civil rights movements
5. Dreams for 2025:
   • Goals for fat liberation, intersectionality, and inclusivity
   • Amplifying fat voices in media and enacting anti-discrimination policies

Connect with Our Guests:

• Dr. Krista Nabar and Suzy Hooker (Fat and Fucked):
  • Instagram: @fatandfuckedpod
  • Listen: Available on all major platforms
• Ronald Young Jr. (Weight for It):
  • Instagram: @ohitsbigron
  • Listen: Weight For It and Pop Culture Debate Club available everywhere
• Dr. Krista Nabar:
  • Instagram: @dr.sexyfat
  • Website: carolina.swc.org

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Help amplify fat voices by leaving a review and spreading the word about our incredible guests and their work. 

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Bec, a non-binary and body-inclusive rope artist, shares their compelling journey with Shibari, challenging misconceptions and celebrating its transformative power. Discover how this age-old Japanese practice transcends mere aesthetics, offering a meditative and empowering experience that embraces all body types and identities. Bec's personal stories weave through themes of fat acceptance and gender identity, revealing how shibari can be a path to self-acceptance and personal growth.

Eager to refine your shibari skills or just starting your journey? Our conversation takes you through the ropes—literally. With practical advice on selecting the right materials, such as the 16-strand braided jute rope, and tips for maintaining cleanliness and safety, you'll gain a comprehensive understanding of this intricate art form. We'll also discuss navigating the Shibari community, with insights on connecting with fellow enthusiasts and understanding the nuances of rope safety.

Finally, we explore the deeper connections fostered through Shibari, emphasizing the importance of trust and communication. Bec shares heartwarming anecdotes about the healing potential that shibari offers, underscoring the need for a trauma-informed approach. As we close, we extend a heartfelt thanks to our listeners, encouraging them to share their thoughts and continue the conversation. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or simply curious, this episode promises to enlighten and inspire.

Find Bec on Instgram: https://instagram.com/rebelropeshibari

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Regan Chastain, a powerhouse advocate for fat liberation, joins us to tackle the insidious nature of medical weight bias and the challenges it presents in everyday scenarios, from healthcare settings to holiday gatherings with family. Discover strategies to combat unwelcome comments about your body, especially during Thanksgiving, and learn witty comebacks and boundary-setting techniques that empower you to manage those awkward family moments with confidence.

Our conversation shines a light on the alarming impact of weight bias in healthcare, where corporate interests have influenced perceptions and practices that disadvantage higher-weight individuals. We delve into the tactics needed to advocate for weight-neutral care, sharing insights on how to ensure respectful treatment during medical visits. Regan highlights the importance of organizations like Medical Students for Size Inclusivity, which are leading the charge toward equitable healthcare for all body sizes.

Addressing the roots of weight stigma in medical education, we explore the systemic exclusion of higher-weight individuals and how this bias affects research, medical training, and patient outcomes. Through personal anecdotes and emerging research, we reveal the long-term consequences of weight stigma, emphasizing the urgent need for patient empowerment and systemic change. Join us in this crucial dialogue as we navigate the complex dynamics of healthcare and champion the right to inclusive and respectful treatment.

Support the show

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a text

Support the show

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a text

Support the show

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!