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This episode reflects on the significant milestones and conversations that shaped the fat community in 2024. From exploring the impact of sexual wellness products to discussing the complexities of dating and health, we take a look back at the triumphs and trials that defined our year.

• Recap of the year and its highlights 
• Exploration of sexual wellness and enjoyment 
• Personal stories about dating in the digital age 
• Conversations surrounding menopause and health awareness 
• Celebration of Tigress’ Time Magazine feature 
• Discussion on medical anti-fatness and healthcare biases 
• Insight into polyamory and kink communities 
• Reflection on the "Your Fat Friend" documentary and its resonance 
• Hopes and goals for the coming year, focusing on inclusivity and representation

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In this special roundtable episode, we welcomed an all-star lineup of fat podcasters to discuss the state of fat liberation, the impact of fat-focused media in 2024, and their bold goals for 2025. Featuring Dr. Krista Nabar and Suzy Hooker from Fat and Fucked and Ronald Young Jr. from Weight for It, this episode is a celebration of fat voices in podcasting and a call to action for a more inclusive future.

Join us as we talk about the political power of podcasts, the nuanced challenges of fat liberation, the impact of weight-loss culture, and the joy of finding community. With laughs, heartfelt moments, and inspiring insights, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss!

What We Cover in This Episode:

1. Meet the Guests:
   • Dr. Krista Nabar and Suzy Hooker, co-hosts of Fat and Fucked
   • Ronald Young Jr., host of Weight for It
   • Their journeys in podcasting and fat liberation advocacy
2. 2024 Fat Podcasting Highlights:
   • Reflections on groundbreaking episodes and accomplishments
   • Weight for It being named a top podcast by The New York Times
   • Fat representation in media and cultural milestones
3. The Ozempic Controversy:
   • The challenges of weight-loss culture and its impact on the fat liberation movement
   • Personal stories and nuanced perspectives on GLP-1 drugs
4. Building Fat Community:
   • The joy and empowerment of fat-only spaces
   • Expanding fat liberation advocacy into broader civil rights movements
5. Dreams for 2025:
   • Goals for fat liberation, intersectionality, and inclusivity
   • Amplifying fat voices in media and enacting anti-discrimination policies

Connect with Our Guests:

• Dr. Krista Nabar and Suzy Hooker (Fat and Fucked):
  • Instagram: @fatandfuckedpod
  • Listen: Available on all major platforms
• Ronald Young Jr. (Weight for It):
  • Instagram: @ohitsbigron
  • Listen: Weight For It and Pop Culture Debate Club available everywhere
• Dr. Krista Nabar:
  • Instagram: @dr.sexyfat
  • Website: carolina.swc.org

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Bec, a non-binary and body-inclusive rope artist, shares their compelling journey with Shibari, challenging misconceptions and celebrating its transformative power. Discover how this age-old Japanese practice transcends mere aesthetics, offering a meditative and empowering experience that embraces all body types and identities. Bec's personal stories weave through themes of fat acceptance and gender identity, revealing how shibari can be a path to self-acceptance and personal growth.

Eager to refine your shibari skills or just starting your journey? Our conversation takes you through the ropes—literally. With practical advice on selecting the right materials, such as the 16-strand braided jute rope, and tips for maintaining cleanliness and safety, you'll gain a comprehensive understanding of this intricate art form. We'll also discuss navigating the Shibari community, with insights on connecting with fellow enthusiasts and understanding the nuances of rope safety.

Finally, we explore the deeper connections fostered through Shibari, emphasizing the importance of trust and communication. Bec shares heartwarming anecdotes about the healing potential that shibari offers, underscoring the need for a trauma-informed approach. As we close, we extend a heartfelt thanks to our listeners, encouraging them to share their thoughts and continue the conversation. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or simply curious, this episode promises to enlighten and inspire.

Find Bec on Instgram: https://instagram.com/rebelropeshibari

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

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Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

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Regan Chastain, a powerhouse advocate for fat liberation, joins us to tackle the insidious nature of medical weight bias and the challenges it presents in everyday scenarios, from healthcare settings to holiday gatherings with family. Discover strategies to combat unwelcome comments about your body, especially during Thanksgiving, and learn witty comebacks and boundary-setting techniques that empower you to manage those awkward family moments with confidence.

Our conversation shines a light on the alarming impact of weight bias in healthcare, where corporate interests have influenced perceptions and practices that disadvantage higher-weight individuals. We delve into the tactics needed to advocate for weight-neutral care, sharing insights on how to ensure respectful treatment during medical visits. Regan highlights the importance of organizations like Medical Students for Size Inclusivity, which are leading the charge toward equitable healthcare for all body sizes.

Addressing the roots of weight stigma in medical education, we explore the systemic exclusion of higher-weight individuals and how this bias affects research, medical training, and patient outcomes. Through personal anecdotes and emerging research, we reveal the long-term consequences of weight stigma, emphasizing the urgent need for patient empowerment and systemic change. Join us in this crucial dialogue as we navigate the complex dynamics of healthcare and champion the right to inclusive and respectful treatment.

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

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Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Support the show

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Support the show

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Support the show

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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What if your weight didn't define your healthcare? In this eye-opening episode of Big Sexy Chat, we're joined by the empathetic and brilliant Dr. Robert, a board-certified family physician committed to eradicating medical fat phobia. He shares his journey of creating a practice where patients of all sizes feel heard and respected, revealing the profound impact of not attributing every health issue to weight. You'll hear the touching story of Asherlee, who found solace in Dr. Robert's unique approach, and discover why finding a doctor like him is a rare treasure.

We tackle the often overlooked challenges faced by obese patients in the healthcare system. From the psychological toll of misdiagnoses to the emotional relief of being truly listened to, we unearth the critical need for holistic and individualized care. Dr. Robert recounts a transformative moment when a patient's persistence led to the discovery of a rare diabetes type, underscoring the necessity for doctors to listen beyond appearances and biases. We also delve into the systemic shortcomings in medical training that fail to address body diversity and anti-fatness.

Shifting to a more intimate subject, we explore the intersection of sexual health and larger bodies. Dr. Robert offers expert advice on navigating anatomical challenges and emphasizes the importance of communication and comfort with one's body. From innovative sex toys like the Balldo to making pelvic exams more comfortable, we provide actionable insights to enhance sexual satisfaction and access. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand and combat fat phobia in healthcare while also celebrating body positivity and sexual empowerment.

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

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Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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What if the love you sought could be found in multiples? Join Merf and Asherlee, our phenomenal producer and editor, as she unravels the complexities of polyamory. Asherlee, who steps in for Chrystal in this episode, shares her personal journey into polyamory, distinguishing it from swinging and revealing the dynamics of her own relationships, including her unique satellite connections. From the importance of responsible relationship management to the necessity of open, honest communication, this discussion offers a wealth of practical insights for anyone curious about or involved in polyamorous relationships.

Have you ever wondered how different relationships can meet various emotional needs without creating hierarchies? In this episode, we explore the concept of emotional currency and how polyamorous relationships can complement rather than compete. We dive into the experiences of "thirds," tackling societal pressures and the feelings of exclusion they often face. With references to valuable resources like the book "Polysecure," we provide guidance on navigating personal insecurities and societal norms that challenge the desire for love and significance in non-monogamous relationships.

Navigating the world as a BBW in the poly community comes with its own set of challenges. Our conversation touches on the impact of fatphobia and fetishization on romantic interactions, and why it's crucial to seek balanced and equitable relationships. We also unpack the myths surrounding "unicorns" and the problematic nature of "unicorn hunting." This episode encourages listeners to share their experiences, ask questions, and engage with our community on social media. Whether you're polyamorous, poly-curious, or just interested in understanding more about non-monogamous lifestyles, this episode celebrates resilience and the pursuit of meaningful connections.

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Ever wondered about the hidden secrets of female ejaculation? Join us on Big Sexy Chat as we welcome the passionate and knowledgeable Kim Airs, who takes us on a journey from her mundane marriage to becoming a sex industry veteran. Kim shares her captivating experiences from the late '80s involving public sex, sex toys, and porn, leading to the opening of her own store, Grand Opening. Discover her adventures in California and her extensive work with major sex toy manufacturers, all while riding her motorcycle and living out her dreams.

Unlock the mysteries of the G-Spot with our detailed instructions and hand demonstrations guided by Kim herself. Learn how to find and stimulate the G-Spot for an enhanced sexual experience and understand the role of the paraurethral sponge in sexual health. Kim's insights into recognizing the sensations associated with G-Spot stimulation will help you embrace and enjoy these experiences fully, making this episode perfect for anyone eager to deepen their understanding of sexual pleasure.

Get ready for a mix of humor and enlightenment as we delve into personal anecdotes and misconceptions about female ejaculation. From funny incidents with medical professionals to stories of mailing panties to a boss, this episode is packed with laughter and education. We also explore the evolution of sex toy design, the impact of women in the industry, and tips for selecting the best toys for different body types. Tune in for an episode that's as entertaining as it is informative, all infused with Kim’s infectious enthusiasm and expert knowledge.

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!