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What if your weight didn't define your healthcare? In this eye-opening episode of Big Sexy Chat, we're joined by the empathetic and brilliant Dr. Robert, a board-certified family physician committed to eradicating medical fat phobia. He shares his journey of creating a practice where patients of all sizes feel heard and respected, revealing the profound impact of not attributing every health issue to weight. You'll hear the touching story of Asherlee, who found solace in Dr. Robert's unique approach, and discover why finding a doctor like him is a rare treasure.

We tackle the often overlooked challenges faced by obese patients in the healthcare system. From the psychological toll of misdiagnoses to the emotional relief of being truly listened to, we unearth the critical need for holistic and individualized care. Dr. Robert recounts a transformative moment when a patient's persistence led to the discovery of a rare diabetes type, underscoring the necessity for doctors to listen beyond appearances and biases. We also delve into the systemic shortcomings in medical training that fail to address body diversity and anti-fatness.

Shifting to a more intimate subject, we explore the intersection of sexual health and larger bodies. Dr. Robert offers expert advice on navigating anatomical challenges and emphasizes the importance of communication and comfort with one's body. From innovative sex toys like the Balldo to making pelvic exams more comfortable, we provide actionable insights to enhance sexual satisfaction and access. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand and combat fat phobia in healthcare while also celebrating body positivity and sexual empowerment.

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What if the love you sought could be found in multiples? Join Merf and Asherlee, our phenomenal producer and editor, as she unravels the complexities of polyamory. Asherlee, who steps in for Chrystal in this episode, shares her personal journey into polyamory, distinguishing it from swinging and revealing the dynamics of her own relationships, including her unique satellite connections. From the importance of responsible relationship management to the necessity of open, honest communication, this discussion offers a wealth of practical insights for anyone curious about or involved in polyamorous relationships.

Have you ever wondered how different relationships can meet various emotional needs without creating hierarchies? In this episode, we explore the concept of emotional currency and how polyamorous relationships can complement rather than compete. We dive into the experiences of "thirds," tackling societal pressures and the feelings of exclusion they often face. With references to valuable resources like the book "Polysecure," we provide guidance on navigating personal insecurities and societal norms that challenge the desire for love and significance in non-monogamous relationships.

Navigating the world as a BBW in the poly community comes with its own set of challenges. Our conversation touches on the impact of fatphobia and fetishization on romantic interactions, and why it's crucial to seek balanced and equitable relationships. We also unpack the myths surrounding "unicorns" and the problematic nature of "unicorn hunting." This episode encourages listeners to share their experiences, ask questions, and engage with our community on social media. Whether you're polyamorous, poly-curious, or just interested in understanding more about non-monogamous lifestyles, this episode celebrates resilience and the pursuit of meaningful connections.

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Ever wondered about the hidden secrets of female ejaculation? Join us on Big Sexy Chat as we welcome the passionate and knowledgeable Kim Airs, who takes us on a journey from her mundane marriage to becoming a sex industry veteran. Kim shares her captivating experiences from the late '80s involving public sex, sex toys, and porn, leading to the opening of her own store, Grand Opening. Discover her adventures in California and her extensive work with major sex toy manufacturers, all while riding her motorcycle and living out her dreams.

Unlock the mysteries of the G-Spot with our detailed instructions and hand demonstrations guided by Kim herself. Learn how to find and stimulate the G-Spot for an enhanced sexual experience and understand the role of the paraurethral sponge in sexual health. Kim's insights into recognizing the sensations associated with G-Spot stimulation will help you embrace and enjoy these experiences fully, making this episode perfect for anyone eager to deepen their understanding of sexual pleasure.

Get ready for a mix of humor and enlightenment as we delve into personal anecdotes and misconceptions about female ejaculation. From funny incidents with medical professionals to stories of mailing panties to a boss, this episode is packed with laughter and education. We also explore the evolution of sex toy design, the impact of women in the industry, and tips for selecting the best toys for different body types. Tune in for an episode that's as entertaining as it is informative, all infused with Kim’s infectious enthusiasm and expert knowledge.

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Ever wondered how TV shows like Bridgerton are reshaping our perceptions of body positivity and sexuality? Join us as we uncover Nicola Coughlin's empowering stance on body image and her witty response to the press, all while debating Hollywood's narrow definition of plus size. We also tackle the evolving portrayal of sex scenes in Bridgerton, noting the community's mixed reactions to the shift away from explicit content. Our admiration for Nicola shines through as we advocate for more diverse body representations on the small screen.

Shifting gears, we celebrate Nicola Coughlin beyond Bridgerton, spotlighting her activism, especially her support for Palestine. We reflect on the latest Bridgerton season, appreciating its character development and feel-good vibes. As we stroll down memory lane remembering TV series with 23-episode seasons, we offer a humorous critique of Bridgerton’s historical liberties and share our excitement for future seasons and deeper character arcs.

In our deep dive into diverse sexualities, we shed light on less-discussed identities like AroAce and demisexuality, explaining their unique nuances. We kicked off our new Unplugged mini-episodes with artist Kat Coulter, sharing her fears of live appearances and insights on balancing engaging content for social media. Wrapping up, we discuss personal experiences with sex toys and the importance of building a supportive fat girl community for open discussions about body positivity and sexuality. Don’t forget to subscribe to BigSexyChat to stay connected with our vibrant community!

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

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Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

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Ever wondered what it takes to challenge societal norms and gain recognition for advocating fat acceptance? Meet Tigress Osborn, the Executive Director of NAAFA, who has recently made it to Time Magazine's prestigious Health 100 list. Join us for an invigorating conversation as Tigress shares her personal journey in combating size discrimination, the thrill of being spotlighted in Time, and the vital role of fat-positive language in mainstream media.

Our deep dive into the pervasive impact of size discrimination uncovers heartfelt anecdotes from Tigress and other fat activists. From microaggressions in everyday settings to the importance of representation and allyship, we discuss the social barriers that fat individuals face and the collective efforts needed to dismantle these biases. Hear about the photo shoot that brought the community together and the significance of allies in amplifying the voices of those affected by size discrimination.

In our final segments, we celebrate the strides made in body size representation and systemic change. Learn about Pinterest's innovative initiatives for inclusivity, the success of NAAFA's fundraising campaigns, and advocacy efforts in legislation and healthcare. Merf joins us for closing remarks filled with personal stories and empowering messages, emphasizing the importance of uplifting language. Discover how to connect with NAAFA and our community, and support the ongoing fight for fat liberation. Don't miss this compelling episode of Big Sexy Chat!

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Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

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Embark on an enlightening journey with Wendy, the visionary behind Joyful Inclusive Movement, as she opens up about her path to becoming a fat-positive personal trainer and beacon for body liberation. This episode isn't just a chat; it's a heartfelt exploration of Wendy's transformation from struggling with an eating disorder to empowering others to find joy in movement, regardless of body size. Through her candid recount of overcoming workplace toxicity and her battle with ADHD, Wendy inspires a shift in the fitness narrative, advocating for a world where every type of body is celebrated and supported in their pursuit of health and happiness.

As we peel back the layers of fitness and self-discovery, we uncover the truth about the physical and mental metamorphosis that comes from embracing our unique bodies. Wendy guides us through the nuances of tailoring fitness plans, the critical role of mindset in shaping our health, and the transformative power of personal commitment – highlighting the Harvard study that showcases the incredible impact of recognizing the value of everyday physical activities. Wendy also shares the deeply moving account of a client's journey through gender identity and body positivity, emphasizing the importance of patience and the customizing of workouts to emotional states, thereby illustrating fitness as a compassionate and healing force.

Dive deep into the heart of what it means to reclaim one's narrative, as Wendy discusses the empowering act of embracing terms like 'fat' and recognizing the significance of bone density and muscle mass in our overall well-being. We explore the practice of setting intentions, the fortitude found in gratitude, and the profound influence of supportive partners in fitness endeavors. This episode isn't just about moving your body; it's about transforming your life, with Wendy's guiding voice illustrating how to create a trauma-informed approach to exercise and how to find joy in every step of your health journey. Join us for an episode that is as transformative as it is uplifting, offering not just stories but also a blueprint for nurturing an inclusive and supportive fitness community.

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Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

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Step into the glimmering world of the Full Figured Industry Awards, where Tawana Blassingame, the founder and force of nature behind the event, joins us to share the sparkle and substance of the latest celebration. As we unpack the 2023 awards, the conversation glides from the heartfelt acceptance speeches to the meticulous process that ensures each nominee is duly recognized. Our own encounter with the nomination system takes center stage, revealing how adjustments in the process have elevated the fairness and prestige of these accolades.

Surprises are the heartbeat of any awards ceremony, and this episode is no different as we peel back the curtain on the nomination journey. Gasp along with us as we recount the moments where unsuspecting winners were showered in glory, and learn how the Full Figured Industry Awards has become a beacon of diversity and inclusion, continuously breaking barriers with categories like Silver Fox. We spotlight the array of ways sponsors can bask in the limelight of this burgeoning event, and playfully muse about the dream partners we envision joining our constellation of supporters.

Finally, we amplify the power of self-nomination, especially when it comes to the impactful Community Service Awards. Tawana demystifies the process, championing the bold move of putting oneself forward, and we outline the critical timelines to keep the awards soaring to new heights. Yet amidst the celebration and empowerment, we take a moment to draw boundaries on respect within our community and a chuckle at the quirky sign-offs that have become our endearing trademark. So plug in and join us for a whirlwind of inspiration, gratitude, and a healthy dose of glam on this episode of Big Sexy Chat!

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Have you ever swiped right and felt a world of judgment staring back at you? Victoria Nachos joins us on Big Sexy Chat to candidly unfold the plus-size dating diaries with humor and bold truth that will leave you both roaring with laughter and nodding in solidarity. From her anonymous blogging roots to authoring books on sex and dating, Victoria brings to light the thrills and spills of seeking love online while embracing every gorgeous curve.

This episode isn't just about anecdotes; it's an exploration of the digital dating landscape that has evolved, sometimes for the worse, over the years. We tackle the tribulations faced by a woman in her 40s who is dissecting age preferences on apps, confronting societal pressures, and owning her confidence amidst the chaotic world of modern romance. Navigate with us through the fascinating dynamics of today's dating scene, where the quest for genuine connections often collides with starkly different intentions. 

But there's more to this journey than just navigating the rough waves of the online dating world. We celebrate the victories in self-acceptance, the power of an authentic dating profile, and the liberating ability to express one's desires boldly and without apology. So, join us and Victoria, as we traverse the spectrum of human connection, from the humorous misadventures to the inspiring tales of self-love and the bravery to be unabashedly yourself in the search for someone who appreciates all that you are.

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Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

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Our first treasure trove of conversations from Fat Con is kicking off with Briq House, a Seattle-based erotic entrepreneur whose mission is to celebrate sexuality and foster sexual healing in black and brown communities. From the pulse-racing finale of Fat Con's fashion show to the critical discussions around safe, sex-positive spaces, we navigate the intersections of fat positivity, identity, and community empowerment with our guests, leading us through a series of transformative and heartening insights.

This episode isn't just about the defiance it represents; it's about the local ripples of impact, the crusade for diverse voices in sex tech, and a stirring keynote that stirs the soul, pushing us to embrace our complete selves. Our special moments with Tigress Osborn and the stories of self-discovery underscore the boundless potential that lies in community involvement and the courage to stand firm in one's identity. Conversations take a heartfelt turn as we celebrate the hard-won coalitions and legislative victories that underscore the 'Size Freedom' campaign, driving the narrative change around fat acceptance. 

We relive the magic of events from Fat Con that offer a haven for fat positivity, where the boldness of fashion and the strength found in affirmation illuminate the chapters of our advocacy. Mx Pucks A' Plenty joins us, adding depth and perspective, leaving us with a sense of anticipation for the equitable changes on the horizon. So, if you're ready to be inspired by the beauty of self-acceptance and the power of collective action, this episode promises to be a turning point.

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Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!