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Our first treasure trove of conversations from Fat Con is kicking off with Briq House, a Seattle-based erotic entrepreneur whose mission is to celebrate sexuality and foster sexual healing in black and brown communities. From the pulse-racing finale of Fat Con's fashion show to the critical discussions around safe, sex-positive spaces, we navigate the intersections of fat positivity, identity, and community empowerment with our guests, leading us through a series of transformative and heartening insights.

This episode isn't just about the defiance it represents; it's about the local ripples of impact, the crusade for diverse voices in sex tech, and a stirring keynote that stirs the soul, pushing us to embrace our complete selves. Our special moments with Tigress Osborn and the stories of self-discovery underscore the boundless potential that lies in community involvement and the courage to stand firm in one's identity. Conversations take a heartfelt turn as we celebrate the hard-won coalitions and legislative victories that underscore the 'Size Freedom' campaign, driving the narrative change around fat acceptance. 

We relive the magic of events from Fat Con that offer a haven for fat positivity, where the boldness of fashion and the strength found in affirmation illuminate the chapters of our advocacy. Mx Pucks A' Plenty joins us, adding depth and perspective, leaving us with a sense of anticipation for the equitable changes on the horizon. So, if you're ready to be inspired by the beauty of self-acceptance and the power of collective action, this episode promises to be a turning point.

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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As we traverse the shifting sands of perimenopause and menopause, it can often feel like uncharted territory. That's why we invited Karelin, a licensed marriage and family therapist and menopause coach, to walk us through this landscape with humor, empathy, and a treasure trove of expertise. Her voice joins ours in a chorus that sings of the complexities, the emotional rollercoaster, and the surprisingly sparse map of information that leaves so many women feeling lost. We're here to place more markers on that map, to share anecdotes that echo your own, and to affirm that the journey, while unique for each woman, is one we can navigate together.

Throughout our conversations, we don't just talk about perimenopause; we get personal. From mood swings that can feel like tidal waves, to the hot flashes that could probably toast marshmallows, we lay it all out. We share laughs over the unexpected – like the time sweat patches became my unexpected accessory at a crucial meeting – and we lean into the serious, discussing the support that can make all the difference. Partners who can ride out the storm with us, medical professionals who listen, and personal toolkits that help manage the myriad symptoms. We discuss the role of HRT, navigating body acceptance, and even how a sprinkle of micro-resiliency can be your best friend during a sleepless night.

But we don't stop there. As we wrap up, we brush on the interplay of alcohol with hormones, and the value of somatic therapy for emotional regulation. And because menopause can affect more than just our bodies, we touch on the evolving understanding of sexuality, stress management, and the sheer power found in community solidarity. Plus, we've got a Nordic romance recommendation you won't want to miss. Join us, and Karelin, for an episode that feels like your favorite cozy chat - full of insights, strategies, and a whole lot of shared experiences.

To check out Karelin, head on over to her website: www.karelinwadkins.com; or her YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@beemindful147

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Ever wondered if those high-end sex toys are really the key to unlocking uncharted territories of pleasure? Well, buckle up, because we've got the lowdown on the latest gadgets from We-Vibe and Womanizer that might just revolutionize your Valentine's Day—and every steamy session thereafter. Your favorite trio, Chrystal, Merf, and the ever-efficient Asherlee, bring you unfiltered insights and hearty laughs as we dissect everything from the "USS Orgasm" to app-controlled titillators that could make even the most stoic of us blush.

This episode isn't just about getting off; it's a treasure trove of practical knowledge—think of it as your sexy, savvy friend who's not afraid to spill the tea on durability and discreet operation. We share our personal escapades with these toys, evaluating everything from their whisper-quiet motors to their splash-proof prowess. And for those moments when you're cursing at finicky charging ports, we've got you covered with some life-pro tips because, let's face it, nothing kills the mood like a vibrator that won't buzz to life.

As we wrap up, we can't help but rave about the Womanizer vibes that left us reeling with their magnetic charging marvels and lingering climaxes. If you've been eyeing up a sensual present for that special someone—or yourself (no judgment here)—this chat might just tip the scales. So, pull up a chair, pop in those earbuds, and join our candid convo; you might just find your next guilty pleasure or, dare we say, a new best friend for your bedside drawer.

Support the show

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Ever felt like you're a square peg being nudged into a round hole? That's the daily reality for many fat individuals navigating a society that's often less than accommodating. Buckle up as I, Susie Hooker, and the renowned Dr. Kristen Auber join forces with the effervescent Murph and Crystal from Big Sexy Chat. Together, we unravel the layers of fat sexuality, the battle for justice, and the victories that come with living authentically large. Expect a spread of topics as rich and varied as Murph's cherished soups and as soulful as Crystal's preferred Adele ballads, all wrapped up in our no-holds-barred conversation.

Gather 'round the table; we've got a feast of revelations from the frontline of content creation. Murph and Crystal, with their sass and savvy, peel back the curtain on the highs and lows of producing a podcast that champions fat liberation. We've weathered the storm of social media censorship and grown together through technical mishaps and linguistic tics. If you're hankering for an authentic portrayal of fat life, complete with the empowering soundtrack of our struggles, you're in the right place. We're tossing the mic back and forth, celebrating each other's quirks, and inviting you to find your voice amidst the chorus of change.

We're not just talking the talk; we're walking the walk – even when that walk means navigating airplane seats that seem to shrink by the minute. Our conversation takes a turn through the capitalist maze of plus-size fashion and the complex decisions surrounding weight loss surgery. It's not just about embracing our fatness; it's about demanding the space, dignity, and respect we deserve. From challenging the narrow confines of the fashion industry to advocating for inclusive furniture designs, this discussion is a rallying cry for systemic change and the joyous embrace of every roll and curve. Join us as we champion the fat revolution, one podcast episode at a time.

Support the show

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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As the curtain falls on another vibrant season of Big Sexy Chat, we can't help but bask in the glow of our favorite moments and the electric anticipation for what's around the corner. Picture us at Fat Con in Seattle, mingling with fellow advocates, sharing laughter and forging deeper connections within the fat liberation movement. It's been a year of profound growth, from reveling in Aubrey Gordon's melodic wisdom to tackling the pervasive issue of medical fatphobia head-on. We've been inspired by Aubrey's transformation from an anonymous blogger to the subject of a documentary that may soon dazzle on the Oscar stage, and we're eager to keep this momentum rolling into the next year.

Imagine the sweet scent of liberation as Ohio ushers in a new era with the legalization of recreational marijuana, a game-changer for both politics and pleasure. Our recent episode was a romp through the lush fields of this fresh legislation, from the medicinal to the downright amusing. Budtenders, the unsung heroes of this green revolution, have enlightened us on the finer points of cannabis enjoyment, leading to some unforgettable tales and well-earned recognition. As we've navigated family feasts and fended off food critics with style, our advocacy guests have armed us with the ultimate guide to confident clapbacks and self-love during the holiday season and beyond.

Looking ahead, 2024 promises to be a treasure trove of influential voices and groundbreaking conversations. We're set to explore the rollicking terrain of polyamory, the spicy secrets of sexual turn-ons, and the real-talk of dating while fat—and we're not doing it alone. Expect guest spots from the likes of Kate McKinnon and the big gay podcast hosts, as we continue to break down barriers and champion inclusivity. From the empowering escapades at Mary Lambert's babe camps to the relatable hilarity of "Survival of the Thickest," we're on a quest to redefine beauty standards and celebrate the richness of diversity. Strap in, listeners—our journey is one of joy, empowerment, and a whole lot of big sexy chat.

Support the show

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Join us for a heartfelt chat with Amy Pence-Brown, a body image activist who's changing the narrative around body acceptance. This isn't your typical conversation, as we traverse the diverse facets of Amy's life - from standing blindfolded in a marketplace clad in a bikini to her roles as a poet, blogger, fat liberationist, and feminist. This episode provides a front-row seat to Amy's vulnerability and her relentless advocacy for acceptance of all body sizes.

We don't stop at body positivity though. We confront the challenging subject of weight loss medications and their disturbing trend among children. Could you imagine the impact on their tender self-esteem? We also shed light on the emerging movement of death positivity in America. Amy's creativity shines through as we discuss her innovative project of reimagining the 1950s pin-up girl, Hilda, to promote body positivity. Amy's tireless work as the founder of Boise Rad Fat Collective further emphasizes her commitment to the cause. 

As we wrap up, the theme of self-acceptance remains front and center. Amy's viral video promoting self-love certainly got people talking and we get to delve into the impact it's had. The nuggets of wisdom in this chat are certainly worth your time. And if you're inspired by Amy’s message, which we’re sure you will be, we invite you to connect with her online. Tune in for an uplifting exploration of body positivity, self-love, and acceptance. You'll be left contemplating your own relationship with your body, and hopefully, a little more empowered to love yourself, just as you are.

Support the show

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Are you ready to take your intimate moments to a whole new level? This episode promises a fun and open discussion about our favorite sex toys and aids. From the unassuming yet miraculous coconut oil that Merf swears by, to the infamously named but game-changing "Womanizer", we've got plenty of tips and tricks to enhance your pleasure. We also discuss the importance of skincare, given the high concentration of nerve endings in certain areas, and dive into a frank discussion about vaginal health. 

Ever wondered how the sex toy industry has evolved over the years? We have a fascinating chat about the progression from a male-dominated industry to one that is more inclusive towards women. We explore some innovative toys, like the Satisfy-R Top Secret, a wearable vibrator with cutting-edge features, and the iconic rabbit vibrator, beloved by many thanks to "Sex and the City". Plus, we chat about the often-overlooked importance of lube, especially for those with larger labia.

But what good are sex toys without proper maintenance? We shed light on this often overlooked aspect, discussing the importance of using medical-grade silicone and how to avoid your toys melting into each other. We also give some handy tips on how to clean glass toys, along with delving into the benefits of sensation play. We wrap up by discussing the need for accessible sex toys suitable for different body sizes and disabilities. Because pleasure is for everyone. So, join us, Chrystal and Merf, as we share our love for these aids and how they can change your intimate life for the better.

Support the show

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Ever been caught in an uncomfortable situation just because you're in a larger body? Want to find places where you can be comfortable without the fear of judgment? Our guest for today, Nyemade, shares her experiences that led her to join the team of AllGo, a Yelp-like review app designed specifically for fat people. Born out of her and AllGo founder, Rebecca's, struggles to find non-fat phobic doctors and other services, AllGo aims to create a world where people of all sizes can be comfortable. 

Nyemade takes us on a journey from her early years in Liberia, refugee experiences, and her eventual move to the US. We discuss her vision for AllGo and the potential it has in not only providing a much-needed service, but also in combating the societal stigma that fat people often face. We delve into the revenue streams for the app, the significant differences between AllGo and the National Plus Guide, and the promising future of AllGo. 

Our conversation goes deeper as we explore AllGo's potential in promoting mental wellness and self-advocacy. Nyemade enlightens on how the app can support inclusivity, and help users to stand up for their needs in uncomfortable situations. We also touch on societal pressures around body weight, health, and the judgment and misunderstanding that follow. Finally, we take a brief detour into the world of kink, discussing how online platforms like Fetlife can assist in exploring sexuality. Tune in and get ready to see the world through a different lens.

Support the show

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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How often do you find yourself grappling with societal pressures about body image or worrying about the implications of taking diabetes medication? If these questions resonate with you, then our latest episode of Big Sexy Chat is right up your alley. We don't shy away from the hard stuff, in fact, we dive right into a poignant discussion about Metformin and Ozempic, and their potential ramifications. Merf offers insights from his personal experiences with these medications, and we go as far as dissecting the controversies and lawsuits surrounding Ozempic—an eye-opening segment, to say the least.

But it's not all pharmaceutical talk, we have some exciting news to share! In January, we're partnering with FatCon and Pucks aplenty for a live event in Seattle. What a joy it is to anticipate being in the same room again, sharing our stories and experiences. Of course, the safety of our community is paramount, so we stress the importance of vaccination and mask-wearing for all attendees. This event, we hope, is a beacon of optimism for all of us craving that human connection after a challenging couple of years.

From discussions about microaggressions to extolling the virtues of Liberator's plus-size furniture for sex, we cover a lot of ground in this episode. Can you imagine the comfort and flexibility of sex furniture that actually caters to larger bodies? It's about time! We also emphasize the importance of supporting small businesses and friends' ventures, not necessarily with money but by sharing their content and spreading the word. So, join us for this enlightening chat, and don't forget to follow, like, and subscribe to Big Sexy Chat. You won't want to miss out!

Support the show

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Do theme parks cater to all body sizes? Let's explore this with Sam, our Disney expert and advocate for inclusivity in the theme park industry. Growing up as a larger-bodied individual, Sam's journey to self-acceptance has been an inspiration. Hear her candid stories about facing weight-based discrimination and how her unwavering sense of justice has shaped her identity. Discover how her love for Disney was born from the joy she found in the inclusive rides that accommodated her larger-bodied family. 

As we delve deeper into the issue of theme park accessibility, we discuss the often overlooked need for adaptability in these spaces. Sam's tips and tricks on dressing comfortably for theme parks, handling potential fat-phobic remarks, and using companion bathrooms at Disney will be invaluable for our listeners. Don't miss out on her witty advice on wearing clothes that dry quickly and her genius hack for wearing a hat with Mickey Mouse ears.

Wrapping up our chat, we get a sneak peek into Sam's tattoo sleeve of fat Disney characters and her gratitude towards Disney for making their rides accessible to all. Hear about her unique experiences, like surviving a two-week Disney World trip in sandals, and the ways her family enjoys the park with their own food due to allergies. Through Sam's words, the message is clear: if something doesn't fit, it's not you - it's capitalism. Celebrating body positivity and inclusivity, Sam encourages all larger-bodied individuals to fully enjoy theme parks. Tune in for this empowering chat, it’s one you won't want to miss!

Support the show

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!