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Join us for a heartfelt chat with Amy Pence-Brown, a body image activist who's changing the narrative around body acceptance. This isn't your typical conversation, as we traverse the diverse facets of Amy's life - from standing blindfolded in a marketplace clad in a bikini to her roles as a poet, blogger, fat liberationist, and feminist. This episode provides a front-row seat to Amy's vulnerability and her relentless advocacy for acceptance of all body sizes.

We don't stop at body positivity though. We confront the challenging subject of weight loss medications and their disturbing trend among children. Could you imagine the impact on their tender self-esteem? We also shed light on the emerging movement of death positivity in America. Amy's creativity shines through as we discuss her innovative project of reimagining the 1950s pin-up girl, Hilda, to promote body positivity. Amy's tireless work as the founder of Boise Rad Fat Collective further emphasizes her commitment to the cause. 

As we wrap up, the theme of self-acceptance remains front and center. Amy's viral video promoting self-love certainly got people talking and we get to delve into the impact it's had. The nuggets of wisdom in this chat are certainly worth your time. And if you're inspired by Amy’s message, which we’re sure you will be, we invite you to connect with her online. Tune in for an uplifting exploration of body positivity, self-love, and acceptance. You'll be left contemplating your own relationship with your body, and hopefully, a little more empowered to love yourself, just as you are.

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Are you ready to take your intimate moments to a whole new level? This episode promises a fun and open discussion about our favorite sex toys and aids. From the unassuming yet miraculous coconut oil that Merf swears by, to the infamously named but game-changing "Womanizer", we've got plenty of tips and tricks to enhance your pleasure. We also discuss the importance of skincare, given the high concentration of nerve endings in certain areas, and dive into a frank discussion about vaginal health. 

Ever wondered how the sex toy industry has evolved over the years? We have a fascinating chat about the progression from a male-dominated industry to one that is more inclusive towards women. We explore some innovative toys, like the Satisfy-R Top Secret, a wearable vibrator with cutting-edge features, and the iconic rabbit vibrator, beloved by many thanks to "Sex and the City". Plus, we chat about the often-overlooked importance of lube, especially for those with larger labia.

But what good are sex toys without proper maintenance? We shed light on this often overlooked aspect, discussing the importance of using medical-grade silicone and how to avoid your toys melting into each other. We also give some handy tips on how to clean glass toys, along with delving into the benefits of sensation play. We wrap up by discussing the need for accessible sex toys suitable for different body sizes and disabilities. Because pleasure is for everyone. So, join us, Chrystal and Merf, as we share our love for these aids and how they can change your intimate life for the better.

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

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Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Ever been caught in an uncomfortable situation just because you're in a larger body? Want to find places where you can be comfortable without the fear of judgment? Our guest for today, Nyemade, shares her experiences that led her to join the team of AllGo, a Yelp-like review app designed specifically for fat people. Born out of her and AllGo founder, Rebecca's, struggles to find non-fat phobic doctors and other services, AllGo aims to create a world where people of all sizes can be comfortable. 

Nyemade takes us on a journey from her early years in Liberia, refugee experiences, and her eventual move to the US. We discuss her vision for AllGo and the potential it has in not only providing a much-needed service, but also in combating the societal stigma that fat people often face. We delve into the revenue streams for the app, the significant differences between AllGo and the National Plus Guide, and the promising future of AllGo. 

Our conversation goes deeper as we explore AllGo's potential in promoting mental wellness and self-advocacy. Nyemade enlightens on how the app can support inclusivity, and help users to stand up for their needs in uncomfortable situations. We also touch on societal pressures around body weight, health, and the judgment and misunderstanding that follow. Finally, we take a brief detour into the world of kink, discussing how online platforms like Fetlife can assist in exploring sexuality. Tune in and get ready to see the world through a different lens.

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
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Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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How often do you find yourself grappling with societal pressures about body image or worrying about the implications of taking diabetes medication? If these questions resonate with you, then our latest episode of Big Sexy Chat is right up your alley. We don't shy away from the hard stuff, in fact, we dive right into a poignant discussion about Metformin and Ozempic, and their potential ramifications. Merf offers insights from his personal experiences with these medications, and we go as far as dissecting the controversies and lawsuits surrounding Ozempic—an eye-opening segment, to say the least.

But it's not all pharmaceutical talk, we have some exciting news to share! In January, we're partnering with FatCon and Pucks aplenty for a live event in Seattle. What a joy it is to anticipate being in the same room again, sharing our stories and experiences. Of course, the safety of our community is paramount, so we stress the importance of vaccination and mask-wearing for all attendees. This event, we hope, is a beacon of optimism for all of us craving that human connection after a challenging couple of years.

From discussions about microaggressions to extolling the virtues of Liberator's plus-size furniture for sex, we cover a lot of ground in this episode. Can you imagine the comfort and flexibility of sex furniture that actually caters to larger bodies? It's about time! We also emphasize the importance of supporting small businesses and friends' ventures, not necessarily with money but by sharing their content and spreading the word. So, join us for this enlightening chat, and don't forget to follow, like, and subscribe to Big Sexy Chat. You won't want to miss out!

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Do theme parks cater to all body sizes? Let's explore this with Sam, our Disney expert and advocate for inclusivity in the theme park industry. Growing up as a larger-bodied individual, Sam's journey to self-acceptance has been an inspiration. Hear her candid stories about facing weight-based discrimination and how her unwavering sense of justice has shaped her identity. Discover how her love for Disney was born from the joy she found in the inclusive rides that accommodated her larger-bodied family. 

As we delve deeper into the issue of theme park accessibility, we discuss the often overlooked need for adaptability in these spaces. Sam's tips and tricks on dressing comfortably for theme parks, handling potential fat-phobic remarks, and using companion bathrooms at Disney will be invaluable for our listeners. Don't miss out on her witty advice on wearing clothes that dry quickly and her genius hack for wearing a hat with Mickey Mouse ears.

Wrapping up our chat, we get a sneak peek into Sam's tattoo sleeve of fat Disney characters and her gratitude towards Disney for making their rides accessible to all. Hear about her unique experiences, like surviving a two-week Disney World trip in sandals, and the ways her family enjoys the park with their own food due to allergies. Through Sam's words, the message is clear: if something doesn't fit, it's not you - it's capitalism. Celebrating body positivity and inclusivity, Sam encourages all larger-bodied individuals to fully enjoy theme parks. Tune in for this empowering chat, it’s one you won't want to miss!

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Ever wrestled with a standard airplane seatbelt, praying for just an inch more of slack? Ever felt the unwelcome scrutiny of fellow passengers as you board, the silent judgment heavy as lead? Buckle up for a journey through the not-so-friendly skies as we tackle the unspoken challenges of flying while fat. We'll shine a spotlight on the airline industry's troubling approach to passenger comfort and examine the implications of policies that squeeze profits at the expense of people. 

Ever had someone else's toes creep into your personal space during a long haul flight? We'll share personal stories of in-flight discomforts and microaggressions, while also touching on the positives, like the unexpected luxuries of first-class flying. We'll navigate the turbulence of Southwest Airlines' Person of Size policy and the potential impact of New Zealand Airlines' controversial survey. Through it all, we'll underline the emotional toll of these experiences and the need for a more accommodating, respectful travel environment. 

But this isn't just a one-way conversation. We want to hear your in-flight experiences, your tips for staying comfortable and calm, and your thoughts on how to challenge the rampant fatphobia in the aviation industry. We'll also chat about representation, dishing on our favorite fat-positive influences in the media and the necessity of normalizing fat bodies in all contexts. So, whether you're a seasoned jet-setter or preparing for your maiden voyage, join us for an illuminating discussion on the highs and lows of flying while fat.

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Prepare for an eye-opening and inspiring dialogue between your hosts, yours truly, and two incredible women in the world of body positivity – the remarkable Morgie Mone, and the insightful Lindsy from Big Fig Mattress Company. As we take an enlightening journey through the world of fat liberation, you'll discover how Morgie has crafted a powerful platform for encouraging self-love and embracing our bodies, just as they are. Along the way, we'll shine a spotlight on Big Fig Mattress Company's mission in not only providing comfort for people of all sizes, but also fostering body positivity and fat liberation.

Let's heat things up a little as we discuss the spicy topic of sex and the role Big Fig Mattress plays in providing a supportive base for couples of all sizes. Lindsy dishes out valuable insights around their company's commitment to breaking barriers and pushing for inclusivity. We'll also discuss how Morgie, as a leading plus size black woman, is inspiring others to reinforce their relationships and break free from societal norms and expectations around love. 

As we wrap up, we dive into how Morgie selects brands that align with her core values, and how this has enabled her to guide her community towards exploring more options. Make sure to stick around for our intriguing chat about the Barbie movie, the crucial need for more body positivity in media, and our future endeavors to champion fat liberation and inclusivity. Join us on this riveting journey as we celebrate the beauty of embracing our bodies and championing self-love. You're in for a truly enlightening experience!

Fat people have sex, too! Thank you to Big Fig Mattress for recognizing this fact! Fat people have Fat money to buy stuff with! Brands: Stop leaving so much money on the table.

Also, at the end of our podcast, Monie and Lindsy share their favorite romance goodies with all of us. #bigfigmattress #bigsexychat #getyours

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Ever wondered how fat representation in media is evolving? We're taking the conversation head-on, exploring the latest characters in shows like Never Say Never and Survival of the Thickest. We are also chuffed to chat about the upcoming Fat is Fashion documentary and Bridget Everett's new show. But, it's not all roses. We tackle some tough topics like the extreme dieting actors undertake for roles, and the societal implications that come with it.

We also get real about the dangers of weight loss surgery and yo-yo dieting, with a poignant reflection on the unfortunate passing of Lisa Marie Presley. We dig into the world of adult films, specifically our new sponsor BBW Triple X Adventures, and the importance of diverse body representation. But it's not all about media, we also tap into our own experiences and beliefs about parenting in a fat-phobic world. We share advice for parents on how to inspire body positivity and inclusivity in their kids, and foster healthy relationships.

We wrap it all up by diving into our community updates. We talk about the much-anticipated FatCon and the Full Figure Industry Awards. Plus, we discuss some racy topics like liberator and inclusive sex furniture that are creating waves in the industry. We're all about sparking conversations, challenging norms, and building a community. So, hit that subscribe button, share the love, and don't forget to email us your thoughts and questions at [email protected]!

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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What would it mean to you if you could be part of a community that not only recognizes your talents but also celebrates your uniqueness? Imagine an environment where plus-size individuals are valued and their contributions to their industry are rewarded. This is exactly the world, Tawana Blassingame, Executive Producer of The Full Figured Industry Awards and CEO, Editor in Chief of Queen Size Magazine. We are privileged to sit down with her in this episode as she shares her journey and aspirations, her love for podcasting, and the intricacies behind the Full Figure Industry Awards.

Tawana pulls back the curtain on the nomination and voting processes that make up the Full Figure Industry Awards, emphasizing the importance of impartiality and alliances within the industry. She reveals the satisfaction she gains from seeing the impact that plus-size representation in mainstream awards can offer. We also discover Tawana's insights into the gaps in men’s fashion within the plus-size industry and discuss her creative hobby - soap making! 

We wind down with an honest conversation about our personal lives. Tawana conquers her nerves for on-camera interviews, and we both share our own experiences in our careers and our journey with mental health. We reflect on the importance of the communities we serve and express our gratitude to our listeners. We hope that by joining us, you too will appreciate the magic of awards, fashion, and community building in the plus-size industry. Tune in for an enlightening chat and be inspired.

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Oh, my stars! We're buzzing with anticipation as we welcome the effervescent Mx. Pucks A'Plenty, co-founder of FatCon.org, into our auditory space! Brace yourself for an invigorating conversation that spans the universe of event planning, fat positivity, and the power of community. Buckle in as we unpack the details of FatCon, a festival that's set to resound with the joy of celebrating all bodies. From tantalizing fashion shows to engaging keynote speakers, this event is a ground-breaking testament to inclusivity and love.

Let's wander together through the labyrinth of planning a burlesque festival and the rollercoaster journey of bringing FatCon into existence. Hear Pucks' tales of venue hunting, overcoming hurdles, and the fortuitous support that brought dreams to life. We also drift into the realm of art, acknowledging the creative geniuses behind FatCon's logos and sharing chuckles over Josh King's whimsical weed strain illustrations. Pucks even lets us peek into their fashion escapades - mesh has never seemed so chic!

And that's not all, darlings! Amidst our chatter, we extend the conversation about promoting queer events, envisioning a 'Fat Nudity Day', and the power of unapologetic fatness. We muse about size-inclusive fashion and the need for brands to step up. Finally, we share our excitement about Pucks' recent accolades, their contributions to the Queer Prom, and the nomination of our very own podcast for the Soul Figure Industry Awards. We'll also let you in on how you can contribute to FatCon's growth and amplify its message of love and acceptance. Trust me, you won't want to miss this vibrant exploration of community, self-love, and unapologetic joy!

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].

You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod

Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)

Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.

Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!