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Hi  Matthew, my husband passed in May. 

I was there at the hospital with  him, and while the doctor was telling me the oxygen deprivation had  already caused severe brain damage, and he wasn’t going to make it, I  was telling him several times to open his eyes if he heard me and he  opened them wide every time. I feel like they were giving up before it  was time. They couldn’t keep his oxygen up, and he quietly passed while  still intubated. I feel so guilty like his opening his eyes was telling  me that he really was in there. I can’t deal with this guilt.   

I have never felt him here with me and I almost feel as though he’s mad  at me. Please help with some answers if you can.   

Love you and all you do!

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