Once we understand: 1) that our identity is Christ-based, 2) that we are “in Him” (meaning we are living in the new spiritual realities Christ has provided) then we can begin to pursue the life He has for us.

The reason many of us yield to temptation and our flesh is not just from sheer weakness and self-centeredness; but also from not having a clear understanding of who we are “in Christ.” When we begin to understand who we are “in Christ” then we begin to know our true identity, our privileges, and our purpose.

Many scholars have written that Ephesians 1:3-14 are some of the most powerful verses in the entire Bible. They clearly describe who we are “in Christ” and the new spiritual realities in which we can now live. The reason many of us yield to temptation and our flesh is not just from sheer weakness and self-centeredness; but also from not having a clear understanding of who we are “in Christ.” When we begin to understand who we are “in Christ” then we begin to know our true identity, our privileges, and our purpose.

Most scholars agree that excluding the book of Romans; the letter to the Ephesians is the most detailed written presentation of Christian Theology of all of the epistles.

Without self-control a person faces ruin. A ruined life ruins other lives. A lack of self-control leads to the worst kinds of dysfunction.

It appears that in scripture the meaning of gentleness can also be translated as meekness. Meekness is not only a gentle, soothing disposition but also power that is under control. It is demonstrated not as pride and arrogance but humility and submission. Meekness while difficult to define conveys three ideas: --to be submissive to the Will of God --to have a teachable spirit --to be considerate of others

Faithfulness is being dependable in our duties and our devotion to God, others, and principles. Faithfulness is a characteristic of a person who is reliable.

Goodness literally means uprightness of heart. Goodness deals with our motives; it is behind all we do or say. Goodness is godliness lived out in practical ways. So how does one do “good”?

Goodness literally means uprightness of heart. Goodness deals with our motives; it is behind all we do or say. Goodness is godliness lived out in practical ways. So how does one do “good”?

The Old Testament word for “kindness” literally means “to bow one’s head;” treating another courteously and appropriately. The New Testament word for “kindness” refers to “goodness of heart.” Kindness is being aware of how another person feels, then considering those feelings and adapting our attitudes, words, and behavior accordingly.