From Starting & Stopping to Keep Going: My 30-Day Rebuilding Update

A month ago I restarted. Again.

For years I'd been starting, stopping, starting, stopping — not quitting, but not continuing either. Divorce. Job loss. Home loss. The kind of losses that don't just take things from you — they take you from you.

This episode is a real, raw update on what one month of purposeful rebuilding actually looks like — from the inside.

I talk about:

If you're in the messy middle — the hiding, the hibernating, the starting and stopping — this one's for you.

You're not behind. You're not broken. You just haven't kept going yet.

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From Starting & Stopping to Keep Going: My 30-Day Rebuilding Update

A month ago I restarted. Again.

For years I'd been starting, stopping, starting, stopping — not quitting, but not continuing either. Divorce. Job loss. Home loss. The kind of losses that don't just take things from you — they take you from you.

This episode is a real, raw update on what one month of purposeful rebuilding actually looks like — from the inside.

I talk about:

If you're in the messy middle — the hiding, the hibernating, the starting and stopping — this one's for you.

You're not behind. You're not broken. You just haven't kept going yet.

→ Work with Messie 1:1: Book Here

Connect with Missy:

Facebook: Facebook Link Here

Substack: Follow Me on Substack

Email Me: [email protected]

He cheated. Her life fell apart.  Meet Naomi Kreske.

Naomi is a mindset and confidence coach and the founder of Keep Finding You. She works with women who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from themselves—and know there’s more for them. Her clients are often already on a self-help journey but still find themselves caught in overthinking, self-doubt, and getting in their own way. Through mindset work, energetics, and the principles of manifestation and the law of attraction, Naomi helps women shift their energy, trust themselves, and step into the version of their life they’ve been trying to create. Known for being the calm in the chaos, she helps women see their patterns, have powerful AHA moments, and move from simply knowing what to do to actually living it. Her work is rooted in her own transformation, and she’s passionate about helping women stop chasing and start attracting a life that truly feels good.

In this episode of the Messie Missy Podcast, we talk about what really happens after betrayal… the HOT MESS EXPRESS, the hard truths, and how she rebuilt her life using manifestation, mindset, and straight-up resilience.

If you’re in a season where everything feels broken, this one is for you.

Because starting over isn’t pretty—but it is possible.

Get Out of Your Way Guide A FREE mindset guide to help women recognize self-sabotage, quiet the inner critic, and start moving forward with clarity. Designed to create quick awareness and powerful “oh wow, that’s me” moments. https://keepfindingyou.myflodesk.com/getoutofyourway

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@keepfindingu on Instagram and Facebook and Tiktok

Serial entrepreneur, published author, single mom — I've built companies from $0 to $75M and lost everything more than once. This is where I write about rebuilding, restarting, and turning your mess into momentum.

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About Messie Missy: Serial entrepreneur, published author, single mom — I've built companies from $0 to $75M and lost everything more than once. This is where I invite stories, pull back the curtains of perfection and we get real about rebuilding, restarting, and turning your mess into momentum.

He cheated. Her life fell apart.  Meet Naomi Kreske.

Naomi is a mindset and confidence coach and the founder of Keep Finding You. She works with women who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from themselves—and know there’s more for them. Her clients are often already on a self-help journey but still find themselves caught in overthinking, self-doubt, and getting in their own way. Through mindset work, energetics, and the principles of manifestation and the law of attraction, Naomi helps women shift their energy, trust themselves, and step into the version of their life they’ve been trying to create. Known for being the calm in the chaos, she helps women see their patterns, have powerful AHA moments, and move from simply knowing what to do to actually living it. Her work is rooted in her own transformation, and she’s passionate about helping women stop chasing and start attracting a life that truly feels good.

In this episode of the Messie Missy Podcast, we talk about what really happens after betrayal… the HOT MESS EXPRESS, the hard truths, and how she rebuilt her life using manifestation, mindset, and straight-up resilience.

If you’re in a season where everything feels broken, this one is for you.

Because starting over isn’t pretty—but it is possible.

Get Out of Your Way Guide A FREE mindset guide to help women recognize self-sabotage, quiet the inner critic, and start moving forward with clarity. Designed to create quick awareness and powerful “oh wow, that’s me” moments. https://keepfindingyou.myflodesk.com/getoutofyourway

www.keepfindingyou.com

@keepfindingu on Instagram and Facebook and Tiktok

Serial entrepreneur, published author, single mom — I've built companies from $0 to $75M and lost everything more than once. This is where I write about rebuilding, restarting, and turning your mess into momentum.

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About Messie Missy: Serial entrepreneur, published author, single mom — I've built companies from $0 to $75M and lost everything more than once. This is where I invite stories, pull back the curtains of perfection and we get real about rebuilding, restarting, and turning your mess into momentum.

Welcome to the Messie Missy Podcast — the place where we don't pretend the mess isn't real. We just refuse to let it be the final chapter.

In today's episode, Messie Missy introduces the Starting Over Theory — a reframe that changes everything about how we think about rebuilding our lives and businesses in midlife.

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Sometimes life makes the decision for you. The relationship ends. The money runs out. The phone rings and nothing is ever the same. In this episode, Missy shares the No Choice Theory — and why the women who move fastest through a crisis are the ones who stop fighting what already is and start asking what they're going to build from here.

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We love the idea that change is always chosen. But a lot of the time — if we're being honest — it wasn't. Life forced the door closed. And standing at that closed door wondering if it will open again is costing you the future you're meant to build.

In today's episode, Missy introduces the No Choice Theory — and the unexpected gift hidden inside your hardest, most unchosen season.

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Cori Close once said — "uncommon, courageous women willing to make uncommon choices that maybe possibly can yield an uncommon result."

That quote stopped Messie Missy in her tracks. Because that is exactly who this podcast is for.

In this short but powerful monologue episode, Messie Missy ties that quote directly to the mission of the Messie Missy Podcast — helping midlife women build beautiful businesses through their messes. Businesses that are scalable, that offer time freedom and financial freedom, and that give you a real exit strategy from the corporate cubicle.

The question is simple: are you willing to make the uncommon choice?

Has your mess caused so much chaos in your head and your heart that you don't know how to make an uncommon choice?

Has your mess caused you to be fearful instead of courageous?

That's EXACTLY why I created the Messy to Momentum Session!  I've been there but I stayed stuck there for years and now you don't have to! 

Ready to make YOUR uncommon choice? Book your Messy to Momentum Session — 90 minutes, 1:1 with Messie Missy. Investment: $150*

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*scholarships available, email me your story [email protected] and let's connect.  I want to make this affordable for everyone because I know what it's like to need it and not be able to afford it!

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What do you do when life hits you with everything at once — divorce, debt, illness, job loss, and the kind of overwhelm that makes getting out of bed feel like a victory?

You find your way back. One messy step at a time.

In this episode, Messie Missy gets personal about her own story — the moments she lost momentum, the weight of trying to build something beautiful while everything around her felt like it was falling apart — and why that experience is exactly why she created the Messy to Momentum Session.

If you're a midlife woman who started building a business but life got in the way — this episode is for you.

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Can you define Success?  Can you write your success on paper today?  Can you define what next month's success is for your messy life?

For the first time in 3 years I sat pen to paper and wrote my successes for the last week, the last month and forward thinking, for the month to come!

I've been stuck, I've lived in survival mode for 3+ years and I couldn't define success until..... until I finally got through the mess to success!

Feeling stuck after a major life disruption — divorce, debt, illness, or just the slow burn of burnout? The Messy to Momentum Session is a 90-minute 1:1 coaching intensive designed to help midlife women cut through the chaos and get moving again. We'll get clear on where you are, what's blocking you, and the exact next step to rebuild your business momentum. Book your session at the link below.

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Bold Hearts, Big Moves! Erin Anderson is a mom of six kids, two cats, one dog, and twenty eight chickens. She loves her life and all of the wonderful messy bits that it can bring with it. It wasn’t always this way though. She deeply understands how residual trauma can affect the Female Entrepreneur from sharing her gifts with her ideal clients. Healing her own trauma has been a labor of love, but healing it through love is the best way in her opinion. Now she teaches women how to entangle themselves with their dreams and desires by becoming their own best friend. Links: https://www.instagram.com/erinandersonofficial/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/boldheartsbigmoves https://erin_anderson_betrayal_trauma_coaching.buzzsprout.com www.erinanderson-coaching.com https://www.erinanderson-coaching.com/ClarifyandCreateBoundaries

Feeling stuck after a major life disruption — divorce, debt, illness, or just the slow burn of burnout? The Messy to Momentum Session is a 90-minute 1:1 coaching intensive designed to help midlife women cut through the chaos and get moving again. We'll get clear on where you are, what's blocking you, and the exact next step to rebuild your business momentum. Book your session at the link below.

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