Messy Classy

So let’s talk about one of the biggest glow-up hacks I’ve done this year. And that’s quitting alcohol.

Here are some of the benefits that I’ve discovered being alcohol-free:

You look better (glowing skin, weight loss), you save money, and these internal changes:

Mental clarity: better ideas, deeper reflection;

Confidence: real confidence, not wine-fueled;

Energy & routines: mornings feel sacred, not sluggish;

Stronger boundaries: less people-pleasing, more intentionality;

Elegance: the quiet power of being in control of yourself in social situations.

Enjoy the episode and stay Messy Classy darlings x

You want to be THAT girl. What if you could be her, but the classy version? The one who walks into a room and doesn’t need to say a word. With timeless style and magnetic habits, people will turn heads and want to know who you are. 

Today, I’m not giving you another basic routine, I’m showing you how to become THAT girl -the classy edition.

You already know the ‘that girl’ aesthetic online. Usually, it consists of matcha, green juice, and pilates in matching workout sets. Which is all fine, but what if you want timeless class over TikTok trends?

The ‘that girl’ I want to be is about elegance, confidence, and building a life I love.

So, let’s go over some tips and ideas in three sections: 1. How to refine your image, 2. habits & lifestyle, 3. your mindset to embody effortless elegance and confidence

Stay Messy Classy Darlings x

Your worth isn't determined by others, you get to decide it for yourself.

We often look to others for validation or to 'choose' us. But often, people can't see you for who you are because they don't see the world the same as you do.

But when you start to build your confidence and self-worth, it no longer becomes about whether someone else can see your worth or not, because who cares what they see.

That's why you need to choose yourself. Always. Believe in you. Because soon you will find the people who also believe in your worth AND can treat you accordingly.

But it always has and always will start with you and how you see yourself.

You've got this, my darling x

A good Sunday reset routine marks the end of one week and sets up the next for success. You can leave any chaos in the past and start fresh and have a clear mind for the new week.

It’s like a mini shakeup that you get to do every week, and it is excellent if you have anxiety. 

It’s my favorite day of the week, and I always look forward to it. And not because it’s the weekend, because it’s a reset. I get to continue doing things that are working well and reset those that aren’t.

It’s like the 1% rule, where you strive to get 1% better next time, so it’s not overwhelming. You don't have to have a dramatic change overnight. It’s simpler and more subtle. 

When I don’t do my usual Sunday reset, then my following week is less productive, less fun, and more stressful.

In this episode, I’ll go over my Sunday reset checklist so that you can get inspiration for your own best Sunday ever.

Need to shake up your life? Not sure if you should? Guess what, baby girl, you can rebrand yourself as many times as you like. 

Let’s explore the topic of rebranding and reinventing yourself. It’s my favourite thing to do when I need a change. I love a good life glow-up.

I’ll go over the aesthetic first, then lifestyle changes, and the mindset shifts to become the new version of you.

The empowering thing about rebranding is that you get to decide WHO you want to be and then make a plan HOW to get there. 

Enjoy the episode, and stay messy classy darlings x

Drinking alcohol made me weak and stupid, so I decided to cut it out. It was the biggest power move I’ve made so far this year.

In this episode, I’ll talk about why I gave up alcohol. How it's making me smarter and more successful, and why it’s leading me towards my dream life.

It was a bold move, but one that was oh-so easy to make. Now I’m reaching my goals so much faster and easier than ever. 

If you want to hear the full story, listen now.

Imagine you weren't scared to pursue your dreams? If you started to chase your goals relentlessly? How would people react if you were more bold and audacious? If you set boundaries and put yourself first?

In this episode I'll show you what I wrote in my notes app for more motivation and confidence to reach my goals. It came down to one main thing: Having more audacity to start asking for what I wanted.

Audacity is being bold. Taking risks. Having the courage to put yourself first and chase your dreams no matter what.

And baby girl, you (like me) need more audacity.

Forget the January resolutions. The real reinvention starts now, and I'm going to show you how.

This is your action plan. Reinvent your look. Curate your space. Elevate your circle. And do it with intention.

An excellent place to start is always with ourselves. Our clothes, our look, our mindset.

So let’s talk about that first and then we can move on to our homes (which I think is a super important place to start reinventing because that’s where you spend the most time and your environment really does shape you into the person you want to be.

Lastly, we’ll talk about lifestyle, the things that you do socially or even solo to help enrich your life even further, because yes, sometimes we do need to leave the house.

Stay Messy Classy x

Let’s discuss how to attract and find quality relationships (both friendship and romantic relationships) as you level up and become a more classy version of yourself.

We’ll also discuss moving on from those old relationships that no longer serve you while maintaining your grace and style.

Enjoy the ep and don’t forget to follow me on ig @messyclassypodcast

Stay messy classy!

Trace x

Let’s create a simple but classy morning routine. It’s all about crafting a routine that’s more soft life and luxurious with quality over quantity. That means we are not waking up at 5am to do a gruelling workout, we are taking our time to be intentional with the day and start calm and prepared.

Not many updates this week, but that starts at 14:10. The rest of the podcast is about how to set up a morning routine that works for you for a more peaceful but productive day ahead.

Also, this is the first video podcast episode. What did you think? Let me know here or on ig @messyclassypodcast