Yes it's messy it's confusing it's complicated but it's happening. Give yourself time

In order to learn to love yourself the way God intended, you have to build a relationship with God, who is love.The way God created you was not a mistake. Remember, He made the human race and He “saw that it was very good!” (Genesis 1:31).

In order to learn to love yourself the way God intended, you have to build a relationship with God, who is love. Most of us spend so much time hating things about ourselves that we don’t realize we’re crippling our ability to love others. There’s no way you can figure out how to love somebody else well in a relationship if you have not first figured out how to love yourself.

Honestly we all get to a point where you've made so many bad choices you dont even mind making some more, but guess what, these can be fun, but are you picking any lessons for next time,? Well let's explore all these here...

Don't judge Love just cause of the tough character development God has taken you through

Sometimes people expect us to smile all the time to be happy all the time but there are times we are low and feeling bad and down and it's okay when we are feeling all that.

Finding your identity in christ regardless of the situation. Finding peace

Isaiah 41:10 So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

Walking with you.