I have made some recent posts encouraging people to focus on their longer term goals. Many were fully on board with the idea, but some felt I was judging them for not being ambitious enough. They told me that they are just trying to survive and there's nothing wrong with that.
I completely agree that there is nothing wrong with survival as a goal. It is common and reasonable. However, the best strategy to achieve that goal is having more ambitious plans. Sounds counterintuitive, but it's not.
If your goal is merely to survive, then that is as far as you will plan. If your goal is to do something more ambitious or to be in a better place in a year or five years, then survival is the first step of that plan. You'll still do all the same things to survive, but you will be more motivated and more creative.
During the quarantine, I've been as locked down as anyone. For the first few weeks, I was in survival mode, but as weeks dragged into months, I shifted my focus. Survival was set. Our family was in a rhythm. We had food. We had taken precautions. Now what?
These daily videos are part of the answer to "now what?" My coaching. The other resources I have created. It's all part of a plan to play the cards I've been dealt by the pandemic.
Unless you started farming to feed yourself, chances are that survival is not filling your time. If you are focused on survival, but you are reading books or watching TV or doing other leisure activities, then you have time that could be better deployed.
Some people say that they need to tend to their mental well being. I completely agree.The best way to tend to your mental well being is to have dreams and goals beyond the present crisis. Living to survive is exhausting and depressing. Living for something more is inspiring and energizing.
Defense delays defeat while offense drives for victory. No one ever won through pure defense. Survival is defense. Goals are offense. The best defense is a good offense, so if your goal is survival, the best way to achieve that goal is to strive for greater achievement beyond the current crisis.
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