Prolific DC divorce attorney, Michelle Thomas, and I are discussing industry secrets and tips about how to hire the best attorney for your case, how lawyers bill clients, and how to avoid costly mistakes in your divorce.

Show Notes:
Don’t treat your attorney like your therapist! Let us handle the legal stuff so you can focus on your mental and emotional health. Find a therapist, friend circle, spiritual advisor, etc. 

Hiring the right attorney for you is one of the most important decisions about your divorce.

How to hire the right lawyer for your case:

1. Ask for referrals from friends and colleagues
2. Do initial consultations with at least 2 attorneys. Ask:
   1. what percentage of your practice is devoted to family law?
   2. are you a trial lawyer or settlement lawyer?
   3. do you have time to take my case? Find out how fast you can expect responses/communication from them.
3. Make sure all your questions have been answered clearly by the end of the consultation so you can make an informed decision.

How to save money during a divorce:

1. Be cooperative with your lawyer; comply with their requests and needs and organize your records for them so you don’t have to pay them to do that. If they have to follow up with you repeatedly, that will add up too. 
2. Be mindful of how much you talk to your lawyer. Is this really something you need to speak to your attorney about? Or can you talk to your therapist or vent to a friend?
3. If you are seeking revenge on your spouse, that will cost you. The more contentious your divorce is, the more filings your attorney will have to file. Can’t be petty; have to be willing and ready to negotiate.