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  • #50 Felt AF

    In this episode we're diving into the world of interoceptive awareness. But first, let me introduce our incredible guest, Dr. Emma Goodall. She's not just a specialist; she's a researcher, author, and an amazing autistic woman.

    You might be wondering, "What's interoceptive awareness, and why should I care?" Well, stick around because it's a game-changer.

    In this episode, Dr. Goodall will shed light on why understanding our inner body signals is a crucial piece of the puzzle when it comes to our mental health.

    Check out these episode takeaways that could transform the way you see yourself and your emotions:

    • Takeaway #1: Interoceptive Awareness Matters Dr. Goodall will explain what interoceptive awareness is all about, which is basically understanding those signals your body sends you from within. It's like your body's way of talking to you, and it plays a massive role in your mental well-being. So, tune in to find out why this matters so much.
    • Takeaway #2: The Connection to Dysregulated Behaviours Ever had trouble controlling your reactions or behaviours? Well, it turns out that a lack of interoceptive awareness might be at the heart of it. Dr. Goodall will share how improving your body signal awareness can help you regain control and manage those tough moments better.
    • Takeaway #3: Practical Exercises for Interoceptive Awareness Feeling curious? Dr. Goodall's got you covered with practical exercises that can help you get in touch with your body's inner signals. From mindful body awareness to relaxation techniques, you'll learn ways to boost your interoceptive awareness and, ultimately, enhance your mental health.
    • So, if you've ever struggled to understand your feelings, found yourself using alcohol to escape, or just want to connect more deeply with your own body, this episode is a must-listen. Dr. Goodall's insights are a beacon of hope, and her work is changing lives.

      Let's unlock the power of self-discovery together!

      Resources:

      ⭐ Emma's Awareness worksheets for people wanting to prepare prior to taking a break from drinking or reduce their drinking by being more mindful about what and why they drink https://www.hoperisingcoaching.com/awareness-worksheets-opt-in

      ⭐ Emma's 5 Day Alcohol Reset for people looking to take a quick reset https://www.hoperisingcoaching.com/fivedayreset

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      Learn more about Emma Gilmour at: www.hoperisingcoaching.com

      Follow Emma Gilmour on insta @hoperisingcoaching

      Access Dr Emma Goodall's resources at: https://studentwellbeinghub.edu.au/educators/topics/interoception-and-self-regulation/ 

      Find Dr Emma Goodall on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyIovxevV3W2l2WXHDBkKxA 



      23 min
    • #49 Talented AF

      In this heartwarming episode of Midlife AF, I'm joined by the inspiring Josephine Lancuba. Together, we dive deep into the profound impact of adverse childhood experiences and the healing potential found in resilience, forgiveness, and self-acceptance. Join us as we share our personal journeys, discuss the stigma of problematic alcohol use, and explore the power of embracing your true self in midlife.

      Episode Takeaways:

      • The importance of resilience in overcoming trauma and difficult life circumstances.
      • Exploring Jo's journey from a challenging upbringing to finding redemption and self-acceptance.
      • The normalisation of alcohol use in families and its impact on individuals.
      • Breaking the stigma around problematic alcohol use in midlife.
      • The significance of forgiveness and self-love in healing from past traumas.
      • Valuing oneself and setting boundaries against abuse and mistreatment.
      • The beauty of celebrating nature and inclusivity in today's non-alcoholic beverage market.
      • A reminder to let yourself heal and not be consumed by life's burdens.
      • Resources:

        ⭐ Emma's Awareness worksheets for people wanting to prepare prior to taking a break from drinking or reduce their drinking by being more mindful about what and why they drink https://www.hoperisingcoaching.com/awareness-worksheets-opt-in

        ⭐ Emma's 5 Day Alcohol Reset for people looking to take a quick reset https://www.hoperisingcoaching.com/fivedayreset

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        Learn more about Emma Gilmour at: www.hoperisingcoaching.com

        Follow Emma Gilmour on insta @hoperisingcoaching

        Find out more abut Josephine at: https://www.josephinelancuba.com

        Follow Josephine @josephinelancuba


        1 hr 5 min
      • #48 Empire Building AF

        Join Emma and the incredible Tina Tower in this episode of "Midlife AF." Tina, an inspiring entrepreneur and mentor, takes us on her personal journey of going alcohol-free for a year. No holds barred, she spills the beans on how this decision rocked her world, transformed her business, and deepened her family bonds. Tina's candid chat reminds us all about the magic of conscious choices when it comes to alcohol. Tune in for a dose of personal growth, discipline, and a quest for a more balanced, booze-light life.

        Episode Takeaways:

        Everyday Energy Boost: Discover how Tina's decision to skip the spirits gave her csistent energy throughout the day. No more post-lunch slump, just more lively mornings!

        Clarity & Emotional Balance: Tina shares how her alcohol hiatus brought her newfound clarity and emotional equilibrium. Say hello to better decision-making and stable moods.

        Leading by Example: Tina's motivation? Setting an inspiring example for her teenage sons. Her journey shows us the power of modeling responsible choices for the next generation.

        Resources:

        ⭐ Join the Great Aussie Alcohol Experiment LIVE at https://www.hoperisingcoaching.com/the_great_aussie_alcohol_experiment

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        Join Tina’s Empire Accelerator Free Coaching Week 12th-15th Sept 2023 at https://www.tinatower.com/a/2147530918/vuMcrqsf
        Learn more about Tina Tower at www.tinatower.com
        Follow Tina Tower on insta @tina_tower

        Learn more about Emma Gilmour at: www.hoperisingcoaching.com
        Follow Emma Gilmour on insta @hoperisingcoaching

        35 min
      • #47 Two Years AF: Celebrating Lou

        Join us for an inspiring conversation as I sit down with my friend and former Aussie Alcohol Experiment participant, Lou Coates.

        Lou shares her remarkable journey of breaking free from the alcohol cycle and embracing a life of clarity and authenticity. Discover how navigating perimenopause, managing teenagers, and facing life's challenges became a rewarding experience without the weight of alcohol.

        Tune in to hear about the power of community, personal transformation, and the joy of living in the present moment.

        Episode Highlights

        • Lou shares her incredible journey of transitioning from alcohol-dependent to alcohol-free.
        • How the powerful community created during the experiment offered valuable support, knowledge, and a safe space for transformation.
        • Overcoming the social and cultural norms surrounding drinking, and how redefining happiness led to a more fulfilling life.
        • Navigating the complexities of perimenopause, raising teenagers, and embracing natural highs without alcohol.
        • The liberating experience of being present and authentically engaged in life, celebrating every moment, and finding joy in the little things.
        • Tune in to this enlightening episode and discover how Lou's journey can inspire you to embrace an alcohol-free life full of vitality and authenticity.

          Join the Great Aussie Alcohol Experiment LIVE at https://www.hoperisingcoaching.com/the_great_aussie_alcohol_experiment

          33 min
        • #46 Discovering Authenticity in Midlife

          Join Emma as she explores the profound journey of rediscovery without the influence of alcohol. With three and a half years of alcohol-free living under her belt, Emma shares her story with insights that will inspire you to embrace your authentic self and full human potential.

          Episode Highlights:

          🌟 Navigating the Landscape of Authenticity

          🌟 Releasing the Creative Power Within

          🌟 Breaking the Chains of Conformity

          🌟 Kindling Connection and Compassion

          🌟 Nurturing Rest and Rejuvenation

          🌟 Reviving the Inner Child

          Emma's journey is a testament that stepping away from alcohol isn't just about quitting, but about uncovering layers of authenticity and creative brilliance.

          🔗 Click here to register for my FREE Masterclass: https://www.hoperisingcoaching.com/aug-masterclass-registration 

          1 hr 2 min
        • #45 Awkward AF

          In this episode, I'm coming to you fresh from an upcoming adventure with my wonderful swimming friends in an adventure that perfectly aligns with the theme of embracing authenticity and breaking free from societal norms.

          Together, we'll wade into the waters of our experiences, discussing the power of inclusive and accepting spaces, like my cherished jellyfish swimming group. These spaces ground us and peel away the layers of small talk, revealing our raw humanity beneath as we explore how the performance of perfectionism can mask our true selves, the very essence that makes us beautifully human.

          Are you ready to shake off the weight of societal demands and embrace your unique brilliance? Tune in to this episode and let's embark on a journey of self-discovery, self-acceptance, and finding solace in our beautifully imperfect selves.

          Episode Takeaways:

          • Embracing the concept of "Mid" – It's okay not to be too good or too bad; find empowerment in showing up as your authentic self.
          • Peeling away the mask – Explore the allure of perfectionism and its connection to fear, external validation, and societal expectations.
          • Unveiling your true identity – Delve into the journey of shedding adaptations and masks, and discover the beauty of your genuine self.
          • The power of authentic connections – Learn how inclusive and accepting spaces ground us, foster genuine connections, and strip away the need for perfection.
          • Navigating rejection sensitivity – Gain insights into the impact of rejection on our self-perception and explore ways to build resilience and self-compassion.
          • Join me on this enlightening voyage to unmask perfectionism and embrace your true, beautifully awkward brilliance.

            RESOURCES

            • Register for my 5-day Virtual Retreat at https://www.hoperisingcoaching.com/change-your-relationship-with-alcohol-august-retreat 
            • 30 min
            • #44 Midlife Awakening

              Step into the world of radical self-discovery as Emma takes us through a poetic exploration of the profound changes that accompany midlife.

              Drawing inspiration from Dr. Shefali Tsabari's powerful poem, we delve into the concept of shedding old identities, releasing societal expectations, and embracing our true, authentic selves.

              Join Emma as she shares her personal experiences, insights, and wisdom gained from her own journey of midlife awakening.

              Episode Takeaways:

              ⭐️ Embracing Authenticity: Discover how midlife serves as a catalyst for shedding societal masks and embracing your true self. Let go of perfection and embrace the imperfections that make you unique.
              ⭐️ Breaking Free from Expectations: Explore the liberation that comes from discarding the heavy burden of meeting others' approval. Midlife is your time to shine, unapologetically.
              ⭐️ Awakening to Sovereignty: Learn to rise above the conditioning and step into your power as you navigate this transformative phase. It's time to co-create your reality.
              ⭐️ Releasing Old Patterns: Understand the protective mechanisms we've developed since childhood and how they shape our behavior. Uncover the freedom that arises from breaking free from these patterns.
              ⭐️ Cultivating Self-Love: Discover the beauty of compassion and self-love as you embark on this journey of transformation. Embrace your worthiness and claim your space in the world.
              ⭐️ Five-Day Virtual Retreat: Join Emma on a powerful virtual journey to reclaim your relationship with alcohol and embrace a take-it-or-leave-it attitude. Experience a deep shift in perspective and behavior in just five transformative days.

              This episode invites you to reawaken your true essence and navigate midlife with courage, authenticity, and empowerment. Don't miss this chance to embark on a radical journey of self-discovery!

              Resources:

              ⭐ Join the 5 Day Virtual Retreat at https://www.hoperisingcoaching.com/change-your-relationship-with-alcohol-august-retreat
              ⭐ Click here to find out more about A Radical Awakening (book): https://www.aradicalawakening.com/  
              ⭐ Emma's Awareness worksheets for people wanting to prepare prior to taking a break from drinking or reduce their drinking by being more mindful about what and why they drink https://www.hoperisingcoaching.com/awareness-worksheets-opt-in
              ⭐ Emma's 5 Day Alcohol Reset for people looking to take a quick reset https://www.hoperisingcoaching.com/fivedayreset
              Learn more about Emma Gilmour at: www.hoperisingcoaching.com
              Follow Emma Gilmour on insta @hoperisingcoaching

              27 min
            • #43 Creative AF

              In this episode of Midlife AF, Emma sits down with the inspiring Annabel Stewart to discuss their journey of exploring life without alcohol and unlocking their creative potential. They share personal stories, challenges, and discoveries on how ditching the drink opened doors to creativity and self-discovery. Discover the magic of creativity as a tool to cope with boredom, regulate emotions, and find connection with others. Tune in to learn how unleashing your creativity can be a superpower in midlife, bringing joy, freedom, and a renewed sense of purpose.

              Episode Takeaways:

              • The struggle to control drinking and the misconceptions about sobriety's boring stereotype.
              • How freedom from alcohol can lead to bigger life choices and increased agency.
              • Overcoming guilt and embracing self-love in the journey to a sober and empowered life.
              • Recognising the neurodivergent aspects that can contribute to using alcohol as a coping mechanism.
              • The power of creativity in regulating the nervous system and boosting energy levels.
              • The role of creativity in connecting with others, fostering conversations, and deepening relationships.
              • How embracing creativity can lead to greater self-discovery and open doors to new opportunities in midlife.
              • 45 min
              • #42 Wake Up, Barbie!

                Last week, I went to see the Barbie movie with my two kids, and surprisingly, it sparked some profound reflections on life, patriarchy, and our relationship with alcohol.

                As I've been reading the book "Radical Awakening" and delving deeper into the work of Gabor Maté and This Naked Mind, I've noticed the incredible synchronicity of these themes.

                The movie's message about the patriarchy's impact on women struck a chord with me, leading me to explore the reasons why women turn to alcohol as a coping mechanism. In this episode, I'll discuss how breaking free from the trance of patriarchy is a powerful journey that can lead to liberating ourselves from alcohol's grip.

                We'll uncover the roots of self-suppression and the negative self-talk that often drives us to drink, and I'll share insights on how to transform self-judgment into self-empowerment.

                Episode Takeaways:

                • Discover the unexpected wisdom found in the Barbie movie and the book "Radical Awakening" that sheds light on patriarchy's impact on women.
                • Explore the connection between alcohol consumption, self-suppression, and the societal norms that influence our drinking habits.
                • Learn the importance of understanding the root causes of our drinking behavior to achieve lasting transformation.
                • Embrace the journey of waking up to our authentic selves and breaking free from the limitations imposed by the patriarchy and alcohol.
                • Join me on August 2nd for a transformative webinar where we'll explore four powerful tools to release self-judgment and create a path to liberation without alcohol. Let's embark on this journey together towards a more fulfilling and empowered life - Register by clicking here.  

                  Resources:

                  ⭐ Click here to find out more about A Radical Awakening (book): https://www.aradicalawakening.com/  
                  ⭐ Emma's Awareness worksheets for people wanting to prepare prior to taking a break from drinking or reduce their drinking by being more mindful about what and why they drink https://www.hoperisingcoaching.com/awareness-worksheets-opt-in
                  ⭐ Emma's 5 Day Alcohol Reset for people looking to take a quick reset https://www.hoperisingcoaching.com/fivedayreset
                  Learn more about Emma Gilmour at: www.hoperisingcoaching.com
                  Follow Emma Gilmour on insta @hoperisingcoaching

                   

                  27 min
                • #41 Nourished AF

                  Join me in this week's episode of Midlife AF, where I'm thrilled to engages in an important conversation with non-diet dieticians Meg and Susan.

                  Together, we discuss the significance of protecting children from diet culture, healing personal wounds around body image, and navigating midlife without the influence of alcohol.

                  Through Meg and Susan's work, they aim to dismantle diet culture and promote a healthier relationship with food and self-image.

                  Episode Takeaways:

                  1/ Learn how to protect your children from diet culture and its negative impact.
                  2/ Gain insights on healing personal wounds related to body image and diet culture.
                  3/ Discover strategies for navigating midlife without the influence of alcohol.
                  4/ Explore ways to challenge societal expectations and embrace a healthier relationship with food and self-image.

                  Join our community of like-minded individuals who are striving for a more fulfilling midlife experience.

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                  Resources:

                  ⭐ Emma's Awareness worksheets for people wanting to prepare prior to taking a break from drinking or reduce their drinking by being more mindful about what and why they drink https://www.hoperisingcoaching.com/awareness-worksheets-opt-in
                  ⭐ Emma's 5 Day Alcohol Reset for people looking to take a quick reset https://www.hoperisingcoaching.com/fivedayreset 
                  Learn more about Emma Gilmour at: www.hoperisingcoaching.com
                  Follow Emma Gilmour on insta @hoperisingcoaching

                  Learn more about Meg & Susan at: https://www.megandsusan.co/
                  Follow Meg & Susan on insta @megandsusan
                  Listen to Meg & Susan's Podcast at https://www.megandsusan.co/podcasts/life-s-too-short-to-count-almonds

                   



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