Midlife awakening isn’t always glamorous — sometimes it feels exhausting, emotional, and downright uncomfortable. But what if those very symptoms are proof that you’re upleveling into your next chapter?

In this episode of Midlife Butterfly, I share 5 uncomfortable signs that you’re actually evolving: from unexpected tiredness and hunger, to emotional rollercoasters. These are invitations to slow down, listen, and trust the transformation happening within you.

If you’ve been wondering why you feel so out of sync, this conversation will help you see your experiences differently: not as flaws to fix, but as evidence that your soul is expanding.

🦋 In This Episode, You’ll Hear:

• Why exhaustion is often a sign of integration, not burnout
• How emotional ups and downs are clearing the way for growth
• The body’s surprising role in midlife transformation
• How to recognize when your system is upgrading
• Practices to support yourself through an uplevel

This is your reminder: you’re not falling apart — you’re becoming more of who you truly are.

Soulful Reflection Questions

1. Which of these signs of upleveling are you currently experiencing in your own life? -> If you're experiencing something else, I'm curious to know, please DM me @midlifebutterfly
2. How can you honour your body and emotions instead of judging them during this transition?
3. What part of your old self are you ready to thank, grieve, and release as you step into your new wings?

Interested in working with me? my one-on-one coaching programs are available at 20% discount. Check out my coaching services and book a call to see if we're a good match to work together.

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Song: Reborn by Alexander Nakarada

Let’s get real. Midlife isn’t just about wrinkles or hot flashes. It’s about the armours we’ve built over decades of survival. The walls we wear to protect ourselves from hurt also keep out love, support, abundance, and joy. In this episode, I open up about the armors I discovered in myself—emotional, energetic, and even spiritual—and how they’ve shaped my relationships, my ability to receive, and my freedom.

If you’ve ever caught yourself over-giving, hiding your true desires, or priding yourself on being “strong and independent” while secretly craving to be held and supported, this one’s for you. It’s time to loosen the straps, my love, and let yourself feel safe, soft, and powerful at the same time.

✨ In This Episode, You’ll Hear:

• The hidden ways your armour blocks love, opportunities, and abundance.
• How journaling cracked open a deep wound I didn’t know was still alive.
• The armours women wear most often.
• Why true safety comes from within, not from walls.
• A gentle invitation to replace protection with presence, and discover your worthiness to receive.

🦋 Soulful Reflection Questions

1. What kind of armour am I currently wearing, and what am I trying to protect myself from?
2. Where in my life do I say I’m open, but my heart is still guarded?
3. If I loosened just one strap of my armor today, what might shift in how I receive love, joy, or abundance?

If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who might benefit. Check the show notes for links to coaching services, mini coaching sessions, and self-paced online programs to support your journey.

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Song: Reborn by Alexander Nakarada

What if midlife wasn’t a crisis—but an awakening?

In this soulful episode of Midlife Butterfly Podcast, Kena explores the sacred in-between—the ordinary yet powerful moments where life invites us to reclaim joy, presence, and deep soul connection. She shares her own raw reflections on vulnerability, triggers, and the freedom that comes when we stop trying to control life and start creating it with awareness.

This conversation is for midlife women navigating divorce, empty nest, grief, or reinvention—women ready to stop living on autopilot and start honouring their truth.

🦋  In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why life itself is the sacred journey—and how to embrace it fully
• The surprising gift of vulnerability as a source of strength
• How triggers can become your greatest teachers in midlife
• The key shift from control to creation that changes everything

If you’re ready to rediscover yourself, reclaim your worth, and live fully aligned, this one’s for you.

 

🦋 Soulful Reflection Questions

1. Where in your life are you trying to control instead of allowing yourself to be present?
2. What parts of yourself—light or shadow—are asking for acceptance right now?
3. Who in your life mirrors something for you to grow from, and how can you see it as a gift?

Go and make the best of your life, because you are worthy, because you deserve it. Reach out if you want to have a conversation about creating your sacred life. I'm offering in my 1:1 coaching services a 20% discount on my Beautiful Butterfly Path and Truth Seeker programs right now.

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Song: Reborn by Alexander Nakarada

This one’s short, sweet, and a powerful wake-up call. If you’ve been rushing toward “someday,” trying to control the uncontrollable, or living on autopilot, this episode is your invitation to stop. Right here. Right now.

In This Episode, You’ll Hear:

• Why rushing toward the future is quietly stealing the best parts of your life.
• The simple shift that can expand your time and melt away anxiety.
• How to use your senses to land fully in this moment.
• The one truth that will set you free—no matter what chaos is around you.
• A gentle but fierce reminder: life is not happening later.

Reflection Questions:

1. What’s one area of your life where you’ve been waiting for “someday” to feel at peace?
2. How can you bring more presence into your day—starting with your next breath?
3. If you fully trusted that right now is enough, what would shift in the way you live?

If you would like to work with me, I offer coaching programs including the Beautiful Path (six-week journey) and the Truth Seeker program (six-month journey) to help you connect with yourself, build self-care habits, and create the life you desire. Reach out if you'd like to work together.

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Download the Midlife Butterfly Guide with 5 Radical Practices to Heal, Take Your Power Back & Rise

Follow Kena on Instagram: @midlifebutterfly

Join the Midlife Butterfly Community: http://www.facebook.com/groups/midlifebutterfly

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Song: Reborn by Alexander Nakarada

If you’ve been feeling “off”… like something’s not quite right even though you’ve done all the right things, this one's for you. That tug in your chest, that ache in your gut? It’s not a crisis—it’s a call.

In this short but potent solo drop, I speak straight from the heart (literally from bed) to the midlife woman who’s been betraying herself one small compromise at a time—putting everyone else first, shrinking her voice, and wondering why the love and validation never feel quite enough.

This is your wake-up whisper—and your permission slip to stop shape-shifting for the world and start returning to yourself.

In This Episode, You’ll Hear:

✨ Why self-betrayal often looks like being “the nice one”
✨ The moment I stopped calling it a crisis and started calling it a midlife awakening
✨ A powerful story of one of my clients standing in her truth—and how the world shifted around her
✨ The real reason you feel unseen (and how to change that)
✨ What it feels like to be unshakably YOU—and how to get there

Reflection Questions:

1. Where in your life are you still shrinking or shape-shifting to be accepted?
2. What would it look like to stop betraying yourself and start choosing you, every damn day?
3. If your soul left you a voicemail today… what would she say?

If you're interested in working with me and my coaching services, please reach out. 

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Song: Reborn by Alexander Nakarada

In this 30th episode of Midlife Butterfly, I celebrate the journey of showing up after years of hiding. Creating this podcast helped me face one of my biggest wounds—rejection—and step into visibility with courage and purpose.

 If you're navigating a life transition—divorce, loss, reinvention—this episode is your reminder that midlife isn’t a crisis, it’s your soul awakening. You're not broken. You're remembering who you truly are beneath the conditioning and old stories.

 I talk about going inward, healing the shadow, and reclaiming your worth. When you love and accept yourself fully, you become unshakable. That’s when true midlife transformation begins.

 

🦋 In This Episode, You’ll Hear:

• What it really took for me to launch this podcast—and why rejection no longer runs the show
• The truth about your midlife “crisis” (spoiler: it’s actually your soul knocking)
• Why hiding parts of yourself keeps you disconnected—and how to start coming home
• How programming, guilt, and people-pleasing shaped your identity—and how to lovingly unlearn it
• A call to become unapologetically YOU (with the ovaries to back it up)

Reflection Questions for Your Soul Journaling:

1. What parts of yourself have you been hiding out of fear, shame, or conditioning?
2. If your midlife is a soul awakening (not a crisis), what is it calling you to remember?
3. What version of you is ready to be celebrated and lived—out loud and unshakable?

My one-on-one coaching is open for those who wish to be guided through this transformation process. Please DM me @MidlifeButterfly on Instagram or @KenaSiu on Facebook to connect. Doing the inner work is the best investment you can make in your life.

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Download the Midlife Butterfly Guide with 5 Radical Practices to Heal, Take Your Power Back & Rise

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Song: Reborn by Alexander Nakarada

Beauty, if you’ve ever walked away from a relationship, sat in silence with a broken heart, or stared at the ceiling wondering “Why does this keep happening to me?” — this episode is for you.

In this raw and healing solo episode, I invite you into one of the most transformative chapters of my own journey — my second divorce, the grief of letting go, and the wild beauty of realizing that I was the common denominator.

This one’s not about blame, it’s about deep self-awareness. It’s about reclaiming your power as a midlife woman navigating loss, reinvention, immigration, awakening, and love in all its messy, sacred forms. It’s about shedding the victim mask and becoming the observer, the chooser, the creator of a life that actually feels good to live.

💫 In This Episode, You’ll Hear:

• What happens when you realize you’ve been the common thread in your own painful patterns — and how that can be your greatest portal to healing.
• A tender story of grief, London streets, Indian food, and the quiet kind of friendship that saves your soul.
• Why meditation was the threshold that helped me shift from autopilot to conscious creator.
• How I started becoming my own best friend — and how you can too.
• The power of unlearning: rewriting the beliefs, behaviors, and inner vocabulary that were quietly keeping me stuck.

🦋 Reflection Questions

1. Where in your life do you notice a repeating pattern — and what might it be trying to teach you about yourself?
2. How do you speak to yourself when no one else is listening — would you say those same words to a dear friend?
3. What outdated beliefs or “life checklists” are ready to be released so you can create a more joyful, peaceful life on your terms?

Join my Midlife Butterfly Facebook group and catch the recordings of my CLARITY Live Experience, or get Clarity VIP which includes a Coaching & Integration Session on July 25.

For one-on-one coaching to help you find your common denominators and create your best life, book a call with me.

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Song: Reborn by Alexander Nakarada

Hey Beautiful,

If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and asked yourself, “Who am I now?”—this episode will land deep in your heart.

Maybe you’ve left a marriage, a career, or a version of you that no longer fits. Maybe you’ve been the mom, the wife, the powerhouse professional—and now you’re ready to meet the woman beneath all the roles.

In today’s episode, I’m joined by my podcast sister and soul-mirror, Tracy Hill. She’s a former Fortune 500 executive who walked away from the hustle to come home to herself. Together, we dive into the raw and beautiful truth of what it means to unravel, awaken, and reclaim your life in midlife.

This one’s for the woman who’s no longer afraid of her own wings.

🦋 In This Episode, You’ll Hear:

• The moment Tracy realized she no longer recognized the woman in the mirror—and what she did next
• What happens when your soul starts screaming louder than your fear
• The real cost of self-neglect and the power of micro-shifts in daily life
• Why our identities crumble when we stop chasing titles—and how that collapse can become your breakthrough
• How beauty, presence, and self-devotion can be your compass home

💖 Soulful Reflection Questions:

1. What roles or labels have you outgrown, and who are you becoming beneath them?
2. Where in your life are you seeking external answers that your soul already knows?
3. What’s one beautiful fix—one small, soulful act—you can gift yourself today, just because you’re worth it?

Connect with Tracy:

• Grab Tracy’s free guide with 5 life-changing micro-shifts 
• On Instagram @abeautifulfix
• Listen to her podcast “A Beautiful Fix” wherever you tune in.
• Visit her website: abeautifulfix.com

And don’t forget, beautiful—you were never broken. You’ve just been unfolding. One butterfly wing at a time.

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Song: Reborn by Alexander Nakarada

In this solo episode we explore our relationship with uncertainty and why embracing the unknown is essential for personal growth and freedom. Trusting life's uncertainty requires integrating body, mind, and soul while releasing our need for control. 

And that’s the point. Midlife is your time to take the wheel, even if you only see a few kilometers ahead. It's about reclaiming your power, letting go of the noise, and coming back home to your body, mind, and soul

In This Episode, You’ll Hear

• Why everything is unknown—and why that’s where the magic lives
• Our bodies as messengers: understanding physical pain as emotional or spiritual signals
• A potent reminder that you are not your thoughts—you are the observer
• Integration of body, mind and soul builds natural trust in life's uncertainties
• The paradox of expectation + equanimity: setting the vision, then releasing the grip
• Daily opportunities for magic when we release control and embrace curiosity

Reflection Questions

1. Where in your life are you gripping for control—and what might shift if you softened your hold?

2. What story has been playing on repeat in your mind that you now realize isn’t even yours?

3. What would shift in your day if you trusted your body and intuition to guide you?

Let this episode land in your heart, beauty. And remember: life is a rollercoaster. But you’re not here to be tossed around—you’re here to enjoy the ride, laugh, cry, feel, and fly. 🦋💫

Want to go deeper with me? Join me for CLARITY, my 3-day event from July 22nd-24th at 3pm Eastern Time. If you're feeling stuck, foggy, or in transition, we'll explore who you are, what you want, and how to move forward with confidence. [http://midlifebutterfly.ca/clarity]

Love,
Kena 💜

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Song: Reborn by Alexander Nakarada

Hey beautiful,

What if menopause wasn’t an ending... but your wild, sacred rebirth?

This week’s conversation is an initiation into that very truth. I’m joined by the magnetic and deeply embodied Luce Beaulieu, a midlife priestess, feminist powerhouse, and coach guiding women through the holy fire of menopause. Together, we dismantle outdated beliefs around aging, sex, and desire—and open the door to something much juicier: pleasure as power, intimacy as liberation, and aging as your erotic awakening.

If you’ve ever felt like your midlife body was betraying you, or your libido was fading—this episode is the love letter (and the permission slip) your soul’s been craving.

You’ll walk away remembering that this season of your life isn’t about shrinking—it’s about deepening. Let’s go there.

In This Episode, You’ll Hear:

• How menopause is a sacred, feminine initiation—not a decline, but a descent into your deepest power
• What tantra really means (spoiler: it’s not just about sex), and how it can become a lifestyle of embodied aliveness
• Simple, delicious ways to reconnect with your pleasure—solo or partnered—without shame or performance
• The truth about libido in midlife (and why your vagina might just be trying to tell you something)
• Why so many midlife divorces are actually a sign of awakening—and not a failure

Reflection Questions:

• What myths or beliefs about midlife or menopause are you ready to release right now?
• What parts of your body are longing to be seen, touched, loved... by you?
• Where in your life are you being invited to descend into the “underworld” to rediscover your power?

Find Luce:

• Website: immergence.co
• Instagram: @immergence.co
• Join her Facebook group: Menopause is Your Superpower: Welcome to the Midlife Temple.
• Retreat Offer: Aging with Eros, special discount code for you: Butterfly15
  
  
  

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Song: Reborn by Alexander Nakarada