Midlife Crisis? Nope! Just Following my Delulu Dreams

In this week’s episode of Midlife Crisis, Erica introduces a new segment called TV Chisme Corner, where she reviews, ranks, rants, and raves tv shows, both old and new.  She shares her thoughts on the FX/Hulu series Adults, a comedy series about friends in their 20s navigating life together.  Is Adults for you if you are in Midlife?  Listen to find out!

Summer of Love: Reflections on Friendship and Loss

A heartfelt journey through friendship, loss, and the importance of connection.

Life has a way of unfolding in unexpected ways, doesn’t it? In this episode of *Midlife Crisis. Nope. Just Following My Delulu Dreams*, I share my reflections on a deeply personal summer—a summer that turned out to be about love, friendship, and the fragility of life.

This episode, aptly titled "Summer of Love," isn’t a romantic tale but rather a tribute to the bonds that shape our lives. Over the past few months, I've learned that sometimes the most significant moments are those spent with the people we hold dear.

If you want to hear more about my reflections on friendship and loss, tune in to the full episode.

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After rejecting her age for years, Erica finally is accepting that she's in her 40s.  Find out what is finally make her accept this.

Plus, updates on her goals, acting, and improv.

Are you tired of setting New Year’s resolutions that leave you feeling overwhelmed, behind, or like you’ve already failed by February? Same.

In this episode, Erica shares a new approach to goal setting in 2026—one that prioritizes alignment, self-trust, and emotional sustainability over hustle culture and unrealistic expectations. Instead of forcing goals that don’t fit your real life, this conversation explores how to set intentions that actually support your growth, creativity, and mental health—especially in midlife.

If you’re navigating change, chasing creative dreams later in life, or simply craving a softer, more honest way to move forward, this episode is for you.

✨ In this episode, we talk about:

Why traditional New Year’s resolutions often fail

How to set goals that feel supportive instead of stressful

Setting intentions that align with your nervous system, not just your ambition

This is your reminder that you’re not behind—and you don’t need to become a different person to create the life you want in 2026. You just need a new relationship with goals.

🎧 Listen, reflect, and take what resonates.

Erica opens up about how perfectionism has held her back from chasing her dreams. From delaying trainings to avoiding auditions out of fear, she’s finally breaking the belief that she has to be perfect to make her dreams come true.

The emotional journey of taking improv classes at the UCB Los Angeles.

Are you stopping yourself from chasing your dreams because you’re afraid of looking cringe? 😬
You’re not alone — that fear shows up for so many of us, especially when we’re starting something new later in life.

In this episode, I dive into what it really means to move through the fear of being cringe, why it shows up, and how embracing your “cringe” is actually the biggest act of self love. ❤️

Because the truth is: the negative thoughts in your head are all lies and you need to start living in your truth.

This is your reminder that chasing your dreams at any age requires a little delusion, a little courage, and a whole lot of self-trust.

💌 If this episode resonates, don’t forget to subscribe and share it with someone who needs a little nudge to stop playing small.

Dating in your 40s doesn’t have to feel like a job interview or a waiting game — it can actually be fun, light, and full of possibility. 💫

In Part 2 of this conversation, I’m diving deeper into what it really means to shift your energy in dating. From releasing old stories to embracing curiosity, play, and confidence, I share how I’m learning to date with more joy and way less pressure.

If you’ve ever felt burned out by the apps, stuck in your head, or like love has an expiration date — this episode is your reminder that none of that is true. You get to write the rules. You get to choose the vibe. And yes, you get to have fun with it. 💕

🔑 What you’ll hear in this episode:

• Why shifting your mindset changes the whole dating game
• How to enjoy the process (without obsessing over outcomes)
• Little practices to keep dating light, playful, and aligned with your energy
• Why fun is the best magnet for the right connections

This is your permission slip to date like it’s an adventure — because it is.

Dating in your 40s hits different. It can feel overwhelming, exhausting, or like a game you don’t even want to play. But what if it didn’t have to feel so heavy?

In this episode, I get real about my own journey with dating after 40 — the expectations, the frustrations, and the moment I realized I needed to shift my energy. Instead of treating dating like a second job, I started seeing it as a playground: a place to practice joy, curiosity, and connection.

We’ll talk about:
✨ The energy shift that made dating fun again
✨ How to ditch “timeline panic” and embrace the experience
✨ Why following your joy makes you magnetic

Whether you’re single, dating, or just curious about love later in life, this episode is your permission slip to laugh, flirt, and fall in love with the process again. 💫