Might Get Loud with Brittany Racine

This week on Might Get Loud with Brittany Racine, we're diving into one of our most uncomfortable and vulnerable conversations yet: porn addiction, its impact on relationships, and the road to recovery.

Joining me is Emmanuel Guarino, co-founder of Team Vulnerable, who opens up about his 15-year battle with pornography addiction and the devastating moment his wife discovered his secret...on their wedding night.

What followed was years of secrecy, shame, emotional disconnection, and struggles with intimacy. But Emmanuel and his wife, Becca, eventually found a path toward healing, rebuilding their marriage, and turning their experience into a mission to help other couples.

We get into the questions so many people are afraid to ask: Why does pornography become addictive? Is it really about sex, or is there something deeper? How does it affect the partner who feels rejected, betrayed, or not good enough? And can trust and intimacy ever truly be restored?

This conversation isn't just about pornography. It's about the things we hide, the pain we avoid, the people we hurt, and what it really takes to change.

Whether you're struggling personally, navigating betrayal in your relationship, or simply curious about a topic that rarely gets discussed this openly, this episode offers a raw perspective on addiction, accountability, and the possibility of healing.

Team Vulnerable:

https://www.teamvulnerable.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/teamvulnerable/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@teamvulnerable/

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What happens after trust is broken — and can a relationship ever truly recover?

In this episode of Might Get Loud, Brittany sits down with Mr. Jay, a betrayal trauma practitioner and relationship coach who helps individuals and couples navigate the aftermath of broken trust.

And betrayal isn't just cheating. It can show up through financial secrets, dishonesty, broken trust within families, emotional wounds, and even experiences from childhood that we carry into our adult relationships without realizing it.

Mr. Jay breaks down why betrayal trauma can feel so consuming, how our brains respond to triggers, and why he believes the goal isn't necessarily to "get over it," but to learn how to integrate what happened and move forward without allowing it to control your life.

They also get into the other side of relationships: rebuilding trust, understanding your own insecurities, attachment styles, complacency, intimacy beyond sex, and why some couples actually end up stronger and more connected after working through betrayal.

Mr. Jay also shares practical tools he uses with clients experiencing triggers and explains why rebuilding after betrayal isn't about pretending it never happened — it's about understanding what happened, doing the individual work, and deciding what comes next.

Whether you've experienced betrayal yourself, are trying to rebuild a relationship, or simply want to understand your own patterns a little better, this conversation has a LOT to unpack.

Connect with Mr. Jay:

website: https://mrjayrelationshipcoach.com/

instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjayrelationshipcoach

youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BetrayalTraumaPractitioner

tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@traumapractitionerjay

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What can 94 years of life teach you? Turns out—a lot.

In this very special episode of Might Get Loud, Brittany sits down with her grandma, Joyce, to talk about nearly a century of life, love, marriage, motherhood, family, faith, loss, and all the lessons learned along the way.

Grandma Joyce shares what it was like growing up in a completely different time, meeting and marrying Grandpa at 21, raising six kids, balancing motherhood and a career, and why mom guilt definitely isn't a new phenomenon. She also shares stories about Grandpa's legendary sense of humor, their adventures together, and even how she ended up dancing on a table at age 90.

But woven through all the stories is a surprisingly simple philosophy for life: Rule #5 — don't take yourself so damn seriously.

From learning to respond instead of react, to worrying less about what other people think, forgiving yourself, loving your people, and remembering that life is too short to spend it complaining, Grandma Joyce delivers the kind of perspective that can only come from 94 years of actually living it.

Because sometimes the best life advice isn't complicated at all.

Always remember Rule #5.

We love you gram- Brit

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What happens when a landscaper turned marine contractor buys his dream property, plants a few grapevines for fun, and accidentally ends up owning a winery?

This week I'm hanging out with Jerry Wilson, owner of Wilson Estate Vineyards in the Gregory/Stockbridge area, inside an old dairy barn that now serves as their wine tasting room.

Jerry shares the story of growing up in a small business family, leaving school young, building businesses in landscaping and marine construction, and eventually buying a property he had driven past for years and literally saved in his phone as "Dream Home."

What started with a few rows of grapes turned into thousands of vines, a tasting room, weddings, line dancing, book clubs, events — and an entirely new business Jerry never really planned on building.

We talk about taking chances before you feel ready, figuring things out as you go, the trial and error behind making wine, the people who helped him along the way, and why sometimes the things that weren't part of the plan end up being the best part of the story.

Plus, we taste some wine, learn way more than I expected about grapes and naturally start planning approximately 47 new events for the vineyard. 😂

Grab a glass and come hang with us 'til the cows come home. 🍷🐄

Website: https://wilsonestatevineyards.com/

facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Thewilsonestatevineyards

instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wilson_estate_vineyards/

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Everyone is talking about Netflix's The Pastor's Wife… and this week's podcast guest is the perfect person to unpack this with.

Jenny Smith is back for a bonus episode—and this time, we're going ALL the way down the rabbit hole.

Jenny was once a pastor's wife herself and has openly shared her story of escaping an abusive relationship that was centered around religious control and kept her trapped. Watching Mica Miller's story unfold hit especially close to home, and in this episode, we're breaking down the documentary, the moments that immediately raised red flags for us, and the disturbing similarities Jenny recognized from her own life.

We talk about religious manipulation, purity culture, gaslighting, power and control inside a church, Mica's attempts to get help, and why leaving an abusive situation can be far more complicated—and dangerous—than people on the outside realize.

And then… we get into the theories.

From the circumstances surrounding Mica's death and the unanswered questions raised in the documentary and other reporting, to Chris Skinner's death, JP Miller's behavior, surveillance footage, trackers, the mysterious truck, the 911 call, and details Jenny uncovered while following the case, we have A LOT of questions.

Jenny also shares some chilling moments from her own marriage, including the night she feared for her life, taking her ex-husband's guns to police, and later discovering a shotgun beside their wedding album and bullets standing next to an open Bible in her daughter's nursery.

This conversation contains speculation and discussion of allegations surrounding an ongoing and highly contested case. Our theories and opinions are exactly that—theories and opinions.

Most importantly, this episode is about something much bigger than one documentary: what happens when abuse, power, religion and fear collide and how difficult it can be for women to get out safely. This is not attacking religion, this is raising awareness of a form of abuse many of us are lucky to have never experienced.

🎧 Press play for our completely unfiltered The Pastor's Wife uncovered.

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Her refrence podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5wLH5vFra4RElgaJCHRYP3?si=dULOFFNdQxC9ZVWY0k8u3g&utm_source=sms&nd=1&dlsi=e52057d8d4884ab9

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After our first Raised in a Cult episode became one of the most talked-about episodes of the season, there were still so many questions about what happened after Jenny finally left the Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) world she was raised in.

And trust me, we get into it.

Jenny opens up about leaving her arranged marriage, navigating a nearly two-year divorce and co-parenting situation, and slowly realizing that what she had considered "normal" for the first 27 years of her life was anything but.

We talk about the allegations and CPS investigation involving her ex-husband, the disturbing things her daughter began uncovering as she got older, burner phones, hundreds of messages with prostitutes, and what it was like trying to protect her daughter while still being required to navigate the court system.

But this episode isn't only about what Jenny escaped, it's about what happened when she finally had the freedom to figure out who she actually was.

We dive into religious deconstruction, questioning beliefs you were taught never to question, separating God from organized religion, rebuilding your identity after leaving a high-control environment, and why deconstruction doesn't necessarily mean abandoning faith.

Jenny is also the host of UnHolier Than Thou, where she talks with people who have left cults and high-control environments, experienced religious trauma, deconstructed their beliefs, and questioned the cultural and religious ideas they were taught never to question.

If you haven't listened to our first episode together, "Raised in a Cult," start there—and then come back for Round 2.

Follow Jenny:

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Unholier_pod

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TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unholier_pod

Jeremy's Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0Y400Wl1EilNHIUNflywD5?si=ukGFFWzQRgiahAdZraAr4A&utm_source=copy-link&nd=1&dlsi=32352c1dbb8c4f2c

Sex Therapist Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3LkjztAdbljE6lNsZuCiCA?si=t1qCegBqQPqFQld6iFGf9A&utm_source=copy-link&nd=1&dlsi=e129fbcb83d24c54

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What started as a fun Gilmore Girls-inspired idea has turned into a full-blown takeover of downtown Brighton, bringing tens of thousands of fans together for one unforgettable weekend. ☕️🍂

This is the product of someone having what seemed like a "crazy idea" turned into a massive movement! This is something that has significanly impacted small businesses, and is a great reminder that "small" town America, is real.

Today, I'm sitting down with Kathleen and Anne, the women behind Destination Stars Hollow, to hear how the event exploded into what it is today. A fun birthday party, turned 65,000 people-We're talking about the impact it's had on Brighton's small businesses, the friendships and mother-daughter connections happening in the streets, and what it's like bringing actual Gilmore Girls cast members into the experience.

From Scott Patterson and Sean Gunn to VIP experiences, massive crowds and the behind-the-scenes craziness of pulling it all off—we're getting into how one fun idea became something way bigger than anyone expected.

Whether you're Gilmore Girls obsessed or just love a story about women, community, small business and a crazy idea that WORKED—this one's for you.

Get your tickets and follow along with Destination Stars Hollow here:

website: https://www.destinationstarshollow.com/

instagram:https: www.instagram.com/destinationstarzhollow/

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For my parents' 40th anniversary, I wanted to give them something a little different: their story, told by the people who know them best. What started as a simple interview about 40 years of marriage quickly spiraled into five grandkids taking over the microphones, family stories, questionable impersonations, unsolicited opinions and a full-blown roast of Grandma and Grandpa.

We talk about how my parents met, their first years of marriage, what actually makes a relationship last four decades and the family they've built along the way. Then the kids weigh in on the important stuff: Grandpa's weird sayings, singing, bargaining, hunting and cookies, Grandma's terrifying driving, who they'd call if they got arrested, and all the little things they'll probably remember forever.

It's raw. It's chaotic. The transitions are not great, but it's real. Kids are interrupting. Someone is probably eating into a microphone.

But underneath all of it is the whole reason I wanted to make this in the first place: legacy. The funny little things you do every day might seem insignificant to you, but they become the stories your kids tell, the traditions your grandkids remember and the moments that make up a family.

So cheers to 40 years, Mom and Dad. Thanks for the love, the lessons, the memories and all the weirdness in between.

This one is for you. ❤️ We love you- Brit & the Grands

Divorce is one of life's biggest transitions, but it doesn't have to become your biggest battle.

In this episode of Might Get Loud, Brittany sits down with divorce attorney, author, and podcast host John Nachlinger for an honest conversation about navigating divorce with less conflict, more clarity, and a healthier mindset.

Whether you're considering divorce, currently in the middle of one, supporting someone you love, or simply looking for ways to build a stronger marriage, this episode is packed with practical advice that can save you time, money, stress, and heartache.

Together, they discuss:

• Why focusing on what you need instead of what you're entitled to can completely change your divorce.
• The biggest mistakes people make before and during the legal process.
• How to choose the right attorney—and why it's more important than choosing the cheapest one.
• Common reasons marriages end and how couples can avoid drifting apart.
• Co-parenting, protecting your children, and keeping conflict from becoming their burden.
• Whether prenups, joint bank accounts, and mediation are worth it.
• The realities of custody, child support, and what actually happens in court.
• Green flags that create healthier, longer-lasting relationships.
• John's new book, Get Divorce Without Getting Screwed, and the mission behind helping people move forward with confidence.

This conversation isn't about encouraging divorce, it's about helping people make thoughtful decisions, understand the process, and find healthier ways to move through one of life's most difficult chapters. Whether your goal is saving your marriage or peacefully ending it, you'll walk away with practical tools, fresh perspective, and hope for what's next.

Connect with John Nachlinger:

Book: https://www.amazon.com/GET-DIVORCED-WITHOUT-GETTING-SCREWED/dp/B0GCGJ615F/ref=sr_1_1?crid=28RALUE9OLZ70&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.49nBOI8D-NJj-ZsQMwyUQRPJaNcnSlWusEBxyzLF31wbbUqTZQ_tVq4oI9glEc4Fm3uVo0t7TXN-iy6F-2dOirUiIVH2-xryTU6hMj_rx50eZJ2Hj8SMP15E79h0Aqchh4hIaGqr-tMLyXtUK5i3MZL52JL79iNJcZMhDSbTqovg1FxeCvpEkUgjATO6_osNC3EGZh_OKiGNUe8ZdpAq8UVgnYSTV7lH93YXQXlN-r4.WM_hcml7frFmzvNygggfHDQtEzqIboCXEEBnS8mdHlU&dib_tag=se&keywords=get+divorced+without+getting+screwed&qid=1783289102&sprefix=get+divorce%2Caps%2C159&sr=8-1

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/get-divorced-without-getting-screwed/id1519685597

Spotify Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7tIU2BH4RruPw5y056Gvtx

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mensdivorcestrategist/

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Have you ever wished your pet could tell you what they're thinking?

In this episode of Might Get Loud, Brittany sits down with McKenna, an animal intuitive, healer, and veterinary student from Revive Wellness Spa, to explore the fascinating world of animal communication.

From how she receives messages from animals to whether pets have souls, past lives, and personalities that extend beyond this lifetime, McKenna shares what it's like to connect with the animals we love most.

Then comes the fun part—Brittany's French bulldogs, Stu and Ziggy, get live readings that reveal some surprisingly accurate (and hilarious) insights. One apparently wants more responsibility and mental stimulation, while the other is simply here for snacks, dirt, and chaos.

Whether you're a lifelong believer or simply curious, this conversation is a thoughtful look at the bond between humans and animals—and might just change the way you see your own pet.

If you've ever looked into your pet's eyes and wondered what they were thinking, this episode is for you.

Connect with McKenna and book an animal reading through Revive Wellness Spa. Links and contact information are available below.

website: http://revivemindbodysoul.com/

instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revivemindbodysoul/

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