Milo Time

Construction noise in Brooklyn, Studio sits in a construction zone, Milo's Letterbox'd review of Jacques Tati's Playtime, Analysis of Playtime, Value in chaos, Chaos inviting humanity, Daryl threading the needle, Jim Chones introduction, Watching NBA basketball while Milo was treating, NBA package, Watching until the final west coast game was over, Local NBA announcers, Chones as Cavaliers' announcer, Mike Breen, Ian Eagle, New York announcing as a stepping stone to a national job,  Announcers elsewhere as homers and parts of the community, Walt "Clyde" Frazier, Richard Jefferson, Vince Carter, Loving listening to the local broadcasters, Milo loving the in-game jump ball, Milo loving sloppy broadcasts and in-game activities, Milo loving when planned things get off track, Milo loving Aqib Talib's announcing, Aqib Talib's brother involved in illicit activity, Aqib Talib with no filter, Greg Olsen, Tony Romo, Throwing chaos into something buttoned down perhaps a unifying philosophy.   

Brooklyn, Construction noise in the neighborhood, George Carlin philosophy, Neighborhood development, Becoming a cranky New Yorker, Alternate side of the street parking, People are wired to think that people who behave as they do have it "right", Discouraging the boys from being judgmental, Milo's conclusion about certain "showy" technology, Drone store on 4th Avenue, Milo viewing drones as a silly thing for a person to own, "That's the kind of guy who buys a drone," Google Glass, Parent on Milo's travel baseball team wearing Google Glass, Apple Vision Pro, Wall-E, Serious bikers in Central Park and Prospect, Milo's attitude about tennis gear, Max and Milo biking in Prospect Park over Covid, Milo's Letterbox'd account, Jacques Tati, Playtime, Max watching Playtime at Milo's recommendation,  Milo's review of Playtime, Begin next episode of Milo Time with Milo's review of Playtime

Upper West Side, H&H Bagels, H&H Story, Barney Greengrass, Hot H&H bagels, Bus to Jets Games, Six bagels for breakfast, Bizarre cream cheeses and other toppings, Daryl's food anxiety can be a separate subject, The Simpsons, Sponge Bob movie, Simpsons movie, Bicycle license plates, Bort on Linktree, Other clips that Milo loved, The Naked Gun bloopers, Monty Python "We're coming with you!", Borat movies, This suit is black pause not, Ricky Gervais Extras with David Bowie, Family Guy "Over", Todd Barry "Fish in a Barrel" roasting of Chevy Chase, Breaking Ankles Daily, Brooklyn door commercial, Liberty Mutual lemu emu ads, Masahiro Tanaka commercials for the YES network, YouTube channel, Sweet Lefty, Jared Fontaine, The Idea of Machines   

Upper West Side, JetsCast Inspired by Milo Time, David Hillman and Daryl airing Jets grievances in the season ender, Jets season ticket waiting list, Personal Seat Licenses, Alana and Lisa rooting against the Jets, David and Daryl's rule about leaving the Jets game early, JetsCast Inspired by Milo Time commuting edition, How Milo Time works, No preparation and editing, Editing struggles, Kung Fu Fighting, Carl Douglas, Max deeply interested in sports when Milo was very young, Parents hoping to find things their kids want to do, Do we find things our kids truly love to do?, Milo less obviously interested in sports at a very young age, Courtney in Milo's kindergarten class, Neighboring parents running a Kung Fu dojo in Windsor Terrace, Kung Fu costume, Milo in Kung Fu class, Courtney's older sister Becky, Isabel Hillman, Focusing on skills, and attention, and discipline, Milo floppy and eely, Rigidity not a strength of Milo's, Milo not responding to Shifu's calls to action, Kung Fu doesn't suit Milo's strengths, Milo letting us know he was interested in soccer and baseball, T-shirt, belt, and pants, Henry Hillman, Milo trying out as a ballboy at the US Open, Driving Milo to the US Open facility, Milo gets a callback to the tryouts, Alana seeing Milo's final tryout, Alana sensing Milo would not be selected, Not in Milo's nature to snap to attention and run with urgency, Milo rubbery, Milo not selected, Sweet Lefty by The Idea of Machines  

Upper West Side of Manhattan, Snow on the Upper West Side of Manhattan, Snow in Brooklyn, Isabel Hillman, Henry Hillman, Max Kessler, Milo Kessler, Driving Max to college in Boston, Explaining draw sheets, Lisa's take on Milo's interest, Milo loved playing tennis tournaments to see himself in a tournament draw sheet, Max and Milo making up games in the basement and making up names for a bracket, Tennis brackets, NCAA brackets, Max and Milo organizing the neighborhood NCAA bracket challenge, Doing brackets for every Major tennis tournament, Alana Fishberg, Australian Open, French Open, Wimbledon, US Open, The Beacon School, Julian Fuchsberg's brackets, Jake Singer, Talia Flix, Brackets bringing order to sports, James Grayson and Milo making brackets out of anything, Jomboy, Jomboy working for YES or Yankees, Drafting numbers from 1 to 100, Similar to fantasy football, Orderliness to disorder, Ranking stuff, Milo's favorite NYT column every year analyzing paths to the NFL playoffs, Red Zone, Playoff possibilities, Moneyball, Milo and baseball statistics, Milo dedicated to particular new baseball stats, XWOBA, Explaining XWOBA, Making NFL playoff picks with Max and Milo, Fantasy football draft of players with Max and Milo, Heartbreaking to do these things without Milo, Relying on Milo's wisdom  

So great to spend more time with Milo's great friend Jacob Friedman, who Milo most certainly loved. Thank you once again, Jacob, for joining the podcast a second time and sharing some additional Milo stories and reflections.  

Upper West Side, List of Things Milo Loved, Challenges for Milo, Max, Alana, and Daryl, Lisa standing in for others who love us, Mystery surrounding our experience, Friends wanting to support but not always knowing how, Anderson Cooper podcast, We are now in another universe, Wondering how to be in this with us, So much time spent with bereaved community on communication, If you say Milo's name you may make us emotional but if you don't you will break our hearts, We are sympathetic to those who love us, Embarrassment about how I communicated with friends who suffered losses, Everyone's experience is different, Different views for different people, Milo's name will never catch us off guard, Milo on my shoulder all the time, Always thrilled to hear about Milo, There is no "Outside" of this tragedy, What is essential is that our friends and loved ones show understanding of the ubiquity, permanence, and depth of our loss, That showing is essential to our sharing a light moment, so it won't be misunderstood, We are not getting "better", People are scared by this very subject, Daryl no longer afraid of dying, Impact of Milo's death on how we perceive other tragedies, like the one in Israel and Gaza, Awful things happen to people who don't deserve it, People are learning what we learned the hard way, Awful people have wonderful things happen to them,  We'd like to think we can predict but we can't, Dawn Morikawa and The Compassionate Friends, Fentanyl, Many different needs for bereaved people, Many read everything on the subject, others don't want to read anything, Daryl opposed to instruction on the grieving process, Bereaved people made to believe they are doing something wrong, There is no attainable "other side", "Getting through" means going about your business and no more, When someone suffers a physical injury people expect them to suffer over time, but a bereaved person is expected to "get over it", We will never be the same, Re-engaging with the people most important to us, Max feels he is reacquainting  as a new person with his old friends, Lisa curious about what is different and what is the same, Are there things learnied?, We've learned things about ourselves and others, Resisting the idea of finding meaning, Mystery surrounding our new experience that others can't fathom, Pick this subject up at a later date, 

Upper West Side of Manhattan, Henry Hillman, Rick & Morty, Magic the Gathering, Japanese Soda Bottles, Separating the Art from the Artist, Isabel Hillman, Skiing, Fancy Skiers, Skiing in the Northeast, Less Scary Skiing Out West, Max Kessler and Skiing, Daryl's Skiing Career Probably Over, Alana Fishberg, First Name/Last Name as Simple Game, Milo Loves Games, Wordplay, Wordle, NYT Crossword Puzzle, First Name/Last Name Game Made Up by Max and Milo, All Names Welcome,  Playing on Long Trips, Milo's Trip to Gettysburg, PS 321, First Name/Last Name with Eamonn Choukrane, Entire Trip to Gettysburg, John's Pizza, "No Slices," No Goodnicks v. Ne'er Do-Wells, Giron, Garin, Galan, Huta Galan, Bagnis, Baghdatis, D. Novak, Novak Djokivic, Brazilian National Soccer Team, Everton, Weverton, Everson, Ederson, Demarcus Cousins, Marcus Cousin, Dwyane Wade, Dean Wade,  Larry David Ross Stevens Douglas Martin Lawrence Frank Adams Scott Shannon Sharpe James Taylor Herman Edwards Albert Jefferson Bernard Jackson Morris Clayborn Pelle Lindberg,  No Internet Allowed, Majority Rules, Milo a Stickler, Gordon Kessler, Katie Kessler, Zachary Kessler, Noah Kessler, Westchester, Stop Sign, Hammer Time, Defacing a Stop Sign 

Boston v. Brooklyn, New Year's Eve, Resolutions, Gyms, Resolutions Before the New Year, Chicago Black Sox, Eight Men Out, 1919 World Series Eddie Cicotte, Milo's Black Athletic Socks, Why Would Anyone Wear Anything Other Than Sweatpants?, Max Kessler Wearing Jeans and Nicer Stuff at a Younger Age, Milo and Max Reverse, Milo's Wardrobe Like His Diet, Visor (when young), Pajamas and Slippers, Milo with his Hands in his Pajama Pockets, Slipping Feet In and Out of Sneakers, Flat-Brimmed Baseball Cap,  Sharing Clothing with the Hillman/Cohen Kids, Isabel Hillman, Henry Hillman, Scissors Slices on T-Shirts, Odd Shapes of Flat-Brimmed Caps, Camp Starlight, Milo Day for Upper Seniors at Camp Starlight, All Upper Seniors Wear Basketball Shorts, Black Socks, Basketball Jersey, Flat-Brimmed Baseball Cap, Tennis Racket in Left Hand, Sweatpants, Hoodie, Milo's Love for Soft-Textured Stuff, Gloves, Hats, Milo Soft Before He Became Sarcastic, Alicia Bartman, Alana's Michigan T-Shirt from Alicia, Milo Loves the Michigan T-Shirt, Calling the T-Shirt "Mi", @milotimepodcast, Cutting Pointy Pizza Slice Related to Milo's Preference for Softness?,  Andy, Donna, and Shelby Edison Cutting Tips off Pizza Slices, Houston, Bend, Oregon, Sweet Lefty, The Idea of Machines

JetsCast, Isabel Hillman, Max Kessler, Jane Greeley, Todd Greeley, Denver Broncos, David Hillman, David Legitimately Angry, Daryl Throwing a Pen, No Joy to be Had From the Jets, Charlie Cardello Rant, Steven Cardello, What Were They Doing?, Melbourne, Australia, Max Playing Baseball, Tom Pritchard, Sam Pritchard, Ross Pritchard, Sally Pritchard, Ross as a Tennis Professional and a Great Athlete, Great Friendship with the Pritchards, Two Week Trip to Australia, Sydney and Melbourne, 17 Hours to Hong Kong, 9 Hours to Sydney, Boys Fit in the Seats, Sponge Bob Movie, Simpsons Movie, Spider Pig, The Man Who Slept for 17 Hours, Milo Fit Into the Seat, Milo Sleeping on the Plan, Max's Early Wake-ups, Max Losing his First Tooth in China/Hong Kong, Going to the Beach Early in the Morning in Sydney, Travel to Melbourne, Australian Open with Ross, Sam, and Tom, Robbie Ginepri, Tomas Berdych, Dominik Hrbaty, John Isler, Frank Dancevic, Jamila Groth, Sam Groth, Milo Watching Tennis with a Random Guy, Milo Recognizing "Up a Break", Melbourne Zoo, Nerf Games, Australian Rules Football, Essendon Bombers, Ross and Sally Threw a Party for Us, Max and Milo Staying at Sally's Sister's House, Trampoline in the Backyard, Beach in Australia, I Hope Ross, Sally, Tom, and Sam are Listening, Great Family