Lisa Cohen back on Milo Time, Lisa spending time in Los Angeles, Not planning to live in Los Angeles, Lisa very comfortable in Los Angeles, Daryl more like Woody Allen in Annie Hall in Los Angeles, Lisa enjoying the climate in Los Angeles, Is "missing the seasons" really a thing at our age?, Mike Lane is a person, Max and Milo were friendly with a pair of brothers, Ben and Zachary Everett-Lane, Nachsins and Muchnicks, Ben Everett-Lane also went to Brooklyn Tech High School, Milo was disdainful at the suggestion that "Mike Lane" was a name, Seeking input from others about which parent had which last name, Max posed the question to his great friend Jane Greeley, Of course, Milo was right that Mike's last name was Everett, Milo's disgust with me remains, Bookmark for a later episode  moment when Milo was adamant and incorrect, A very funny moment in time, Milo's look of disdain stays with me, Many would recognize that look from Milo

Lisa Cohen back next week and thereafter, Alana Fishberg, US Open, Donald Viscardi, Please join us on Milo Time, @milotimepodcast, Run in Prospect Park in Milo's honor Sunday, November 10, meet at Milo's tree at 9am sharp, Join us for brunch at our house after you finish, The Conversation at the Brooklyn Academy of Music, 4:40pm, Sunday September 15, Gene Hackman, Robert Duvall, Teri Garr, Harrison Ford, Cindy Williams, John Cazale, Cazale in five movies, all nominated for Best Picture, JetsCast Inspired by Milo Time, Mitch Epner, Please join us on the podcast, Dropping by Wednesday at midnight each week, Plymouth Gin Water, Icy cold water without ice cubes, The Plymouth Gin bottle has been with us for about 12 years, Milo and I must have filled the bottle thousands of times, Milo didn't like having fruit in the water, Milo would often rank the water at a restaurant, Park Slope Diner on 5th Avenue between 8th and 9th Street, Coco Rocco, New Bleu Cafe, Milo's indifference to food, but treating water as important (with his tongue in his cheek), What do we do with the items that were important to Milo?, Invitation to consider Milo while drinking from a repurposed bottle 

Donald Viscardi shares many things with Milo, Donald is Matt Viscardi's father, God is the square root of negative 1, Baseball team, Jonas Nachsin, Luis Fernandez, Jeff Greenberg, Milo coming to Donald's baseball team after playing travel baseball, Donald's story about the t-shirt, Donald's regret; thinks of what might have been, Milo would help coach his new baseball team, Milo as a wise soul, We are still learning about Milo, Milo able to share but not be obnoxious before, Milo and Matt went to different missile schools and high schools, Eighth grade, two groups of boys came together, Milo's flag football experience, Milo ended up as Donald's quarterback, 2017 Labor Day barbecue, Donald wants to get all the boys together on one team, Daryl as assistant coach and draft consultant, Da Nonna Rosa, Negotiating draft positions for our kids, The group of friends all brought different things to the table, Consecutive championships, Having the boys together on a team was a joy, Milo and Donald calling plays, Percy Harvin, Milo calling plays, Milo and Donald working together, Milo's nod to me when the last player touched the ball on offense, We never discussed it, Milo at the Viscardis while he was treating, Donald offering Milo a hug, Summer of 2021 (July or August), Milo loved being with his friends as he was treating, Milo liked being normal for a few minutes, Milo learning he was not going off to college as his friends did, Time with his friends was so precious, particularly in hindsight, David Bartels, Jody Brant, Math minds thinking and sounding alike, Something to the way a math brain processes things?, Rationalists also are full of feeling and good will, We want all the stories on Milo Time, from everyone, Donald visits Milo at Greenwood, All stories are welcome, no matter the connection, Donald's text about being unlucky versus things being unfair, Lisa's thoughts on the matter, Rationalist and mathematician,    

"Specialest" of guests on the podcast, Alana, 95th episode of Milo Time, Alana reluctant to appear on Milo Time, Alana unable to complete her first attempt to record an episode, Things Milo hated could be its own list, cut fruit in water, metal silverware scratching a plate, Alana and I have been to the US Open twice this year, US Open grounds as sacred grounds, Max, Alana, and I recently went to the US Open Qualifying, Alana been going for nearly 45 years, US Open always a big day for our family, Alana had Milo on her mind all day during our most recent visit, With Milo at US Open on one crutch in 2021, Sitting in accessible seating with Milo, Watching Matteo Berrettini play Ilya Ivashka from Belarus, Milo and a random guy the only two rooting for Ivashka, Same day we bumped into Emily and Scott Medintz and watched Jannik Sinner play against Gael Monfils, "You can't stand here," Last visit to the US Open with Milo was so memorable, August/September 2021, First time Milo left the house on one crutch, So concerned for Milo's safety that day, Milo was so game, probably walked a mile or two, That day extraordinarily memorable, Staff was so lovely, Accessible parking, Tremendous work to go to the US Open, Yankee games, Nets games, movies, Milo put his shoulders back and stood a little taller when he was in the world, in places he liked to be, Max inspired us to go to Yankees games and the US Open with Milo, even though Milo was fragile at the time, Produced amazing memories for us, Milo seemed and was fragile and there was some COVID concern as well, Maybe I failed to realize how out of the ordinary the world felt to Milo, Great challenge to Milo was never feeling like himself because of the medication and because of other limitations, Australian Open when Milo was in kindergarten and Max was in second grade, Such an exciting day when we went to the US Open as a family, Planning with the boys, Ben & Jery's has been replaced by Van Leeuwen, Milo loved to watch the scores on the screens in the main plaza of the US Open, Mission command, Milo loved to track all the matches at once, First year we brought Max to the US Open we watched Donald Young play a relatively unknown Novak Djokovic, Milo's first day at the US Open we watched young Gael Monfils play an unknown Grigor Dimitrov, Thinking about how lucky we were that the boys loved tennis as much as we did, Looking over at Bethany Mattek-Sands v. Paola Hercog feeling so lucky, Watching Canadian Jesse Levine play Ukrainian Alexander Dolgopolov, Got tribal, Alana, Milo and I drove to the US Open on a lark and watched nighttime qualifying matches, Watched Ernests Gulbis and Radu Albot, Some of our dearest friends bought a plaque for Milo "Crafty Brooklyn Lefthander," Right Next to Martina Navratilova, another crafty lefthander, Please take a picture of yourself at Milo's plaque, Plaque makes the US Open grounds even more important to us, Alana's love for tennis always inspired the boys, A gift from Alana to us all, A gift that will always be with us, Seems insufficient to be focused only on tennis, but still beautiful nonetheless           

Lisa in Los Angeles, Daryl flying solo in Brooklyn recording studio, Confession, Charlie Nachsin, Milo spent an extraordinary amount of time at the Nachsin house, Beautiful text from Nurse Jenni, Max started law school, Max mentioned to us how Milo's absence seems greater when he confronts bigger matters, The greater the joy the greater the sadness and loss, Billy Bob Thornton always 50% sad, No matter what we are experiencing we are impacted in a significant way, The bigger the moment the bigger the loss, Big moments will always be difficult, Velvette, PS 321 Playground, Our home, Milo's room in our house, What do we do with these places in our neighborhood?, Charlie Nachsin one of Milo's best friends, Martin Nachsin, Jonny Nachsin, Marie Nachsin, Jonas Nachsin, Max and Milo spent countless hours at the Nachsin home, Nachsin house was the place the boys went most often, Milo spent thousands of hours at the Nachsin house with the people most important to him, Milo cooking his friends at ping pong, Milo did everything at the Nachsin house, What do we do with the places Milo sat, touched? Some moved in the wake of the death of a child, Others could not move, for exactly the same reason, Milo's room looks exactly as it did the day he left the house the last time, What do we do with the room now?, Places in our neighborhood that were important to Milo are similarly difficult, Every inch on our block is meaningful, We suffer the loss every day, Milo's tree in Prospect Park, GreenWood, Reminders of Milo everywhere, Connecticut Muffin recently went out of business, Time moving on with Milo not being a part of those changes  

Brooklyn, NYC subways gripes, To Love is to be Brave TED Talk by Kelly Corrigan, Being aggressively present for a friend in need, Our superheroes are present, Superheroes are the people who do things quietly and for the right reasons, In someone's face, The difficulty of being present sometimes, Covid and Milo's treatment limited our friends' ability to be present, There's no reward for small gestures beyond having done a beautiful thing for a friend, Lisa notes the healthy selfishness of certain gestures, Arvydas Sabonis, Domantas Sabonis, Arvydas played for the Trailblazers, Domantas played for Gonzaga, the Pacers, and now for the Sacramento Kings, Milo developed deep relationships with people who helped care for him at Memorial Sloan Kettering, Sabonis was a nickname we gave to a physical therapist who helped Milo after his knee/fibula, tibia surgery AND after his lung surgery, Quiet support and help, Looked like Domantas Sabonis, Alana, Max, and I remember physical therapist named Timmy, Physical therapist in the physical therapy department at Memorial Sloan Kettering (attended Northeastern), Nurse Jenni was so important to Milo, Jenni would seek out Milo and we think Milo had a crush on her, Jenni was amazing, Milo was thrilled to have Jenni on his team, Nurse Littlepage was also wonderful with Milo, Biggest differences made by some of the least appreciated, least well-paid people, Dr. Adam Levy was a wonderful adviser at Montefiore, Dr. Julia Glade-Bender was a wonderful doctor and supprt, Timmy, Jenni, Sabonis, Nurse Littlepage, How much is a public school teacher worth in your life, Choosing to be a nurse in the pediatric department at Memorial Sloan Kettering, Incredible people only, Deeply underappreciated, undercompensated, and undervalued, What does it mean to say a person is successful?, Who are more important than nurses and teachers, This is a way to say thank you to some of those people       

Recording in Brooklyn, Alana and Lisa playing tennis, Har-tru tennis, Tennis at Prospect Park tennis, Feedback from our audience, DM'ing, E-mailing, Text from Donald Viscardi, Milo's flag football and baseball coach, Milo's favorite t-shirt, Milo and Donald shared a love for math, Beautiful text from Donald Viscardi, The difference between unfair and unlucky, Donald's note is thoughtful in so many ways, Milo as rationalist, When things fall on a bell curve we are typically in the meat of the bell curve but sometimes we are an outlier on the bell curve, Every year 1,000-2,000 people will be diagnosed with osteosarcoma, Lisa notes that unfairness connotes that fairness is part of the calculation, Shannon Doherty noted "why not me?", "Why not me?" recognizes that these tragedies are out there, No act could have changed the way things unfolded in this instance, Amazing connection between Donald and Milo that he shares with us repeatedly, We always want to hear about Milo, We always want to know that others are thinking about Milo,  Dave and Lisa getting mad to jump into the cold water in Maine, Lisa using the thought of Milo to develop the requisite rage, Lucy and Willa twins and great friends of Milo's, Live near Dr. Blozy, Lucy and Willa Meissner, Twins attended Brooklyn Tech with Milo and were also math majors, Daryl doesn't know Lucy and Willa very well, Dr. Blozy knew that Milo, Lucy, and Willa would be great friends, The father of Lucy and Willa died when they were young, Lucy and Willa would get together with Milo when he was at his most vulnerable and in his most weakened state, Lucy and Willa would pick Milo up at our house when he was significantly immobilized and sit with him somewhere near our house, Those visits with Milo were so important to Milo, Provided a lifeline to Milo, They were beautiful in spirit and were beautiful with Milo, We used to be embarrassingly, blissfully ignorant, Extraordinary how dedicated they were to Milo, particularly in light of what they went through with their father, Extraordinary generosity of spirit, When Milo was on crutches or a cane he struggled to get across the street on the Walk sign, There was great love between Milo and both of the twins, Thank you to both twins from Alana, Max, and me, Rob Delaney's recommendation to get in the faces of people who are suffering, Kelly Corrigan Ted Talk "To Love is to be Brave"

Studio B, Upper West Side, Isabel Hillman, Natural soundproofing, Anything can be a studio, Breaking from tradition, Daryl picks the Thing Milo Loved, Velvette is a coffee shop on the corner of 1st Street and 5th Avenue in Park Slope, Brooklyn, Velvette didn't mean much to us when it arrived a number of years ago, Velvette was just another coffee shop, Milo always had a taste for coffee, even when he was treating, Milo had had significant surgeries to his knee, tibia, and tibia, all of which compromised his mobility the rest of his life, Velvette became extremely important to us and to Milo. Velvette was near enough to allow Milo to access it, even when he was severely limited, We went to Velvette at least 2 or 3 days per week (or more), We would sit and have coffee and play cards, We became friendly with Kyril, the owner, and Ian, his business partner, Kyril and Ian were always very generous and caring towards Milo, Offered to take up a fund for Milo, Example of a place that was not unique, until it was, Eventually meant a lot to us, along with the people there, It was difficult for Milo to get across the street with the WALK sign, which gave us an appreciation for compromised or older people, Also an appreciation for how big an achievement small things can be, After Milo died, Kyril and Ian brought us coffee and pastries for days, Ian brought a Nets t-shirt and bourbon, Things and people become more meaningful after tragedy, We developed an amazing connection with them, What do we do with these places that became so meaningful to us and played such a big role in Milo's life at any time?, 321 Playground, What do we do with those places that Milo loved, with people who Milo, we, and Max came to love?, We make decisions as grievers every day, Divergent opinions from grieving people, Differing opinions on travel, for example, Divergent opinions on moving from the house, Please share your thoughts on the subject @milotimepodcast, Daryl to discuss the issue further, hopefully with input from our listening audience, Velvette as a segue to bigger issues, What do we do with places that our children loved and that now confront us every day, No answers but the questions are worthwhile, Visit Velvette and tell Ian and Kyril that Milo sent you

Studio B, Isabel Hillman, David and Lisa now bicoastal, Lisa is famous and elusive, Los Angeles, Bill Murray as Frequent Flyer, Gordon Lightfoot, Daryl not happy with David and Lisa spending time in Los Angeles, In Los Angeles, Daryl feels like Woody Allen in Annie Hall, Los Angeles feels foreign, Working off the list of things Milo loved, Eli Hartman recently added new things to the list, Standing invitation to all with connections to Milo to join Milo Time, Milo's love for games, music, and drafts, Milo and friends filling out brackets for anything and everything, First name/Last Name, Car trips with the boys, Traveling with the boys and beholden to radio stations to find music to listen to, Z100, Q104.3, KRock, WLIR, WBAB, Rihanna, Beyonce, Katie Perry, Ed Sheeran, Philip Phillips, Gwen Stefani, Taylor Swift, Drake, Drafting artists and compiling the number of listens for each artist, Toyota Prius GPS, Milo as scorekeeper, Debates over featured performers, Exciting as the trip was winding down, Florence + The Machine, Pop radio stations all played from the same playlists, Do radio stations even exist anymore, Sirius radio, Sirius radio very repetitive, Sirius radio algorithms, Thanks again to Isabel  

New studio in Isabel Hillman's room, Thanks to Isabel, Milo's teacher Anita, Small Paul, DM from Carlos Pena, Great athlete, Very unique, smart, and charismatic, Tragically, Carlos and his mom told me that Carlos' younger sister was killed by a drunk driver, Carlos and Max share this loss, as do Carlos' mother, Alana, and I, Carlos playing baseball in Virginia but plans to join for an episode of Milo Time, I routinely receive notes from people about episodes, We encourage people to share tales of Milo with us, if the podcast moves you to do so, Mitch Kaye did so recently, Lisa notes this situation is mysterious to "outsiders" and we want to move beyond that, This tragedy is unusual but not all that unusual, The word "mysterious" says a lot, Please reach out to me about questions, issues, memories, etc., Rain in New York City, Tanner from Bad News Bears, Tanner Robert Altman TV movie, Tanner Smith's, Tanner Scott, Songs that had words you didn't want your kids to sing when they were young, Fat Bottom Girls, Henry and Isabel, Always a parent's question to know when to expose kids to things, When to phase things into your kids' lives, J-Kwon Tipsy, Assume kids know more than we think they know, 50 Cent In Da Club, Summer vacation in the Berkshires, Citizen Cope Bullet and a Target, Bully Tanner Target, Kids would typically make fun of our music, Mocked Billy Joel, Ice Cream at Annie's in Otis Lakes, Singing Bullet and a Target out the windows going to and from ice cream, Daryl terrible at picking up lyrics, Max and Milo listening to uncensored music at a very young age, 2008 Olympics with Usain Bolt, Please let us know if you have any questions or input about any episode(s)