Mindful Muslimah Speaks

Mindful Muslimah Speaks

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  • Hijab Is Hard and Here Is Why

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    โ€”

    Some mornings you donโ€™t feel beautiful.

    Some days you want to take it off.

    And almost nobody talks about the small, everyday stuff that wears you down in private.


    In this episode, weโ€™re going where people donโ€™t go on this topic, and sharing what finally made the difference for me.

    We talk about:

    ๐Ÿค The everyday weight nobody sees, whether youโ€™re a student, a mom, or a career sister

    ๐Ÿค The late-night question youโ€™d never say out loud in the halaqa

    ๐Ÿค What Allah sees in the days you really donโ€™t want to put it on

    ๐Ÿค The mistake I made in my darkest season, and what it showed me

    ๐Ÿค A few practical shifts you can start tomorrow morning

    ๐Ÿค What your hijab has to do with the husband youโ€™re praying for

    You are not a bad Muslim for feeling this. And if youโ€™ve already taken it off, the door is still open.

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    ๐—”๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐— ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ต:

    โญ๏ธ 92% success rate at marriage directly after exiting our programย 

    โญ๏ธ 25+ years of experience.

    Welcome to Mindful Muslimah, where Muslim women and Muslim men in 100+ countries learn to navigate courtship, marriage, and relationships through Islamic principles.

    I'm a Muslim marriage coach with 25+ years of experience helping Muslim couples.

    As a woman happily married 22+ years, a mother of 5 and grandmother of 9, I understand what it takes to build a strong, Quran-based marriage. My mission is to help you get married in 6-12 months on average and create a marriage that lasts.

    On this channel, you'll find Islamic marriage guidance, courtship advice, Muslim relationship counseling, and pre-marital preparation rooted in the Sunnah. Whether you're a Muslim woman seeking your future husband, a Muslim man working through the courtship process, engaged couples preparing for nikah, or married and navigating relationship challenges, this is your space.

    ๐—œ ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต:

    โœ… Islamic marriage counseling and nikah preparation for Muslim couples;

    โœ… Muslim courtship and Islamic relationship guidance for the marriage journey;

    โœ… Finding a Muslim spouse and navigating matrimony as a Muslim woman or man;

    โœ… Solving Islamic marriage problems and Muslim couples counseling;

    โœ… Building Quran-based marriages and Islamic relationships that honor your faith

    โœ… Whether you're navigating Muslim courtship, exploring Islamic relationships, preparing for marriage, or working on your married relationship, my Islamic approach to marriage coaching has helped Muslim women and Muslim men worldwide find lasting love.

    Let's build your marriage foundation together.

    โค๏ธ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates:ย 

    Website: โ https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ โ 

    Instagram: โ  @mindfulmuslimahย 


    Any questions?

    Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimah

    Send us an email at [email protected]


    21 min
  • He's A Mama's Boy! RUN!

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    โ€”

    Signs a muslim man is a mamas boy are rarely obvious, because they usually sound loving on the surface.

    In this episode, Mindful Muslimah breaks down what Islam actually says about a man's duty to his mother and where that duty ends once he is married.

    Islam commands honor for the mother, but obedience to parents is never unconditional.

    If you are wondering whether a muslim man too attached to his mother is a red flag, this episode shows you what to listen for before the wedding.


    ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ In this episode, we cover:

    - Signs a muslim man is a mamas boy and why they sound so innocent

    - Why a muslim man too attached to his mother is not the same as a man who loves his mother

    - Mama boy red flags muslim man behavior that starts small and grows after marriage

    - How much should a muslim man obey his mother after marriage according to the Quran and Sunnah

    - Wife rights vs mother in law Islam and what the Prophet ๏ทบ said in the farewell sermon

    - Mother in law interference in marriage Islam does not ask you to accept

    - Should a muslim man ask his mother before decisions about the home, budget, and children

    - The difference between a muslim husband and his mother being close and her having final authority

    - Muslim marriage red flags to spot before the wedding


    TIMESTAMPS:

    00:00 โ€” Welcome Back and Our New Malaysia Channel

    00:47 โ€” Let's Talk About Mamas Boys

    00:58 โ€” Islam Commands Closeness to the Mother

    01:16 โ€” The Hadith: Who Is Most Deserving of Your Good Companionship

    01:46 โ€” Even Honor Has a Boundary

    01:56 โ€” Surah Luqman and the Limits of Obedience

    02:21 โ€” What This Means Once He Is Married

    02:43 โ€” The Farewell Sermon and a Wife's Rights

    03:11 โ€” How a Mamas Boy Pattern Starts Small

    04:08 โ€” The Line to Listen For

    04:42 โ€” Closeness vs Final Authority

    05:17 โ€” Join the Free School

    ---

    ๐—”๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐— ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ต:

    โญ๏ธ 92% success rate at marriage directly after exiting our program

    โญ๏ธ 25+ years of experience.Welcome to Mindful Muslimah, where Muslim women and Muslim men in 100+ countries learn to navigate courtship, marriage, and relationships through Islamic principles.

    I'm a Muslim marriage coach with 25+ years of experience helping Muslim couples.

    As a woman happily married 22+ years, a mother of 5 and grandmother of 9, I understand what it takes to build a strong, Quran-based marriage. My mission is to help you get married in 6-12 months on average and create a marriage that lasts.

    ๐—œ ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต:

    โœ… Islamic marriage counseling and nikah preparation for Muslim couples;

    โœ… Muslim courtship and Islamic relationship guidance for the marriage journey;

    โœ… Finding a Muslim spouse and navigating matrimony as a Muslim woman or man;

    โœ… Solving Islamic marriage problems and Muslim couples counseling;

    โœ… Building Quran-based marriages and Islamic relationships that honor your faith

    โœ… Whether you're navigating Muslim courtship, exploring Islamic relationships, preparing for marriage, or working on your married relationship, my Islamic approach to marriage coaching has helped Muslim women and Muslim men worldwide find lasting love.

    Let's build your marriage foundation together.


    โค๏ธ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates:

    Website: โ https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/

    โ Instagram: โ  @mindfulmuslimah

    Any questions?

    Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimah

    Send us an email at [email protected]

    7 min
  • How to Read a Muslim Man's Texts โ€” 3 Patterns That Reveal Everything

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    How to read a muslim man's texts is something nobody teaches you โ€” and yet so many Muslim women are trying to figure out who they are going to marry through a phone screen. In this episode, let's break down the exact 3 text patterns she has seen in hundreds of coaching calls that reveal a man's true character before you find out the hard way.


    If you have been staring at your phone trying to figure out if he is serious or if something feels off โ€” this episode will give you the clarity you need. Because how to read a muslim man's texts is not about overthinking every word. It is about knowing exactly what patterns to watch for.


    ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ In this episode, we cover:


    - How to read a muslim man's texts and spot red flags in texts from muslim men

    - Why how a man cancels tells you something a kept plan never will

    - Muslim men texting red flags you are probably overlooking right now

    - Signs a muslim man is not serious about marriage hidden in his texts

    - How to vet a muslim man over text using these 3 revealing patterns

    - Why one sided initiating is one of the biggest muslim men texting red flags

    - What happens when you bring up something uncomfortable over text


    ---

    TIMESTAMPS:

    00:00 โ€” Disclaimer

    00:45 โ€” How a Cancellation Text Reveals His True Character

    01:24 โ€” Text Pattern #1

    03:12 โ€” The Story of Noor

    03:57 โ€” Text Pattern #2

    06:02 โ€” Text Pattern #3

    07:07 โ€” Why This Third Pattern Shows Up Every Day in Marriage

    07:31 โ€” How All Three Patterns Together Tell the Full Story

    08:23 โ€” What to Do Next


    ----

    ๐—”๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐— ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ต:


    โญ๏ธ 92% success rate at marriage directly after exiting our program

    โญ๏ธ 25+ years of experience.


    I'm a Muslim marriage coach with 25+ years of experience helping Muslim couples.

    As a woman happily married 22+ years, a mother of 5 and grandmother of 9, I understand what it takes to build a strong, Quran-based marriage. My mission is to help you get married in 6-12 months on average and create a marriage that lasts.


    On this channel, you'll find Islamic marriage guidance, courtship advice, Muslim relationship counseling, and pre-marital preparation rooted in the Sunnah. Whether you're a Muslim woman seeking your future husband, a Muslim man working through the courtship process, engaged couples preparing for nikah, or married and navigating relationship challenges, this is your space.


    ๐—œ ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต:


    โœ… Islamic marriage counseling and nikah preparation for Muslim couples;

    โœ… Muslim courtship and Islamic relationship guidance for the marriage journey;

    โœ… Finding a Muslim spouse and navigating matrimony as a Muslim woman or man;

    โœ… Solving Islamic marriage problems and Muslim couples counseling;

    โœ… Building Quran-based marriages and Islamic relationships that honor your faith

    โœ… Whether you're navigating Muslim courtship, exploring Islamic relationships, preparing for marriage, or working on your married relationship, my Islamic approach to marriage coaching has helped Muslim women and Muslim men worldwide find lasting love.


    Let's build your marriage foundation together.


    โค๏ธ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates:

    Website: โ https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ โ 

    Instagram: โ  @mindfulmuslimah


    ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.3 Mil):

    โžก๏ธ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd...

    โžก๏ธ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...

    โžก๏ธ On YouTube: โ  / @mindfulmuslimah


    Any questions?

    Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimah

    Send us an email at [email protected]


    11 min
  • You're NOT the ONLY ONE He's Talking To

    ๐Ÿ“– Get the 100 Questions Full List โ€ฆ and the answer key for each one https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator/classroom/0fd3c4be?md=066b47fe6bfa429a81ae68933f026d36


    ๐Ÿ“ž FREE CALL - Want help using them the right way for your specific situation? Grab a free call: https://mindful-muslimah.com/qualify-20-minute-call/


    โžก๏ธ Join Our Free Group to Help Get Married this Year: https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator


    โ€”

    You are three weeks into talking to someone. The conversations are good, and then out of nowhere this thought hits: am I the only one he's talking to right now? Whether you spiral over it in private or push it down and tell yourself you are overthinking, neither approach actually keeps you safe.

    In this episode, two more questions from the 100 Questions list that tell you exactly where you stand, without ever having to ask him directly.


    We talk about:


    ๐Ÿค Why asking him outright gives him a script, and what to listen for instead that shows you what he's actually done, not just what he'd say

    ๐Ÿค A question about how he's handled past endings that reveals whether he closes doors or just lets things fade into silence

    ๐Ÿค A second question about his own standards that shows you what he genuinely expects from himself, not just from you

    ๐Ÿค Why a man can give you a clean answer to one of these and a vague one to the other, and why you need both to see the full picture

    92% of the women who go through our full process end up with someone genuinely compatible, not just someone who says the right things in the first few weeks. That's not luck. That's what happens when you stop guessing.


    ----

    TIMESTAMP:

    00:00:00 That Gut Feeling He's Talking to Someone Else โ€” Trust It or Not?

    00:01:46 Why Asking Him Directly Will Never Give You the Truth

    00:03:05 Question #1

    00:04:20 She Felt It for 5 Months โ€” And Was Right the Whole Time

    00:04:58 Question #2

    00:06:43 Two Questions Aren't Enough

    00:07:26 What to Do If You're Done Guessing and Ready to Move

    ---

    ๐—”๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐— ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ต:


    โญ๏ธ 92% success rate at marriage directly after exiting our program

    โญ๏ธ 25+ years of experience.


    Welcome to Mindful Muslimah, where Muslim women and Muslim men in 100+ countries learn to navigate courtship, marriage, and relationships through Islamic principles.


    I'm a Muslim marriage coach with 25+ years of experience helping Muslim couples.

    As a woman happily married 22+ years, a mother of 5 and grandmother of 9, I understand what it takes to build a strong, Quran-based marriage. My mission is to help you get married in 6-12 months on average and create a marriage that lasts.


    ๐—œ ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต:


    โœ… Islamic marriage counseling and nikah preparation for Muslim couples;

    โœ… Muslim courtship and Islamic relationship guidance for the marriage journey;

    โœ… Finding a Muslim spouse and navigating matrimony as a Muslim woman or man;

    โœ… Solving Islamic marriage problems and Muslim couples counseling;

    โœ… Building Quran-based marriages and Islamic relationships that honor your faith

    โœ… Whether you're navigating Muslim courtship, exploring Islamic relationships, preparing for marriage, or working on your married relationship, my Islamic approach to marriage coaching has helped Muslim women and Muslim men worldwide find lasting love.


    Let's build your marriage foundation together.


    โค๏ธ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates:

    Website: โ https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ โ 

    Instagram: โ  @mindfulmuslimah


    ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.3 Mil):

    โžก๏ธ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd...

    โžก๏ธ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...

    โžก๏ธ On YouTube: โ  / @mindfulmuslimah


    Any questions?

    Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimah

    Send us an email at [email protected]

    9 min
  • Questions to Ask a Muslim Man Before Marriage Part 2 โ€” Emotional Intelligence Red Flags

    ๐Ÿ“– Questions to ask a muslim man before marriage: https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator/classroom/0fd3c4be?md=066b47fe6bfa429a81ae68933f026d36


    ๐Ÿ“ž FREE CALL - Want help using them the right way for your specific situation? Grab a free call: https://mindful-muslimah.com/qualify-20-minute-call/


    โžก๏ธ Join Our Free Group to Help Get Married this Year: https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator


    ---

    Questions to ask a muslim man before marriage are not just about religion and finances โ€” and in this Part 2 episode, Mindful Muslimah goes deeper into exactly what to listen for when it comes to emotional intelligence. Because questions to ask a muslim man before marriage about his emotions will tell you more about your future marriage than almost anything else.


    If you thought a calm man was automatically an emotionally mature man โ€” this episode is going to change everything. Because calm on the outside does not mean there is something calm on the inside. And the women who get this wrong end up married to a man who shuts down every time something hard comes up.


    ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ In this episode, we cover:


    ๐Ÿค Why "he's calm" and "he's emotionally regulated" are not the same thing

    ๐Ÿค The one moment every couple eventually hits

    ๐Ÿค A feedback question that separates a man who protects his ego from a man who protects the relationship

    ๐Ÿค Why a man can pass one of these questions with flying colors and still completely fail the other


    TIMESTAMPS:

    00:00 โ€” What Researchers Say Predicts Divorce

    01:20 โ€” Why Calm Does Not Equal Emotionally Mature

    02:02 โ€” What Happens the First Time You Really Disagree

    02:40 โ€” Question 1

    03:46 โ€” Why Shutting Down Is Not Emotional Regulation

    04:26 โ€” The Story of Amina

    05:26 โ€” Question 2

    06:25 โ€” How Amina Used This Question to Avoid the Wrong Marriage

    07:05 โ€” Why You Need Both Questions Together

    07:23 โ€” How to Actually Use These Questions With Confidence


    ----

    ๐—”๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐— ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ต:


    โญ๏ธ 92% success rate at marriage directly after exiting our program

    โญ๏ธ 25+ years of experience.


    Welcome to Mindful Muslimah, where Muslim women and Muslim men in 100+ countries learn to navigate courtship, marriage, and relationships through Islamic principles.


    As a woman happily married 22+ years, a mother of 5 and grandmother of 9, I understand what it takes to build a strong, Quran-based marriage. My mission is to help you get married in 6-12 months on average and create a marriage that lasts.


    ๐—œ ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต:


    โœ… Islamic marriage counseling and nikah preparation for Muslim couples;

    โœ… Muslim courtship and Islamic relationship guidance for the marriage journey;

    โœ… Finding a Muslim spouse and navigating matrimony as a Muslim woman or man;

    โœ… Solving Islamic marriage problems and Muslim couples counseling;

    โœ… Building Quran-based marriages and Islamic relationships that honor your faith

    โœ… Whether you're navigating Muslim courtship, exploring Islamic relationships, preparing for marriage, or working on your married relationship, my Islamic approach to marriage coaching has helped Muslim women and Muslim men worldwide find lasting love.


    Let's build your marriage foundation together.


    โค๏ธ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates:

    Website: โ https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ โ 

    Instagram: โ  @mindfulmuslimah


    ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.3 Mil):

    โžก๏ธ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd...

    โžก๏ธ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...

    โžก๏ธ On YouTube: โ  / @mindfulmuslimah


    Any questions?

    Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimah

    Send us an email at [email protected]


    9 min
  • 100 Question to ask a potential spouse [Part 1]

    ๐Ÿ“– Get the 100 Questions Full List โ€ฆ and the answer key for each one https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator/classroom/0fd3c4be?md=066b47fe6bfa429a81ae68933f026d36


    ๐Ÿ“ž FREE CALL - Want help using them the right way for your specific situation? Grab a free call: https://mindful-muslimah.com/qualify-20-minute-call/


    โžก๏ธ Join Our Free Group to Help Get Married this Year: https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator

    โ€”

    The average woman spends over 2,000 hours of her life vetting men before she finds the right one. Years of texting, meeting, hoping, and getting let down. In this episode, I'm pulling from one of the most requested resources I have, my actual 100 Questions list, the one I hand every coaching client before she ever sits down with a guy, and giving you a sneak peek inside it.


    We talk about:

    ๐Ÿค The religiosity question almost every sister asks wrong, and the one version of it that actually tells you who he becomes married to you

    ๐Ÿค Two real answers to the same question that sound equally sincere, until you learn what to actually listen for

    ๐Ÿค The parents' marriage question that exposes whether he's repeating a pattern or choosing something different, and why that gap matters more than you think

    ๐Ÿค Why a man can pass the first question with flying colors and still be the wrong one


    These are not questions to lower your standards. They're questions to finally know what you're listening for.


    ---

    TIMESTAMPS:

    00:00:00 She Spent 5 Years Vetting the Wrong Way โ€” Here's What Changed

    00:01:11 Why the Basic Religiosity Checklist Is Not Enough

    00:02:38 Question #1

    00:04:10 Meet Layla โ€” 5.5 Years of Nothing, Then This

    00:04:58 Question #2

    00:06:35 What to Do Next If This Hit Different


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    ๐—”๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐— ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ต:


    โญ๏ธ 92% success rate at marriage directly after exiting our program

    โญ๏ธ 25+ years of experience.


    Welcome to Mindful Muslimah, where Muslim women and Muslim men in 100+ countries learn to navigate courtship, marriage, and relationships through Islamic principles.


    I'm a Muslim marriage coach with 25+ years of experience helping Muslim couples.


    As a woman happily married 22+ years, a mother of 5 and grandmother of 9, I understand what it takes to build a strong, Quran-based marriage. My mission is to help you get married in 6-12 months on average and create a marriage that lasts.


    On this channel, you'll find Islamic marriage guidance, courtship advice, Muslim relationship counseling, and pre-marital preparation rooted in the Sunnah. Whether you're a Muslim woman seeking your future husband, a Muslim man working through the courtship process, engaged couples preparing for nikah, or married and navigating relationship challenges, this is your space.


    ๐—œ ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐— ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต:


    โœ… Islamic marriage counseling and nikah preparation for Muslim couples;

    โœ… Muslim courtship and Islamic relationship guidance for the marriage journey;

    โœ… Finding a Muslim spouse and navigating matrimony as a Muslim woman or man;

    โœ… Solving Islamic marriage problems and Muslim couples counseling;

    โœ… Building Quran-based marriages and Islamic relationships that honor your faith

    โœ… Whether you're navigating Muslim courtship, exploring Islamic relationships, preparing for marriage, or working on your married relationship, my Islamic approach to marriage coaching has helped Muslim women and Muslim men worldwide find lasting love.


    Let's build your marriage foundation together.


    โค๏ธ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates:

    Website: โ https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ โ 

    Instagram: โ  @mindfulmuslimah


    ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.3 Mil):

    โžก๏ธ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd...

    โžก๏ธ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...

    โžก๏ธ On YouTube: โ  / @mindfulmuslimah


    Any questions?

    Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimah

    Send us an email at [email protected]

    8 min
  • What Men REALLY Want and Don't Want

    โžก๏ธ Join Our Free Group to Help Get Married this Year: https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator


    โ™ฅ๏ธ Want to FAST TRACK Your Search with Help from Mindful Muslimah? (Get a FREE CALL): https://mindful-muslimah.com/qualify-20-minute-call-ytad2026/


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    Almost 50% of Muslim marriages are struggling, and 70% of the time it's women initiating the divorce. Why are so many of us walking into marriage excited, then finding ourselves unsatisfied within a year or two? In this episode, we're talking about what men actually want, straight from the voices of men.


    We talk about:


    ๐Ÿค The word so many women use with good intentions that quietly sends the wrong message


    ๐Ÿค What men mean when they say they want to feel needed, and why it isn't what you think


    ๐Ÿค The choice 80% of struggling couples had in common before they ever said "I do"


    None of this means bending over backwards or losing yourself. It means learning how to say what you need in a way he can actually hear.


    ๐Ÿ”” Subscribe for weekly episodes on faith, identity, and everyday life as a Muslim woman.


    #MuslimMarriage #IslamicMarriageAdvice #MindfulMuslimah #MuslimWomen #HalalRelationships



    TIMESTAMPS:



    00:00:00 The Muslim Marriage Crisis Nobody Wants to Talk About

    00:01:33 The Statistics That Should Scare Every Muslim Woman

    00:04:31 What Men Actually Want (And What's Turning Them Off)

    00:08:59 The Word "Independent" Is Costing You Good Matches

    00:11:22 What Islam Actually Says About a Wife's Role

    00:18:32 Why We Keep Ending Up in the Wrong Marriages

    00:22:05 3 Things to Take Home From This Episode

    00:25:04 The Choice You Make Today Affects Your Children's Future



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    92% success rate at marriage directly after exiting our program

    25+ years of experience.


    Welcome to Mindful Muslimah, where Muslim women and Muslim men in 100+ countries learn to navigate courtship, marriage, and relationships through Islamic principles.


    I'm a Muslim marriage coach with 25+ years of experience helping Muslim couples.

    As a woman happily married 22+ years, amother of 5 and grandmother of 9, I understand what it takes to build a strong, Quran-based marriage. My mission is to help you get married in 6-12 months on average and create a marriage that lasts.


    On this channel, you'll find Islamic marriage guidance, courtship advice, Muslim relationship counseling, and pre-marital preparation rooted in the Sunnah. Whether you're a Muslim woman seeking your future husband, a Muslim man working through the courtship process, engaged couples preparing for nikah, or married and navigating relationship challenges, this is your space.


    I specialize in helping Muslim women and now Muslim men with:

    Islamic marriage counseling and nikah preparation for Muslim couples

    Muslim courtship and Islamic relationship guidance for the marriage journey

    Finding a Muslim spouse and navigating matrimony as a Muslim woman or man

    Solving Islamic marriage problems and Muslim couples counseling

    Building Quran-based marriages and Islamic relationships that honor your faith

    Whether you're navigating Muslim courtship, exploring Islamic relationships, preparing for marriage, or working on your married relationship, my Islamic approach to marriage coaching has helped Muslim women and Muslim men worldwide find lasting love.

    Let's build your marriage foundation together.


    โค๏ธ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates:

    Website: โ https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ โ 

    Instagram: โ  / โ€ฌโ 


    ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.2 Mil):

    โžก๏ธ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd...

    โžก๏ธ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...

    โžก๏ธ On YouTube: โ  / @mindfulmuslimah


    Any questions?

    Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimah

    Send us an email at [email protected]


    29 min
  • He Says He's Religious But Misses Fajr โ€” Red Flag or Room to Grow?

    โ™ฅ๏ธ Want to FAST TRACK Your Search with Help from Mindful Muslimah? (Get a FREE CALL): https://mindful-muslimah.com/qualify-20-minute-call-ytad2026/


    โžก๏ธ Join Our Free Group to Help Get Married this Year: https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator


    -----


    You caught yourself going back and forth in your head, telling yourself you can't be a hypocrite for questioning his religiosity, then wondering if you're just overthinking it. In this episode, we're making it crystal clear with three simple checkpoints.


    We talk about:

    ๐Ÿค The difference between a season and a pattern, and why it changes everything

    ๐Ÿค What his response actually reveals, and why it matters more than the mistake itself

    ๐Ÿค The one question to come back to when you feel yourself getting lost in the back and forth


    Sometimes you cannot see your own blind spots until you talk to someone else who can. That is exactly what this space is here for.


    ๐Ÿ”” Subscribe for weekly episodes on faith, identity, and everyday life as a Muslim woman.


    #MuslimMarriage #IslamicMarriageAdvice #MindfulMuslimah #MuslimWomen #HalalRelationships


    TIMESTAMPS:

    00:00:00 Is He Actually Religious โ€” Or Are You Just Hoping He Is?

    00:01:07 Sign #1: Is It a Pattern or Just a Season?

    00:02:44 Sign #2: Watch How He Responds When You Bring It Up

    00:06:28 Sign #3: Zoom Out and Go Back to Your Non-Negotiables

    00:08:14 What to Do If You're Still Not Sure


    ----


    92% success rate at marriage directly after exiting our program

    25+ years of experience.


    Welcome to Mindful Muslimah, where Muslim women and Muslim men in 100+ countries learn to navigate courtship, marriage, and relationships through Islamic principles.


    I'm a Muslim marriage coach with 25+ years of experience helping Muslim couples.

    As a woman happily married 22+ years, amother of 5 and grandmother of 9, I understand what it takes to build a strong, Quran-based marriage. My mission is to help you get married in 6-12 months on average and create a marriage that lasts.


    On this channel, you'll find Islamic marriage guidance, courtship advice, Muslim relationship counseling, and pre-marital preparation rooted in the Sunnah. Whether you're a Muslim woman seeking your future husband, a Muslim man working through the courtship process, engaged couples preparing for nikah, or married and navigating relationship challenges, this is your space.


    I specialize in helping Muslim women and now Muslim men with:

    Islamic marriage counseling and nikah preparation for Muslim couples

    Muslim courtship and Islamic relationship guidance for the marriage journey

    Finding a Muslim spouse and navigating matrimony as a Muslim woman or man

    Solving Islamic marriage problems and Muslim couples counseling

    Building Quran-based marriages and Islamic relationships that honor your faith

    Whether you're navigating Muslim courtship, exploring Islamic relationships, preparing for marriage, or working on your married relationship, my Islamic approach to marriage coaching has helped Muslim women and Muslim men worldwide find lasting love.

    Let's build your marriage foundation together.


    โค๏ธ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates:

    Website: โ https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ โ 

    Instagram: โ  / โ€ฌโ 


    ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.2 Mil):

    โžก๏ธ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd...

    โžก๏ธ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...

    โžก๏ธ On YouTube: โ  / @mindfulmuslimah


    Any questions?

    Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimah

    Send us an email at [email protected]


    12 min
  • 3 Things to Do to Get Emotionally Mature Before Marriage

    โญ๏ธ Already married and struggling? Marriage Mending Workshop: https://muslimmarriageworkshop.com/ย 


    โ™ฅ๏ธ Want to FAST TRACK Your Search with Help from Mindful Muslimah? (Get a FREE CALL):ย  https://mindful-muslimah.com/qualify-20-minute-call-ytad2026/ย 


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    Ever felt so much anxiety about a guy that you convinced yourself it must be a sign, then later realized it wasn't a sign at all?


    In this episode, we're getting into three shifts that separate emotionally mature women from the ones who keep throwing away good matches without realizing why.


    We talk about:

    ๐Ÿค The simple pause that changes how every hard conversation goes

    ๐Ÿค Why your unhealed triggers might be showing up in ways you haven't noticed

    ๐Ÿค The vetting mistake so many women make before they even realize they're making it

    It doesn't take years of therapy. You can start today.


    ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Shoutout to all the sisters in the free Skool community sharing their journeys with so much honesty.


    ๐Ÿ”” Subscribe for weekly episodes on faith, identity, and everyday life as a Muslim woman.


    #MuslimMarriage #EmotionalMaturity #MindfulMuslimah #MuslimWomen #IslamicMarriageAdvice


    TIMESTAMPS:

    00:00:00 Are You Throwing Away Good Matches Without Realizing It?

    00:02:05 Tip #1

    00:02:18 Tip #2

    00:04:48 Tip #3

    00:08:14 Quick Recap Before You Go

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    92% success rate at marriage directly after exiting our programย 

    25+ years of experience.

    Welcome to Mindful Muslimah, where Muslim women and Muslim men in 100+ countries learn to navigate courtship, marriage, and relationships through Islamic principles.

    I'm a Muslim marriage coach with 25+ years of experience helping Muslim couples.

    As a woman happily married 22+ years, amother of 5 and grandmother of 9, I understand what it takes to build a strong, Quran-based marriage. My mission is to help you get married in 6-12 months on average and create a marriage that lasts.

    On this channel, you'll find Islamic marriage guidance, courtship advice, Muslim relationship counseling, and pre-marital preparation rooted in the Sunnah. Whether you're a Muslim woman seeking your future husband, a Muslim man working through the courtship process, engaged couples preparing for nikah, or married and navigating relationship challenges, this is your space.

    I specialize in helping Muslim women and now Muslim men with:

    Islamic marriage counseling and nikah preparation for Muslim couples

    Muslim courtship and Islamic relationship guidance for the marriage journey

    Finding a Muslim spouse and navigating matrimony as a Muslim woman or man

    Solving Islamic marriage problems and Muslim couples counseling

    Building Quran-based marriages and Islamic relationships that honor your faith

    Whether you're navigating Muslim courtship, exploring Islamic relationships, preparing for marriage, or working on your married relationship, my Islamic approach to marriage coaching has helped Muslim women and Muslim men worldwide find lasting love.

    Let's build your marriage foundation together.

    โค๏ธ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates:ย 

    Website: โ https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ โ 

    Instagram: โ ย  @mindfulmuslimah


    ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.3 Mil):ย 

    โžก๏ธ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd...

    โžก๏ธ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...

    โžก๏ธ On YouTube: โ  ย  / @mindfulmuslimahย ย ย 


    Any questions?

    Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimah

    Send us an email at [email protected]

    13 min
  • How to Find a Husband OFFLINE in 2026

    Ready to talk through your specific situation?


    โ™ฅ๏ธ Click for a FREE CALL so you can get married this year) https://mindful-muslimah.com/qualify-20-minute-call-ytad2026/ย 


    โžก๏ธ Join Our Free Group to Help Get Married this Year: https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageacceleratorย ย 


    โ™ฅ๏ธ Want to FAST TRACK Your Search with Help from Mindful Muslimah? (Get a FREE CALL):ย  https://mindful-muslimah.com/qualify-20-minute-call-ytad2026/ย 


    โ€”

    Everyone is scrolling, swiping, and still coming up empty. So sis, is it actually possible to find a good man the real way, especially after divorce? The answer is not always, unless you have a few critical things in place first, and one of them changes everything.


    We talk about:

    ๐Ÿค A pattern that runs deeper than you think, and quietly shapes every relationship you enter

    ๐Ÿค Why repeating the same approach and expecting a different result never works, and how to actually break it

    ๐Ÿค The courage this season requires, even when not everyone agrees with your choices

    ๐Ÿค The one factor that matters more than anything else on this list, saved for last


    You are not too late, and you are not unmarriageable. You just need the right approach this time, in shaa Allah.


    ๐Ÿ’ฌ Drop a comment and let me know which part hit you the hardest. I read every single one.


    ๐Ÿ”” Subscribe for weekly episodes on faith, identity, and everyday life as a Muslim woman.


    #MuslimMarriage #FindingAHusband #IslamicMarriageAdvice #MindfulMuslimah #MuslimWomen


    TIMESTAMP:

    00:00:00 Why Good Guys Keep Passing You By (And You Don't Even Know It)

    00:01:07 Path #1

    00:04:46 Path #2

    00:06:31 Path #3

    00:09:52 The One Thing Keeping You Invisible Everywhere You Go

    00:14:05 Bonus: How to Tell If He's Actually Ready for You

    00:14:43 If Marriage Still Feels Far Away, Listen to This


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    92% success rate at marriage directly after exiting our programย 

    25+ years of experience.

    Welcome to Mindful Muslimah, where Muslim women and Muslim men in 100+ countries learn to navigate courtship, marriage, and relationships through Islamic principles.

    I'm a Muslim marriage coach with 25+ years of experience helping Muslim couples.

    As a woman happily married 22+ years, amother of 5 and grandmother of 9, I understand what it takes to build a strong, Quran-based marriage. My mission is to help you get married in 6-12 months on average and create a marriage that lasts.

    On this channel, you'll find Islamic marriage guidance, courtship advice, Muslim relationship counseling, and pre-marital preparation rooted in the Sunnah. Whether you're a Muslim woman seeking your future husband, a Muslim man working through the courtship process, engaged couples preparing for nikah, or married and navigating relationship challenges, this is your space.

    I specialize in helping Muslim women and now Muslim men with:

    Islamic marriage counseling and nikah preparation for Muslim couples

    Muslim courtship and Islamic relationship guidance for the marriage journey

    Finding a Muslim spouse and navigating matrimony as a Muslim woman or man

    Solving Islamic marriage problems and Muslim couples counseling

    Building Quran-based marriages and Islamic relationships that honor your faith

    Whether you're navigating Muslim courtship, exploring Islamic relationships, preparing for marriage, or working on your married relationship, my Islamic approach to marriage coaching has helped Muslim women and Muslim men worldwide find lasting love.

    Let's build your marriage foundation together.

    โค๏ธ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates:ย 

    Website: โ https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ โ 

    Instagram: โ ย  @mindfulmuslimah

    ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.2 Mil):ย 

    โžก๏ธ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd...

    โžก๏ธ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...

    โžก๏ธ On YouTube: โ  ย  / @mindfulmuslimahย ย ย 

    Any questions?

    Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimah

    Send us an email at [email protected]

    16 min

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