In this heartfelt and hilarious episode, I sit down with Jen and Kirsten—co-founders of Wives of the Armed Forces(WAFs) and powerhouse military spouses—to talk about the highs, lows, and pivots of military life. From awkward first friend dates to navigating PCS, deployments, and major life transitions, we dig into what it really takes to find your people and stay grounded when everything around you is changing.

Whether you're new to military life, preparing for transition, or craving a deeper sense of connection and purpose, Jen and Kirst share invaluable lessons on friendship, flexibility, and how WAFs was born—on a couch, during a move, in the middle of military chaos (naturally).

Topics We Cover:

• Creating authentic friendships in the military community
• Redefining transitions: PCS vs PCA
• The emotional toll of military isolation
• How to build a support system from scratch
• Why WAFs is changing the conversation for modern military spouses

This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating military life—or supporting someone who is. Prepare to laugh, nod along, and maybe even tear up.

🎧 Tune in, share with a fellow spouse, and don’t forget: never say never.

In this eye-opening episode, Kerri talks with Ellen Gustafson, co-founder of the Military Family Building Coalition (MFBC), about the glaring gap in Tricare’s infertility coverage—and what it will actually take to change it.

Ellen shares her personal IVF journey, and how she and her co-founders launched MFBC with one bold goal: to solve the problem of fertility access for military families—and then shut their nonprofit down. Why? Because IVF and fertility care should be covered by Tricare, plain and simple.

This episode breaks down:

• Why Tricare’s current system is failing military families
• The bureaucratic hurdles keeping IVF and ART (assisted reproductive technology) out of covered care
• What it takes to get Congress to act: storytelling, grassroots advocacy, and pressure from organized voices
• The difference in fertility benefits between veterans and active duty (and why it’s still not enough)
• How MFBC creatively secures free fertility services for military members—like sperm preservation and care navigation

Together, Kerri and Ellen pull no punches: Tricare is outdated, the military’s message of “supporting families” is hollow without fertility coverage, and the burden of treatment costs (often exceeding $100K out-of-pocket) is pushing service members to the brink.

Policy change is possible—but only if military families, providers, and allies speak up. MFBC is connecting the dots between advocacy, access, and action.

🧠 Topics Covered:

• How Tricare ignores modern family-building needs
• Why “support the troops” rings hollow without real reproductive healthcare
• What Congress needs to hear to include IVF coverage
• Ellen’s journey through IVF as a military spouse
• Grassroots organizing in the military community
• Matching military families with free fertility services
• The goal: full coverage, no need for nonprofits

If you’re a military family affected by infertility—or an advocate ready to fight for reproductive justice—this episode will fuel your fire. Listen, share, and demand better from the system.

👉 Visit www.mindfulwarrioralliance.org to learn more, connect with our mission, or make a donation to support military families navigating infertility. Every dollar helps us fight for coverage, care, and change.

In this raw and real episode, I’m sharing an honest update from the heart of my IVF journey. From the anxiety leading up to retrieval to the unexpected joy of hearing that 6 out of 7 eggs fertilized, I walk you through what’s been different this round—mentally, emotionally, and physically.

I talk about how I'm managing stress through a keto lifestyle, daily walks with my family, better sleep, and by fully trusting my protocol (hello, Menopur!). I also open up about the nerves, the hope, and how pouring energy into planning our Birdie for Babies golf fundraiser has kept me grounded and focused.

💛 If you or someone you love is navigating infertility—especially in the military community—know this: You’re not alone.

👉 Want to support military couples going through IVF and mental health struggles?
Visit mindfulwarrioralliance.org/donate to make a difference today.

In this deeply personal and inspiring episode, I’m joined by Amanda, a nurse and the global travel patient coordinator at CNY Fertility. Amanda has been with CNY for over 16 years and has grown from folding towels and scheduling acupuncture to leading remote care for patients traveling from all over the world. We talk about how she found her way into the fertility field completely by accident—and never looked back.

I first met Amanda during our own IVF journey at CNY’s Albany clinic, and she was one of the people who made that emotional rollercoaster feel manageable—even enjoyable at times. Her warmth, empathy, and deep understanding of the patient experience shine through in this conversation.

We explore:

• Amanda’s journey from nail tech to RN and global patient care manager
• The unique culture of CNY and what sets it apart from other fertility clinics
• Why letting go of rigid expectations is so key to navigating infertility
• How a supportive team and environment can make all the difference
• The emotional toll of IVF—and how mindset plays a crucial role in the process
• What Amanda has learned from working with thousands of patients over the years

If you’re in the thick of an infertility journey, considering IVF, or just want a hopeful reminder that you’re not alone—this episode is for you. Amanda reminds us that while the path may be uncertain, you don’t have to walk it alone. ❤️

Struggling with infertility, loss, or postpartum challenges? Mindful Warrior Alliance offers FREE mental health counseling, IVF scholarships, and family-building resources for military members & spouses.
👉 Learn more and get support at mindfulwarrioralliance.org

Supporting Military Families Through Infertility and Mental Health Challenges

Mindful Warrior Alliance is a nonprofit organization providing free mental health counseling and IVF financial support to military members, veterans, and their spouses. Whether you’re active duty, reserve, National Guard, or a veteran, our mission is to ensure no military family faces infertility or mental health struggles alone.

We offer:

• Six free therapy sessions with licensed mental health professionals trained in military and infertility care
• Quarterly IVF scholarships to help offset the high costs of fertility treatments
• Nationwide and international support for those stationed or deployed around the world

💻 Learn more and apply at mindfulwarrioralliance.org
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Join us in breaking the silence around infertility and mental health in the military community.

Meditation is a powerful tool for reducing stress, enhancing mental wellness, and fostering a sense of calm—especially for military families, spouses, and veterans navigating the emotional challenges of infertility, military transitions, and mental health struggles.

In this episode of Mindful Warrior Alliance, we explore 5 different meditation techniques to help you find the one that works best for you:

• Mindfulness meditation for staying present and reducing anxiety
• Guided meditation to find peace during fertility treatments or stressful moments
• Breathing exercises to quickly reduce stress and reset your mind
• Body scan meditation to enhance relaxation and body awareness
• Loving-kindness meditation for cultivating compassion, self-love, and emotional healing

Whether you’re struggling with infertility, dealing with the stress of military life, or simply looking for ways to improve your mental well-being, these meditation techniques can be tailored to your unique needs.

👉 Listen now, subscribe, and share this episode with a fellow military spouse or service member who could benefit from these stress-relieving meditation techniques. Visit mindfulwarrioralliance.org for more resources and tools to support your mental health and fertility journey.

Navigating the challenges of infertility and stress in military life can leave you wondering: Do I need a therapist or a coach? In this episode of Mindful Warrior Alliance, Kerri Bicskei, psychotherapist and Air Force spouse, helps you understand the difference between therapy and coaching, and how to identify which support is best for you.

You’ll learn:

• The key differences between a therapist and a coach
• 7 signs that indicate you may benefit from therapy or coaching
• How to decide which approach aligns best with your mental health and fertility journey
• Practical examples of how therapy and coaching can address stress, anxiety, depression, and emotional challenges
• Why both therapy and coaching can play a crucial role in healing and personal growth

If you're a military spouse, service member, or someone navigating the emotional challenges of infertility, this episode offers valuable insights to help you find the right support for your needs.

👉 Listen now, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who might be unsure whether they need a therapist or a coach. Visit mindfulwarrioralliance.org for more resources on mental health, infertility, and emotional wellness.

Perfectionism can be a silent barrier, especially for military families, spouses, and veterans navigating the emotional and physical challenges of infertility and stressful life transitions. In this episode of Mindful Warrior Alliance, host Kerri Bicskei, psychotherapist and Air Force spouse, dives into the complexities of perfectionism, how it manifests, and why it’s particularly prevalent in those facing high-pressure situations like IVF, pregnancy loss, and military life.

You’ll learn:

• The key signs of perfectionism and how it shows up in your day-to-day life
• How perfectionism can negatively impact your mental health, relationships, and fertility journey
• Actionable tools to manage and combat perfectionist tendencies
• Practical strategies for embracing self-compassion and creating a healthier mindset
• How to balance high expectations with the reality of navigating military moves, deployments, and fertility treatments

This episode is for anyone struggling with perfectionism in the midst of military transitions, infertility treatments, and the constant pressure to do it all. It’s time to give yourself permission to be imperfect, and to move forward with more peace and self-acceptance.

👉 Listen now, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs to let go of perfectionism. Visit mindfulwarrioralliance.org for more resources and tools to help you on your mental wellness and fertility journey.

n this powerful episode of Mindful Warrior Alliance, we’re joined by a Special Operations military member who shares firsthand insights on managing mental health in the high-stress, high-performance world of special operations. Serving in elite roles within the military, these individuals face unparalleled challenges that impact their mental health, resilience, and well-being.

We dive deep into:

• The unique mental health challenges faced by members of the Special Operations community
• Proven stress management techniques to navigate combat stress, high-pressure environments, and personal adversity
• The importance of mental wellness in maintaining peak performance both on and off the job
• Practical strategies to reduce anxiety, combat burnout, and enhance emotional resilience
• Why addressing mental health in elite military units is essential for both the individual and team performance

If you’re in special operations, military service, or experiencing high-stress situations, this episode provides actionable advice to improve mental health and achieve sustainable stress management.

👉 Listen now, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs stress management strategies for high-pressure environments. Visit mindfulwarrioralliance.org for more resources, support, and tools for mental wellness.

n this special episode of Mindful Warrior Alliance, we’re joined by Bruce Langford, host of Mindfulness Mode, to explore how mindfulness can be a powerful tool for military families and spouses facing infertility, stress, and the emotional demands of military life.

Bruce shares practical techniques for incorporating mindfulness into your daily routine, helping to reduce anxiety, improve mental health, and create a sense of inner peace—even during challenging times like IVF cycles, pregnancy loss, or PCS moves.

You’ll learn:

• How mindfulness can help you manage the emotional strain of infertility and military transitions
• Simple mindfulness practices to reduce stress and increase emotional resilience
• The science behind mindfulness and its impact on mental health
• How to use mindfulness to stay present and calm when facing uncertainty
• Practical tips from Bruce Langford on how to start your own mindfulness practice, even if you’ve never tried it before

This episode is perfect for anyone in the military community or anyone facing the emotional rollercoaster of infertilityand mental health challenges. Let Bruce’s insights help you find calm and strength in your journey.

👉 Listen now, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who could benefit from mindfulness practices. Visit mindfulwarrioralliance.org for more resources, tools, and support on your path to mental wellness and fertility.