Feeling stuck in self-doubt or questioning your worth as an entrepreneur? In this 10-minute guided session, Stacie Spiler, founder of MAP Coaching, helps you release limiting beliefs, align with your next-level identity, and step confidently into your business. Perfect for women entrepreneurs ready to build success from the inside out.

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In this conversation, Stacie Spiler delves into the complex interplay of identity, gender, and the development of children. She emphasises the importance of providing a clear framework for children to understand their identities while allowing for exploration and self-expression. The discussion highlights the potential confusion that can arise from a lack of clarity and the impact of societal labels on children's self-concept. Stacie advocates for a balanced approach that fosters freedom within a context of understanding, ultimately aiming to support children's mental health and well-being.

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Are you truly manifesting—or subtly manipulating your reality without realizing it?

In this episode of Mindset by Design, we uncover the hidden reason your manifestations aren’t working — and it has nothing to do with how hard you’re trying. It’s about energy, alignment, and the beliefs you’re unconsciously carrying beneath the surface.

What if your manifestation practice isn’t blocked… it’s just misaligned?

You’ll learn:

This isn’t about toxic positivity or forcing yourself to “feel good.”

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In this conversation, Stacie Spiler explores the themes of manifestation, personal transformation, and the in-between stages of growth. She discusses her journey through trauma, the shift in her identity, and the importance of aligning with new values and perspectives. Stacie emphasises the role of money as energy and the need to heal relationships with the divine masculine to embrace abundance fully. The conversation concludes with insights on co-creating with the universe and the evolution of her podcast's direction.

Takeaways

Manifestation involves navigating an in-between stage of transformation.

Personal growth often requires letting go of past identities.

Healing trauma is essential for embracing new perspectives.

Money should be viewed as energy, not a stigma.

Aligning with high-vibrational clients enhances the coaching experience.

The divine masculine plays a crucial role in our relationship with wealth.

Co-creation with the universe is about trusting the process.

Patience is key in the journey of personal development.

Recognizing the value of oneself is essential for growth.

The podcast is transitioning to reflect a new focus on mindset.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Manifestation and Quantum Leaps

05:40 Shifting Perspectives on Trauma and Healing

10:59 The Role of Money and Abundance in Personal Growth

17:06 Understanding the Divine Masculine and Wealth

22:41 Conclusion and Future Directions

Do you feel a quiet pull toward something greater but have no evidence it will work out? This episode is for those who know deep down they were made for more but have yet to see results, validation, or recognition.

In this episode, I share how to distinguish the voice of Source from the noise of your mind, why the preparation phase is essential, and how to stay connected to your why even when nothing external confirms it. I dive into practical strategies for aligning with your calling, building consistency, and managing your energy while learning and creating in the “invisible” season.

I also walk you through a glimpse of my own daily routine—how I structure my days to live fully aligned with my calling, from morning rituals to creative work, study, and self-management. This episode is designed to help you trust your path, stay in your lane, and cultivate the patience and resilience needed to manifest your purpose.

If you’ve tried multiple jobs, felt out of place, or questioned whether your calling is real, this conversation is for you. Learn how to honour your journey, celebrate invisible progress, and take aligned action even without external proof.

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Are you struggling with self-sabotage, inner conflict, or patterns you can’t seem to break? In this video, I explore Internal Family Systems (IFS) and how building relationships with your parts can transform healing. Instead of rejecting your managers, firefighters, or exiles — I’ll show you how compassion and awareness create real change.If you’ve ever felt stuck in shame, judgment, or toxic patterns, this episode will help you understand your parts, unlearn harmful narratives, and embrace your shadows as essential to your growth.✨ Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share if this resonates. Your support helps spread this message to others on their healing journey.📌 Subscribe for more insights on:Trauma HealingFamily Dynamics & RolesRelationship GrowthSelf-Development & Mindset ShiftsInternal Family Systems (IFS)🔗 Links:🌐 Website: https://staciespiler.com/📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Ditching_The_Dysfunction🐦 Twitter/X: https://x.com/StacieSpiler🛠 Toolkit: https://drive.google.com/file/d/17T2Uz4mkVEw06LbDnhcqMTdCCTTvp6rQ/view?usp=sharing#TraumaHealing #SelfDevelopment #RelationshipHealing #MotivationalSpeaker #MindsetShift

In this conversation, Stacie Spiler discusses the concept of triangulation in parenting, where children are pulled into adult conflicts, leading to emotional burdens that hinder their development. She explains how this dynamic creates roles such as scapegoat and peacemaker among siblings, affecting their emotional well-being and relationships. Stacie emphasizes the importance of breaking this cycle to allow children to experience a safe and nurturing environment, free from adult problems. She encourages parents to reflect on their family dynamics and the long-term implications for their children's future relationships.

Takeaways

Triangulation can harm children by involving them in adult conflicts.

Children often feel responsible for maintaining peace in the home.

Roles like scapegoat and peacemaker can develop among siblings.

These roles can lead to anxiety and emotional issues in children.

Parents can break the cycle by setting boundaries and communicating directly.

Children deserve to feel safe and free to be themselves.

Family dynamics shape children's future relationships and coping mechanisms.

Awareness of triangulation is crucial for healthy parenting.

Parents should reflect on their behaviour and its impact on children.

Therapeutic coaching can help parents apply these insights in their lives.

Sound bites

"Kids absorb, they feel responsible for the peace."

"This is triangulation in action."

"They stop being free to just be themselves."

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Triangulation in Parenting

05:46 Breaking the Cycle of Triangulation

10:42 Empowering Children to Be Themselves

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Ever wondered why your family felt like it had “set roles” growing up? 🤔 In this video, we break down Family Systems Theory — how families operate as interconnected webs, the survival roles children adopt (Hero, Scapegoat, Lost Child, Mascot), and how these patterns can follow us into adulthood.

You’ll learn:

This teaching is perfect for anyone interested in childhood trauma, family dynamics, psychology, and healing work.

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In this conversation, Stacie Spiler explores the profound impact of our thoughts and beliefs on our lives. She discusses how repetitive thought patterns can trap individuals in cycles of low vibrational living, emphasising the importance of recognising and changing these narratives. Stacie introduces the concept of the higher self and the necessity of accountability in personal growth. She outlines a framework for transformation that includes recognising patterns, taking responsibility, and maintaining consistency in efforts to change. The conversation culminates in a call to action for listeners to embrace their potential and make conscious choices for a better future.Chapters00:00 The Power of Thoughts and Patterns06:35 Understanding Your Past and Present12:39 The Cost of Change18:33 Taking Accountability for Your Life23:51 Reinventing Your Beliefs33:43 Consistency: The Key to TransformationTakeawaysEvery day, we have 60 to 80,000 thoughts.95% of our thoughts are the same as yesterday.Our beliefs and narratives shape our reality.Low vibrational thinking keeps us stuck in cycles.Recognizing our patterns is the first step to change.Accountability is crucial for personal growth.Changing thoughts requires consistent effort.Our higher self exists on a different frequency.Transformation costs us our old beliefs and narratives.Consistency is key to rewiring our thinking.

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In this episode of Ditching The Dysfunction, I dive deep into a topic we rarely talk about: the responsibility that comes with love. We often hear “love is given freely,” but in romantic relationships—and even in deep family bonds—love asks something of us.

I explore what it truly means to be ready tohold love, how to create a safe, nurturing container for your partner, and why sometimes love requires saying “no” rather than giving in.

Through personal stories—from step-parenting and earning the trust of my stepkids to navigatingpast marriages and invitations to commit—I break down what readiness,consistency, and conscious presence really look like.

Listeners will reflect on questions like:

·      Are you truly ready to carry the responsibilityof love?

·      Can you consistently provide emotional safety,even when it’s uncomfortable?

·      How do you create a container where love canflourish rather than simply survive?

If you’ve ever wondered why relationshipssometimes fail despite love being present, or how to move beyond unconsciouspatterns in your connections, this episode is for you.

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