Are you a fun sponge—or just hanging out with one? In this episode of Mindset Matters More, Andy breaks down why some people drain the joy from every room and how negativity spreads faster than you think. From gossip to constant complaining, we explore how to recognize toxic dynamics and, more importantly, how to choose happiness and surround yourself with energy that lifts you higher.

If you’ve ever wondered why you feel heavy after certain conversations, this episode will show you how to protect your peace and live with more joy.

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🔗 Links & Resources:

📘 Writing for My Life by ME! → https://a.co/d/hwpwFkk

🎥 YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/@AndyHoffer

🎙️ Podcast → https://open.spotify.com/show/6Uz8I44EapZKCCjUeaKNBW?si=LPkn4ZfgQpWyD7n6gbGiTA

📬 Email → [email protected]

Destruction might just be the key to your dream life—but not in the way you think. In this episode of Mindset Matters More, Andy explains why letting go of what drains you is the fastest path to what fulfills you. From ditching tasks that don’t serve you to creating space for joy-driven action, this conversation will challenge how you approach success.

If you’ve ever wondered why doing “all the right things” still leaves you exhausted, this episode will help you rethink your strategy and align with what truly lights you up.

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🔗 Links & Resources:

📘 Writing for My Life by ME! → https://a.co/d/hwpwFkk

🎥 YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/@AndyHoffer

🎙️ Podcast → https://open.spotify.com/show/6Uz8I44EapZKCCjUeaKNBW?si=LPkn4ZfgQpWyD7n6gbGiTA

📬 Email → [email protected]

“But you don’t understand, Andy—my case is special.” Spoiler alert: it’s not. In this episode of Mindset Matters More, Andy unpacks why we cling to excuses, why change feels so hard, and how our favorite justifications keep us from growth.

From time scarcity to self-worth issues, we all share the same patterns—and the truth is, most of our problems have been lived by someone else. Andy shares practical strategies to break the cycle, reframe your thinking, and challenge the beliefs that hold you back. If you’ve ever said, “That’s just how I am,” this episode is your wake-up call.

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🔗 Links & Resources:

📘 Writing for My Life by ME! → https://a.co/d/hwpwFkk

🎥 YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/@AndyHoffer

🎙️ Podcast → https://open.spotify.com/show/6Uz8I44EapZKCCjUeaKNBW?si=LPkn4ZfgQpWyD7n6gbGiTA

📬 Email → [email protected]

What if your relationship drama isn’t about a person—but about money? In this raw and vulnerable episode of Mindset Matters More, Andy shares a deep self-discovery exercise that exposed her complicated feelings toward money. When asked to anthropomorphize money—turn it into a human—she realized she felt like a betrayed lover: jealous, hurt, and desperate for attention.

This episode dives into the hidden beliefs that sabotage abundance, why self-worth is often tangled up with finances, and how to rewrite the story you’re living. If you’ve ever felt like money was avoiding you, cheating on you, or just never “showing up,” this conversation is a must-listen.

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🔗 Links & Resources:

📘 Writing for My Life by ME! → https://a.co/d/hwpwFkk

🎥 YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/@AndyHoffer

🎙️ Podcast → https://open.spotify.com/show/6Uz8I44EapZKCCjUeaKNBW?si=LPkn4ZfgQpWyD7n6gbGiTA

📬 Email → [email protected]

Self-awareness is a game changer—but also a total challenge. In this episode of Mindset Matters More, Andy dives into lessons from The New Emotional Intelligence and why the things that annoy you about others are often reflections of yourself.

We’ll explore how judgment is really a signal for growth, why slowing down for self-reflection can feel uncomfortable (but necessary), and how embracing this “mirror effect” will help you level up in every area of your life. If you’ve ever thought, “Ugh, I hate when people do that,” this episode might make you rethink everything.

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🔗 Links & Resources:

📘 Writing for My Life by ME! → https://a.co/d/hwpwFkk

🎥 YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/@AndyHoffer

🎙️ Podcast → https://open.spotify.com/show/6Uz8I44EapZKCCjUeaKNBW?si=LPkn4ZfgQpWyD7n6gbGiTA

📬 Email → [email protected]

“Liar, liar, pants on fire…” But what does it really mean to live in truth? Inspired by The Four Agreements, Andy explores the first—and arguably most challenging—agreement: Be impeccable with your word.

In this episode of Mindset Matters More, Andy dives into the complexity of honesty—why being truthful starts with yourself, why words carry so much power, and how to use them from a place of love instead of ego. Can you truly live in integrity when every word is filtered through personal history and perspective? Andy breaks it down and challenges you to rise to a higher standard in your speech and your self-talk.

If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I really telling the truth—or just the version that feels safe?” this conversation is for you.

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🔗 Links & Resources:

📘 Writing for My Life by ME! → https://a.co/d/hwpwFkk

🎥 YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/@AndyHoffer

🎙️ Podcast → Listen on Spotify

📬 Email → [email protected]

Failure hurts—there’s no sugarcoating it. But what happens after the fall? In this episode of Mindset Matters More, Andy dives deep into the power of resilience, why failure is just feedback, and how to rise stronger every single time life knocks you down.

Learn why feeling your emotions is step one, how to pivot with purpose, and why strategizing after setbacks is the secret weapon of high achievers. If you’ve ever been tempted to quit, this episode is your wake-up call to dust it off and try again—because your next level is waiting.

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🔗 Links & Resources:

📘 Writing for My Life by ME! → https://a.co/d/hwpwFkk

🎥 YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/@AndyHoffer

🎙️ Podcast → Listen on Spotify

📬 Email → [email protected]

Why do we pull back just as life starts heating up? In this episode of Mindset Matters More, Andy breaks down the thermostat theory from The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks—and how self-sabotage creeps in when things get too good.

Whether it’s money, love, or success, we all have an inner “comfort setting.” When life rises above it, we unconsciously cool things back down. Andy shares the subtle ways we block blessings, why grind culture isn’t the answer, and how to turn up the heat in your life without burning out.

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why do I keep getting in my own way?”—this one’s for you.

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🔗 Links & Resources:

📘 Writing for My Life by ME! → https://a.co/d/hwpwFkk

🎥 YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/@AndyHoffer

🎙️ Podcast → Listen on Spotify

📬 Email → [email protected]

“Shoot for the moon, and even if you miss, you’ll land among the stars.” Sounds poetic, but it’s also a little scientifically inaccurate—and that’s exactly why Andy is talking about it. In this episode of Mindset Matters More, we’re breaking down what it really means to aim high, dream bigger, and push past the self-imposed limits that keep us stuck.

Andy shares why your brain needs big, bold goals—even the ones that feel impossible—to expand your sense of what’s possible. Because if you’re stuck thinking, “I can’t,” you’re already at zero. Learn how to stretch your mindset, reframe your limits, and adopt the belief that abundance is for YOU.

If you’re ready to stop playing small and start aiming for galaxies, this one’s for you.

🔗 Links & Resources:

📘 Writing for My Life by ME! → https://a.co/d/hwpwFkk

🎥 YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/@AndyHoffer

🎙️ Podcast → Listen on Spotify

📬 Email → [email protected]

“If you wanna be a skinny bitch, you gotta do skinny bitch shit.” Harsh? Maybe. True? Absolutely. In this episode of Mindset Matters More, Andy dives into one of the most powerful mindset principles: living as though you already have what you want.

Whether it’s weight loss, a career upgrade, more money, or the relationship of your dreams—waiting until you “get there” before acting the part keeps you stuck. Andy shares stories (including one from her time working in retail) and practical strategies to embody the next-level version of yourself NOW.

You can’t become something new while acting like the old you. This episode is your permission—and your plan—to start living the life you say you want.

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🔗 Links & Resources:

📘 Writing for My Life by ME! → https://a.co/d/hwpwFkk

🎥 YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/@AndyHoffer

🎙️ Podcast → Listen on Spotify

📬 Email → [email protected]