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Behind the neon lights and vibrant nightlife of Pattaya lies a story rarely told – one of connection, loss, and the silent mental health crisis affecting Thailand's ladyboy community. This deeply moving conversation features John, a British expat who has been visiting Thailand for 24 years before finally making it his home.

John takes us through his journey from casual tourist to someone deeply embedded in Thailand's complex social landscape. With remarkable candor, he shares how his relationships evolved from his seven-year marriage to a Thai woman to his meaningful connections with ladyboys that challenged his own preconceptions. His story provides a nuanced look at cross-cultural relationships that transcend traditional Western gender boundaries.

The heart of this episode centers on John's relationship with Minnie, a ladyboy he met at a bar called The House. Their genuine connection, which lasted about two years, ended amicably, but they remained in contact. When John received the devastating news of Minnie's suicide, it opened his eyes to a tragic reality affecting the community. We explore shocking statistics revealing that up to 27% of ladyboys in Pattaya have attempted suicide, with only 10% receiving any mental health support.

Together with our co-host Pim, who provides valuable insider perspective as a ladyboy herself, we examine the complex factors behind these statistics – from relationship difficulties and HIV stigma to substance abuse and the challenges of aging in a youth-focused industry. Most importantly, we discuss how breaking the silence around mental health struggles could save lives.

The conversation concludes with a powerful message borrowed from MMA fighter Paddy Pimblett: "I'd rather my mate cry on my shoulder than go to his funeral next week." If you're struggling or know someone who might be, this episode offers both understanding and hope. Reach out, speak up, and remember that connection is often the strongest lifeline we have.

                                                    R.I.P Minnie

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