There are four common pathways to college
Savings
Most common 529 Plan - state-issued
Allocation of funds over a period of time
Fund in proportion to the amount needed for college
Full amount or say the first year
Athletics
Usually, some type of athletic potential is shown
There might be a track to help the child develop athletically and academically to qualify for a scholarship
You make a substantial sacrifice on personal trainers, nutrition, camps, and traveling teams.
The hope is to get a discounted or free scholarship
Academics
There’s a big misconception when it comes to academic scholarships.
Good grades get you accepted into a school, not necessarily gets you free tuition.
Usually, students with good grades that qualify for scholarships have some lower income component.
Scholarship contests, essay writing, grants, and endowments can cover things.
Loans
The least desired option, but the most chosen.
Mainly because the previous step isn’t chosen.
The good part about loans is that they are easily accessible, the bad part is that they can put your child under a mountain of debt.
Parents, please don’t wait for your child's senior year to start preparing seriously for college. Have some kind of plan in place from infancy, or as soon as you can financially commit to something.
I suggest parents map out a yearly gameplan each year for their children as soon as they enter the 9th grade. Being proactive is the best plan a parent can have. There are tons of scholarships out there, especially for graduating seniors. But the student and the parent have to be prepared to write and apply for at least one hundred scholarships. You may not need that many, but you must have that mental commitment.
Many parents spend thousands of dollars to put their children in private school, to have them attend a school they could have attended while attending a public school. That money could have been saved for college tuition. In my opinion, the private school should forward you to upper tier universities and colleges, not local state schools.
Also, keep in mind that your plan for your and their plan may be two different things. So please observe the trek your child is on, so you don’t spend years planning something that the child has no interest in.
Tip
529 Plan
Conclusion
Keep personal sacrifices in align with the plans you have for others. You can’t control what's in peoples minds and hearts. Make sure you are fair but don’t give up your dreams for others.