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In this episode of the Mix & Matchbox Podcast, host Brent Feldman sits down with Grant Gooding, founder of Proof Positioning, to unwrap the psychological realities of why customers actually buy. Drawing from his background in mergers and acquisitions, Grant explains why "your customers don't care about you", why striving to be "better" is a pointless marketing trap, and how buying decisions are driven by the brain's emotional limbic system rather than pure logic.

From dismantling corporate buzzwords like "quality" and "customer service" to revealing why brands must "pick a fight" to stand out, this episode delivers actionable insights for marketers, executive leaders, and financial institutions looking to break through industry clutter.

Key Takeaways: • Your Customers Don't Care About You: Buyers operate out of self-interest; marketing must focus strictly on the value you create for them, not your internal mission or history. • "Better" is Garbage — Focus on "Different": Buzzwords like "quality" and "service" are non-quantifiable noise; true differentiation comes from being visually and conceptually unique. • The Truth About Price Objections: "It's too expensive" is usually a polite cover for unaddressed perceived risk or a failure to stand out. • Emotion Drives Decisions: Neuroscience reveals that buying choices stem from emotional belief systems, with rational logic used only to justify decisions afterward. • The Perceived Value Paradox: Adding more features often dilutes brand messaging and lowers perceived value, while streamlining can actually increase it. • Pick a Fight: Bold positioning requires taking a stand or claiming a moral high ground to separate your brand from commoditized competitors.

Timestamps: 

00:00 – Introduction to Grant Gooding and Proof Positioning 

00:30 – From M&A to Customer Psychology: Why Due Diligence Lacks Customer Insight 

02:45 – "Your Customers Don't Care About You": Understanding the Selfish Buying Brain 

04:30 – How Banks & Associations Struggle with Differentiation 

06:15 – Why Striving to Be "Better" is Garbage vs. Being "Different" 

08:30 – The Death of Corporate Buzzwords: Why You Should Speak at a 6th-Grade Level 

10:45 – Perspective Bias: Why Asking Customers Directly Leads to Polite White Lies 

13:00 – The Limbic System & Belief Brain: How Decisions Happen in Milliseconds 

15:30 – The Biggest Lies in Sales: Price Objections & Flawed Personas 

18:00 – Emotion vs. Logic in Purchasing & Winning with Micro-Niches 

22:00 – The Perceived Value Trap: Why Adding More Features Can Hurt Your Brand 

24:15 – Why Wimpy Brands Fail: Picking a Fight & Claiming Moral High Ground 

27:30 – Final Takeaways & Where to Find Grant Gooding

Links & Resources: • Proof Positioning: https://proofpositioning.com/

Matchbox Design Group: https://matchboxdesigngroup.com/about/mix-matchbox-podcast-digital-marketing/

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In this episode of the Mix & Matchbox Podcast, host Brent Feldman sits down with Daria Gîrju, Head of Demand Generation at Finastra. Daria shares her journey from digital paid media specialist to leading a global demand generation strategy across multiple regions.

She breaks down the strategic decision to align Marketing and SDR teams under shared pipeline targets, how to prove marketing impact across enterprise sales cycles that span 12+ months, and why in-person events remain the ultimate trust-builder for risk-averse financial institutions. Plus, Daria details how Finastra is adapting its digital footprint for AI search summaries (Generative Engine Optimization) and using automation tools to streamline internal workflows.

Key Takeaways in This Episode: • Leadership Transition: Why moving from channel expert to global leader requires shifting from "knowing it all" to empowering your team. • Marketing & SDR Alignment: The power of removing internal competition by sharing pipeline goals and joint executive reporting. • Full-Funnel Attribution: How to track early success metrics (MQL to early-stage conversions) using multi-touch tools like Dream Data when revenue cycles take years. • Omnichannel & Frequency: Navigating modern buyer journeys that require 13+ touchpoints before engaging in a sales conversation. • Event Strategy: Why peer-to-peer community networking and co-branded partner events (e.g., with Microsoft) outperform purely salesy dinners. • AI & Search Evolution: Website overhauls for AI-driven summaries, optimizing peer review sites (G2/Capterra), and using Copilot, Gong, and Clay to automate CRM updates.

Episode Timestamps: 

00:00 – Introduction & Welcome to Mix & Matchbox 

01:00 – From Channel Expert to Global Demand Gen Leader 

04:30 – Uniting Marketing & SDRs Under Shared Pipeline Targets 

08:00 – Measuring Marketing Impact in Multi-Year Enterprise Sales Cycles 

10:15 – Utilizing Multi-Touch Attribution Tools Like Dream Data 

13:00 – Omnichannel Orchestration and the 13-Touchpoint Buyer Journey 

18:00 – Why In-Person Events Build Unmatched Trust in FinTech 

21:00 – Designing High-Value Events & Peer-to-Peer Communities 

25:00 – Maintaining Global Brand Consistency Across Diverse Banking Markets 

28:00 – AI’s Impact on B2B Search (GEO), Review Platforms, and Content Strategy 

31:00 – Leveraging Copilot, Gong, and Clay for Automation 

34:00 – Navigating Regulatory, Legacy, and Security Challenges in Banking 

39:00 – The Future of B2B Demand Generation & Closing Advice

Guest: Daria Gîrju | Head of Demand Generation at Finastra (https://www.finastra.com) 

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In this episode of the Mix & Matchbox Podcast, host Brent Feldman sits down with community banking veteran and digital pioneer Eric Cook (CEO of Cook Technology Solutions & partner at WSI). Eric made history in 1995 by launching MarshallSavings.com—one of the very first community bank websites on the planet. Today, he’s helping community bankers navigate the next massive frontier: artificial intelligence and adaptive search optimization (AEO/SEO).

Together, they dive deep into the practicalities of digital strategy, breaking down how community banks can leverage AI safely, collaborate across internal silos, and adopt a brand-first mindset to stand out in a crowded market. Whether you’re trying to build better content, implement compliance tools, or figure out where AI fits into your institution's future, this episode is packed with real-world, actionable insights.

Key Takeaways from this Episode:

The Digital Equalizer: How community banks can use their size and personal touch to go toe-to-toe with national players online.

Overcoming the Content Bottleneck: Why "commodity content" fails and how to easily pull rich, local stories out of busy Subject Matter Experts (SMEs) using simple audio recordings and AI polishing.

"Marketing the Marketing Function": How internal Lunch & Learns and empathetic communication build critical alignment between credit-focused executives and marketing teams.

The Human in the Loop: Why AI should be treated as a "genius-level intern" or thought partner—and why bankers must learn to push back on its drafts instead of accepting them blindly.

The Agent-to-Agent Economy: Preparing for a future where AI agents (not just humans) are doing the research to find the best local mortgages and financial services.

Think Like a Brand, Not a Bank: Discovering your true "Why" to create an online presence that is impossible to replicate.

Episode Timestamps

00:00 – Intro: Welcome Eric Cook, Chief Digital Strategist & CEO of Cook Technology Solutions

02:15 – A Trip Down Memory Lane: Launching one of the world's first community bank websites in 1995

05:40 – The Digital Equalizer: How small banks can leverage UX to compete with national giants

07:50 – Building & Hosting Secure Websites: The WSI Ecosystem and Azure hosting

10:15 – The Shift from Digital Brochures to Strategic Content Engines (AEO & Adaptive SEO)

13:00 – Resolving the Content Bottleneck: Capturing SME passion using audio transcribing & AI

16:30 – Marketing the Marketing Function: Using Lunch & Learns to build internal empathy

19:45 – Modern Bank Website Ecosystems: Bios, Scheduling Integrations, and local Google Maps SEO

22:50 – Auditing the Digital Experience: Aligning Analytics Tracking with Strategic Goals

25:15 – Staying Compliant: Accessibility (Audio Eye) & Cookie and Data Privacy Consent (Cookie Bot)

27:30 – Safe AI Strategies: Addressing "Shadow AI" and setting realistic internal guardrails

31:10 – Real-Time Convenience: Deploying custom trained Chatbots for after-hours support

33:45 – The 3-to-5 Year Outlook: Navigating the upcoming "Agent-to-Agent" Economy

36:20 – Overcoming Resistance: Prompting AI as an interactive, conversational thought partner

39:00 – "If AI Can Do Your Job...": Transitioning administrative tasks to high-value human relationships

41:30 – Allison Netzer’s "Think Like a Brand, Not Like a Bank" & Finding Your true "Why"

45:15 – Outro: Where to connect with Eric Cook & subscribe to the show

Connect with Us

Guest: Eric Cook

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ericcookmba/

The Linked Banker Mastermind: https://thelinkedbanker.com

Community Banking AI: https://communitybanking.ai

Host & Agency: Brent Feldman / Matchbox Design Group

Website: https://matchboxdesigngroup.com

Podcast: Mix & Matchbox Podcast

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In this episode Brent Feldman sits down with Jim Perry, the longtime “strategic futurist” behind Market Insights. Jim explains what a bank strategist actually does, how his nonprofit‑fundraising roots gave him a data‑first mindset, and why he prefers the word strategist to banker.

The conversation drifts into the world of architecture—how living in a Frank Lloyd Wright community shapes Jim’s approach to building tailor‑made strategies for banks, rather than handing out cookie‑cutter playbooks.

We then explore why Market Insights deliberately stays independent from execution partners, the shift from branch expansion to branch consolidation, and what that means for community banks today. Jim breaks down the current state of AI adoption, the danger of “pilot purgatory,” and the emerging concept of agentic AI—the point at which AI agents become the customers’ decision‑makers.

Finally, Jim shares the biggest cultural hurdle that stops banks from transforming, why leadership (not budget) is the true bottleneck, and the single, actionable insight every community‑bank leader should take away: don’t mistake today’s success for tomorrow’s readiness.

Whether you’re a bank executive, credit‑union manager, fintech partner, or simply curious about the future of banking, this episode gives you a roadmap to stay ahead of the rapid digital‑and‑AI‑driven change reshaping the industry.

Time‑Stamped Highlights

Time Segment Key Takeaways

0:00 – 3:30 Intro & Guest Background Jim’s 21‑year journey from nonprofit fundraising to Market Insights; why he calls himself a strategist.

3:30 – 9:45 What a Bank Strategist Does Military‑style analogy; positioning banks for any future; data‑driven pattern recognition.

9:45 – 15:20 Architecture Analogy Living in a Frank Lloyd Wright community informs his “site‑specific” strategy design; no one‑size‑fits‑all.

15:20 – 21:00 Staying Independent Why Market Insights refuses to sell implementation; the value of impartial advice.

21:00 – 26:40 Branch Expansion → Branch Consolidation From “where do we add?” to “where do we subtract?”; capital redeployment to tech and digital presence.

26:40 – 33:30 AI Adoption Reality Check Current AI maturity in community banks; honest inventory before buying tools; costly mistake of buying first, planning later.

33:30 – 38:45 Agentic AI & Discoverability AI as the new “customer” that searches for banks; why being invisible to LLMs hurts growth.

38:45 – 44:10 Cultural vs. Budget Barriers Culture and leadership as the real roadblocks; why change is harder than technology upgrades.

44:10 – 48:55 Consolidation, Mergers & the Future Landscape Risks of losing local expertise; how banks can stay independent while investing in tech.

48:55 – 53:30 FinTech Book Club & “The Intelligent Bank” Data analytics as a core competency; the rails‑vs‑front‑face business model debate.

53:30 – 57:45 One Actionable Insight “Don’t confuse today’s success with tomorrow’s readiness”—the single habit leaders must adopt.

57:45 – End Wrap‑Up & Where to Find Jim LinkedIn, Market Insights website, and the Bank Forward newsletter.

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🔹 Episode: Mix & Matchbox – “Legal‑First Agency Growth with IP Attorney Sharon Toerek”

🔹 Host: Brent Feldman

🔹 Guest: Sharon Toerek, Founder & Managing Partner, Toerek Law (legalandcreative.com) – Marketing‑focused IP & business attorney

In this episode Brent sits down with Sharon Toerek to unpack the legal levers that turn risk into profit for creative agencies. From protecting ideas in pitch decks to building AI‑safe workflows, Sharon shares the exact contracts, clauses, and processes every agency should have in place to safeguard— and grow— their bottom line.

Key take‑aways

Why legal affairs can be a profit center rather than a cost center.

The two biggest IP mistakes agencies make (over‑sharing ideas & not documenting processes).

The three contract clauses that protect margin: crystal‑clear payment terms, scoped statements of work, and smart IP‑transfer language.

AI‑related risks: inadvertent infringement, data‑privacy breaches, and ownership of machine‑generated content.

Quick compliance steps: policy creation, contract language updates, and platform T&C reviews.

How to position your agency for a future sale— contract audits & IP documentation.

Resources

💼 Learn more about Sharon’s practice: https://legalandcreative.com

🤝 Connect with Sharon on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sharon‑toerek

Subscribe for more agency‑focused insights and hit the bell 🔔 to never miss an episode!

⏱️ Timestamps

Time Topic

0:00 Intro – Mix & Matchbox & guest welcome

0:13 Who is Sharon Toerek? (IP attorney for agencies)

1:11 How the niche practice was built

2:09 Law firms vs. agency‑focused legal support

2:41 Turning legal into a profit engine

4:27 How many agencies have “all‑in” legal ops 

5:18 Top IP mistake: giving away ideas in pitches

7:00 Documenting methodologies & building IP assets

9:28 Contract pitfalls – rushed/templated agreements

10:19 Payment‑term clarity & scope definitions

11:31 IP‑transfer language – work‑for‑hire vs. retention

13:03 Managing scope in web‑design projects

15:05 AI’s impact on billing models & value‑based pricing

16:25 AI workflow risks – IP infringement & data privacy

19:47 5 practical steps to AI governance (policy, contracts, T&C)

22:38 Ownership of AI‑generated content & human contribution

27:03 Right‑of‑publicity risks with AI‑generated likenesses

28:41 Influencer/UGC compliance – FTC disclosure mistakes

33:30 Preparing for agency acquisition – contract audit & IP inventory

37:14 When a scrappy agency becomes a legal liability

40:13 One high‑leverage action this week: create/refresh your client contract

41:20 How to find Sharon Toerek & her podcast “The Innovative Agency”

42:00 Wrap‑up & call to like/subscribe

(Jump to the segment that matters most to you!)

#AgencyLaw #IP #IntellectualProperty #MarketingLaw #LegalTips #AICompliance #CreativeAgency #ContractManagement #BusinessGrowth #LegalStrategy #InfluencerMarketing #FTC #RightOfPublicity #AgencyAcquisition #ToerekLaw #LegalAndCreative #MixAndMatchbox

In this episode Brent sits down with Mike Demo to explore the evolving landscape of hosting, security, and open‑source CMS for community banks and credit unions. Mike shares his journey from early‑day Joomla & Mambo, through Bold Grid and WordPress, to leading open‑source initiatives at hosting.com.

Key takeaways:

Why “open‑source relationships” matter – The importance of supporting niche CMS communities (Joomla, Drupal, Concrete 5).

Client‑admin templates – A practical technique for simplifying the back‑end for bank staff who aren’t marketers.

Common agency pitfalls – Treating hosting as a commodity, weak backup strategies, and insecure form handling.

Security best practices – Two‑factor authentication (YubiKey), encrypted forms, and layered protection (WAF, server‑level scanning, Monarch AR security).

Choosing a host for regulated industries – What banks should ask (certifications, SLA, data‑sovereignty, failover).

What good incident response looks like – Public status pages, proactive communication, and human‑centric support.

Margin pressure & AI – How agencies are navigating price increases, AI hype, and the push to add value beyond basic hosting.

Future of hosting (2026‑2028) – Shift toward “do‑it‑for‑me” services, managed‑service‑provider (MSP) evolution, and the role of hosting.com in the next wave of value‑added offerings.

💡 Whether you’re an agency partner, a banking IT manager, or a WordPress/Drupal enthusiast, this conversation offers actionable insights for building secure, reliable, and user‑friendly web experiences in the financial sector.

👉 Want to learn more? Visit hosting.com/agency for agency‑focused training webinars, resources, and a free trial.

📧 Get in touch with Mike:

X (Twitter) – @MikeDemo (private account)

Email – [email protected]

Timestamps

Time Segment

00:00 Intro – Brent welcomes Mike Demo

01:00 Early CMS story: PHP Nuke → Mambo → Joomla

02:45 Transition to Bold Grid & WordPress focus

03:48 Open‑source passion & “not married to a CMS” quote

04:50 Community‑bank & credit‑union client insights

06:35 The “Client Admin Template” (CAT) concept

08:30 Simplifying back‑end for non‑marketing staff

10:32 Moving from agency work to hosting partnership

12:08 Perception vs. reality – how provider experiences shape loyalty

13:55 Value‑add services: agency webinars & community support

15:18 Human‑centric gestures (pasta, Tide pens) that stick

17:45 Top agency mistakes: treating hosting as a commodity

19:20 Asking the right questions – niche hosting (green, LGBTQ‑focused, etc.)

20:40 Backup strategies – on‑site + cold‑storage (Amazon Glacier)

21:44 Two‑factor authentication – SMS vs. Authenticator vs. YubiKey

23:14 Forum & form security – encryption, HIPAA compliance

24:58 Hosting security layering – app, server, infrastructure, WAF

28:14 Reputation risk vs. technical security

30:14 Host evaluation checklist for banks/credit unions

31:48 What good incident response looks like (status page, SLA)

35:13 “Not my problem” attitude – going the extra mile for clients

37:05 Multi‑layered security strategy – best practices

40:49 Plugin overload – core‑first philosophy

44:17 Margin pressure & AI concerns for agencies

46:14 AI hype vs. long‑term value – pivot & niche expertise

49:02 Future hosting outlook (2026‑2028) – service‑centric growth

52:15 MSP vs. hosting – where the market is heading

54:29 Closing – where to find Mike & how to get help

Hashtags

#MixAndMatchbox #HostingPodcast #CommunityBanking #OpenSourceCMS #WordPress #Joomla #Drupal #SecureHosting #TwoFactorAuth #YubiKey #AgencyTips #BackupStrategy #DataSecurity #FinTech #AITrends #MarginPressure #MSP #HostingCom #DigitalTransformation #WebHosting #TechPodcast

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In this episode of Mix & Matchbox, host Brent Feldman chats with Keivan Mohammadi, Director of Sales at Insait IO, about the biggest challenges and most promising opportunities for community banks and credit unions as they adopt AI‑driven technology.

🔹 Career Journey – From a college internship at Finastra to selling mortgage suites at EnCino and now leading AI sales at Insait.

🔹 Digital‑vs‑Reality Gap – Why bank leaders often struggle to execute the digital experiences they promise.

🔹 Hot Take on AI Hype – The problem with “AI solves everything” messaging and how to focus on real use‑cases.

🔹 Where AI Is Gaining Traction – Internal ops, support bots, and the untapped potential of front‑line customer experiences.

🔹 Risk, Compliance & Adoption Barriers – Real‑world anecdotes (including a $20 M lawsuit) and how to overcome them.

🔹 Straight‑Forward Implementation Blueprint – From stakeholder interviews to a phased pilot and full production rollout.

🔹 Guardrails & Governance – Narrow data scopes, business‑rule controls, and human‑in‑the‑loop review.

🔹 UX & Conversion – Why static forms kill conversions and how conversational AI can boost deposit & loan take‑up.

🔹 Strategic Advice for Community Institutions – The first AI‑powered journey to modernize and the KPI that matters most.

🌐 Learn more about Insait IO – https://insait.io

👍 If you found value, like, comment, and subscribe for more fintech and AI insights!

⏰ Timestamps

Time Topic

0:00 Intro – Meet Keivan Mohammadi

1:45 How Keivan got into fintech (college internship → Finastra → EnCino → Insait)

4:10 Biggest gap: what banks say they want vs. what they can actually deliver

6:30 Hot take: AI solution fatigue & why the hype is hurting the industry

9:05 Where AI is gaining traction today – ops vs. customer‑facing use cases

11:40 Real blockers: risk, compliance, procurement, and a $20 M lawsuit story

14:20 Ideal evaluation process – mini‑POC, non‑PII data, phased traffic rollout

17:10 First three steps from concept → pilot → production without chaos

20:00 Stakeholder alignment & avoiding abrupt workflow changes for customers

22:45 Guardrails for financial‑service AI agents – data scope, business rules, human review

25:30 UX failures that kill conversions – static forms, abandoned applications

28:00 Conversational AI as the cure – boosting deposit & loan conversions

30:45 Advice for a $500 M‑$5 B community institution – target younger customers, start with auto‑loan/deposit journey, KPI: New Account Conversion Rate

34:00 Closing thoughts & resources

📣 Hashtags

#AI #FinTech #BankingInnovation #CommunityBanking #DigitalTransformation #Insait #MixAndMatchbox #CustomerExperience #FinancialServices #ArtificialIntelligence #BankTech #AIImplementation #Compliance #RiskManagement #UXDesign #BankingFuture

Ready to modernize your institution? Visit Insait IO → https://insait.io and discover how a narrow, results‑focused AI agent can accelerate your digital journey.

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In this deep‑dive conversation, host Brent Feldman sits down with Mitch Weisburgh—author of Mindshifting and former EdTech entrepreneur—to explore why traditional education isn’t delivering the outcomes we expect, how a two‑day workshop in Niger sparked a global mind‑shifting movement, and what you can do today to become more resourceful, resilient, and collaborative.

🔑 What you’ll learn

The hidden limits of the limbic (survival) brain and how to engage the pre‑frontal cortex for better decisions.

Why “sure‑thing” beliefs aren’t true and how to break the habit of steam‑rolling others.

The three pillars of Mitch’s Mind‑Shifting framework: Resourcefulness, Resilience, Collaboration.

How joy, dopamine, and other “happy hormones” can both motivate and trap us.

Practical tools you can apply now—from re‑framing procrastination to building mental fluencies like a top salesperson.

Real‑world examples: the Niger workshop, the Noom app analogy, and a traffic‑jam storytelling lesson.

💡 Whether you’re a founder, manager, educator, or simply someone looking to upgrade your mental operating system, this episode offers bite‑size, actionable insights you can start using today.

👉 Get Mitch’s Mind‑Shifting resources:

Buy the book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/cF1FjOR 

View the MindShifting Educators Newsletter https://mindshiftingwithmitch.blog/ 

Learn about MindShifting on my website: https://www.mindshiftingwithmitch.com/ 

Find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mweisburgh/ 

👍 If you enjoyed the episode, please:

Like the video

Subscribe & hit the 🔔 so you never miss a new episode

Drop a comment with your biggest “mind‑shifting” takeaway

Timestamps

Time Segment

00:00 Intro – Brent welcomes Mitch

00:13 Meet Mitch: EdTech background & author

00:45 Why education isn’t moving the needle

01:30 The Niger university invitation that sparked change

02:15 From doubt to a two‑day “sense‑making” workshop

03:00 12 books, 5 disciplines → the birth of Mind‑Shifting

04:09 The 3 core elements: Resourcefulness, Resilience, Collaboration

04:31 Workshop impact: the “aha!” moment for 60‑70 students

05:21 Key insights: truth isn’t guaranteed by certainty

06:04 Transition to full‑time Mind‑Shifting work

07:18 The Limbic (survival) brain – why we default to safety

08:38 Pre‑frontal cortex: the “slow‑thinking” power‑house

09:21 How high‑performers train their limbic habits

10:20 Curiosity & playfulness as the antidote to steam‑rolling

11:36 Joy vs. pure success – happiness as a barometer

12:30 Short‑ vs. long‑term happiness, dopamine traps

13:19 Procrastination as a signal, turning it into a game

14:47 The four “happy hormones” & why they can addict us

15:50 Shifting focus from fleeting joy to lasting meaning

16:33 Resilience: bouncing back & the myth of “pinnacle” mastery

18:30 Resourceful mindset: “part X” warnings without misery

19:05 Flow, curiosity, wonder – the Sage mindset

20:14 Noom app example – rehearsing choices to rewire habits

23:13 Improving limbic reactions: habit building & simulation

24:31 Sales fluencies – pre‑loading responses for better focus

25:38 Metacognition & humility – pausing the limbic alarm

26:05 Stoic triggers & self‑analysis – are we the problem?

27:50 Antifragility: learning to notice when we’re just reacting

28:32 Sources of Mind‑Shifting – mentors, lectures, research

29:34 Traffic‑jam story – controlling our reaction in real time

31:15 Teaching Mind‑Shifting – you can’t change others, only prompt

32:58 Community support – the power of a shared vocabulary

34:55 “Too much is not enough” – balancing ambition & focus

36:18 One‑or‑two‑change rule – building habits that stick

38:10 Celebrating trials & wins – why rewards matter

39:48 Applying Mind‑Shifting to work, family, friends

40:06 Call to action – visit Mindshiftingwithmitch.com

40:27 Outro – thanks & reminder to like & subscribe

Enjoy the episode and start shifting your mind today! 🎙️✨

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Leadership‑communication guru Dia Bondi shares how she turned auctioneering into a practical framework for bold asking and negotiation. From the “Zone of Freaking Out” (ZoFO) to reframing “no,” the episode unpacks mental models that help founders, CEOs, and solo‑practitioners stretch their asks without losing credibility. Dia also dives into the difference between price and worth, the unique challenges women face in negotiations, and the four “ask categories” (money, influence, authority, balance) that drive real growth. Listeners walk away with concrete tactics—how to set a reserve, build a post‑ask game plan, and start thinking like an auctioneer in everyday high‑stakes conversations.

Check out Ask Like an Auctioneer here:

https://www.asklikeanauctioneer.com/

00:00Intro & Welcome – Brent introduces Dia Bondi and the premise of the show.

02:15From Auctioneer to Coach – Dia’s sabbatical, The Artist’s Way, and how a bucket‑list auction school sparked the “ask like an auctioneer” idea.

05:40The ZoFO (Zone of Freaking Out) – What it is, why discomfort is essential, and how to recognize you’re in the right zone.

09:30Reframing “No” – Coaching execs to treat a no as data, not a credibility crisis.

13:10Price vs. Worth – Separating market price from personal worth; why the ask isn’t a self‑valuation.

17:00Women & Negotiation – Patterns of underselling, why it happens, and strategies to shift outcomes.

21:25Setting Your Reserve – How to define a minimum acceptable outcome and plan for both win and loss scenarios.

25:50Four Types of Asks – Money, Influence, Authority, Balance – with a real‑world example of a non‑financial ask that generated $10 M of value.

31:15Practical Auctioneer Tactics – Asking for more than you think you can get, using “what would get a no?” to calibrate.

36:40Leadership Voice & Conviction – Speaking from authenticity, building credibility, and leveraging your unique perspective.

42:00Closing Resources – Dia’s LinkedIn, newsletter “The Shift,” Transformational Voice Intensive, and where to grab her book.

45:00Wrap‑up & Call‑to‑Action – Final takeaways and invitation to subscribe.Ready to level‑up your asks? Press play and start auctioneering your way to bigger, bolder outcomes! 

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In this episode Brent Feldman sits down with Corey Quinn, the agency‑growth advisor behind Anyone, Not Everyone. Corey walks us through his journey from a 1999 streaming‑media startup to a Morgan Stanley sales trainee, a top‑performing business‑development rep, and then CMO of Scorpion. He shares hard‑won lessons on:

The generalist trap vs. vertical specialization

Building founder‑led sales systems you can hand off

How to scale culture and values during hyper‑growth (the Scorpion “Pantone swatch” story)

Why email newsletters are his single most powerful acquisition channel today

The pros & cons of multiple brand umbrellas (Scorpion Healthcare case study)

A quick preview of his new book “Anyone, Not Everyone” – plus a free audiobook link!

00:00 🎙️ Intro – Meet Brent & Corey

01:45 📜 Corey’s early days: 1999 streaming‑media startup & $6 M raise

04:20 💡 Lesson learned: missing mentorship & “wisdom” gap

06:05 🏦 From startup to Morgan Stanley – elite sales training experience

08:30 🚀 Jump back to the internet: business‑development & becoming #1 salesperson for 19 quarters

11:10 📈 Rise to CMO at Scorpion – scaling from 100 → 1,000 employees

13:45 🌟 How Scorpion built a values‑first culture (Pantone swatch & Disney Leadership Institute)

16:30 🏥 The Scorpion Healthcare brand decision – why a separate vertical mattered

18:55 🤔 Multi‑brand vs. single‑brand strategy – when to consolidate

21:20 📧 Corey’s email‑first marketing philosophy – owning your audience

24:00 📚 The rise of celebrity newsletters (Lil Jon, McConaughey, Huberman…)

26:15 🔍 The Generalist Trap – why agencies get stuck and how to escape

30:40 🎯 Vertical specialization vs. platform specialization in the AI era

34:10 🛠️ Building a founder‑independent sales process – productizing deals

38:05 ⚔️ Real‑world founder‑sales case study (law‑firm agency)

42:00 🚀 First actionable step for burned‑out owners – go niche

44:20 📣 The big catalyst that forces agencies to change (over‑reliance on inbound & referrals)

46:55 📘 Book promo: Anyone, Not Everyone – free audiobook & workbook link

48:30 🎉 Closing thoughts & thank‑yous

49:30 📢 Outro – Like, subscribe & stay tuned for the next episode

📚 Resources Mentioned

Corey’s Book: Anyone, Not Everyone – 5‑step system to move from founder‑led sales to vertical specialization.

Free audiobook + workbook: https://anyonenoteveryone.com

Amazon / Audible: Search “Anyone, Not Everyone Corey Quinn”

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