Popcorn for dinner got me through some difficult times in my 20s but these days I eat food that is more nourishing so that I can thrive instead of just survive.
Having self-compassion doesn’t make you lazy, in fact, it can help you to be more resilient and motivated.
Developing self-compassion is like growing a garden.Any technique I suggest is an invitation, not an expectation. I am but a therapist in training and I say this because I want the very best for your mental health. Above all else, encourage yourself to be compassionately curious and try these things out to see what works for you.
IG @yung_pueblo “Love is not: I will give this to you if you do this for me. Love is, I will give this to you so that you may shine.”
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For your convenience here are works I referenced:
Juliana Breines and Serena Chen, “Self-compassion increases self-improvement motivation” https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22645164/
Kristin Neff, Ya-Ping Hsieh, and Kullaya Dejitterat “Self-compassion, achievement goals, and coping with academic failure.” https://self-compassion.org/wp-content/uploads/publications/SClearninggoals.pdf
Article: Make Self Compassion one of your new year's resolutions
https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/make_self_compassion_one_of_your_new_years_resolutions
Article: The Five Myths of Self Compassion
https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/the_five_myths_of_self_compassion
Essentialism by Greg McKeown
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