Being present with your child, juggling work and school schedules, being 100% with work or child, postpartum and therapy, a supportive husband, date night, self care, and how a kid's routine also helps mom. Designer Tabitha St. Bernard-Jacobs, co-founder of Tabii Just (a zero waste line of womenswear clothing made in NYC), co-founder of Livari, and Youth Director of The Women's March, shares her mom routines and relationships with hosts Stacy Igel and Michelle Park.
(Tabitha's Instagram: @tabithastb)
In this episode:
A walking to school routine with Stacy and her son Dylan
The importance of routines
Tabitha on trying to juggle being home with him twice a week with school 3 days/week
Finding relief with a nanny-share 2 days a week
Play dates are rough---need to do work in between
Cut off when he gets home and really be present with him
Way more efficient 100% working or 100% with him
When you’re working vs. fun on phone
Making an impression
Leap Frog- typing while mom is typing
Married in August, pregnant in April, dating for 3 years, but not enough time just them married together
Not easiest mom to be with, super paranoid, postpardum depression
All the pressures, many in her head
When she’d leave him, she’d be miserable and difficult with anyone when she was away from him
Husband is supportive, and pushes back t0 bring her to reality
How working with a therapist helped
Tried having a date night, the need to
Michelle on her Sunday movie dates, and a sense of freedom
Setting up routines, general schedule
Really be present with him
How Tabitha's son’s routine helps her as a mom
Take turns picking her son up
Try to say prayers together every night
Dedicating 4pm-8:30pm every day just for her son
Postpartum, been in therapy for over a decade so always had that help
Started centering happiness as action, instead of waiting to be happy again
How self care and working out centers her
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