Do you ever feel like you're doing everything for everyone—hoping for love, recognition, or simply to belong? In this heartfelt episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays is joined by special guest Sanaiyah Gurnamal, a Relationship Reinvention Coach, to explore the deep emotional patterns behind people pleasing and the transformative power of self-love.Together, they unpack why so many of us seek validation outside ourselves and how that impacts not just our marriages, but our sense of identity. If you’ve ever struggled with over-giving, emotional burnout, or feeling unseen, this conversation is a loving invitation back to yourself. Because real love starts within—and when you choose yourself, you create space for deeper, healthier relationships all around you.

In today’s hyper-connected world, emotional boundaries can blur fast—especially online. In this episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays dives into the subtle yet damaging world of micro-cheating, social media habits, and how small digital missteps can slowly erode trust and intimacy in your marriage. Learn how to spot the warning signs of “digital drift,” set healthy boundaries, and create a relationship culture rooted in transparency, connection, and mutual respect. Because every message, like, or follow has the power to move you closer—or farther—from the one you love. Let’s choose connection over distraction, and intention over impulse.

Trust is the foundation of every thriving relationship—but what does it really look like in day-to-day married life? In this episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays explores how trust shapes emotional security, deepens connection, and lays the groundwork for lasting love. Whether you’re rebuilding trust after hurt or simply want to strengthen your bond, you’ll walk away with fresh insight and practical inspiration. Because while love brings passion, trust brings peace—and your marriage deserves both.

In this deeply compassionate episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays is joined by Dr. Mariana Martinasevic, a physiatrist with over 25 years of experience, to explore how anxiety, depression, and mental health challenges impact our relationships—and what we can do about it.Together, they unpack how emotional struggles, the signs of anxiety and or depression and when you may consider medication. Whether you or your partner are struggling silently or openly, this conversation reminds you: you’re not alone, and healing is possible. Because love isn’t just a feeling—it’s a decision. And caring for your mental health is one of the most loving choices you can make.

In this inspiring episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays reminds us that great marriages don’t just happen—they’re built with intention, one choice at a time. From cultivating gratitude to practicing healthy communication and committing to personal growth, Michelle shares how to create a mindset that nurtures lasting love.If you’ve been craving a deeper, more supportive bond with your spouse, this episode will help you get back to the basics—and fall in love with the process of becoming better together.

Do you find yourself pulling away or clinging tightly in relationships? In this eye-opening episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays explores how your attachment style might be shaping your connection with your spouse—and what you can do about it. The good news? You can move from insecure to secure, and the transformation ripples through your marriage, family, and friendships.If you've ever felt stuck in patterns of fear, anxiety, or avoidance in love, this episode offers hope, clarity, and the first steps toward emotional security.

If you're caught in a cycle of blame, you're not alone—and there's a way out. In this heartfelt solo episode of Monarch for Love, Michelle Hays invites you to lay down the burden of blame and pick up the tools of healing. With compassion and clarity, she shares how choosing curiosity over criticism and connection over control can shift the atmosphere of your relationship. This episode is your reminder that knowing better is the first step to loving better. Let’s stop blaming and start building, together.

In this powerful episode, Michelle Hays sits down with attorney and author Richard Stevens to discuss how the way we speak—especially in emotionally charged moments—can either protect or damage our most important relationships. Drawing from his legal expertise, Richard shares how investigation defense applies not only to law but to love—teaching couples how to communicate in ways that won’t come back to bite them later.

If you've ever said something in the heat of the moment that you wish you could take back, this episode is for you. Learn how to choose your words wisely, preserve trust, and create emotional safety in your marriage.

Connect with Richard Stevens:

• LinkedIn
• Investigation Defense (Book on Amazon)

In this week’s episode, I’m joined by Kelli Butterfly, social media coach and host of the Daily Dose of Positivity podcast. Together, we tackle the age-old question: Is a happy wife enough, or should both partners prioritize each other’s happiness? What about happy spouse, happy house? If you’re ready to deepen your connection and find harmony in your marriage, this episode will offer practical insights on achieving happiness together. Tune in now to discover how balanced happiness leads to lasting love!

In this heartfelt episode, we’re diving into practical ways to love your husband in a way that truly resonates with him. When you understand his unique needs and show love intentionally, you create a deeper bond and lasting connection. Learn how to speak love in a way he understands and appreciates. Whether you’re looking to rekindle the spark or strengthen your bond, this episode will give you actionable insights to love your husband in ways that matter most. Tune in now and start creating a marriage where love thrives!